"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[Shampoo55]

Well, this is mostly before I meet them. It helps ferret out the fakes, occasionally. If you can find them on fb or insta, then chances are they are at least real. And get some idea of what they are like. Maybe in your neck of the woods you have an abundance of real chicks that are game. That's not always the case everywhere. I can't total the amount of time I've wasted texting with profiles that are fake, or string along and then right before meeting, want $$ upfront.

"Connecting" and communicating through text is just horrible, and 20 year olds hate to talk on the phone. So if I can find out a little bit about them prior to meeting, it might help. Can't really hurt. And I've got the time to do it, if I want.

Once we meet, and have fun, I don't care what their story is.

Everybody develops a style that works for them. Me? I try to get them to text ASAP and those that want to chat or mess around won't do that. From there, I don't worry about those who play games as, for me, that is just part of the game and the price of admission. Got to put up with a few fakes and flakes here and there.

I am guessing for me the time invested to do a "deep dive" on a girl finding all of her SM stuff would be the same time invested as spent texting. I tend to ask pretty quickly what a girl is looking for and try to get to the point on text rapidly. For me that tends to do the weeding out.

But yeah, I agree. I don't really need to know a girl's real name, her friends names and all of the deep dive stuff. As long as she fucks like crazy and doesn't create a bunch of drama, then I'm cool. I don't give out my IRL info, so not really concerned about hers.

Oh and to OP. While G-images may be "crap" these days, it is better than anything else out there AND it is better than nothing. Toss a tool away? Not something my "managing risk" profile would accept. just saying

Most of that 'know who you are meeting" stuff applies to online escorts. There you want to make sure who the girl IS NOT! But that can all be solved by a M&G with the POT and making sure you don't state sex 4 money in your convos. Money for time, backrubs, dancing, etc as legal services clouds the picture to the safe side.

[Zerry]

This goes to more the "research" I do after making initial contact with a pot SB.

I do a pretty serious attempt at a deep dive on any pot sb's to see what their deal is. Sometimes you find their FB page and find more pics and see that the one they sent is several years old and they aren't as attractive now, or they have a BF, etc. , or might have a habit, etc. I like to find out as much as I can about them before I meet them. I think it helps avoid potential problems or drama situations down the line.

So, I was just wondering, what sites do you guys use to check pics?

For instance, a SB sends you her pic, what sites do you use for a reverse search of the pic, to see if the pic is real, or is being used other places, etc, or maybe get a lead on their fb / insta / whatever page? I'd even pay for the service, if it was good, so it doesn't necessarily have to be a free service. Just whatever site / service anyone uses for that stuff.

Or am I the only one that does this?

I just meet them for coffee.

It's 2022 even the cheapest cell phones have good cameras, if a girl is being dodgy about photos or has photos that look like they were taken with a potato I just stop engaging. Funny crops or photos with borders or black / white edges and / or low resolution are a good clue the photos are just stolen screen shots of photos. It's easy to rule 95% out without any research.

[Zerry]

So after 2. 5 weeks on Premium, being kind of frustrated with the SA site, I scored big. This was the first girl who followed through and met me. We clicked pretty well at lunch and she decided she'd be willing to meet up at a hotel next time. We ended up meeting the next night and everything worked out great. She's a 19-year-old college student and she still hasn't asked for money (although I did volunteer $120 in cash so far). She wants something consistent, so she sounds like a low-maintenance keeper that might even stick around just for the great sex.

And as a side note, my impression of some of the POT SBs I have messaged is that many of them don't care about coming up with something that works for both of you. Some of them actually want you to be direct and clear about your intent right off the bat, and lead them by the hand. And unfortunately, sometimes it's because they don't want to put in a lot of effort (see screen caps). Not surprising that we have a lot of low-IQ women with disorganized minds on the platform.

Chief those responses look completely reasonable.

[Almighty]

I don't do this anymore.

After a couple of years in the bowl, I came to appreciate that they can tell me any story they want and I believe them, as long as they keep coming back and satisfy me at a price point I can afford.

Well, this is mostly before I meet them. It helps ferret out the fakes, occasionally. If you can find them on fb or insta, then chances are they are at least real. And get some idea of what they are like. Maybe in your neck of the woods you have an abundance of real chicks that are game. That's not always the case everywhere. I can't total the amount of time I've wasted texting with profiles that are fake, or string along and then right before meeting, want $$ upfront.

"Connecting" and communicating through text is just horrible, and 20 year olds hate to talk on the phone. So if I can find out a little bit about them prior to meeting, it might help. Can't really hurt. And I've got the time to do it, if I want.

Once we meet, and have fun, I don't care what their story is.

[BobLobLa]

I don't do this anymore.

After a couple of years in the bowl, I came to appreciate that they can tell me any story they want and I believe them, as long as they keep coming back and satisfy me at a price point I can afford.

For those of us who are married, we are on the lookout for BSC red flags.

Wasn't that long ago some SB from RVA was outing married SDs on her FB page.

[FTP1999]

I don't do this anymore.

After a couple of years in the bowl, I came to appreciate that they can tell me any story they want and I believe them, as long as they keep coming back and satisfy me at a price point I can afford.

This goes to more the "research" I do after making initial contact with a pot SB.

I do a pretty serious attempt at a deep dive on any pot sb's to see what their deal is. Sometimes you find their FB page and find more pics and see that the one they sent is several years old and they aren't as attractive now, or they have a BF, etc. , or might have a habit, etc. I like to find out as much as I can about them before I meet them. I think it helps avoid potential problems or drama situations down the line.

