Seeking Arrangements

[CandyMan555]

Not worth it. SA profiles come and go super fast. As do app based phone numbers.

And depending on the type of woman you're looking for on SA, it's easy to pretty quickly weed out the fakes / scams. Men who get scammed almost always are new to this or not nearly selective enough. The warning signs are easy to spot and always show up.

I am curious what some of the obvious warning signs are?

Thanks CM.

[Bran001]

Would it be helpful if I set up a database and maybe a website to start collecting all this data more efficiently? I'm willing to put in some time to try to make all of our lives easier.

Not worth it. SA profiles come and go super fast. As do app based phone numbers.

And depending on the type of woman you're looking for on SA, it's easy to pretty quickly weed out the fakes / scams. Men who get scammed almost always are new to this or not nearly selective enough. The warning signs are easy to spot and always show up.

[Gianni Versace]

I was thinking about this too. I've had so many girls be scammers just in the span of 15 days. If we can at least have a place to cross reference numbers that would be helpful.

Once I meet a scammer I immediately block it. Just think about it the scammers will get shut down and just come back under a new profile. Thats why I think it is a waste of time to compile a database that will be obsolete within a week or 2 weeks time anyways. I have said this multiple times. Joining SA is a full time job. So if you are going to do it make sure you can spend all the time you need to make use of the membership you paid.

[Gianni Versace]

Would it be helpful if I set up a database and maybe a website to start collecting all this data more efficiently? I'm willing to put in some time to try to make all of our lives easier.

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No that will take too much time and is a waste of time. You basically need to weed out all of the scammers and prostitutes'. Its a numbers game. The more you message the more responses you will get. Once they respond you need to respond quick or else they may sign out and not respond back for days or weeks. Its like going fishing. Set the hook. Once they bite you need to work quickly to get a face to face meeting and from there it all comes down to game. Chat off site immediately. If you say the wrong thing by mistake on SA you could be banned from the site and the money you spent for the membership is gone. When a girl asks me what I am looking for I always say something fun any mutually beneficial. Hope this helps.

[IAmAzn]

Would it be helpful if I set up a database and maybe a website to start collecting all this data more efficiently? I'm willing to put in some time to try to make all of our lives easier.

I was thinking about this too. I've had so many girls be scammers just in the span of 15 days. If we can at least have a place to cross reference numbers that would be helpful.

[Chuchunga]

Honestly if you can spend a month exclusively on weeding out all of the girls than you will find the one or 2 unicorns that will be true utr girl next doors that are just doing this for side money. So yes it is worth it. So far I have done it once a year and it has always treated me well.

Would it be helpful if I set up a database and maybe a website to start collecting all this data more efficiently? I'm willing to put in some time to try to make all of our lives easier.

[Gianni Versace]

LOL, I'm early 30's so here's where I go in DOT if I'm down there.

Yellow Door is a hotspot. The Industry Bar and Grill too.

Lucy's is always fun and has good brunch with groups of girls around.

Dorchester Brewing Company has groups and can be hard to meet people if you're by yourself or have no game.

I was out in the Seaport on Saturday and met 2 hot girls who happened to live in Dorchester. They said Harp and Bard is a decent spot too. Guess I need to give Dot a chance now.

[Gianni Versace]

Is SA worth the fees? With so many fakes, time wasters, and pros to weed through it just seems like a very expensive process to get a side piece.

You could easily spend hundreds of dollars, weeks and months, and not have much to show for it.

Honestly if you can spend a month exclusively on weeding out all of the girls than you will find the one or 2 unicorns that will be true utr girl next doors that are just doing this for side money. So yes it is worth it. So far I have done it once a year and it has always treated me well.

[WongMichael]

Update: they just texted back said the girl on twitter was, in fact, them. I decided to give them some pointers.

You were too professional on your response. LOL. Others would've used more colorful words. The dummies in the Massholes can come up with some creative ones.

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[Mattis1775]

I reached out when COVID started, she wanted virtual. I passed.

This is pretty funny. None of those pictures look local and quite frankly, she's not attractive at all. I don't know what she's requesting. But, definitely a hard pass. You can give her a virtual finger just for your troubles.

[Hobbyist420]

Anyone have information about this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...2-0927a9d936f2

I reached out when COVID started, she wanted virtual. I passed.

[Hobbyist420]

She just sent me a text saying that we need to talk, as she's under 21.

Thing is, we had a drink at the hotel bar. And they looked at her I'd.

Fuck. What would be the best to do now? Ignore her?

Yes. Block on VoIP / SA. I'd also change your VoIP number (which I hope you are using). I'd also maybe change your SA profile or make it hidden.

I doubt she cares about where you live, nor has the wherewithal on how to take that info and use it for profit because she already sound dumb for trying to use your cc. She just wanted the credit cards.

[SalamanderFour]

I must be at a different level with my selection of SB's that I chose to see. I haven't ever been disrespected or ripped off by my longer term ladies. Sure they see me for the money but they aren't totally bitches when we are together. It's mutual chemistry that makes it work otherwise I would just sick with the escort sites. Not expecting any romance but the college girls and single moms have been overall decent people and we both are getting something out of it. They all eventually move on usually for a bf or they leave the area for a real job. If they start to ask for a larger donation or become not available as often I take that as an exit plan as I never go over the agreed amount whether they deserve a raise or not. I agree if one is expecting a "romantic " situation this probably isn't the place, for obvious reasons.

I don't expect a romantic relationship, but I'm not keen on being nothing but a cash machine either.

Finding that middle ground is tough. And wading through the $ and fakes on SA doesn't make it easier. It's enough to make one look for a regular woman as a side-piece, but that has diff problems.

[Hobbyist420]

The scamming on SA has gotten so high volume, the scammers aren; t even trying as hard to cover up these mistakes anymore LOL.

SA does nothing about it, despite it being a paid site, so it won't matter anyways.