"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[RogerOver]

Or you could just read the original post as written. I used a non-reloadable Visa prepaid debit card ("SecureSpend", which has replaced "OneVanilla", but otherwise appears to be the same card type). I waited overnight before using. Still rejected. At any rate, the helpful support desk has provided me with a workaround. If anyone needs that, feel free to PM me (but only after you've read through several pages back, of course).

Well done.

[CarloRogue]

It would really be helpful if people would read a page or two back before posting. Where this is completely discussed. I have done it with OneVanilla prepaid debit, non-reloadable. You have to wait overnight after buying it before it will work.

Or you could just read the original post as written. I used a non-reloadable Visa prepaid debit card ("SecureSpend", which has replaced "OneVanilla", but otherwise appears to be the same card type). I waited overnight before using. Still rejected. At any rate, the helpful support desk has provided me with a workaround. If anyone needs that, feel free to PM me (but only after you've read through several pages back, of course).

[FarFarAway]

Has anybody renewed membership recently with a pre-paid credit card? I've successfully used the One Vanilla pre-paid (non-reloadable) Visa card many times in the past, but that got rejected this time around. Don't know if it matters, but the One Vanilla card now seems to be replaced by "SecureSpend", although everything else about the card seems the same. The SA payment dialog box comes up with a warning based on the initial few digits that it might not process the charge and that a major credit card should be used instead. I've emailed support, but no response yet. Has anyone had any luck recently with any different pre-paid card options?

It would really be helpful if people would read a page or two back before posting. Where this is completely discussed. I have done it with OneVanilla prepaid debit, non-reloadable. You have to wait overnight after buying it before it will work.

[CarloRogue]

Has anybody renewed membership recently with a pre-paid credit card? I've successfully used the One Vanilla pre-paid (non-reloadable) Visa card many times in the past, but that got rejected this time around. Don't know if it matters, but the One Vanilla card now seems to be replaced by "SecureSpend", although everything else about the card seems the same. The SA payment dialog box comes up with a warning based on the initial few digits that it might not process the charge and that a major credit card should be used instead. I've emailed support, but no response yet. Has anyone had any luck recently with any different pre-paid card options?

[GobBluth]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...7-79c27e4d4f08 -- avoid. Got all snarky and called me bitter for having an obviously sarcasting profile that gets lots of LOLs from other viewers.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...4-6ed984a7d155 -- she's baaaaack!

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...6-68f6f79dd1d5 -- talks a good game, but seems to have a short fuse. Tread lightly.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...a-d2d689eb7c96 - super laid back gal who has has some bad experiences. Tread lightly for other reasons, and it should pay off. Nice private pics.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...8-8e0e6d6f90f5 -- throught she was TGTBT but seems quite real so far.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...1-23d17f9fec61 - won't budge from platonic meets.

Thanks. I'm in Nashville but come here for general information. I just really like your user name. Not many people "get it". Happy hunting my friend.

[BobLobLa]

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...7-79c27e4d4f08 -- avoid. Got all snarky and called me bitter for having an obviously sarcasting profile that gets lots of LOLs from other viewers.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...4-6ed984a7d155 -- she's baaaaack!

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...6-68f6f79dd1d5 -- talks a good game, but seems to have a short fuse. Tread lightly.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...a-d2d689eb7c96 - super laid back gal who has has some bad experiences. Tread lightly for other reasons, and it should pay off. Nice private pics.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...8-8e0e6d6f90f5 -- throught she was TGTBT but seems quite real so far.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...1-23d17f9fec61 - won't budge from platonic meets.

[HottRod66]

Any info on these two -- both seem DTF with both myself and two other members here -- but no reviews at all -- as much as I will be the canary in the mine -- I like to ask first if any info.

YummyBABY123 :

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...d-8130f2188592

FlirtyLilmama96 :

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...d-927d0643f727

Thanks SA.

YummyBABY123 has been on before atleast a year ago. I saw her 1 time. She went by exoticbaby I do believe. She's a stoner chick smokes a lot of pot. Nice tight spinner body. Good value as I recall wanted $$ I negotiated her down to $5.

[Member #6575]

Any info on these two -- both seem DTF with both myself and two other members here -- but no reviews at all -- as much as I will be the canary in the mine -- I like to ask first if any info.

YummyBABY123 :

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...d-8130f2188592

FlirtyLilmama96 :

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...d-927d0643f727

Thanks SA.

[AssLuVA]

Couldn't figure out how to edit the post. The correct previous post numbers are 20624 and 20617. One of them references she wears a feeding tube.

