"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**VetSD** · 01-24-22 06:58

Originally Posted by BobLobLa [View Original Post]

The whole concept is essentially PPM, but you shouldn't use that terminology -- or tolerate those that do in their communication with you. If you do, its only a matter of time before you get banned.

Bimbo: "Whats your PPM?

$hitless Sherlock: "$300".

SA -- Sherlock banned for solicitation.

Bimbo: "Whats kind of allowance do you offer?

$hitless Sherlock: "$300 ppm".

SA -- Sherlock banned for solicitation.

$hitless Sherlock: "What are your allowance exceptions".

Bimbo: "$500 PPM?

$hitless Sherlock: "My max is $300".

SA -- Sherlock banned for solicitation.

Try it, and see who is right.

90% of the guys on SA are PPM because you would have to be an idiot to give a girl a month's worth of money up front. I also want to see if they suck in bed before I start to pay their monthly bills. There are ways around saying an exact amount. There are ways to talk about allowance without using the letters PPM. You can use a range or talk about roses. You can say, "Would you like 4 or 6 roses when we meet up today?" Or. "I gave my last SB 5 roses everytime we got together. Does that work for you?

The girls are getting hundreds of messages a day. That's why they get overwhelmed and disappear so quickly. They're not giving their number out to hundreds of guys on the Internet just to find out what the allowance is and they're definitely not going to meet up with us unless they know what we're offering. I know that I'm not going to go out in the freezing cold to meet up with some chick unless I know what the allowance is beforehand. I'm not wasting my time and money to meet up with someone just to find out that she wants $2000 per meet.

**Geechie Dan** · 01-23-22 21:10

Who has gone the Tinder route and what advice do you have? How do you spot or weed out the scammers? I've communicated with a few but I'm hesitant to pull the trigger. Any advice is welcomed.

**BobLobLa** · 01-21-22 16:58

Originally Posted by Eslide3 [View Original Post]

I'm just passing through your city, and I would direct you to my area but if you're behaving in that way I don't want you to mess it up for us too. Most of us are looking for PPM.

The whole concept is essentially PPM, but you shouldn't use that terminology -- or tolerate those that do in their communication with you. If you do, its only a matter of time before you get banned.

Bimbo: "Whats your PPM?

$hitless Sherlock: "$300".

SA -- Sherlock banned for solicitation.

Bimbo: "Whats kind of allowance do you offer?

$hitless Sherlock: "$300 ppm".

SA -- Sherlock banned for solicitation.

$hitless Sherlock: "What are your allowance exceptions".

Bimbo: "$500 PPM?

$hitless Sherlock: "My max is $300".

SA -- Sherlock banned for solicitation.

Try it, and see who is right.

**Cowboy1964** · 01-21-22 15:55

Anyone remember little white spinner richmond area pm if you do I think she back in business.

**Eslide3** · 01-20-22 18:19

Originally Posted by BobLobLa [View Original Post]

Because if they say the Phrase taht Pays, they are violating the TOS, and you should run far, run fast to avoid reported by them when they tell you their ask and you tell them they are crazy.

I'd think the number of SBs who would say "PPM" in a message on the App would agree to anythhing less than $4-500.

I'm just passing through your city, and I would direct you to my area but if you're behaving in that way I don't want you to mess it up for us too. Most of us are looking for PPM.

**Phaedrus2004** · 01-20-22 11:00

Originally Posted by DoggieFan [View Original Post]

I think what your missing is 80% to 90% of Babies on SA are either scammers (including Dudes posing as for Babies, often from overseas, that's why you often get messages at odd times), pic / video sellers, send me $ because I'm gorgeous coeds, platonic princesses, or professional M&G lunch ******. So why not cast a wider net if your never planning to give up the goods.

If only SA charged the smallest amount, even a dollar a month even for women to make a posting, these imposters will either disappear altogether or greatly reduce. Challenge is that SA may appear dried up completely in certain cities or categories. So it doesn't work to SA's benefit to weed them out.

**DoggieFan** · 01-19-22 09:06

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

I never would believe that a lot of women swing both ways. Is this true as a lot of women's Profiles say looking for Men and Women.

Wow!

I think what your missing is 80% to 90% of Babies on SA are either scammers (including Dudes posing as for Babies, often from overseas, that's why you often get messages at odd times), pic / video sellers, send me $ because I'm gorgeous coeds, platonic princesses, or professional M&G lunch ******. So why not cast a wider net if your never planning to give up the goods.

