Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

**Member #6101** · 01-20-22 17:20

I haven't been on SA in a while but tried some other sites like sugardaddymeet and even bumble LOL. I have about 10 girls that are just DTF and aren't looking for dinners or anything like that. Trying to find someone new as I am not on any sites anymore. If you want to trade info send me a pm. Most of these girls are around the $300-400 range. Some are a little less. Most around western ma, some boston area, and some ct.

**BlueFox141** · 01-19-22 11:28

Originally Posted by Joey1994 [View Original Post]

I'm totally ok with ladies who don't swallow, bot no CIM? What's the point, I van get that at home.

And, it's a little awkward to discuss that with some of these girls prior to a meet. It's not like this is STG!

Blue.

**WillSmith96** · 01-19-22 10:00

Originally Posted by LuckyCT [View Original Post]

What is the PPM?

$$. 5 in each case.

**BlueFox141** · 01-17-22 11:08

Originally Posted by JoeSchlosser33 [View Original Post]

Personally I've had wildly varying rates. I have one SB now that's 150 ppm. She's cute, not gorgeous, small tits, but overall nice body. I've seen similar girls ask for 500 ppm. Insane. It seems to me though that you can have a college age 8 or better for 300 ppm. That seems reasonable to me. Some of you may balk at that price, but the competition from OF is getting pretty steep. When they read about girls making 10 k a week for doing cam shows, it really sets expectations. That and the ones who claim they are whisked around the world by billionaires hurt for sure as well. As always, YMMV.

With patience, I have found a few very nice ones willing to do $100 PPM. I even had one I just wanted to sex, didn't want the money! There are all sorts out there including the ones that want $1,000 PPM. Most I have paid was $400, and that was because I was extremely attracted to her. It's just a matter of how.

Patient you want to be. It would be a whole lot easier if there weren't so many fakes and scammers. It's because of them I decided to at least take a break, if not leave entirely.

Blue.

**JoeSchlosser33** · 01-17-22 08:29

Originally Posted by LuckyCT [View Original Post]

LOL Blue. I know what ppm is. I was asking what the ppm for these girls is? The going rates? I have been on hiatus for a while but have been keeping up. Thank you guys for all of your posts. They are very much appreciated!

Personally I've had wildly varying rates. I have one SB now that's 150 ppm. She's cute, not gorgeous, small tits, but overall nice body. I've seen similar girls ask for 500 ppm. Insane. It seems to me though that you can have a college age 8 or better for 300 ppm. That seems reasonable to me. Some of you may balk at that price, but the competition from OF is getting pretty steep. When they read about girls making 10 k a week for doing cam shows, it really sets expectations. That and the ones who claim they are whisked around the world by billionaires hurt for sure as well. As always, YMMV.

**Joey1994** · 01-16-22 15:40

I'm totally ok with ladies who don't swallow, bot no CIM? What's the point, I van get that at home.

**LuckyCT** · 01-16-22 15:16

Originally Posted by BigMacDaddy [View Original Post]

Pay Per Meet. Compared to others looking for an allowance.

Avoid allowances as you're paying for the week or month but might not get as much action as you hoped for. While she may agree to a set fee for a month for 4 meetings in that month, it's not uncommon that she might try to whittle you down to 3 or 2 then promise "make up" meetings that never happen.

Stay with exact $ per meet. It's less ambiguous and prevent the girl from taking advantage of you.

BMD.

LOL Blue. I know what ppm is. I was asking what the ppm for these girls is? The going rates? I have been on hiatus for a while but have been keeping up. Thank you guys for all of your posts. They are very much appreciated!

**BlueFox141** · 01-16-22 14:40

Originally Posted by BigMacDaddy [View Original Post]

Pay Per Meet. Compared to others looking for an allowance.

Avoid allowances as you're paying for the week or month but might not get as much action as you hoped for. While she may agree to a set fee for a month for 4 meetings in that month, it's not uncommon that she might try to whittle you down to 3 or 2 then promise "make up" meetings that never happen.

