The Rat Trap

[Twist]

Better luck taming a tiger to be your house cat.

It can be done. But sometimes it ends badly.

[Under Mind]

Cheers to you, Vino. Well said. These girls are just people doing what the can to do life the way they know how. I enjoy a strong psychological component to the experience, and conversation is a big part of my foreplay. I enjoy the backstory immensely, and some of them have quite the tale to tell. I don't believe that anyone is ever helpless, and ultimately absolutely everything we do is a choice, but many girls didn't end up where they are by choice as much as by circumstance. I have many entertainer friends who I stopped seeing professionally, but with whom I maintained personal contacts. In my younger days I did run around with my Captain Save-A-Ho cape on trying to rescue these girls from their lives, but there is so much wrong with that, I don't even know where to start. They don't need saving from their lives. They are way too busy living them. And if you really think they do need saving from their lives, try checking out exactly what you have going on in yours. I am an executive white collar professional workaholic, and guess what. Most of these girls think I am a freakin' idiot for wasting so much of my life serving some company and sitting behind a desk. Some have even tried to save me from my miserable existence.

Whether we care to admit it or not, we spend our time and money in their company because we are lonely and want human attention and connection. For most of us males, a strong part of that is defined in our sexuality. Enjoy connecting with another human and celebrate that girl who was willing to take her time and devote it to you not feeling alone for a brief moment. She did more for you than most people in the world you have encountered ever could.

I think you guys are jumping to conclusions. Treating them decently, versus trying to walk them down the aisle are two different things.

All of you are correct in several aspects. Never fall in love with these girls. Try not to get too involved in their lives. Don't let them sucker you. Always keep your guard up. These are all good rules to monger by. I agree.

However, being a stand up kind of guy and showing that you appreciate what they do for us, usually works out well in my favor. In the end, to each his own but treating them right sure has been the way to go for me.

One other thing I will say: NOT treating these girls right has caused many awesome diamonds to quit the biz completely. Thus, fucking things up for everyone. Or, the ones that do stay in the biz become jaded and give uninspired service. So, thinking treating a girl shitty doesn't hurt anyone is the attitude of a pure piece of shit. Sadly, there's way too many of you guys out there and there's way too many of you guys on this great forum. My. 02.

[Twist]

Well put. It seems like a lot of members here are jaded with their mongering. There's mongering & then there's loneliness veiled with some odd "humanitarian" effort for someone literally charging you to have access to their body. I now understand why strippers have bouncers walk them out to their car at night. Some of you guys give off that stalking creeper vibe that have a false sense of a non-existent fantasized / romanticized relationship (s) that leads to obsession.

Again. Broad generalization about a person and situation you know barely anything about to rationalize a fucked up snap judgement.

[Twist]

This is where I get to see who the toxic assholes are; or at least who their alias is. Starting to figure these boards out.

[OldEnough]

I think you guys are jumping to conclusions. Treating them decently, versus trying to walk them down the aisle are two different things.

All of you are correct in several aspects. Never fall in love with these girls. Try not to get too involved in their lives. Don't let them sucker you. Always keep your guard up. These are all good rules to monger by. I agree.

However, being a stand up kind of guy and showing that you appreciate what they do for us, usually works out well in my favor. In the end, to each his own but treating them right sure has been the way to go for me.

One other thing I will say: NOT treating these girls right has caused many awesome diamonds to quit the biz completely. Thus, fucking things up for everyone. Or, the ones that do stay in the biz become jaded and give uninspired service. So, thinking treating a girl shitty doesn't hurt anyone is the attitude of a pure piece of shit. Sadly, there's way too many of you guys out there and there's way too many of you guys on this great forum. My. 02.

I'm in agreement with Vino on this topic. I only monger once every couple weeks and occasionally weekly. Since I started this hobby a little over 11 years ago I have had 4 girls I have seen on a regular basis. To this day I have remained friends with all 4 of them even though 3 are no longer active in the hobby. Personally I believe seeing them on a continued basis pays huge dividends. Whether it be better rates, extended time or things not on their regular menu that are offered to me. I've already bought a small gift for my current regular and know she has a gift for me. Anyway that's my opinion. I know it works for me.

