WYP, SA, and other SD sites

**BuffBill75** · 12-21-21 07:20

Originally Posted by NormGerd [View Original Post]

This one seems legit, and interested, but not my cup of tea once I saw a face pic. If she floats your boat, I am sure she is real.

Norm!

Same thing that happened when I saw her.

**MotoMoto11** · 12-21-21 05:05

Originally Posted by Itfcd [View Original Post]

As far as I'm concerned, Secret Benefits is just throwing your money down the drain. As bad as SA could possibly be, SB is worse. I think the only one I've even spoken to from there is "SeekingintheDMV" (name on SA is "SeekingInDMV", which you can search by here), who others have met and have had reports about, but she's also on SA anyway, or was. Literally the only one out of 30+ women who have actually written me back with real intent. Even the ones who seem to have accounts on both sites don't respond when I say things on SA like, "Hey, you messaged me there, but you can talk to me here. " Its only value to me is trying to sniff out real from fake, and even that is of limited use.

While it does have it setbacks SB has been good to me have met at least 10 Ladies interacted with at least six of them my success has come with the ladies 35 and over they make it known what they want which is usually a little companionship some great sex and a few magic coins icing on the cake.

**Mongerian** · 12-20-21 21:00

Babbygirl https://members.seeking.com/member/6...8-f05b673854f6.

Went to texting quickly, dtf, wants 300 can't host.

**DickLongwood** · 12-20-21 17:34

Originally Posted by LikItFun [View Original Post]

Saw her once about a year ago.

Care to fill me in, either by PM or more publicly?

**Baltmonger69** · 12-20-21 16:53

I've been chatting with this redhead and I'll probably pull the trigger soon. Has anyone seen her?

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...d-090d667f1d2f

**LikItFun** · 12-20-21 16:02

Originally Posted by DickLongwood [View Original Post]

She's been around for a while. Went by ItalianGirl or something like that. She's fairly pretty but large. I don't know if anyone has met her yet. I passed when she (jokingly?) asked me to pay her rent.

Saw her once about a year ago.

**FunForDevils** · 12-20-21 14:52

Saw her, 2. 0 $ ppm BBFS. Average bbj, but her kitty hole was tight as backdoor.

Almost like taking someone's virginity. My junior was sore for whole next day. .

But her engagement was not that responsive so I would not repeat it.

Originally Posted by Itfcd [View Original Post]

I texted her last week, didn't arrange anything, and now she's texted me the last 2 mornings trying to get me to meet her ASAP. I just blocked her instead. I may circle back if my meet-up tonight doesn't go well, but if she's letting everyone here dump a load or three in every hole, maybe I shouldn't. Or maybe I'll text her with some lowball # for a blowjob and see if she goes for it.

**Norm Gerd** · 12-20-21 11:43

Originally Posted by NormGerd [View Original Post]

Any intel on this one. Getting deep into negotiations.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...6-75030a10410d

Norm!

This one seems legit, and interested, but not my cup of tea once I saw a face pic. If she floats your boat, I am sure she is real.

Norm!

**Itfcd** · 12-20-21 11:36

Originally Posted by NormGerd [View Original Post]

I too have been pondering other sites, because this go round Seeking has sucked, as opposed to my last go round when it was just mediocre, but at least I wasn't swamped by scammers and south american profiles. Unfortunately, I don't see any better sites. Secret Benefits uses a credit system, which means if you reach out to a scammer its too bad, you used your credits.

My best SB experiences were all through craigslist and sd.com, which is no longer popular with the ladies (I think they pay on that site, while seeking is free for the ladies).

Hopefully in my last week on seeking something will pan out. I have been having super hot sexting (and regular texting too) with a lady I believe is genuine, but the holidays have made getting together tough. Still stuck on 2 meets. Hoping that improves before I time out.

Norm!

