Seeking Arrangement

**New Guy Not** · 12-30-21 12:28

Originally Posted by ImBadBoy19 [View Original Post]

I couldn't agree more. Most of these women are not pro's and aren't booking appointments. You've got to strike while the iron is hot. Keep in mind she probably has a box full of messages and isn't waiting around for only you. Invest 20-30 minutes and meet them for coffee. No need for a fancy dinner. Just a quick meet and greet see if there's a vibe for not. If you click, then make another date, if not then move on. I've been on this site for years and this is what works for me.

Having 2 girls I met on SA living in my house for over a year. The mailboxes have thousands upon thousands of unread messages. Its actually luck if you get a response. Nobody has that time to read them all. Most girls get discouraged by these influx of mail. Most give up after a few weeks. The girls who stick around get to pick who they would date. They get hundreds of mail daily from all over the world. They have 50 guys a day asking if they are P2P, do bb, do anal etc. Most men waste the girls time another huge factor why woman leave the site. The majority of these woman are experimenting, very few have actually done prostitution. SA requires work, dedication, and patience. Its not find a date and meet an hr later.

**TullyBlanchard** · 12-30-21 10:25

Originally Posted by CrackHoreLover [View Original Post]

JoeLefty are you lashing out at Jbfe147 or yourself (you quoted your own post)?

He's clearly befuddled.

**Jbfe147** · 12-29-21 23:16

Originally Posted by JoeLefty [View Original Post]

This is the problem with some of you guys on here. You want everything handed to you on a silver platter. You have messages from her on two accounts, but you didn't engage with her on either. Then you want all the details from someone else without spending your own dime. The fact of the matter is, you cheapos are ruining it for the rest of us who are making a serious effort. This is why it's not possible to arrange a date a few days in advance. This is why I say you must be prepared to meet immediately when engaging a woman on this site. Because you're a time waster and they know your game. Your only concern is getting a quick piece of ass for as little as possible. Maybe stick to the crackheads on 8 mile, if that's your M. O.

Yeah, I was just wondering if she was real. Get your panties out of a bunch the buddy. I touch many different areas of this hobby.

I currently have a SB that I met on SA and been dealing with her for over a year now. Not looking for another necessarily but I do browse. Not my fault she's messaging blank profiles!

**FictionGenius** · 12-29-21 19:03

Anyone else having a consistent problem with verifying their account on every log in to seeking.

So annoying how does one avoid it.

**CrackHoreLover** · 12-29-21 16:13

Originally Posted by JoeLefty [View Original Post]

This is the problem with some of you guys on here. You want everything handed to you on a silver platter. You have messages from her on two accounts, but you didn't engage with her on either. Then you want all the details from someone else without spending your own dime. The fact of the matter is, you cheapos are ruining it for the rest of us who are making a serious effort. This is why it's not possible to arrange a date a few days in advance. This is why I say you must be prepared to meet immediately when engaging a woman on this site. Because you're a time waster and they know your game. Your only concern is getting a quick piece of ass for as little as possible. Maybe stick to the crackheads on 8 mile, if that's your M. O.

JoeLefty are you lashing out at Jbfe147 or yourself (you quoted your own post)?

**JoeLefty** · 12-28-21 16:33

Originally Posted by ImBadBoy19 [View Original Post]

I couldn't agree more. Most of these women are not pro's and aren't booking appointments. You've got to strike while the iron is hot. Keep in mind she probably has a box full of messages and isn't waiting around for only you. Invest 20-30 minutes and meet them for coffee. No need for a fancy dinner. Just a quick meet and greet see if there's a vibe for not. If you click, then make another date, if not then move on. I've been on this site for years and this is what works for me.

It does work. But the price of a meet and greet is going up because so many guys are on there wasting time. If you watch the profiles on a regular basis, it's not hard to figure out who is an UTR pro, who is a gold digger, who is posting up fake or old photos and who is a legit SB candidate. You're going to have to sift through some bullshit and spend a little to find what you're looking for. And you need to have a modicum of honesty with them. If you're just looking for a one off hookup, that's going to be discouraging for some of these girls and they're not going to return to the site.