[Bjceb]

My opinion there is nothing wrong with treating people the way you want to be treated.

I mostly deal with people on a very transactional basis, but always give respect. I also am quick to walk away and most likely to never return. We are blessed with lots of options here and I have no time or energy for the bs / drama!

Stay safe and have fun!

I am going to put my. 02 on this subject. Over my many decades of mongering, I have found that treating girls right and with respect, goes a long way. These girls have their many issues but they are still human beings in the end. They all have wants and needs. I have found that being decent to them will go a long way, especially if you like a regular rotation, like I do. The service level increases dramatically when they actually like being with you. It increases big time.

With that being said, I encourage all mongers to buy their fav girls' a Christmas present. If you can, wrap it up properly. If you can't wrap it, just giving it to her is fine. With some of them, it may be the one and only gift they receive this Christmas. It means a lot to them. You don't have to spend much, a Jackson or two, will do it.

[Pussy Smasher]

I'm one of those guys that just wants an outlet without the nonsense and drama that comes with dating. At the same time I also realize that they view me as a job they don't like and do what they must to get paid. I'm fine that because at the end of the day it's a business.

Better luck taming a tiger to be your house cat.

[ChaseL]

I agree. Treat everyone right but don't be a sucker. These lady's are not your friend or girlfriend. They view you as an ATM and can and will turn on you as the need for candy dictates. But it's your choice to do or not do more for them as I don't judge, condemn or praise either way. I have literally given a worker the jacket off my back, provided cash with no service involved, driven 1 hours to a safe location as I have stranded an attempted thief and rescued an underage girl from a gorilla pimp. My friendliness is reciprocal. I can be the nicest person in the world but in the end, I'm still a trick and to them, nothing more. Only fair, for to me they're only the next nut. I'm not looking for love or affection from these ho's. I get pussy but it's easier and less expensive, both emotionally and financially, with a ho. NC Hunter won't be donating gifts to ho's but if you do, Merry Christmas. To each his own.

Stay safe out there and happy hunting.

NC HUNTER.

Well put. It seems like a lot of members here are jaded with their mongering. There's mongering & then there's loneliness veiled with some odd "humanitarian" effort for someone literally charging you to have access to their body. I now understand why strippers have bouncers walk them out to their car at night. Some of you guys give off that stalking creeper vibe that have a false sense of a non-existent fantasized / romanticized relationship (s) that leads to obsession.

Never trust an addict.

Also, this.

[Vino 7373]

I think you guys are jumping to conclusions. Treating them decently, versus trying to walk them down the aisle are two different things.

All of you are correct in several aspects. Never fall in love with these girls. Try not to get too involved in their lives. Don't let them sucker you. Always keep your guard up. These are all good rules to monger by. I agree.

However, being a stand up kind of guy and showing that you appreciate what they do for us, usually works out well in my favor. In the end, to each his own but treating them right sure has been the way to go for me.

One other thing I will say: NOT treating these girls right has caused many awesome diamonds to quit the biz completely. Thus, fucking things up for everyone. Or, the ones that do stay in the biz become jaded and give uninspired service. So, thinking treating a girl shitty doesn't hurt anyone is the attitude of a pure piece of shit. Sadly, there's way too many of you guys out there and there's way too many of you guys on this great forum. My. 02.

[Dixen Cider]

I agree. Treat everyone right but don't be a sucker. These lady's are not your friend or girlfriend. They view you as an ATM and can and will turn on you as the need for candy dictates. But it's your choice to do or not do more for them as I don't judge, condemn or praise either way. I have literally given a worker the jacket off my back, provided cash with no service involved, driven 1 hours to a safe location as I have stranded an attempted thief and rescued an underage girl from a gorilla pimp. My friendliness is reciprocal. I can be the nicest person in the world but in the end, I'm still a trick and to them, nothing more. Only fair, for to me they're only the next nut. I'm not looking for love or affection from these ho's. I get pussy but it's easier and less expensive, both emotionally and financially, with a ho. NC Hunter won't be donating gifts to ho's but if you do, Merry Christmas. To each his own.

Stay safe out there and happy hunting.

NC HUNTER.

I'm one of those guys that just wants an outlet without the nonsense and drama that comes with dating. At the same time I also realize that they view me as a job they don't like and do what they must to get paid. I'm fine that because at the end of the day it's a business.

