WYP, SA, and other SD sites

**Norm Gerd** · 12-02-21 14:19

Originally Posted by Itfcd [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...a-fd7827d85074

It's worth stating this one is very new. New account, and new to this. I was as gentle as I could be about expectations and figures, but she still seemed distressed by putting a number on sex with her. "I'm not trying to get paid for sex. That's not what these are" she said. Well, don't be so sure, little girl. She's cute, so maybe I should have just agreed to her ask (she wanted 5 bills) and broken her in. Guess someone else will have to do it, or she'll just quit if she's really that uncomfortable with the reality of these sites.

You are approaching this all wrong when you say "don't be so sure little girl". I know you didn't say that to her. But more than half of these ladies are under the illusion they are not sex workers. The professional will quote you a number for a straight sex meetup. The amateurs need the illusion that there is something more here, I. E. Just a relationship "without strings". My advice is to play into that. I have seen a lot of mongers be very successful with this approach. There used to be a guy who posted on the LA sugar baby section of this site who had great advice for making it seem like they weren't selling sex. I don't remember his name, it was a few years ago. It really worked well.

Norm!

P.S. Don't pay 500. That just encourages more price gouging when she tells her friends. I just got an email from a SB who is into BDSM and she wants 600 to spend 5 hours together. Given the huge amount of time, I am considering it...haven't said yes...plus, well, she's kinky! lol

**Itfcd** · 12-02-21 11:50

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...a-fd7827d85074

It's worth stating this one is very new. New account, and new to this. I was as gentle as I could be about expectations and figures, but she still seemed distressed by putting a number on sex with her. "I'm not trying to get paid for sex. That's not what these are" she said. Well, don't be so sure, little girl. She's cute, so maybe I should have just agreed to her ask (she wanted 5 bills) and broken her in. Guess someone else will have to do it, or she'll just quit if she's really that uncomfortable with the reality of these sites.

**Mongerian** · 12-02-21 09:03

I was chatting with her and everything seemed ok, her ask was 350.

Didn't want to pursue with your experiences with her and I don't like giving that much.

Originally Posted by ProCatHunter [View Original Post]

So she returns my texts all apologetic and super sweet. Tells me she was available last night and that she would DEFINITELY make sure she made it up to me when we met in person. I let my little head get the best of me, despite the OP and the no show from Monday. We meet up, have drinks, and she goes a bit crazy ordering off the menu. Whatever. Night is getting late and she asks me to make us hotel reservations. Too late to make a reservation that I can cancel and too late to book a Dayuse room.

Decide that I can book when I get to the place if we get that far, So I select a mid / low grade establishment and tell her to follow me. She asks for the allowance up front and I gently let her know that I don't do that. Things got nasty from there. She made a pretty big scene at the restaurant calling me all sorts of names.

Don't bother with this one. She is completely damaged in the head.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...d-cef81766eebc

**ProCatHunter** · 12-02-21 08:34

This is a first. I've run into lots of profiles that want to add I Instagram followers or want you to go to the strip club to tip them. But first time I met a lady who wanted me to follow her twitch stream. Would add her link but got blocked when I made a comment about wanting to meet in real life and not the metaverse.

**Biggyv** · 12-02-21 08:08

(Can't provide a link since she's blocked me).

I'm not sure about this one. Messaged late last night asking if I wanted to get together. I had an itch and enjoy a bigger girl now and then so I said sure. Moved to text and immediately agreed to $$, asked if I wanted to stay overnight. Was really explicit over text, pics etc. And asked me to come over ASAP. Gave me an address that's an apartment building on Moravia in a somewhat suspect part of NE Baltimore. Just got the sense that something was fishy, so I told her I forgot about an early meeting I had this morning, hit up PH and went to bed LOL.

So she could be legit but I'd just say tread a bit carefully.

**Baltmonger69** · 12-01-21 20:41

Originally Posted by Itfcd [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...9-d83bd12f3ae6

This one's a bit unusual. Says she's looking for a "live-in" arrangement. Reiterated as much when I messaged her. I suppose she means moving in with someone, because why would she want someone who would be willing to move in with her? Either way, that's a new one I hadn't seen before. If anyone else manages to get her to budge from that, or if you recognize her photos and she's fake or something, good job.

I decided to have a little fun with this one and play along. She wants 500 a week, her own room, and to also be fed. I countered with 250, room for her stuff but she should be sleeping with me every night and also make herself available to me whenever I wanted and had to be on BC. She said no to BC and she won't take any less than 500.

**MilesNoDavis** · 12-01-21 20:13

Tsunami. I hate to drive so she can't have it anymore, but super fun.

X3.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...d-6797d7ae84d8

ACH.

X3 - drives and wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy sexier in person. No mic skillls, but seeks to please (cost of living in PA, I prob could have have done x2).

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...6-257cb4bc20aa

Avaaaaril3 yyyy (the 3 is an e).

X3 in PA, but in MD often. Way to much work.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...3-98a39cd2aa32

Clark. Married lesbian in an open relationship (not giving any details. Shoot your shot).

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...f-0d0162341f1b

== Having lots of fun on WYP ==.

Cheat Code. Edit your profile to exaplin what it costs to message them. Initially all my offers were over 150. I now have 65 current offers of $10. And almost 20 asking me to suggest the price. Four dates so far 3 smashed, the fourth will be this weekend. Two in particular that I'm simply messaging are likely to go into my rotation.

**Norm Gerd** · 12-01-21 16:02

Originally Posted by ProCatHunter [View Original Post]

Any chance you're willing to share her profile for the rest of us mongers? Also, if you share a mutual Facebook friend, possibility she recognized you and got scared you would do the same?

