"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**PeteAppleSeed** · 01-16-22 02:26

Originally Posted by Shizzy6969 [View Original Post]

Agree with that. Also, you really shouldn't give out too much info before the meet and greet. Thats always a good way to filter out the crazies. If something doesn't feel right during the meet. Assume the worst.

IMO. You should never ever give any SB or pro any info, ever!

I have a compete alter ego.

Fake name, work, where I live, where I'm from, what I like, my home situation, everything fake.

Had a UTR from an agency for like a year, I know her real name, address, husbands name, personal email, where she lives.

But I still gave her zero personal info.

**Shizzy6969** · 01-15-22 17:32

Originally Posted by SoonerFan72 [View Original Post]

My advice is create a new Gmail account from scratch, use fake everything. From there, create a Google Voice account using that Gmail address. This gives you a totally separate identity for online. Use those accounts for texting, email, setting up accounts, etc. And of course, you have to be careful chatting that you don't give out too much info as well.

Agree with that. Also, you really shouldn't give out too much info before the meet and greet. Thats always a good way to filter out the crazies. If something doesn't feel right during the meet. Assume the worst.

**SoonerFan72** · 01-15-22 15:32

Originally Posted by MattSouth [View Original Post]

I think this is one reason I've never taken the plunge into SA / SB. Anonymity is tougher in today's world. Need to read up on some SA / SB boards and advice.

My advice is create a new Gmail account from scratch, use fake everything. From there, create a Google Voice account using that Gmail address. This gives you a totally separate identity for online. Use those accounts for texting, email, setting up accounts, etc. And of course, you have to be careful chatting that you don't give out too much info as well.

**MattSouth** · 01-15-22 15:20

Originally Posted by SoonerFan72 [View Original Post]

So just a heads up on this one. A trusted friend of mine saw this chic, and said she is batshit crazy. As in will try and ruin a marriage kind of crazy. He isn't on the site, but I just wanted to give you boys a heads up!

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...1-3cc5298b5957

I think this is one reason I've never taken the plunge into SA / SB. Anonymity is tougher in today's world. Need to read up on some SA / SB boards and advice.

**Atlanta2010** · 01-15-22 15:15

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

I talked to her when she was in Finland and she said she would be back in ATL in a few weeks and she sent me both her ATL # and her # in Finland. But something about her just wasn't right for me, so I never followed up.

I texted with her at the end of November. She told me she wasn't looking for ppm and only wanted an allowance. "a 4-digit allowance per month" and included "may I have a mailing address for you" in the same text. I didn't respond after that.

She continued texting daily for another week. Mainly looking for me to donate to some fundraiser, even going so far as to send me a picture of her dancing. The whole thing was weird.

**Shizzy6969** · 01-15-22 14:56

Originally Posted by DArrow404 [View Original Post]

Did you try countering her offer at all?

Yep and she's generally open to that discussion. I just have a current unicorn that I rather spend more time with at the end of the day instead, and my sub expired (and she' going to finland), so I figure that's the universe telling to step back.

**DArrow404** · 01-15-22 13:19

Originally Posted by Shizzy6969 [View Original Post]

I met with her in a quick meet and greet before her trip. Mature, intelligent woman with a lot of things going on in her life. Good personality in general, but does seems to have very high expectation. She can definitely carry a conversation and is fairly direct on what she expects. Quote similar range as discussed, quite a bit more than my budget.

Did you try countering her offer at all?

**Shizzy6969** · 01-15-22 12:18

Originally Posted by PeterJohnson [View Original Post]

I talked to her when she was in Finland and she said she would be back in ATL in a few weeks and she sent me both her ATL # and her # in Finland. But something about her just wasn't right for me, so I never followed up.

I met with her in a quick meet and greet before her trip. Mature, intelligent woman with a lot of things going on in her life. Good personality in general, but does seems to have very high expectation. She can definitely carry a conversation and is fairly direct on what she expects. Quote similar range as discussed, quite a bit more than my budget.

**SoonerFan72** · 01-15-22 11:36

So just a heads up on this one. A trusted friend of mine saw this chic, and said she is batshit crazy. As in will try and ruin a marriage kind of crazy. He isn't on the site, but I just wanted to give you boys a heads up!

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...1-3cc5298b5957

**LovePunnany** · 01-15-22 01:24

The Perfect Baby has relocated to Florida, just an FYI.

**LovePunnany** · 01-15-22 00:58

Fellows any intel on this baby would be appreciated. Thanks.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...8-f2309e36a8d8

**Peter Johnson** · 01-14-22 23:26

Originally Posted by DArrow404 [View Original Post]

Since this post: http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...=1#post5647279.

I've been wanting to see HellaExtravagant (https://members.seeking.com/member/5...b-1e89afad421a) based on the review in the post above but her profile started showing Helsinki, Finland since Dec which was still active as a couple days ago.

Then I noticed yesterday this new BeautifulMind profile (https://members.seeking.com/member/5...4-8ef36c4e1587) with some of the same pics and it looked to be the same person. I reached out and thought it might be fake / scammer but it does look to be the same person as she sent me a verification pic that matched.

She must have gotten some major GPS since going to Finland. Right off the bat she said she wanted 2-4 k monthly or 800 ppm. WTF. Obviously I'm not going to pay that. I haven't tired talking her down, but I don't see it happen when you start that far apart. I know the post I referenced the guy mentioned he might be getting a "handsome" discount but still.

Has anyone else talked to BeautifulMind / HellaExtravagant? I'm curious to what others having gotten.

I talked to her when she was in Finland and she said she would be back in ATL in a few weeks and she sent me both her ATL # and her # in Finland. But something about her just wasn't right for me, so I never followed up.

**DArrow404** · 01-14-22 22:40

Since this post: http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...=1#post5647279.

I've been wanting to see HellaExtravagant (https://members.seeking.com/member/5...b-1e89afad421a) based on the review in the post above but her profile started showing Helsinki, Finland since Dec which was still active as a couple days ago.

Then I noticed yesterday this new BeautifulMind profile (https://members.seeking.com/member/5...4-8ef36c4e1587) with some of the same pics and it looked to be the same person. I reached out and thought it might be fake / scammer but it does look to be the same person as she sent me a verification pic that matched.

She must have gotten some major GPS since going to Finland. Right off the bat she said she wanted 2-4 k monthly or 800 ppm. WTF. Obviously I'm not going to pay that. I haven't tired talking her down, but I don't see it happen when you start that far apart. I know the post I referenced the guy mentioned he might be getting a "handsome" discount but still.

Has anyone else talked to BeautifulMind / HellaExtravagant? I'm curious to what others having gotten.

**TheLife1** · 01-14-22 16:59

I finally got mine to work when I used the Visa gift card to pay for other things.

Originally Posted by Harley32 [View Original Post]

I'm having all kinds of problems trying to get an account set up. I've been a member for years and have had several accounts, usually a couple open at a time. I've always used prepaid Visa cards, usually Vanilla, and never had a problem as recently as last year.

I signed up yesterday and my account was suspended immediately after I tried to upgrade to premium. I looked through the threads and decided to try a different card and register it as suggested. Used the same name, address, phone, etc. It looked like it was working and then immediately suspended. Fortunately it doesn't seem to be charging my card. I also went and deleted my other accounts.

What's going on? I'm on a VPN since I'm at work. Does that make a difference?

**SoonerFan72** · 01-14-22 16:59

This one is a pro, phone number brought up multiple hits. Seems nice enough, and has good reviews. Said she was in Alpharetta. Not really my style, I did not pursue. But if one of you wants to take a shot, have fun.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...1-9d22b6d88534