[Too40]

I agree. Treat everyone right but don't be a sucker. These lady's are not your friend or girlfriend. They view you as an ATM and can and will turn on you as the need for candy dictates. But it's your choice to do or not do more for them as I don't judge, condemn or praise either way. I have literally given a worker the jacket off my back, provided cash with no service involved, driven 1 hours to a safe location as I have stranded an attempted thief and rescued an underage girl from a gorilla pimp. My friendliness is reciprocal. I can be the nicest person in the world but in the end, I'm still a trick and to them, nothing more. Only fair, for to me they're only the next nut. I'm not looking for love or affection from these ho's. I get pussy but it's easier and less expensive, both emotionally and financially, with a ho. NC Hunter won't be donating gifts to ho's but if you do, Merry Christmas. To each his own.

Stay safe out there and happy hunting.

NC HUNTER.

Sounds like buddy is trying to walk a walking girl down the isle.

[Pussy Smasher]

Never trust an addict.

[NC Hunter]

I agree. Treat everyone right but don't be a sucker. These lady's are not your friend or girlfriend. They view you as an ATM and can and will turn on you as the need for candy dictates. But it's your choice to do or not do more for them as I don't judge, condemn or praise either way. I have literally given a worker the jacket off my back, provided cash with no service involved, driven 1 hours to a safe location as I have stranded an attempted thief and rescued an underage girl from a gorilla pimp. My friendliness is reciprocal. I can be the nicest person in the world but in the end, I'm still a trick and to them, nothing more. Only fair, for to me they're only the next nut. I'm not looking for love or affection from these ho's. I get pussy but it's easier and less expensive, both emotionally and financially, with a ho. NC Hunter won't be donating gifts to ho's but if you do, Merry Christmas. To each his own.

Stay safe out there and happy hunting.

NC HUNTER.

[SC James]

No wonder you can't even do one review. You are incapable of doing one. Just look at all your posts. Not one review! You are an absolute fucking joke!

You definitely can't tell me about my social security checks, I don't get one. Maybe you do, but I am not going to tell you how to spend your money. At the same time don't tell me how to spend mine. I earned mine, if you know what earned means. Yeah, you can voice your opinion, but no one is going to take you seriously. I am not here to convince you of anything. You are not me and you never will be. I look at the girls differently than you do. I see them as human beings who have their own personal life and issues. I spend time with my dates. I enjoy learning more about them and if appropriate, help them too. It may be just to buy them food or go all out taking them to detox. You look at them very differently, more like a suck, fuck and dump. Why don't you go to the Nashvilles at night. Where it is nice and dark. You can get all kinds of sucks, fucks and dump. Oh wait a minute, you don't have one fucking review. So maybe this forum is not for you.

Now as far as an exchange you talk about. Yes there is an exchange and what is wrong with that. Are you not doing the same thing. I have now done detox with girls three times, helping them to kick the habit. It isn't cheap and you probably won't believe me, it isn't fun either. You probably have never tried to detox a girl. You can't touch them, let alone trying to have fun with them. So the exchange for me is only the pleasure of helping them get a better life. That's it! No fun at all..

It is a good thing you are doing. And I'd have to say that pad doesn't look like it is paid for by social security checks!

[Willie24]

I am going to put my. 02 on this subject. Over my many decades of mongering, I have found that treating girls right and with respect, goes a long way. These girls have their many issues but they are still human beings in the end. They all have wants and needs. I have found that being decent to them will go a long way, especially if you like a regular rotation, like I do. The service level increases dramatically when they actually like being with you. It increases big time.

With that being said, I encourage all mongers to buy their fav girls' a Christmas present. If you can, wrap it up properly. If you can't wrap it, just giving it to her is fine. With some of them, it may be the one and only gift they receive this Christmas. It means a lot to them. You don't have to spend much, a Jackson or two, will do it.

I absolutely agree. I've been a hobbyist for twenty five years and I always bring a small bouquet of flowers to providers, especially on a first visit. It brakes the ice, brings a smile to their face and I'm usually rewarded with a great experience! It costs $10 at Publix but goes a long way towards showing them that we think of them as women. IMHO.