Arrangement Reports

[CBJlover]

I have used SA in Latin America many times before and it has been amazing. I use girls as tour guides and they show me amazing times, I find girls who can take me hiking mostly. I was in LA recently and had a few days left in my membership so decided to try it out here. Yea I head USA is the worst place for mongering and SA here even sucks, that's why I never wanted to try it. I only tried it one week here but yea lots of flakes, lots of pros, few of the broke college girl type dreams. I also am not rich like everyone else here who can afford USA prices LOL. All I wanted was a date and to pay for drinks to see what its like here.

I went on a date with tall sexy early 20's Asian chick. She was in college and was educated and actually normal. My plan was two drinks and go home. She seemed stuck up at first but after a lot of drinks we are making out at the bar, I bounce her to another bar and all we do is make out there I tell her I want to fuck her and she says she wants the same. I was super drunk. Skipped dinner and had tons of alcohol. Bad idea. We go to my car and I find a hotel and the magic happens. BBFS, CIM, three rounds, complete drunk GFE, we leave at 8 am. I never BBFS I am strongly against it (see username) for me I would have never done that sober, I can't believe she even let me drive how irresponsible of her, LOL. A mongering friend told me this only happened because I am attractive. Yea for an old monger LOL. When I drop her off I tell her I will pay her something, I think it is fair, I thought about ghosting her though, but I wanted to hit it sober this time. For date two she asks how much I will give her, I tell her 500 for our two dates, she says 600, I agree.

Date two was amazing also, lots of alcohol (we both like to drink) but I'm not blacking out this time, LOL. Two rounds covered like I like it, really good aggressive sex. I was DATY while fingering and she came so hard and was like what was that?. Was that my G spot? WTF no one ever did this to her? That my tip of the week LOL. She is amazing, special to me, real, my first and only SA America. I will never see her again tho LOL. 600 is crazy money for a small fry like me yea I make a lot but I too cheap to pay that much for pussy, it already commands to much power over me, I have to learn to tell myself no. When she hits me up next I will tell her I can wine and dine her and fly her to Cancun but I will never give her cash again. I can get still get NSA FWB for free. Yes older maybe not as hot but free LOL. I think there is a 10% chance she will see me again under these conditions, I tried my best to make her feel special, to seduce her, and to give the BFE (Boyfriend Experience) LOL.

Lessons. Always have condoms, don't get too drunk, price is what you pay value is what you get, FIRE.

Did I over or under pay her? Was my experience unique at all?

[RedHead169]

I was talking to this chick here in NJ and she said she had to deal with salt daddies who said they'd give her money but never actually wound up going through with it. Now she wants $$ no matter what happens, even just for coffee.

It really sucks this is happening but it seems like lot of guys ruined it for the rest of us with their scammer BS.

And how do you know that she isn't the one scamming you? She could tell you this sob story to make you feel sorry for her so that you will meet her for dinner / coffee and give her the money. Then she tells you she didn't feel a connection and wishes you luck. You are out the $$ and she did nothing for it.

[OnlyDreams]

I was talking to this chick here in NJ and she said she had to deal with salt daddies who said they'd give her money but never actually wound up going through with it. Now she wants $$ no matter what happens, even just for coffee.

It really sucks this is happening but it seems like lot of guys ruined it for the rest of us with their scammer BS.

Yes, once in a while some broke ass guy may still try to get a free hookup with a SB after a price has been already arranged. But again, if he doesn't have money I doubt he would be paying a monthly membership. However, that's the number one lie a lot of SA use to scam guys. Every single scammer I've come across who ask for money in advance have told me they've been ripped off by guys who didn't pay them. Many of those girls live in other cities / states but want you to believe they are local. But once you send them money, they will never show. Just don't fall for that trap. They will tell you all kinds of lies but never ever send money in advance.

[LolBoat]

Just curious to know what's the longest distance you guys have traveled to specifically see a sugar baby?

Mine is about 30 miles. There are a couple of girls that I'd love to see, one is in Michigan City Indiana and other north of Milwaukee.

I've gone on road trips precisely for this reason! Unfortunately due to the current situation we are in with the pandemic. If you want to tap some quality ass you're going to have travel.

if you find yourself in a B or C list city like say..Charlotte, NC or Madison, WI, etc ..set your search radius about 100 miles and stay on top of your messages for a week or so prior to you heading to your location. a few years ago i went down to florida and figured id just sign up for a memebership again once i got down there and it worked out good to be honest but the market was alot differnt back then (2016~2017) ..now you need to do recon about a week or two before hand. i wouldnt gamble like that anymore due to the increase in competition and lower quality women that are on there now.

But when I'm at home I try to cap it under 100 miles.

[Malfoy829]

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...8-187e4cbdffa0

This one is a pic seller and time waster. Shame, as her listed location (if true) is convenient for me.

[LolBoat]

I was talking to this chick here in NJ and she said she had to deal with salt daddies who said they'd give her money but never actually wound up going through with it. Now she wants $$ no matter what happens, even just for coffee.

