"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**ShoreDog** · 12-07-21 05:10

Originally Posted by BobLobLa [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...3-52d060779b50 -- hard to tell just how average the body is. Texted pics have little lighting / dark. But she sure does talk a good game. $300 PPM, multiple times a month ideally. Can host. Tatoos arent consistent in profile pics, but that might be becauyse some are older. Texted pics are consistent.

You said that you report girls who talk about PPM. Did you report her? I hope not, it's pretty rare to find somebody who will go as low as 300 anymore on SA.

**Jwlgn309** · 12-06-21 22:04

Originally Posted by SBmidlo [View Original Post]

Interesting post on the second one over on the NOVA board:

"Messaged this slag and she immediately was down to business. That's usually a red flag but I wanted to see where she was going. She wanted to meet the next day, in Fredericksburg not Richmond, and for $$$ film everything for her husband.

Hard pass but maybe that is someone else's fantasy.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-b35c78154d9c".

She strung me along for a bit as well. Got to snap fairly quickly, I offered 300, she said sure she'll be over in an hour. Gets close to that time, and she says, "block me on SA, hubs got on my phone". Which, like, what phone is SHE snapping me from then? I ask if she's still on her way, she says yea, then ten minutes later I get "don't add anyone else on snap if they try", then a few minutes later I'm blocked. Either she legit got busted, or was never going to come anyway. Either way, no great loss, more money in my pocket for another day.

**SBmidlo** · 12-06-21 15:50

Originally Posted by BobLobLa [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...3-52d060779b50 -- hard to tell just how average the body is. Texted pics have little lighting / dark. But she sure does talk a good game. $300 PPM, multiple times a month ideally. Can host. Tatoos arent consistent in profile pics, but that might be becauyse some are older. Texted pics are consistent.

She's been around a while. Has a reputation for being a flake. Search for Amberrvaxo or Amber to see previous posts about her. And ones posted by Kevin C.

**BobLobLa** · 12-06-21 15:41

Had a couple of interesting convos with a mid 30's hottie. She showed me a few messages from several guys in the 30's, who basically were saying "Ill bang you well, you'll have the pleasure of experiencing my body" and nothing more.

**BobLobLa** · 12-06-21 15:38

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...3-52d060779b50 -- hard to tell just how average the body is. Texted pics have little lighting / dark. But she sure does talk a good game. $300 PPM, multiple times a month ideally. Can host. Tatoos arent consistent in profile pics, but that might be becauyse some are older. Texted pics are consistent.

**BigOne73** · 12-04-21 07:23

Originally Posted by BobLobLa [View Original Post]

If they mention PPM I report them.

If they say they just want to sell pics / vids, I report them under COMMERCIAL ACTIVITY.

If they are using fake pics I report them.

Have to cover your ass. Not sure you earn any brownie points, but I'd rather draw first than have them report me because I called them out -- which you should never do. A woman scorned and all that.

I used to report the girls on SA. I quickly realized that it only takes them about 10 minutes to create another account and then I don't know it's them. Now I just write down their username and block them. I don't want them coming back under another username where I can't protect myself. SA states that you can't talk about PPM because they don't want to get rated by the FBI for prostition. The majority of men and women on SA are going to be PPM because I'm certainly not going to pay someone a month's worth of money in advance and then have her disappear on me. I am also sure that there aren't any girls out there letting us fuck them with the promise of getting money later. Unless you find a really stupid one, you got to go PPM. We all know that SA is not match.com, but even the girls on match.com will ghost you if they find someone better so never pay an advance. Always go PPM. Then everyone is satisfied after you meet.

**LikItFun** · 12-03-21 16:23

Originally Posted by Walruscl [View Original Post]

I semi-recently had an SB send me a lengthy message with her (absurdly high) PPM and M&G pricings, and shortly afterward the account went dark. I'm assuming that she got suspended, because a week or two later she had a new profile. So the risk of losing her by asking to go to text is offset by the higher risk that you get suspended for engaging in PPM discussions. And do it sooner than later since you risk her account getting suspended.

"Let's switch to text or an app so we can discuss details and not get in trouble with the Seeking moderators" is what I send. It works or it doesn't, but I've never had any trouble with the moderators. .