I'd say if the at least maybe 30 Babies that I have scored with over the last three years, I'd say maybe 3-5 were truly bi.

That pales in comparison to going to a strip joint, I'd say their at least 50%.

Still looking for the right two Babies to do a threesome with. I've done several & still think the missing ingredient was that all were with straight girls. I won't pay for another unless it's two bi girls.

**EasyBake** · 01-19-22 04:38

I'm definitely not going to give them a picture of my driver's license or passport. I tried to start a new account and I made my Tagline, "I don't buy pics or vids. " They must have some kind of software that detects buzz words because I immediately got a warning saying that I violated their solicitation rule. It picked up half of the sentence and thought I was selling pics and vids and I was shut down again. Damn.

**RogerOver** · 01-18-22 19:22

Originally Posted by RonPamet [View Original Post]

I'm having a hell of a time getting a Premiere membership on SA. I tried my regular debit card. Immediately got suspended. I emailed support & they quickly lifted the suspension and told me I had to call in to run it over the phone. They said billing was open weekdays 9 am - 4 pm Pacific time. They also said I could try another card. I tried a second card, and same result: immediate suspension.

I tried calling billing several times on Monday (a Federal holiday, BTW) and got an answering machine saying their hours were 10 - 4. I tried again today and got another answering machine. Fuck me. I left a message, and also emailed support again to see what they can do. Meanwhile I have 14 messages I can't even read.

Anyone else have issues like this? I'm really not impressed.

I can't believe you tied a debit card with direct access to a bank account to what's basically a "hookers that don't think they're hookers" website. Using a debit card for anything online is a terrible idea, especially this.

**Ron Pamet** · 01-18-22 18:04

I'm having a hell of a time getting a Premiere membership on SA. I tried my regular debit card. Immediately got suspended. I emailed support & they quickly lifted the suspension and told me I had to call in to run it over the phone. They said billing was open weekdays 9 am - 4 pm Pacific time. They also said I could try another card. I tried a second card, and same result: immediate suspension.

I tried calling billing several times on Monday (a Federal holiday, BTW) and got an answering machine saying their hours were 10 - 4. I tried again today and got another answering machine. Fuck me. I left a message, and also emailed support again to see what they can do. Meanwhile I have 14 messages I can't even read.

Anyone else have issues like this? I'm really not impressed.

**Ernest Ll** · 01-18-22 14:04

Originally Posted by EasyBake [View Original Post]

If I put up a new profile and try to contact them again, they're going to think something's fishy.

Yes, they wouldn't budge. If I sent in my ID -- which I'd never do -- they would ban me for using the fake photo in the first place.

Best thing to do is clear your cookies, use another browser type, get a new email address and get a prepaid card and make sure you know how to use it and start with a new profile and new everything. Including profile photo. Otherwise, anything that matches a banned account will get you banned.

**RegularJoe1985** · 01-18-22 13:57

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

I got this once when I used. Fake pic, but then showed the SB a real photo of me in app. When she blocked me, she reported me, so SA asked me to prove I was the person in my profile pic by providing govt I'd.

So you need government I'd to bang women.

So, did you? Provide ID I mean or just let it go and create another profile?

**EasyBake** · 01-18-22 13:17

Originally Posted by SaTraveler [View Original Post]

Was your account a paid account -- or one just sitting there in between use?

It was a paid account. I just got back on there after a 3 mo break and had 3 girls planning to meet. They probably think I was scamming them now. If I put up a new profile and try to contact them again, they're going to think something's fishy.

**Member #6575** · 01-18-22 13:09

Originally Posted by EasyBake [View Original Post]

I just received an email from SA. It says they put my account on hold. They're saying I need to verify my identity by sending a picture of a government issued I'd with a photo, like a driver's license or a passport. WTF? I haven't catfished anyone. I haven't met up with anyone in months.

Was your account a paid account -- or one just sitting there in between use?

**Ernest Ll** · 01-18-22 07:19

Originally Posted by EasyBake [View Original Post]

I just received an email from SA. It says they put my account on hold. They're saying I need to verify my identity by sending a picture of a government issued I'd with a photo, like a driver's license or a passport. WTF? I haven't catfished anyone. I haven't met up with anyone in months.

I got this once when I used. Fake pic, but then showed the SB a real photo of me in app. When she blocked me, she reported me, so SA asked me to prove I was the person in my profile pic by providing govt I'd.

So you need government I'd to bang women.