Thanks SBMidlo. Yeah, she was one that I chatted with back in the day as well but never met up. She hit me up out of the blue so was curious if anyone had recent 411 since I couldn't remember her name or old profile info. I'll take a look at the posts you mentioned. Appreciate it.

[SBmidlo]

She hasn't logged in since January. Anyway, see posts 10624 and 20617 from guys that met her. I chatted with her a lot but never met up due to distance.

Couldn't figure out how to edit the post. The correct previous post numbers are 20624 and 20617. One of them references she wears a feeding tube.

[BigOne73]

Hey Roadie, I found that girl you were looking for. Someone definitely reported her. Message me if you want to know more.

[SBmidlo]

Has anyone met with this one? I know she's been on an off with different profiles over the last few years but can't seem to find anything on her. Any help would be great. Thanks.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...9-80e73852aba6

She hasn't logged in since January. Anyway, see posts 10624 and 20617 from guys that met her. I chatted with her a lot but never met up due to distance.

[ArtImperial]

Also possible she deleted her profile on her own. Some girls sign up thinking one thing, then discover that sugaring is not what they were expecting (either that they have to actually see men in person, or they just get one too many unwanted and creepy messages) and run for the door. I've talked to girls via texting who have done this. If I'm not mistaken, this results in the same "Attractive Member" look.

I had just made plans with the sexiest, funniest, sweetest girl. Then, her profile completely disappeared. She didn't block me. Her profile is gone. Someone obviously turned her in for something. Reporting the girls because you don't like what they have to say to you is fucking ridiculous! Just because you're not getting along with her, doesn't mean that she isn't getting along with other men. Stop being a cockblock! Stop fucking it up for the other guys! Get out of your little fantasy world and try a little common sense. The girls can come back in 5 minutes under another profile because they don't have to pay. Reporting them is absolutely pointless. Anyone you shut down will come back immediately with a new burner phone and a new profile. I now have to search all of the new profiles to see if I can find that girl. What are you really getting from shutting them down? After they pop backup in 5 minutes with a new profile, you have no idea who they are, but they remember who you are and do you really think that they're not going to try to get some kind of revenge? Now that I think about it, the girls probably don't even care. They're going to put up a new profile and get 50 new messages in the next hour. The only people you're hurting are the guys who were about to get laid.

[Roadie1]

I found her. She put up another profile. Some idiot turned her in. She thinks it's some guy in his early 30's calling himself "Here for Fun. " That shithead is a cock block and he's ruining it for everyone. I wonder how many good quality girls he's gotten rid of. There aren't that many high quality girls on the site anymore. He should remember that he's not the only one on the site.

[Jcn1965]

How old was the girl in this profile you made great plans with? In my experience, Seeking has different levels of banning. First of all, if a profile blocks you, their profile name stays the same and you may even see the green dot when they are active. Next are the profiles that the site banned for violating site rules. In this case, they are gone and the site usually defaults their profile name to something like Attractive Member. In the past, I think they just used Sugar Baby. For these profiles, you can usually (but not always) still see your messages with them but the profile cannot be opened and viewed. The next level of banning is the neutron bomb. In this case, they delete the profile, any sign the profile was ever there and any messages ever sent or received by the profile. They probably wipe their server logs so that if ever subpoenaed, they can truthfully say "We zero records of anyone like that. " I am pretty sure they reserve this level of deletion for anyone detected or reported for being underage. They may also do it for anyone suspected of violating Sesta / Fosta but it would not surprise me if they just sequester those records and turn them over to LE.

In the case below, is her profile just blocked or is everything gone including your messages with her? If everything is gone, you may have dodged a bullet. Count your blessings. From your message, I might suggest you also need to reconsider if this is right for you. Your tone suggests you were more attached to the idea of this profile than is usually healthy. It is never wise to get overly invested in any one profile or even any one IRL woman, if you are going to play in the sugar bowl. Doing so makes you vulnerable. When you are vulnerable, the wolves and the vultures start circling. You become a target for any scammer, predator or rinser that manages to capture your fancy. Treat this as a numbers game. Keep more than one profile or SB in rotation. If you start to get "feeling," you should create some distance in time between seeing them. If you fall in "love," you are lost. Just my two cents. Happy Hunting.

BAM.

LOL dude you sound a little butt hurt. You have no idea what happened and assume somebody reported her. Maybe they did maybe she was too young maybe she was fake maybe she scammed somebody maybe she was a 220 lb guy in his moms basement maybe maybe maybe. You were gunna meet her but you weren't talking to her offline? Move on find another and chill. Be thankful you dodged that bullet.