**Hungre1234** · 12-03-21 14:40

Originally Posted by ColinRva [View Original Post]

Any info on this beauty?

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...b-cc1feba2efb9

She's a freak if you can get her to reply (which is 90% of the battle) but you better have deep pockets because that pretty smile would cost you 1 k per date.

**Member #6575** · 12-03-21 14:14

I am seeing a defined uptick in girls who play all coy -- and I am waiting for the scam to go to a pay site -- but then get an offer to M&G.

A few more messages and they say very nicely that they do expect to be compensated for their time for meeting. As their time is valuable (like ours is not).

I reply that I give no cash for M&G and lunch / drinks / whatever is compensation.

With MANY lately that is the last I hear (except crickets).

These girls are experienced and milking the system. It is a numbers game -- the second you are identified as no pay M&G. You are GONE.

They do not report -- as they want to get others. They are careful what they say so do not get banned.

I am pretty sure the word is getting around that this is a pretty good scam for girls willing to do M&G. But who would NEVER open their legs! One M&G payout and move on. Get two or three of these and it is as much as one fuck!

SATraveler.

**JWalker350** · 12-03-21 11:07

Originally Posted by IbDaddy [View Original Post]

Does anyone have any intel on this one below? I was really interested in this one and offered a meet & greet for this weekend and she said yes until the next message from her was is she getting compensated for that. I replied that I don't pay for a M&G but she was getting a free dinner or drinks of her choice of place and if we both wanted to proceed then talks and discussions would occur for time, she has gone silent since. No biggie cause I refuse to pay for M&G but just curious if anyone else has intel. TIA. https://members.seeking.com/member/0...2-7d6f166965c7.

I do not know her but from her profile, she has been on SA for 5 years. She is an experienced SB. Do not pay for M&G. If SD hold the line, the girls will eventually drop the idea of asking pay for M&G. It does not make sense to pay for watching someone drinking and eating.

**SBmidlo** · 12-03-21 10:50

Originally Posted by ColinRva [View Original Post]

Any info on this beauty?

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...b-cc1feba2efb9

No personal experience but see posts #2541 and 20543.

**VAvet** · 12-03-21 10:40

Originally Posted by EasyGuy69 [View Original Post]

Anyone had dealings with this one recently on SA? Any info is helpful. Thanks.

She's legit, actually looks better naked than with clothes but nothing too special. All I got was an amazing BBBJCIM but her prices were high she wanted 250 for that won't repeat.

**ColinRva** · 12-03-21 09:15

Any info on this beauty?

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...b-cc1feba2efb9

**IbDaddy** · 12-03-21 06:59

Does anyone have any intel on this one below? I was really interested in this one and offered a meet & greet for this weekend and she said yes until the next message from her was is she getting compensated for that. I replied that I don't pay for a M&G but she was getting a free dinner or drinks of her choice of place and if we both wanted to proceed then talks and discussions would occur for time, she has gone silent since. No biggie cause I refuse to pay for M&G but just curious if anyone else has intel. TIA. https://members.seeking.com/member/0...2-7d6f166965c7.

**FarFarAway** · 12-02-21 16:19

Originally Posted by Walruscl [View Original Post]

I semi-recently had an SB send me a lengthy message with her (absurdly high) PPM and M&G pricings, and shortly afterward the account went dark. I'm assuming that she got suspended, because a week or two later she had a new profile. So the risk of losing her by asking to go to text is offset by the higher risk that you get suspended for engaging in PPM discussions. And do it sooner than later since you risk her account getting suspended.

Risk losing her by asking to text?? If you can't get a girl to text you off the site, there's no point. If you want to M&G, in my experience, you have to have a phone conversation first, otherwise there's a very very high probability she doesn't show up. Even if I speak w / a girl by phone, my deal-breaker, there's a 50/50 chance she ghosts. But then, that is what you get when you are trying to bag real amateurs. The convo here about whether these girls are hooking is laughable. Most of the ones I target are clearly not in business, if they were, they'd never make a living at it because they are so skittish. If I do get one to the FC, I am sure they are low mileage. I was chatting w / a POT the last month, she told me her 'body count' was 5, and I believe her.