Arrangement Reports

[SgtSlapaHoe]

So you would go and meet her, give her the 300 plus dinner and if she agrees not to see you because of whatever reasons she may have, then you are out of 300 plus the tab and with no arrangement... does that sound like a "good deal"? LOL cmon! That's ridiculous.

I'm not saying agree w that tactic but I see his point. For guys seeking an allowance based quasi gf SB, I can see how that tactic can be more effective. Most guys on the board are looking for de facto hookers. If that's your bag then no, the strategy makes zero sense.

[OnlyDreams]

Just chatted with this one, she wants 300 just to meet her and discuss over dinner and if she agrees then you proceed to the allowance per. Sounds like another scammer or a hungry lady for a free dinner and easy buck.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-a32e9867e028

She gave me her phone number, (708) area code and the last 3 digits are 694.

She wants you to give her 300 on the first day you meet, it has to be at a restaurant and platonic only. She wants to make sure you are a real sugar daddy and not a broke ass pretending to be one. Then if there's is chemistry and she feels attracted to you she will let you know.

Do these women think guys are that stupid?

[OnlyDreams]

ArianaAries.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...6-568423da70b3

Talked with her. She's in the River North area. Wants 400 ppm, but she can host. Face pics are nice, but she obviously has implants, which I don't like. If you offer less or try to negotiate she'll block you. Ask me how I know.

Ari.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...a-1a5b677270bd

She's in the Libertyville area and can't host. She said she received 400 ppm in her previous arrangements and that's what she wants. If you offer less or try to negotiate she'll block you. Ask me how I know. LOL.

Arie gave me her phone number (818) area code and she got very offended when I tried to negotiate. She said if I go to a car dealer to buy a Ferrari, do they lower the price for me? My answer was: behind a car production there's technology, a team of engineers, experts, inventors, plant workers, etc, etc.

Unless she has a higher degree, speaks several languages, plays instruments, and has a lot of talents, then yes, but then again? Why would I need her to have those skills if I only want her to spread her legs?

The second girl on the other hand looks hot, nice body. I've been trying to get in touch with her for some time, she reads my messages, looks my profile periodically but never responds, but now I know she doesn't like to negotiate and also blocks you if you try it.

[GeorgeVerWest]

So you would go and meet her, give her the 300 plus dinner and if she agrees not to see you because of whatever reasons she may have, then you are out of 300 plus the tab and with no arrangement... does that sound like a "good deal"? LOL cmon! That's ridiculous.

A lot of guys avoid women who insist on terms like that but I actually prefer it. As long as they don't want the money before the meet I like that as a way to weed out escorts and identify women who could potentially be legit sugar babies.

[Jinurso]

Just chatted with this one, she wants 300 just to meet her and discuss over dinner and if she agrees then you proceed to the allowance per. Sounds like another scammer or a hungry lady for a free dinner and easy buck.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-a32e9867e028

A lot of guys avoid women who insist on terms like that but I actually prefer it. As long as they don't want the money before the meet I like that as a way to weed out escorts and identify women who could potentially be legit sugar babies.

[Zimbler]

ArianaAries.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...6-568423da70b3

Talked with her. She's in the River North area. Wants 400 ppm, but she can host. Face pics are nice, but she obviously has implants, which I don't like. If you offer less or try to negotiate she'll block you. Ask me how I know.

Ari.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...a-1a5b677270bd

She's in the Libertyville area and can't host. She said she received 400 ppm in her previous arrangements and that's what she wants. If you offer less or try to negotiate she'll block you. Ask me how I know. LOL.

[MnCuckold]

Haha. Yawn.

Considering exceptions to the rule, in the real world, in the wild, women prefer Alpha Males since the beginning of humanity and it happens in all animal species too. A lioness only wants to mate with the most dominant male. It's been scientifically proven and humans are not different to animas in that regards. Regardless if the guy has money or not, women prefer alpha men. It's in their subconscious. Some Alphas can be rich and successful and some alphas can be poor and a failure financially. Someone can be a doctor / lawyer / astronaut and on top of it be an alpha. On the other hand, somebody can be a convict / homeless and still be an alpha. Women since the beginning of humanity want a sense of protection /.

Security. The same way (taking exceptions into consideration) most men want a feminine and submissive wife / girlfriend, women want a man with confidence. In summary, being alpha has nothing to do with money, cockiness or physical strength. It's about confidence and mental strength.

[OnlyDreams]

Just curious to know what's the longest distance you guys have traveled to specifically see a sugar baby?

Mine is about 30 miles. There are a couple of girls that I'd love to see, one is in Michigan City Indiana and other north of Milwaukee.

[GeorgeVerWest]

Just chatted with this one, she wants 300 just to meet her and discuss over dinner and if she agrees then you proceed to the allowance per. Sounds like another scammer or a hungry lady for a free dinner and easy buck.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-a32e9867e028

[OnlyDreams]

I think I posted this before but the girls who are looking for relationships on SA are usually in their late 20's / early 30's and are running out of options. Most of the guys they meet in their personal circle of friends or other dating sites are losers who don't make enough money or any money at all.

I've had a few proposition me for dating as well and I always declined as I don't want to meet someone on a sugarbaby site for a LTR.

Its 100% clown world out there.

Yes, it could be true but the assumption on SA is that sugar babies look for sugar daddies (Guys with money) Women even in their 40's can find relationships anywhere, whether they go to the mall, grocery store, church, bingo event or on any of the thousands of existing dating sites. They come on SA not for just any relationship but for guys with money that can provide them financial security. Pretty much like gold diggers. It's like us, How many of us go on SA to look for a relationship? I'm sure some guys do but the exception is not the rule.

