Arrangement Reports

**FafaFooey** · 03-18-22 09:50

Originally Posted by IronMan831 [View Original Post]

But the second tip is critical. So this girl insisting some kind of security deposit in case I don't show up, even like $20. So this is a scam? Also she is like very flexible in terms of arrangements. Sounds like a scam huh?

It's good to know the starting point. I started with 300 and they are all like oh I did this before for 850, blah blah blah. I feel like I am the cheap one all of a sudden LOL. For some reason I thought this SD thing would be a lot more pleasant than haggling prices, feels super transactional.

I'll let anyone else reply who's had success leaving a deposit and ending up with a good session. To me, any request for advanced funds before meeting is a hard stop. There's no reason a girl who's a few hours away from making hundreds of dollars in cash needs a small amount sent electronically ahead of time. If the concern is no showing, the girls should be leaving us deposits rather than the other way around!

You can read back in this forum and even the general escorting forum about how pricing has gotten really out of control in the last year or so. It wasn't so long ago that 250 to 300 could get you some good variety. We can throw around guesses for the reasons (Covid, social media, etc), but it is what it is. There's only so much complaining that can be done, so we all just have to make our own cost / benefit judgements and only pursue arrangements where we feel the experience has some value in line with what we're paying.

**RayDonovan2000** · 03-18-22 03:19

And a Butterface to boot!!

LOL.

Originally Posted by TimeForPlay10 [View Original Post]

Sounds like she's a stripper, escort or both.

**TimeForPlay10** · 03-17-22 23:18

Originally Posted by BobbyStevens [View Original Post]

Wow super gps.

Quoted 1500. Just insane. This is so hard to find a not fat SA under 400.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...0-40a94af3ede3

Sounds like she's a stripper, escort or both.

**IronMan831** · 03-17-22 22:50

Originally Posted by FafaFooey [View Original Post]

Exchange a few small talk type messages on the site to make sure you're dealing with a real person, and then try to get them to move to text or some other messaging platform to talk details. I haven't had any problems myself, but there are too many stories already floating around about guys kicked off of the site for talking prices and acts in SA messages.

If a girl has a set of menu prices for certain acts & time limits, is hosting immediately, or will come to a hotel to meet you sight unseen, she's basically escorting whether she's also advertising on other sites or not. If she wants to do a meet and greet (ie meet for coffee, etc) before going further, then you may have a more traditional sugar baby looking to build more long term, exclusive arrangements. If she wants to sell you pictures or is asking for up front payments, then you have a scammer and its time to go silent and move on.

Pricing starting points unfortunately seem to have risen to around 400. Everyone's had different experiences, but I find much better chances of negotiating after a meet and greet where a girl's had a little chance to get comfortable with you and is more likely compromise a little on price if she feels like she'll be safe and might actually enjoy herself. Some girls will come down negotiating by text maybe if your location is very convenient or you can meet immediately, but just as many will stick firm to their 'price' or get pissed at any suggestion of coming down.

Wow this is super helpful, thank you! I actually stumbled upon the 3rd party msg system exactly like you said. But the second tip is critical. So this girl insisting some kind of security deposit in case I don't show up, even like $20. So this is a scam? Also she is like very flexible in terms of arrangements. Sounds like a scam huh?

It's good to know the starting point. I started with 300 and they are all like oh I did this before for 850, blah blah blah. I feel like I am the cheap one all of a sudden LOL. For some reason I thought this SD thing would be a lot more pleasant than haggling prices, feels super transactional.

**Vicdemoan** · 03-17-22 18:19

That's how the profile reads to me. But seriously, looks like she could suffocate a man in them titties!

Originally Posted by MwmChicago [View Original Post]

Booked to meet Charleigh on Tues next week. Seems pretty open and man oh man those tits! I need some big titty fun. My real life girlfriends is an A cup.

Who's seen her? Wil TOFTT if no one knows her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...4-125a75eeeff6

**Piper2005** · 03-17-22 18:14

Haven't seen her, but I know what you mean, those tits fire up the imagination! Look forward to the report. Thanks.

Originally Posted by MwmChicago [View Original Post]

Booked to meet Charleigh on Tues next week. Seems pretty open and man oh man those tits! I need some big titty fun. My real life girlfriends is an A cup.

Who's seen her? Wil TOFTT if no one knows her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...4-125a75eeeff6

**HenryA77** · 03-17-22 18:11

Originally Posted by UncannyKink [View Original Post]

I've been lightly chatting with them and it feels suspicious.

Eventually was given their number to text, but they followed up with a "Are you going to text us?" before I saw the message with the phone number. Once I did text them, it was the husband I was speaking with.