Stay with exact $ per meet. It's less ambiguous and prevent the girl from taking advantage of you..

I have actually had some pretty good luck with some of the younger ones, and the new ones on the site who are completely inexperienced with the way arrangements work. When they start asking questions about a monthly allowance, I will say that I have had monthly allowances of up to $800 a month. That usually sounds pretty good to them. Then I tell them that because we haven't gotten together yet and we may not be compatible in bed that I like to start off with PPMs, that way it's fair to both of us. I tell them that the initial PPM that I like to start off at is $200 and increase it from there or go to a monthly fee. Now typically they can't host. If that's the case I'll say that I will have to take $50 off it for the room. Then, sometimes I'm able to get them to agree to a slightly lower price for our very first meet to see if we click. Sometimes I can get another $50 off for that. So, I start off with $100 for the first time and then do $150 for the next couple, making sure I see her, or at least try to see her more than once in a week. This gets it into her head that we could be doing it often. If I'm still around. I can start talking to her about a monthly arrangement. Now, we go to the $600 or $800 a week that we might have discussed a month or so earlier. Then I start throwing numbers at her like, telling her does she realize that I might see her twice or more a week for that amount of money. Then, the $200 PPM starts sounding good! The only problem is, you have to go through so many fakes and scammers to get to this point.

Blue.

**Big Mac Daddy** · 01-16-22 14:00

Originally Posted by Woody50 [View Original Post]

When I was young, I worked on cruise ships for about 8 years. "We'll never be here again. " goes a long way with tipsy chicks on vacation. After several hundred one or two nighters, I'd say about 10% of women fall into the no BJ category.

My problem is my need for BBBJ-cim-nqns, anywhere, anytime, standing, sitting, laying down, in sickness or in good health. LOL.
It might be more torturous to get the bbbj but no cim, no swallow.

**Big Mac Daddy** · 01-16-22 13:56

Originally Posted by LuckyCT [View Original Post]

What is the PPM?

Pay Per Meet. Compared to others looking for an allowance.

Avoid allowances as you're paying for the week or month but might not get as much action as you hoped for. While she may agree to a set fee for a month for 4 meetings in that month, it's not uncommon that she might try to whittle you down to 3 or 2 then promise "make up" meetings that never happen.

Stay with exact $ per meet. It's less ambiguous and prevent the girl from taking advantage of you.

BMD.

**BlueFox141** · 01-16-22 13:35

Originally Posted by LuckyCT [View Original Post]

What is the PPM?

We were talking about the school teacher and he mentioned to UTR's. I don't know which one you are asking about. I only know about the school teacher and I have referred her to others but she would rather give the price. So, you would have to contact her on SA. She and I actually do dinner every once in awhile, and just dinner. No dessert! LOL.

Blue.

**LuckyCT** · 01-16-22 12:52

Originally Posted by WillSmith96 [View Original Post]

The school teacher is a gem.

Responding to your other thread on generosity. Agreed, it can be a crap shoot. I've had good and bad, more good. Currently have two UTR single Moms (met both on SA) with no limits who rock my world.

What is the PPM?

**WillSmith96** · 01-16-22 12:26

Originally Posted by BlueFox141 [View Original Post]

I told her that you said "Hi" and she laughed and said "That was a long time ago". I've seen her a few times and never had one that loved it so much!

Blue.

The school teacher is a gem.

Responding to your other thread on generosity. Agreed, it can be a crap shoot. I've had good and bad, more good. Currently have two UTR single Moms (met both on SA) with no limits who rock my world.

**Woody50** · 01-16-22 09:01

Originally Posted by BigMacDaddy [View Original Post]

As a younger pup, I had a civilian girl friend like that. Point blank NO BJ, no CBJ, and nothing in that neighborhood for the rest of my life.

I had two words to say. First one for her, "really"?
BMD.

When I was young, I worked on cruise ships for about 8 years. "We'll never be here again. " goes a long way with tipsy chicks on vacation. After several hundred one or two nighters, I'd say about 10% of women fall into the no BJ category.