[OnlyDreams]

I just want to share an unusual kind of funny experience. Like 7-8 years ago there was a young girl who would post on Craigslist for fetish services under casual encounters category (she has never posted on any escort sites, she doesn't consider herself an escort).

It was a pain to get her phone number but finally I was able to get it. She looked sexy as hell and had an incredible body (from the pics she sent).

But in order to see her, you had to fulfill her wishlist first. She wanted you to buy her expensive stuff from Amazon and other online stores and the first meet had to be at a fancy restaurant and no intimacy, just talk. It all sounded like a scam and of course I never bought anything for her but was intrigued to know who she was. She would keep sending me naughty pics but as hard as I tried to offer her other alternatives in order to meet her, she wouldn't change her mind.

Then a several years later, around 2019 when I was introduced to SA, I came across her profile. I recognized some of the pictures she posted on her private photos. After a couple of weeks she finally gave me her phone number and Voila!

It was the very same number she had given me on Craigstlist many years ago. She didn't recognize me at all (I didn't expect), we texted but she wasn't very responsive. Then the pandemic hit, and out of the blue she texted me but wanted 500 for a meet and still sex wasn't warrantied. I've never paid that much to any woman in my life, but I was very intrigued about her.

I knew she wasn't a scammer, she was willing to meet in person but still her price was out of reach for me. I offer her 250 and tried hard to negotiate off and on for a year and nothing worked. Then one day around 2 am she texted and told me she needs money to pay for her rent and would accept my offer but had to see her within a couple of hours.

I was able to get a room and finally met her. Her face is a 5 her body a 7. She's a little above average but nothing spectacular like the professional pics she had sent me before. But what thing that disappointed me was her lack of hygiene. I thought maybe it was a busy day for her and gave her the doubt benefit. Then a couple of days later she texted me asking if I wanted to see her again, I wanted to give her another chance, booked a room and everything but still it looked she hasn't showered in days. I mean, she's not bad looking and the sex is good, but her poor hygiene is what bothers me. Eventually she became a semi regular and goes what?

Now I see her for 100 per meet, all holes available and bare if I wanted to. Sometimes her schedule can be tight since I found out she's a kindergarten teacher. If you google her phone number, her personal information pops up. I don't understand why she doesn't use a burner phone for her side business (SA). She's a nice girl, but the experience could be better if she took her of her hygiene. I'm sure some of you guys may have seen her. I'm not going to share her profile or phone number, but if you been with a girl who has a nice tattoo of a flower and butterfly on her left arm and lives in Edgwater, then you know whom I'm talking about. Is she going to offer me free meet-ups? I don't think so, because she lives from pay check to paycheck and has a big shopping addiction (hence she's on SA).

Does she have a husband / boyfriend? I don't know but that's not my concern. But one thing that I know is the fact she loves sex and you can negotiate with some women according to certain circumstances. She's my regular now, but I'm always in search for better or at least for someone what takes better care of her hygiene.

[LolBoat]

I think I posted this before but the girls who are looking for relationships on SA are usually in their late 20's / early 30's and are running out of options. Most of the guys they meet in their personal circle of friends or other dating sites are losers who don't make enough money or any money at all.

I've had a few proposition me for dating as well and I always declined as I don't want to meet someone on a sugarbaby site for a LTR.

Its 100% clown world out there.

[Jinurso]

Gold diggers try to max the ppm. I've had a couple relationships that didn't need the money (both came from wealthy parents) and had no issues playing for free.

Yeah, SA is a mixed bag of motivations. Some of them are literally escorts who just advertise on SA. Some of them are sugar babies who want some sort of ongoing financial sponsorship from men but with no commitment beyond the parameters of the arrangement, and some are playing the long game to find rich boyfriends or husbands and don't necessarily need money, they just want proof that the lifestyle the man is advertising is legit and that she can be part of it.

[DynoJr]

Isn't that an accurate description of almost all the girls on that site? Its not match.com.

Gold diggers try to max the ppm. I've had a couple relationships that didn't need the money (both came from wealthy parents) and had no issues playing for free.

[JustinFields]

This is absolutely wrong. I've hit a dry patch the last few months. But I went on two dinner dates with a 19 yo Ten who I messaged on Instagram who goes to Grand Valley State and I offered her $2000 for the first two dates, paid up front and she was like, "I thought I could do it, but I just can't. I respect myself too much, yada, yada. ".

Then I struck out in Los Angeles and ended up eventually getting a girl from SA to visit my hotel room for $400 who was closer to Pro than semi-pro and it was fine, but I was bored and didn't want her to stay longer than she had to.

Then I spent three dates trying to get a Ten from Northwest Indiana to fuck me, even going so far as to take a day off work to work with her schedule and we discussed an allowance and she talked me up to $1000 per date and then she flaked out on me before we had a real date, hurting my self confidence.

Then this week in Manhattan I met a 19 yo Nine off tinder and told her I was interested in being her sugar daddy and she not only fucked me just for dinner and an Uber but let me film her giving me a BJ. There's two girls in this story who if they had fucked me would have been nothing like an escort--their standards were incredibly high--and then one who did fuck me for money just like she would have fucked anyone who opened the hotel room door; she couldn't be any different from the one who fucked me for a plate of pasta and an Uber from St John's University to Manhattan.

The bottom line is those girls that turned you down to fuck for 1 k will fuck another guy for free by going to his place and watching Netflix. The pro you fucked for 400 does the same, my point is what we do on SA is not real life. There is nothing wrong with that, I have had great time fucking girls from SA but I know at the end of the day what it is.

The only girls I can say are truly attracted to me are the girls I end up banging for free off of SA. If I pay I assume they are on it strictly for the money. It doesn't make me sad, LOL I still pound them and have a great time but I know what it is.