I'm not going to pursue this further, between the hints of attitude in the messages and the bait-and-switch when it went to texting, it screams red flags.

HA HA HA HA HA HA.

The old "I'm not gay, but. " scam.

**UncannyKink** · 03-17-22 17:35

Originally Posted by Diginonomous [View Original Post]

Has anyone seen the hotwife couple in worth? They've been on the site since 2019 but claim to still haven't found anyone to fulfill this "one time fantasy " for the wife. They're in their lower 50's. Husband has a checkered past but seems legit now. Straight says no male stuff which I'm. Not into anyways.

They've struck up conversations with me a few times over the past year and I've mostly blew them off but I think its started to pique some interest. But mainly just curious in how it went. Pm if needed.

Thanks.

I've been lightly chatting with them and it feels suspicious.

Eventually was given their number to text, but they followed up with a "Are you going to text us?" before I saw the message with the phone number. Once I did text them, it was the husband I was speaking with.

I'm not going to pursue this further, between the hints of attitude in the messages and the bait-and-switch when it went to texting, it screams red flags.

**MwmChicago** · 03-17-22 15:33

Booked to meet Charleigh on Tues next week. Seems pretty open and man oh man those tits! I need some big titty fun. My real life girlfriends is an A cup.

Who's seen her? Wil TOFTT if no one knows her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...4-125a75eeeff6

**Looking4692** · 03-17-22 13:34

Hi guys,

I'm coming to Chicago in early April and was hoping a few of you would like to share info on a SB or two with me. I'm not on SA right now as I have a full rotation in South Florida. If any of you are coming this way, I could give you enough info to make your trip worth while. The arrangement forum is not much down here but the young ladies are all over SA looking for a SD. I'm originally from Chicago but all of my SB that way are not doing it or not responding anymore. Feel free to I'm me if you want. I would appreciate and info you can help me with.

**MwmChicago** · 03-17-22 12:36

She reached out to me and I remember seeing her ad on one of the escort sites. I blocked her, not my type.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...e-71e00f9db498

https://tryst.link/escort/kaylakissess

**ChitownGuy321** · 03-17-22 08:40

Originally Posted by PauFord [View Original Post]

Copy the last string of digits in the UR after the last hyphen and search on that.

In this case with the URL being https://members.seeking.com/member/a64fbd5a-497f-4a9e-b20f-ea49e0109bac you would copy ea49e0109bac and paste that into the search box.

She was discussed yesterday a little bit. Search and you'll see a couple comments.

Thanks for taking the time to help me.

**FafaFooey** · 03-17-22 07:59

Originally Posted by IronMan831 [View Original Post]

Hi all, I am very new to this SD part of the world so please go easy on me. I just registered for the premium on SA, and then trying to get started. How soon do you bring up the money topic? Is it very transactional or you need to actually build up some relationship beforehand? Some girls are super direct, didn't even know anything but start asking for money. Very confused on how to handle all these. And at times I felt frustrated. Also what would be an appropriate starting point if we are talking about money? Any advise is much appreciated!

Exchange a few small talk type messages on the site to make sure you're dealing with a real person, and then try to get them to move to text or some other messaging platform to talk details. I haven't had any problems myself, but there are too many stories already floating around about guys kicked off of the site for talking prices and acts in SA messages.

If a girl has a set of menu prices for certain acts & time limits, is hosting immediately, or will come to a hotel to meet you sight unseen, she's basically escorting whether she's also advertising on other sites or not. If she wants to do a meet and greet (ie meet for coffee, etc) before going further, then you may have a more traditional sugar baby looking to build more long term, exclusive arrangements. If she wants to sell you pictures or is asking for up front payments, then you have a scammer and its time to go silent and move on.

Pricing starting points unfortunately seem to have risen to around 400. Everyone's had different experiences, but I find much better chances of negotiating after a meet and greet where a girl's had a little chance to get comfortable with you and is more likely compromise a little on price if she feels like she'll be safe and might actually enjoy herself. Some girls will come down negotiating by text maybe if your location is very convenient or you can meet immediately, but just as many will stick firm to their 'price' or get pissed at any suggestion of coming down.

**Chicagorfp** · 03-17-22 07:36

I have a Seeking account but have never signed up for a membership as I'm more of a strip club guy. But it's fun to browse and live vicariously through you all.

I was casually looking at posts and found LuvKC23: I recognized her as someone I worked with before the pandemic--the arm tattoo was a giveaway. She's too physically close for me to ever pursue, but wanted to let you SA connoisseurs know she's the real deal, at least in terms of looks, so you won't get catfished.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...8-967b2c55a67d