**ImBadBoy19** · 12-28-21 10:50

Originally Posted by JoeLefty [View Original Post]

This is the problem with some of you guys on here. You want everything handed to you on a silver platter. You have messages from her on two accounts, but you didn't engage with her on either. Then you want all the details from someone else without spending your own dime. The fact of the matter is, you cheapos are ruining it for the rest of us who are making a serious effort. This is why it's not possible to arrange a date a few days in advance. This is why I say you must be prepared to meet immediately when engaging a woman on this site. Because you're a time waster and they know your game. Your only concern is getting a quick piece of ass for as little as possible. Maybe stick to the crackheads on 8 mile, if that's your M. O.

I couldn't agree more. Most of these women are not pro's and aren't booking appointments. You've got to strike while the iron is hot. Keep in mind she probably has a box full of messages and isn't waiting around for only you. Invest 20-30 minutes and meet them for coffee. No need for a fancy dinner. Just a quick meet and greet see if there's a vibe for not. If you click, then make another date, if not then move on. I've been on this site for years and this is what works for me.

**JoeLefty** · 12-27-21 10:45

Originally Posted by JoeLefty [View Original Post]

Met her for drinks a couple weeks ago. She cannot host, so you will need to get a room. I did not pursue further, as I have other options that are a better fit for me.

This is the problem with some of you guys on here. You want everything handed to you on a silver platter. You have messages from her on two accounts, but you didn't engage with her on either. Then you want all the details from someone else without spending your own dime. The fact of the matter is, you cheapos are ruining it for the rest of us who are making a serious effort. This is why it's not possible to arrange a date a few days in advance. This is why I say you must be prepared to meet immediately when engaging a woman on this site. Because you're a time waster and they know your game. Your only concern is getting a quick piece of ass for as little as possible. Maybe stick to the crackheads on 8 mile, if that's your M. O.

**JoeLefty** · 12-27-21 10:32

Originally Posted by Jbfe147 [View Original Post]

I'm just curious if you actually met this person. I have 2 accounts there which and I have no picture up and never shown her any interest. But I have messages in both inbox from her. I'm assuming it's a BS profile, but feel free to share info if she's real.

Met her for drinks a couple weeks ago. She cannot host, so you will need to get a room. I did not pursue further, as I have other options that are a better fit for me.

**New Guy Not** · 12-25-21 10:39

Originally Posted by HungaryMan [View Original Post]

Looks like the price of Seeking is going up in 2022. I fon't think they have revealed the new price yet. I remember trying to use their settings to exclude any unwanted foreign gals let along any from out of state but still they pop up. Anyone have any luck preventing this?

Ignore them, put um on block. There are no tools in the app for this garbage. I won't even acknowledge girls in the next state let alone on a different continent.

**Jbfe147** · 12-24-21 09:10

Originally Posted by JoeLefty [View Original Post]

It's this easy. 400 ppm, for those of you interested. That's before any negotiation, which I rarely do anyway. To each their own. You want a good session, pay the girl what she wants to make her happy.

I'm just curious if you actually met this person. I have 2 accounts there which and I have no picture up and never shown her any interest. But I have messages in both inbox from her. I'm assuming it's a BS profile, but feel free to share info if she's real.

**CostasCarl** · 12-23-21 22:02

Originally Posted by JoeLefty [View Original Post]

It's this easy. 400 ppm, for those of you interested. That's before any negotiation, which I rarely do anyway. To each their own. You want a good session, pay the girl what she wants to make her happy.

Good for you. I don't haggle either. Let us know how it went. Currently I have a sugarbabe I am holding on to. I will not be looking for a new one until she decides to discontinue our arrangement.

**HungaryMan** · 12-23-21 20:16

Looks like the price of Seeking is going up in 2022. I fon't think they have revealed the new price yet. I remember trying to use their settings to exclude any unwanted foreign gals let along any from out of state but still they pop up. Anyone have any luck preventing this?

**SpasRhealing** · 12-17-21 11:48

Just checking with the boys on this one.

**Sandman118** · 12-17-21 10:42

Hey gents, as the title states I just got out of a nasty divorce and looking for a gal on SA in the metro Detroit burbs that has a solid head game. Preferably petite (not heavyset), not a druggie. Need some relief after this past year. Thanks an advance.