Safe Sex Information and Advice

[Darpple3]

Had my first ever time a couple of days ago and went at it BB. Guess she saw it was my first time and decided to give me a hell of a first with a GFE, but now all I can think about is what I could have possibly contracted. She said she tests every 3 months and offered to show me her results after and that normally she does it with protection. But I wonder just how many of you guys got burned doing this type of stuff. I wouldn't risk doing it BB again and I'm just praying it ain't HSV1 2 or warts, or the other serious ones. Guess it's probably to late to be asking this question though.

[Hobbiest420]

Thank you for your words of wisdom. I will keep what you said cemented in my mind. Yeah, there are a lot of similarities with these escorts. Speaking of logic, here is one thing that really irks me. Why are they willing to do BBBJ, but not willing to offer BBFS? As we all know, a woman can catch something from BBBJ just like a man can catch something from daty. Actually, I just challenged women who I have been outside of escorts with that question, and it worked out in my favor.

I believe HIV and a couple of other STDs can be transmitted through BBFS, but not BBBJ.

https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/basics/hiv-t...e-get-hiv.html

[HesDeadJim]

Illini25,

Look, I know on the surface it seems like a good idea. However if the admins started to allow this the board will eventually descend into chaos. I've seen it happen on other, now defunct, boards (especially Yahoo).

1. This is not like reporting "ripoffs". If you are reporting being ripped off you know exactly who did it. With STD's people tend to lie to themselves or not tell the full truth. The stigma of STD's makes people say and do weird mental gymnastics that defy logic. When I worked in a hospital we had a gentleman who tested positive for a strain of VD. He got violent with the staff, not only for insisting that he might have been unfaithful to his wife but also that she might have been cheating. Expect no different from people reporting on this board.

2. If you have not recently been tested, you can just scrap the "she was the only one I've been with in a long time" logic. STD's, including VD, can often go months, or in some rare cases years, before showing symptoms. Happens a lot.

3. If you think you are "safer" with someone just because you have never seen a report about bareback you are buying into a lie. Even the ones who claim "No BB ever! In my experience, they all do it bareback with somebody, and that somebody is usually not monogamous to them.

4. Most STD reports on boards are false, quite often due to vindictiveness. That's why almost every board or review site bans them.

[JimBoyden]

You can get mail in std tests kind of like those mail-in Covid tests. You pee in the tube and send it in and get your results on-line in a week, give or take. One of those is MyLabBox dot come -- they mail you a box with pre-paid return postage and mailing bag. No visit to clinic no answering awkward questions. Just mail it in.

[JimBoyden]

Guys I see this a lot BBBJCIM & BBFS, nobody bothered about catching an STD?

Has anyone caught one? I don't know if I would risk it myself.

Any thoughts, just curious.

I think it should be more of an open communication between providers and mongers as to stds. Like tell me if you test positive so I can go get tested and treated too. A few providers I would trust to tell me, most I would not.

Also, I think that mongers ought to be able to tell each other if they test positive and the last few bb visits they had and with who. The girls won't like that but if they get tested they can show their customers their test results and put an end to the controversy.

We should all just PM each other this information if anyone tests positive. Unless you can post such things in the safe mongering thread. Most threads they will delete your post and scold you for posting anyhing related to stds.

[Questar999]

Chlamydia and gonorrhea both can spread to your dick from her throat. If you are getting BBBJs, get tested regularly as both diseases can lie dormant for a while but both are easily cured with antibiotics. If you are married and your partner doesn't know you're having fun on the side, know that annual pap smears include an STI test so that's a great way to get caught. And, of course, you're close enough that you can get Covid.

Everyone has their own risk levels for everything. Read up some more (CDC has good info) and make an informed decision of what you want to do. Lots of pros do a very good job with CBJs but nothing feels like the real thing.

Does anyone know what the most commonly prescribed antibiotics are?

[SyntorX]

I've been doing this for a long time. AMPs and regular escorts. All the escorts were BBBJ, and some AMP ladies (from repeat visits) also do the same. In over twenty years with a minimum of one session a week (sweet Jesus, the money), I have never caught anything. Given those numbers, what are the odds that some poor schmo got hammered on his first time out of the gate? Not impossible, as lightning does strike, but that seems REALLY (and I mean REALLLLLLY) unlikely.

Just saying.

Okay already. It may have happened, but the general opinion is that it did not. Do we really need to discuss it for 4 days?

