Seeking Arrangements

[Gianni Versace]

Thanks Gianni,

But this is what I mean. A huge toll of time, energy, and $, for little reward, to find the 1 out of 100 that has value.

In the past, CL worked better for me. More real women, fewer bots or people overseas. But that's the past.

CL was the best. Don't get me started =*(Can someone on here start a facebook group in the Boston or New England Area for like minded guys like us and like minded girls we seek to join to find each other? I am surprised this has not happened yet?

And as they say to each their own. To me finding that 1 or 2 unicorns is worth the time I spent that one month to find her. The sex is always better with a non pro than a pro in my opinion. My problem now is that having sex with an addict is a huge turn off. Its really sad to see a person doing this because they are either being controlled by a Pimp or on so much drugs to the point of almost self destruction.

[JClearMan1]

This is actually pretty funny. I don't know how long this ad will be up, so I've taken screenshots for you all.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...f-857427ac215d

[SalamanderFour]

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No that will take too much time and is a waste of time. You basically need to weed out all of the scammers and prostitutes'. Its a numbers game. The more you message the more responses you will get. Once they respond you need to respond quick or else they may sign out and not respond back for days or weeks. Its like going fishing. Set the hook. Once they bite you need to work quickly to get a face to face meeting and from there it all comes down to game. Chat off site immediately. If you say the wrong thing by mistake on SA you could be banned from the site and the money you spent for the membership is gone. When a girl asks me what I am looking for I always say something fun any mutually beneficial. Hope this helps.

Thanks Gianni,

But this is what I mean. A huge toll of time, energy, and $, for little reward, to find the 1 out of 100 that has value.

In the past, CL worked better for me. More real women, fewer bots or people overseas. But that's the past.

[Chuchunga]

Once I meet a scammer I immediately block it. Just think about it the scammers will get shut down and just come back under a new profile. Thats why I think it is a waste of time to compile a database that will be obsolete within a week or 2 weeks time anyways. I have said this multiple times. Joining SA is a full time job. So if you are going to do it make sure you can spend all the time you need to make use of the membership you paid.

Let me rephrase, cause if there was an easy way to fight back the scammers and completely discourage the photo / video sellers, and the platonic ones that only want to be taken out for dinner, is there interest?

[CandyMan555]

Not worth it. SA profiles come and go super fast. As do app based phone numbers.

And depending on the type of woman you're looking for on SA, it's easy to pretty quickly weed out the fakes / scams. Men who get scammed almost always are new to this or not nearly selective enough. The warning signs are easy to spot and always show up.

I am curious what some of the obvious warning signs are?

Thanks CM.

[Bran001]

Would it be helpful if I set up a database and maybe a website to start collecting all this data more efficiently? I'm willing to put in some time to try to make all of our lives easier.

Not worth it. SA profiles come and go super fast. As do app based phone numbers.

And depending on the type of woman you're looking for on SA, it's easy to pretty quickly weed out the fakes / scams. Men who get scammed almost always are new to this or not nearly selective enough. The warning signs are easy to spot and always show up.

[Gianni Versace]

I was thinking about this too. I've had so many girls be scammers just in the span of 15 days. If we can at least have a place to cross reference numbers that would be helpful.

Once I meet a scammer I immediately block it. Just think about it the scammers will get shut down and just come back under a new profile. Thats why I think it is a waste of time to compile a database that will be obsolete within a week or 2 weeks time anyways. I have said this multiple times. Joining SA is a full time job. So if you are going to do it make sure you can spend all the time you need to make use of the membership you paid.

[Gianni Versace]

Would it be helpful if I set up a database and maybe a website to start collecting all this data more efficiently? I'm willing to put in some time to try to make all of our lives easier.

To.

No that will take too much time and is a waste of time. You basically need to weed out all of the scammers and prostitutes'. Its a numbers game. The more you message the more responses you will get. Once they respond you need to respond quick or else they may sign out and not respond back for days or weeks. Its like going fishing. Set the hook. Once they bite you need to work quickly to get a face to face meeting and from there it all comes down to game. Chat off site immediately. If you say the wrong thing by mistake on SA you could be banned from the site and the money you spent for the membership is gone. When a girl asks me what I am looking for I always say something fun any mutually beneficial. Hope this helps.

[IAmAzn]

Would it be helpful if I set up a database and maybe a website to start collecting all this data more efficiently? I'm willing to put in some time to try to make all of our lives easier.

I was thinking about this too. I've had so many girls be scammers just in the span of 15 days. If we can at least have a place to cross reference numbers that would be helpful.

[Chuchunga]

Honestly if you can spend a month exclusively on weeding out all of the girls than you will find the one or 2 unicorns that will be true utr girl next doors that are just doing this for side money. So yes it is worth it. So far I have done it once a year and it has always treated me well.

Would it be helpful if I set up a database and maybe a website to start collecting all this data more efficiently? I'm willing to put in some time to try to make all of our lives easier.

[Gianni Versace]

LOL, I'm early 30's so here's where I go in DOT if I'm down there.

Yellow Door is a hotspot. The Industry Bar and Grill too.

Lucy's is always fun and has good brunch with groups of girls around.

Dorchester Brewing Company has groups and can be hard to meet people if you're by yourself or have no game.

I was out in the Seaport on Saturday and met 2 hot girls who happened to live in Dorchester. They said Harp and Bard is a decent spot too. Guess I need to give Dot a chance now.

[Gianni Versace]

Is SA worth the fees? With so many fakes, time wasters, and pros to weed through it just seems like a very expensive process to get a side piece.

You could easily spend hundreds of dollars, weeks and months, and not have much to show for it.

Honestly if you can spend a month exclusively on weeding out all of the girls than you will find the one or 2 unicorns that will be true utr girl next doors that are just doing this for side money. So yes it is worth it. So far I have done it once a year and it has always treated me well.

[WongMichael]

Update: they just texted back said the girl on twitter was, in fact, them. I decided to give them some pointers.

You were too professional on your response. LOL. Others would've used more colorful words. The dummies in the Massholes can come up with some creative ones.

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[Mattis1775]

I reached out when COVID started, she wanted virtual. I passed.

This is pretty funny. None of those pictures look local and quite frankly, she's not attractive at all. I don't know what she's requesting. But, definitely a hard pass. You can give her a virtual finger just for your troubles.