"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[MattSouth]

So just a heads up on this one. A trusted friend of mine saw this chic, and said she is batshit crazy. As in will try and ruin a marriage kind of crazy. He isn't on the site, but I just wanted to give you boys a heads up!

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...1-3cc5298b5957

I think this is one reason I've never taken the plunge into SA / SB. Anonymity is tougher in today's world. Need to read up on some SA / SB boards and advice.

[Atlanta2010]

I talked to her when she was in Finland and she said she would be back in ATL in a few weeks and she sent me both her ATL # and her # in Finland. But something about her just wasn't right for me, so I never followed up.

I texted with her at the end of November. She told me she wasn't looking for ppm and only wanted an allowance. "a 4-digit allowance per month" and included "may I have a mailing address for you" in the same text. I didn't respond after that.

She continued texting daily for another week. Mainly looking for me to donate to some fundraiser, even going so far as to send me a picture of her dancing. The whole thing was weird.

[Shizzy6969]

Did you try countering her offer at all?

Yep and she's generally open to that discussion. I just have a current unicorn that I rather spend more time with at the end of the day instead, and my sub expired (and she' going to finland), so I figure that's the universe telling to step back.

[DArrow404]

I met with her in a quick meet and greet before her trip. Mature, intelligent woman with a lot of things going on in her life. Good personality in general, but does seems to have very high expectation. She can definitely carry a conversation and is fairly direct on what she expects. Quote similar range as discussed, quite a bit more than my budget.

Did you try countering her offer at all?

[Shizzy6969]

I talked to her when she was in Finland and she said she would be back in ATL in a few weeks and she sent me both her ATL # and her # in Finland. But something about her just wasn't right for me, so I never followed up.

I met with her in a quick meet and greet before her trip. Mature, intelligent woman with a lot of things going on in her life. Good personality in general, but does seems to have very high expectation. She can definitely carry a conversation and is fairly direct on what she expects. Quote similar range as discussed, quite a bit more than my budget.

[SoonerFan72]

So just a heads up on this one. A trusted friend of mine saw this chic, and said she is batshit crazy. As in will try and ruin a marriage kind of crazy. He isn't on the site, but I just wanted to give you boys a heads up!

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...1-3cc5298b5957

[LovePunnany]

The Perfect Baby has relocated to Florida, just an FYI.

[LovePunnany]

Fellows any intel on this baby would be appreciated. Thanks.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...8-f2309e36a8d8

[Peter Johnson]

Since this post: http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...=1#post5647279.

I've been wanting to see HellaExtravagant (https://members.seeking.com/member/5...b-1e89afad421a) based on the review in the post above but her profile started showing Helsinki, Finland since Dec which was still active as a couple days ago.

Then I noticed yesterday this new BeautifulMind profile (https://members.seeking.com/member/5...4-8ef36c4e1587) with some of the same pics and it looked to be the same person. I reached out and thought it might be fake / scammer but it does look to be the same person as she sent me a verification pic that matched.

She must have gotten some major GPS since going to Finland. Right off the bat she said she wanted 2-4 k monthly or 800 ppm. WTF. Obviously I'm not going to pay that. I haven't tired talking her down, but I don't see it happen when you start that far apart. I know the post I referenced the guy mentioned he might be getting a "handsome" discount but still.

Has anyone else talked to BeautifulMind / HellaExtravagant? I'm curious to what others having gotten.

I talked to her when she was in Finland and she said she would be back in ATL in a few weeks and she sent me both her ATL # and her # in Finland. But something about her just wasn't right for me, so I never followed up.

[DArrow404]

Since this post: http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...=1#post5647279.

I've been wanting to see HellaExtravagant (https://members.seeking.com/member/5...b-1e89afad421a) based on the review in the post above but her profile started showing Helsinki, Finland since Dec which was still active as a couple days ago.

Then I noticed yesterday this new BeautifulMind profile (https://members.seeking.com/member/5...4-8ef36c4e1587) with some of the same pics and it looked to be the same person. I reached out and thought it might be fake / scammer but it does look to be the same person as she sent me a verification pic that matched.

She must have gotten some major GPS since going to Finland. Right off the bat she said she wanted 2-4 k monthly or 800 ppm. WTF. Obviously I'm not going to pay that. I haven't tired talking her down, but I don't see it happen when you start that far apart. I know the post I referenced the guy mentioned he might be getting a "handsome" discount but still.

Has anyone else talked to BeautifulMind / HellaExtravagant? I'm curious to what others having gotten.

[TheLife1]

I finally got mine to work when I used the Visa gift card to pay for other things.

I'm having all kinds of problems trying to get an account set up. I've been a member for years and have had several accounts, usually a couple open at a time. I've always used prepaid Visa cards, usually Vanilla, and never had a problem as recently as last year.

I signed up yesterday and my account was suspended immediately after I tried to upgrade to premium. I looked through the threads and decided to try a different card and register it as suggested. Used the same name, address, phone, etc. It looked like it was working and then immediately suspended. Fortunately it doesn't seem to be charging my card. I also went and deleted my other accounts.

What's going on? I'm on a VPN since I'm at work. Does that make a difference?

[SoonerFan72]

This one is a pro, phone number brought up multiple hits. Seems nice enough, and has good reviews. Said she was in Alpharetta. Not really my style, I did not pursue. But if one of you wants to take a shot, have fun.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...1-9d22b6d88534

[Harley32]

Yes it is maddening, and I went through that, for months. Are you sure you used the right kind of card. I hope they don't close that loophole in the future but worked at the end of Dec for me.

I finally got it to work. Another thread had recommended using the Epic browser. It's Chrome based but has a lot of security features. I had to turn many of those off to get the site to load properly so it may have been an issue with cookies, etc on my normal browser. I also left off adding a photo since I tend to reuse those.

[SoonerFan72]

I always say go with your gut. But a couple things to consider. She's married. Phone number could be under husband's name. When I talked with her she said she was 45 min south of Atlanta (too far for me). Thomaston is about that. Wouldn't read too much into verification pic. How much time had passed between asking for pic and receiving?

But like I said. Always go with your gut.

There were other things as well. She did say she was married, and lived in Thomaston. But the hit for the phone number on Facebook was for a dude that was a thug. Would it hold up in court? No. But is it common for thugs to try and scam people in this game, hell yeah. Its just not worth the risk. She also said she didn't care about the money, just give her "whatever I wanted to give". Which is another red flag. And lastly, when we did move to Whatsapp, and I told her I wasnt sure I'd be able to go to Thomaston, she said "that's ok, we will move on". "we" seemed like a slip up. And there wasnt even a discussion. She promptly blocked me on SA, but I had already grabbed the link.

Like I said, maybe I'm wrong. But I'm not willing to take the chance.

[Peter Johnson]

I'm highly skeptical of whatsapp. I stopped messaging with this same woman as soon as she said that was the only way she would communicate about details.

Whatapp is owned by Facebook and it's not trustworthy, beyond the fact that a lot of scammers use it. They are too lazy to even us something better like Session or Signal. I don't get it, but I will never use Whatsapp with anyone.