It really sucks this is happening but it seems like lot of guys ruined it for the rest of us with their scammer BS.

[SgtSlapaHoe]

So you would go and meet her, give her the 300 plus dinner and if she agrees not to see you because of whatever reasons she may have, then you are out of 300 plus the tab and with no arrangement... does that sound like a "good deal"? LOL cmon! That's ridiculous.

I'm not saying agree w that tactic but I see his point. For guys seeking an allowance based quasi gf SB, I can see how that tactic can be more effective. Most guys on the board are looking for de facto hookers. If that's your bag then no, the strategy makes zero sense.

[OnlyDreams]

Just chatted with this one, she wants 300 just to meet her and discuss over dinner and if she agrees then you proceed to the allowance per. Sounds like another scammer or a hungry lady for a free dinner and easy buck.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-a32e9867e028

She gave me her phone number, (708) area code and the last 3 digits are 694.

She wants you to give her 300 on the first day you meet, it has to be at a restaurant and platonic only. She wants to make sure you are a real sugar daddy and not a broke ass pretending to be one. Then if there's is chemistry and she feels attracted to you she will let you know.

Do these women think guys are that stupid?

[OnlyDreams]

ArianaAries.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...6-568423da70b3

Talked with her. She's in the River North area. Wants 400 ppm, but she can host. Face pics are nice, but she obviously has implants, which I don't like. If you offer less or try to negotiate she'll block you. Ask me how I know.

Ari.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...a-1a5b677270bd

She's in the Libertyville area and can't host. She said she received 400 ppm in her previous arrangements and that's what she wants. If you offer less or try to negotiate she'll block you. Ask me how I know. LOL.

Arie gave me her phone number (818) area code and she got very offended when I tried to negotiate. She said if I go to a car dealer to buy a Ferrari, do they lower the price for me? My answer was: behind a car production there's technology, a team of engineers, experts, inventors, plant workers, etc, etc.

Unless she has a higher degree, speaks several languages, plays instruments, and has a lot of talents, then yes, but then again? Why would I need her to have those skills if I only want her to spread her legs?

The second girl on the other hand looks hot, nice body. I've been trying to get in touch with her for some time, she reads my messages, looks my profile periodically but never responds, but now I know she doesn't like to negotiate and also blocks you if you try it.

[GeorgeVerWest]

So you would go and meet her, give her the 300 plus dinner and if she agrees not to see you because of whatever reasons she may have, then you are out of 300 plus the tab and with no arrangement... does that sound like a "good deal"? LOL cmon! That's ridiculous.

A lot of guys avoid women who insist on terms like that but I actually prefer it. As long as they don't want the money before the meet I like that as a way to weed out escorts and identify women who could potentially be legit sugar babies.

[Jinurso]

Just chatted with this one, she wants 300 just to meet her and discuss over dinner and if she agrees then you proceed to the allowance per. Sounds like another scammer or a hungry lady for a free dinner and easy buck.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-a32e9867e028

A lot of guys avoid women who insist on terms like that but I actually prefer it. As long as they don't want the money before the meet I like that as a way to weed out escorts and identify women who could potentially be legit sugar babies.

[Zimbler]

ArianaAries.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...6-568423da70b3

Talked with her. She's in the River North area. Wants 400 ppm, but she can host. Face pics are nice, but she obviously has implants, which I don't like. If you offer less or try to negotiate she'll block you. Ask me how I know.

Ari.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...a-1a5b677270bd

She's in the Libertyville area and can't host. She said she received 400 ppm in her previous arrangements and that's what she wants. If you offer less or try to negotiate she'll block you. Ask me how I know. LOL.

[MnCuckold]

Haha. Yawn.

Considering exceptions to the rule, in the real world, in the wild, women prefer Alpha Males since the beginning of humanity and it happens in all animal species too. A lioness only wants to mate with the most dominant male. It's been scientifically proven and humans are not different to animas in that regards. Regardless if the guy has money or not, women prefer alpha men. It's in their subconscious. Some Alphas can be rich and successful and some alphas can be poor and a failure financially. Someone can be a doctor / lawyer / astronaut and on top of it be an alpha. On the other hand, somebody can be a convict / homeless and still be an alpha. Women since the beginning of humanity want a sense of protection /.

Security. The same way (taking exceptions into consideration) most men want a feminine and submissive wife / girlfriend, women want a man with confidence. In summary, being alpha has nothing to do with money, cockiness or physical strength. It's about confidence and mental strength.

[OnlyDreams]

Just curious to know what's the longest distance you guys have traveled to specifically see a sugar baby?

Mine is about 30 miles. There are a couple of girls that I'd love to see, one is in Michigan City Indiana and other north of Milwaukee.

[GeorgeVerWest]

Just chatted with this one, she wants 300 just to meet her and discuss over dinner and if she agrees then you proceed to the allowance per. Sounds like another scammer or a hungry lady for a free dinner and easy buck.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-a32e9867e028