Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[Hiamey]

Any info on this Diva.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...9-bbd793069041

[Djapa1234]

Stay with the 25-40 single moms and you will find a whole lot less nonsense and a whole lot more action. They're overworked and underappreciated. If they will engage in an intelligent text conversation over several days, they're a lot more likely to follow through. And there's a whole lot of them looking to be treated nicely. Last time out, I met seven, banged five without m / g, banged four more than once, never paid more than 250 ppm and found a keeper that's lasted more than a year. Single means less likely to be committed to the program, under 25 means a whole lot more work and a whole lot more drama.

Yep, I cannot disagree. Most women I had success with were single moms, mostly older, or girls from out of town where I supposed they are not as inundated as here in Charlotte.

I am still hesitant to get these women to come straight over to my place, I've had some bad experiences where I had to turn them away as I was being catfished like a mofo.

[Emjay]

That sounds disgusting, LOL.

You have a link to that poster's review? Was it Charlotte or outside of Charlotte area, do you know?

I tried reaching out but she did not respond. I have seen another poster mention he came in her ass.

[PSeries]

Just curious, am I the only one who has met and smashed this one? BTW, this is a very old picture and she looks way bigger in life.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...c-c0fd605db839

Please report. She is very active on SA. I paid her zero dollars.

I tried reaching out but she did not respond. I have seen another poster mention he came in her ass.

[John HandCock]

I pay my current SB an "allowance" because it helps her convince herself that she's not be a hooker. LOL.

But in reality I see her once a week, then on Friday I Venmo her 1/4th of her monthly allowance, unless for some reason we couldn't meet up. Then she doesn't get paid.

So in reality it's no different than a ppm, but she thinks it is. Whatever. I play that dumb game for a cute and sweet 25 year old.

Exactly, no matter how you spin it it's ppm. I have tried allowance, paid at first of month and then it was up to the girl to make the meetings work. First time worked perfect for over a year. We moved on and my next 2 attempts the girls took the money and never heard from them again. So after that it's strictly ppm.

[Emjay]

Any insight into Mysterious Wonder? Anyone met her and smashed her? LOL.

Please PM if you can.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...1-548750a8c178

[Hal1957]

Stay with the 25-40 single moms and you will find a whole lot less nonsense and a whole lot more action. They're overworked and underappreciated. If they will engage in an intelligent text conversation over several days, they're a lot more likely to follow through. And there's a whole lot of them looking to be treated nicely. Last time out, I met seven, banged five without m / g, banged four more than once, never paid more than 250 ppm and found a keeper that's lasted more than a year. Single means less likely to be committed to the program, under 25 means a whole lot more work and a whole lot more drama.

I agree, SA is crap ton of work. Getting numbers is super easy, but in the months prior to me stopping my paid membership, I must have gotten at least 200 numbers total and only got laid 4 times. Most of the women I talk to are either time wasters, want money upfront, scammers, etc. I am tempted to get back on it but my work productivity was dramatically down and have also wasted lots of time on meet and greets where women turned out to be catfishes. If I do get back on it, I will most likely make it a requirement to call / face time within several messages to diminish the time wasted.

[Bruco]

I think 300-400 is the norm for a pay per meet, sometimes less sometimes more, never heard of anyone paying these women allowances.

I pay my current SB an "allowance" because it helps her convince herself that she's not be a hooker. LOL.

But in reality I see her once a week, then on Friday I Venmo her 1/4th of her monthly allowance, unless for some reason we couldn't meet up. Then she doesn't get paid.

So in reality it's no different than a ppm, but she thinks it is. Whatever. I play that dumb game for a cute and sweet 25 year old.

[John Marigold]

I have not had any issues getting my credit card accepted at SB. You may want to try calling your credit card bank right before you're ready to try making the purchase again and notify them that you will be making a purchase for a certain amount and that you want the transaction to be processed. Tell them that it's for secretbenefits dot com and the descriptor is SEGPAY dot com (that is what will appear on your statement). This should work. Good luck!

How do you get on SB? It won't take any of my cards. From Credit Cards to Debit Cards. I even bought an visa card, put money on it and ti still declined it.

Do I need to go higher? I just take the lowest token which is $59.

[Djapa1234]

Just curious, am I the only one who has met and smashed this one? BTW, this is a very old picture and she looks way bigger in life.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...c-c0fd605db839

Please report. She is very active on SA. I paid her zero dollars.

[Djapa1234]

I'm meeting a MILF next week, upper 30's pretty and fit, but not 19 anymore. She actually seems kind of cool / charming and I prefer women over girls. I've been reading about sugar relationships and I've seen everything from $350 a meeting to $15 k a month.

Assuming I actually like this woman, what would you pay for a ppm? Can you keep it as a ppm or does it always go to an allowance?

Kindly give me some direct advice. It seems like the more I research the less I know.

I think 300-400 is the norm for a pay per meet, sometimes less sometimes more, never heard of anyone paying these women allowances.

[Djapa1234]

How do you get on SB? It won't take any of my cards. From Credit Cards to Debit Cards. I even bought an visa card, put money on it and ti still declined it.

Do I need to go higher? I just take the lowest token which is $59.

I have never tried it before. But seems to me you may have to get a walmart gift card, register the address online and then try again.

Major US bank credit cards are usually NOT working on these prostitution sites LOL.

[Djapa1234]

This one is real but is also a flake. I gave her a little upfront in exchange for some pics and vids which were pretty good stuff before the promised date. But she went ghost on me when it came time to meetup. Not answering my text or snap messages however still has audacity to request money through cashapp every few days. I'm not giving it but anyway YMMV but I doubt she ever agrees to meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...e-40c2e8432758

She asked me to go meet her at her place of employment, was a waitress in lake wylie I think a few months back. I never go meet them at their place of "employment" LOL.

[Djapa1234]

I post public pics that don't show my face and then post the rest of my pics privately and share to select profiles I am interested in. This helps me obtain about a 30-40% conversion rate from message to receiving number. But SA is a lot of work and you need some time to be able to message / flirt / meet and greet etc.

Don't get me wrong it's usually worth it. Personally I've creampied both a professional athlete and model in the past year from SA but it takes time and effort on par with dating. Sometimes its better to go to a parlor and get full service for just over $200 bucks and the only time you have to invest is going to the parlor.

I agree, SA is crap ton of work. Getting numbers is super easy, but in the months prior to me stopping my paid membership, I must have gotten at least 200 numbers total and only got laid 4 times. Most of the women I talk to are either time wasters, want money upfront, scammers, etc. I am tempted to get back on it but my work productivity was dramatically down and have also wasted lots of time on meet and greets where women turned out to be catfishes. If I do get back on it, I will most likely make it a requirement to call / face time within several messages to diminish the time wasted.

[DollarBill50]

How do you get on SB? It won't take any of my cards. From Credit Cards to Debit Cards. I even bought an visa card, put money on it and ti still declined it.

Do I need to go higher? I just take the lowest token which is $59.

Would you say that SB has less scammers / spammers to weed through? People have reported on here how they have received messages from girls only to find out that these messages were NOT sent by these girls and appears to have been generated by the site / bots. I did have on SB reach out to me on a sub reddit asking me if I was interested to meet and turns out she moved to SB from SA as she claims it has less scammers as well. Seems like there is lots of contradictory info floating around about SB. One way to find out I guess is to pay for tokens.