As far as I'm concerned, Secret Benefits is just throwing your money down the drain. As bad as SA could possibly be, SB is worse. I think the only one I've even spoken to from there is "SeekingintheDMV" (name on SA is "SeekingInDMV", which you can search by here), who others have met and have had reports about, but she's also on SA anyway, or was. Literally the only one out of 30+ women who have actually written me back with real intent. Even the ones who seem to have accounts on both sites don't respond when I say things on SA like, "Hey, you messaged me there, but you can talk to me here. " Its only value to me is trying to sniff out real from fake, and even that is of limited use.

**Norm Gerd** · 12-20-21 11:31

Originally Posted by NormGerd [View Original Post]

Chatting with this one out of DC. Anyone been here?

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...7-5d9f447ed88b

Norm!

After a lot of texting, and discussions about times to meet, asked for a $$$ pair of boots before we meet. Not happening. Says in her previous two arrangements she got spoiled before ever meeting. Quite frankly, if she expects the boots as a perk, she has GPS and not worth even having an intro meeting. On to the next one.

Norm!

**Norm Gerd** · 12-20-21 10:34

Originally Posted by Mongerian [View Original Post]

I saw in an email that they are raising prices in January.

If it wasn't bad enough with the almost complete takeover of the site by scammer / bots. Last week I was getting a few a daythey all start with the same script and it's really getting annoying and a waste of time.

I've had lots of fun with women off there, but it is getting way too costly in terms of money and time, even with the discounts they occasionally post. If they run a New Years deal (before the price increase), it may be my last time signing up.

What other sugar sites are worth the time and money? If any? Seeking benefits maybe?

I too have been pondering other sites, because this go round Seeking has sucked, as opposed to my last go round when it was just mediocre, but at least I wasn't swamped by scammers and south american profiles. Unfortunately, I don't see any better sites. Secret Benefits uses a credit system, which means if you reach out to a scammer its too bad, you used your credits.

My best SB experiences were all through craigslist and sd.com, which is no longer popular with the ladies (I think they pay on that site, while seeking is free for the ladies).

Hopefully in my last week on seeking something will pan out. I have been having super hot sexting (and regular texting too) with a lady I believe is genuine, but the holidays have made getting together tough. Still stuck on 2 meets. Hoping that improves before I time out.

Norm!

**Norm Gerd** · 12-20-21 10:29

Originally Posted by Boredguy25 [View Original Post]

Super eager to meet, but when I got 5 minutes away, started asking for gas money to get to me. Would not let me send uber or even meet at a public place for me to pick her up.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...a-2fd3acb827c9

Everything about that profile screams fake. I saw it and didn't even bother to write.

Norm!

**Norm Gerd** · 12-20-21 10:18

Originally Posted by RegJoe732 [View Original Post]

Kinmaebaby - https://members.seeking.com/member/7...b-52dbef008c04.

Total scammer. She or whoever convinced she was DTF by text, then took money for pics & vids that were not even her. Then ghosted me. Live and learn. Again. Yes. I know and feel like an idiot.

This is at least the third incarnation of this lady I have seen. She keeps deleting and remaking a profile with the same pics.

But the bigger question I have is with all the free porn on the internet, why would anyone pay for pictures to begin with?

Norm!

**Mongerian** · 12-20-21 08:26

I saw in an email that they are raising prices in January.

If it wasn't bad enough with the almost complete takeover of the site by scammer / bots. Last week I was getting a few a day—they all start with the same script and it's really getting annoying and a waste of time.

I've had lots of fun with women off there, but it is getting way too costly in terms of money and time, even with the discounts they occasionally post. If they run a New Years deal (before the price increase), it may be my last time signing up.

What other sugar sites are worth the time and money? If any? Seeking benefits maybe?

**Boredguy25** · 12-19-21 17:29

Super eager to meet, but when I got 5 minutes away, started asking for gas money to get to me. Would not let me send uber or even meet at a public place for me to pick her up.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...a-2fd3acb827c9