[BMoreDog69]

I've been doing this for a long time. AMPs and regular escorts. All the escorts were BBBJ, and some AMP ladies (from repeat visits) also do the same. In over twenty years with a minimum of one session a week (sweet Jesus, the money), I have never caught anything. Given those numbers, what are the odds that some poor schmo got hammered on his first time out of the gate? Not impossible, as lightning does strike, but that seems REALLY (and I mean REALLLLLLY) unlikely.

Just saying.

[Lance547]

There is no significant risk at all for any of those STDs from a bareback blowjob. Oral transmission is very rare for any of these. This is why most STD experts say oral sex is safe sex.

Nothing wrong with getting tested once a month or once a year for peace of mind as a sexually active person with SW or not. But medically speaking there is 0 reason really to get tested if you are not showing symptoms.

Syphilis is no joke. You need to catch it early before it does damage to your body. There is risk with all of these STDs if you don't get treated.

[JTreehorn14]

Could have been from the wife.

Also, the odds of a guy getting gonorrhea from oral sex are pretty low. Not saying it can't happen, but the probabilities are low.

[FunShip75]

Gentlemen. Be careful. A friend of mine visited an AMP for his very first time in the Greenbelt area recently. I didn't ask which one but this was his first time ever stepping outside of his household ever. Heard about it at work. Said the girl gave him a half ass massage, on the flip took off the towel and starting giving him a BBJ right away. Long behold 2 weeks later he's got the gonorrhea and brought it back into the house. Can't speak for everyone but that's my absolute worst fear is bringing something back in my household because I wanted a nut but that's me.

Could have been from the wife.

[Msu930]

That entire story seems suspect. His "friend" got a BBJ his first time out in Greenbelt and caught something and the guy wouldn't bother to find out where this happened before posting this nonsense. The entire description is way off, like you said his provider went right to town without asking what he wanted or donation details or anything on his first visit to anywhere LOL, yeah right.

That does sound fishy. He definitely would know the name of the place he got that from if that actually happened.

[Prince Of P]

A friend of yours heard about massage parlors at work? Never went to one in his life but magically got a BBJ his first time? Girl didn't even ask for a donation or what he wanted but just pulled his towel off and started sucking him off? Dude got an STD and you didn't even ask which AMP he was at? Sorry man, but all of this seriously stretches the lines of credulity. FWIW, I never allow a BBJ because of STD concerns, but nothing about this story seems likely, other than maybe the fact that you know a guy who got an STD from someone he was sleeping with behind his wife's back.

That entire story seems suspect. His "friend" got a BBJ his first time out in Greenbelt and caught something and the guy wouldn't bother to find out where this happened before posting this nonsense. The entire description is way off, like you said his provider went right to town without asking what he wanted or donation details or anything on his first visit to anywhere LOL, yeah right.

[JTreehorn14]

Gentlemen. Be careful. A friend of mine visited an AMP for his very first time in the Greenbelt area recently. I didn't ask which one but this was his first time ever stepping outside of his household ever. Heard about it at work. Said the girl gave him a half ass massage, on the flip took off the towel and starting giving him a BBJ right away. Long behold 2 weeks later he's got the gonorrhea and brought it back into the house. Can't speak for everyone but that's my absolute worst fear is bringing something back in my household because I wanted a nut but that's me.

A friend of yours heard about massage parlors at work? Never went to one in his life but magically got a BBJ his first time? Girl didn't even ask for a donation or what he wanted but just pulled his towel off and started sucking him off? Dude got an STD and you didn't even ask which AMP he was at? Sorry man, but all of this seriously stretches the lines of credulity. FWIW, I never allow a BBJ because of STD concerns, but nothing about this story seems likely, other than maybe the fact that you know a guy who got an STD from someone he was sleeping with behind his wife's back.

[ArtistOfWar1]

Gentlemen. Be careful. A friend of mine visited an AMP for his very first time in the Greenbelt area recently. I didn't ask which one but this was his first time ever stepping outside of his household ever. Heard about it at work. Said the girl gave him a half ass massage, on the flip took off the towel and starting giving him a BBJ right away. Long behold 2 weeks later he's got the gonorrhea and brought it back into the house. Can't speak for everyone but that's my absolute worst fear is bringing something back in my household because I wanted a nut but that's me.

1st visit ever.

Got a BBJ.

Got the Big G.

And took it home.

Talk about unlucky.