So, I was just wondering, what sites do you guys use to check pics?

For instance, a SB sends you her pic, what sites do you use for a reverse search of the pic, to see if the pic is real, or is being used other places, etc, or maybe get a lead on their fb / insta / whatever page? I'd even pay for the service, if it was good, so it doesn't necessarily have to be a free service. Just whatever site / service anyone uses for that stuff.

Or am I the only one that does this?

[Ron Pamet]

So after 2. 5 weeks on Premium, being kind of frustrated with the SA site, I scored big. This was the first girl who followed through and met me. We clicked pretty well at lunch and she decided she'd be willing to meet up at a hotel next time. We ended up meeting the next night and everything worked out great. She's a 19-year-old college student and she still hasn't asked for money (although I did volunteer $120 in cash so far). She wants something consistent, so she sounds like a low-maintenance keeper that might even stick around just for the great sex.

And as a side note, my impression of some of the POT SBs I have messaged is that many of them don't care about coming up with something that works for both of you. Some of them actually want you to be direct and clear about your intent right off the bat, and lead them by the hand. And unfortunately, sometimes it's because they don't want to put in a lot of effort (see screen caps). Not surprising that we have a lot of low-IQ women with disorganized minds on the platform.

[DWinthrop]

Saw this one again over the weekend. I've been seeing her every once in a while since she was an 18 yo in NOVA. She's 20, not 24. Good lay, nice big tits and she's very submissive and moans loudly. Lets me hit it bare but insists I pull out for the finish. https://members.seeking.com/member/6...5-c97735b26633.

[Member #6575]

Could this be the one? https://members.seeking.com/member/c...2-49342d6fb613.

She has since blurred her face on the Tryst ad but saw it when you first posted. Odd coincidence if not. Same last name etc.

Well spotted -- yes it is same girl. She had a load of very identifiable pictures on tryst -- and she took them all down -- then put just some back up with blurred face.

I am guessing she has not done this before -- certainly not as a full blown hooker -- and even her seeking skills look green.

I am talking to her via txt -- and she has also changed her number LOL I guess somebody told her that using her real number was a bad idea!!

SA.

[Ernest Ll]

This goes to more the "research" I do after making initial contact with a pot SB.

I do a pretty serious attempt at a deep dive on any pot sb's to see what their deal is. Sometimes you find their FB page and find more pics and see that the one they sent is several years old and they aren't as attractive now, or they have a BF, etc. , or might have a habit, etc. I like to find out as much as I can about them before I meet them. I think it helps avoid potential problems or drama situations down the line.

So, I was just wondering, what sites do you guys use to check pics?

For instance, a SB sends you her pic, what sites do you use for a reverse search of the pic, to see if the pic is real, or is being used other places, etc, or maybe get a lead on their fb / insta / whatever page? I'd even pay for the service, if it was good, so it doesn't necessarily have to be a free service. Just whatever site / service anyone uses for that stuff.

Or am I the only one that does this?

Google used to be great for this, but now is pretty much worthless. I've had several SBs who either used profile pics or texted me ones that I ultimately found on social media, but google couldn't find them. Was able to Sherlock Holmes my way to the IRL identities and checked socials to learn more about them.

I used to use Tineye, but not sure that works on social media anymore either.

[SBmidlo]

https://tryst.link/escort/mysticalmisfit

I am posting this here as this girl is behaving more like a SB than an escort -- and I get the feeling she is on tryst as her SD relationship has ended and she is after another.

She seems familiar -- not sure if she has been on Seeking or is a UTR from FB or whatever.

I am chatting with her -- and will see -- but any intel. Would be great if any of you guys recognize her.

Thanks.

SA.

Could this be the one? https://members.seeking.com/member/c...2-49342d6fb613.

She has since blurred her face on the Tryst ad but saw it when you first posted. Odd coincidence if not. Same last name etc.

[Almighty]

This goes to more the "research" I do after making initial contact with a pot SB.

I do a pretty serious attempt at a deep dive on any pot sb's to see what their deal is. Sometimes you find their FB page and find more pics and see that the one they sent is several years old and they aren't as attractive now, or they have a BF, etc. , or might have a habit, etc. I like to find out as much as I can about them before I meet them. I think it helps avoid potential problems or drama situations down the line.

So, I was just wondering, what sites do you guys use to check pics?

For instance, a SB sends you her pic, what sites do you use for a reverse search of the pic, to see if the pic is real, or is being used other places, etc, or maybe get a lead on their fb / insta / whatever page? I'd even pay for the service, if it was good, so it doesn't necessarily have to be a free service. Just whatever site / service anyone uses for that stuff.

Or am I the only one that does this?

[Member #6575]

https://tryst.link/escort/mysticalmisfit

I am posting this here as this girl is behaving more like a SB than an escort -- and I get the feeling she is on tryst as her SD relationship has ended and she is after another.

She seems familiar -- not sure if she has been on Seeking or is a UTR from FB or whatever.

I am chatting with her -- and will see -- but any intel. Would be great if any of you guys recognize her.

Thanks.

SA.

[SBmidlo]

Hit this one up https://members.seeking.com/member/1...6-37ac9606361b.

She sent me a message and her number. Down on her luck widow trying to earn some favors. She has a roommate and they share a hotel room in the Glen Allen area. You can have a date with both of them for less than some of the younger ones are charging LOL. Or a date with her by herself is reasonable also.

No, I have not sampled and don't plan to. Just sharing information.

[Cowboy1964]

Brand new add on SA I believe she has been on here before as lacilou and or platinum blonde if anybody has had the pleasure please inbox me with a report thanks.