She has blocked me, so I can't get to her page. I don't think she recognized me, because there was no way she would know how to find my profile, and mine is private. She gave me her name (it the same across social media) so I was easily able to find her. I discovered last night that she went back and blocked me on the site where I sent the picture. That is a fake account I use for SD dating.

Norm!

**BuffBill75** · 12-01-21 14:55

Originally Posted by ProCatHunter [View Original Post]

So she returns my texts all apologetic and super sweet. Tells me she was available last night and that she would DEFINITELY make sure she made it up to me when we met in person. I let my little head get the best of me, despite the OP and the no show from Monday. We meet up, have drinks, and she goes a bit crazy ordering off the menu. Whatever. Night is getting late and she asks me to make us hotel reservations. Too late to make a reservation that I can cancel and too late to book a Dayuse room.

Decide that I can book when I get to the place if we get that far, So I select a mid / low grade establishment and tell her to follow me. She asks for the allowance up front and I gently let her know that I don't do that. Things got nasty from there. She made a pretty big scene at the restaurant calling me all sorts of names.

Don't bother with this one. She is completely damaged in the head.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...d-cef81766eebc

I would never do anything because I have too much to lose. This lady is playing a dangerous game. She's going to mess with the wrong person one day.

**ProCatHunter** · 12-01-21 14:13

So she returns my texts all apologetic and super sweet. Tells me she was available last night and that she would DEFINITELY make sure she made it up to me when we met in person. I let my little head get the best of me, despite the OP and the no show from Monday. We meet up, have drinks, and she goes a bit crazy ordering off the menu. Whatever. Night is getting late and she asks me to make us hotel reservations. Too late to make a reservation that I can cancel and too late to book a Dayuse room.

Decide that I can book when I get to the place if we get that far, So I select a mid / low grade establishment and tell her to follow me. She asks for the allowance up front and I gently let her know that I don't do that. Things got nasty from there. She made a pretty big scene at the restaurant calling me all sorts of names.

Don't bother with this one. She is completely damaged in the head.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...d-cef81766eebc

Originally Posted by ProCatHunter [View Original Post]

She was a no show. Got blocked on SA and stopped responding to my text messages. Wouldn't be surprised if some white knight told her about this site. She's from the same state that gave us the island bois, so not terribly surprised. Just glad I didn't book a hotel in advance. Had a drink at the bar while I waited and then left after she didn't return my text message.

**ProCatHunter** · 12-01-21 06:09

Originally Posted by NormGerd [View Original Post]

Her account is still live. She literally blocked me less than one minute after I sent the photo. Not a fashion issue, I am dressed well. Just personal taste for sure, but she was so freaking hot. Also on the young-ish side at 24. But damn I wanted to bang her after seeing her face! LOL.

Sent the same photo to a couple of other women (one on IG, not SA). Both responded positively. One additional lady hasn't responded, but not blocked. Could be a normal delay. Not a 400lb dude, her social media was legit, its actually open, and found her Facebook page too. We have a mutual friend.

Norm!

Any chance you're willing to share her profile for the rest of us mongers? Also, if you share a mutual Facebook friend, possibility she recognized you and got scared you would do the same?

**Michael Taylor** · 11-30-21 21:49

Originally Posted by Itfcd [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...9-d83bd12f3ae6

This one's a bit unusual. Says she's looking for a "live-in" arrangement. Reiterated as much when I messaged her. I suppose she means moving in with someone, because why would she want someone who would be willing to move in with her? Either way, that's a new one I hadn't seen before. If anyone else manages to get her to budge from that, or if you recognize her photos and she's fake or something, good job.

Something tells me that she's the kind of girl that moves in, but never moves out. Ha.

**Norm Gerd** · 11-30-21 18:38

Originally Posted by ProCatHunter [View Original Post]

Never got to the discussion of allowance. She wanted more pics from me, and I decided not to pursue. She's a tall drink of water though.

Basically after seeing two photos of me her next question was allowance. I was shocked, but she claims an Ivy League education, so her self worth is probably quite high. I wanted to reply that I could get a model quality escort twice for that price, but just let it be with a polite no. No need to stir anything up.

Norm!

**Norm Gerd** · 11-30-21 18:34

Originally Posted by ProCatHunter [View Original Post]

Maybe you don't fit her fashion style? Girls are weird. I've been blocked by the same girl I later banged after setting up a new profile. Same private pic. Could also be that she found a SD and deactivated her profile between when you sent her your pic; or she could've been a scammer who is really a 400 lb dude sitting in his basement and another monger reported the account after you sent your pic (assuming you don't have a burner to check if that's the case).

Her account is still live. She literally blocked me less than one minute after I sent the photo. Not a fashion issue, I am dressed well. Just personal taste for sure, but she was so freaking hot. Also on the young-ish side at 24. But damn I wanted to bang her after seeing her face! LOL.

Sent the same photo to a couple of other women (one on IG, not SA). Both responded positively. One additional lady hasn't responded, but not blocked. Could be a normal delay. Not a 400lb dude, her social media was legit, its actually open, and found her Facebook page too. We have a mutual friend.

Norm!

**ProCatHunter** · 11-30-21 18:27

Originally Posted by NormGerd [View Original Post]

Asked for 7 bills. That's a no from me dog! Even though she is 100% my type...looks like a debutante. Love waspy ladies.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...f-104f3ca271bc

Norm!

Never got to the discussion of allowance. She wanted more pics from me, and I decided not to pursue. She's a tall drink of water though.