"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Hal1957** · 12-02-21 07:39

Sounds like typical Eastern European. I dated several vanilla and found them to be self absorbed and bipolar. Great lays but run like hell when you're done.

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...d-f16dbe3c192a

She American Ukrainian, with no accent. I drop her mainly because I was bored, and she can be rude to serving staff at the restaurants, which is a big turn off for me. She also has zero patience. Best not to be late to dates, because she doesn't like waiting for anything. Her pics are accurate, and she doesn't drive or host. Sex was avg, but she does love to swallow.

**BobLobLa** · 12-01-21 15:14

Originally Posted by DoggieFan [View Original Post]

but why report them for PPM?

Because if they say the Phrase taht Pays, they are violating the TOS, and you should run far, run fast to avoid reported by them when they tell you their ask and you tell them they are crazy.

I'd think the number of SBs who would say "PPM" in a message on the App would agree to anythhing less than $4-500.

**Member #7176** · 12-01-21 14:48

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...d-f16dbe3c192a

She American Ukrainian, with no accent. I drop her mainly because I was bored, and she can be rude to serving staff at the restaurants, which is a big turn off for me. She also has zero patience. Best not to be late to dates, because she doesn't like waiting for anything. Her pics are accurate, and she doesn't drive or host. Sex was avg, but she does love to swallow.

**FarFarAway** · 11-30-21 22:44

Originally Posted by DoggieFan [View Original Post]

Agree with pic / video sellers & fake pics but why report them for PPM? I think the majority of Daddies are hoping for a gorgeous, 18-25 year old that is willing to trade her hot little body for some monetary help.

I'm not looking for a relationship on SA. It has turned into one a few times, but it all starts for me with a PPM. By turning them in your dwindling the pool of talent that most of us are on SA for. Instead, report the paid M&G Babies, the need gas money to come see you, the my phone is getting turned off, my baby needs diapers & formula scammers.

Just my opinion.

DF.

The issue isn't whether you end up in a ppm deal w / a girl. The point is, if you have a ppm convo on the site and the mods see it, they deem you involved in commercial sex and ban you. The girl and the guy. Say whatever you want, *after* you get them onto text or a messaging app.

**DickLongwood** · 11-30-21 18:06

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I am noticing a certain type of fake profile these days. A gorgeous 30's woman, happy to engage in convo on the site. I have even gotten some of them off the site to text or messaging apps (Telegram). They get into big discussions about cryptocurrency, how they're making millions, etc. However, sometimes they suddenly show up on the site with a totally different location, even in another country. I don't really think they are traveling, I'd wager they are using a VPN into the country they are alleging to be from. Whether that is outside the US or inside it is a question. This can be very deceptive and obviously a bit of a time-waster. IDK what the game is, I haven't had any of them try to get me to Venmo them $ or get me to buy pix.

Oh, yeah. Weird - they are often asking me if I have eaten a meal. Lunch, dinner. WTF?

I've had a couple message me and eventually bring up the crypto topic. I think it's a HUGE red flag.

**DoggieFan** · 11-30-21 16:50

Originally Posted by BobLobLa [View Original Post]

If they mention PPM I report them.

If they say they just want to sell pics / vids, I report them under COMMERCIAL ACTIVITY.

If they are using fake pics I report them.

Have to cover your ass. Not sure you earn any brownie points, but I'd rather draw first than have them report me because I called them out -- which you should never do. A woman scorned and all that.

Agree with pic / video sellers & fake pics but why report them for PPM? I think the majority of Daddies are hoping for a gorgeous, 18-25 year old that is willing to trade her hot little body for some monetary help.

I'm not looking for a relationship on SA. It has turned into one a few times, but it all starts for me with a PPM. By turning them in your dwindling the pool of talent that most of us are on SA for. Instead, report the paid M&G Babies, the need gas money to come see you, the my phone is getting turned off, my baby needs diapers & formula scammers.

Just my opinion.

DF.

**FarFarAway** · 11-30-21 16:20

Originally Posted by BobLobLa [View Original Post]

B"ut if you report -- which blocks them -- it prevents them from having access to your profile to return the favor.

Just repeating what I said earlier. If you report them, it will make the mods on SA look at *your* profile and *your* messages, and you never know how that turns out. You can just block her without reporting her.

And to the other post on here about girls looking for online-only 'arrangements' - that used to be grounds for a complaint in the report window. It no longer is, and I suspect that modification in policy was indeed done during the pandemic.

**BobLobLa** · 11-30-21 15:48

Originally Posted by JohnHandCock [View Original Post]

Reporting is a waste of time, calling them out and arguing with her is plain stupid. Reporting just brings more attention to you.

B"ut if you report -- which blocks them -- it prevents them from having access to your profile to return the favor.

**Norm Gerd** · 11-30-21 15:11

Originally Posted by NormGerd [View Original Post]

I actually got an email with a 33% code. But I cannot get it to work on the app, as there is no way to enter a promo code. It only shows up on the website, which won't let me used Google Pay, while the app will. I can buy Google pay anonymously with cash at many stores.

Anyone have a solution to get the discount while using Google pay?

Norm!

Just thought I would update everyone on the issue. I actually wrote to customer service. The first person to respond asked for more info, basically a screenshot of the discount offer.

I sent that, and after three days got a response that discount codes DO NOT work on the app. So I bought a prepaid CC instead. Google pay would have saved the CC purchase fee, but not really a big deal for the seven dollar fee.

Norm!

**John HandCock** · 11-30-21 11:19

Originally Posted by BobLobLa [View Original Post]

If they mention PPM I report them.

If they say they just want to sell pics / vids, I report them under COMMERCIAL ACTIVITY.

If they are using fake pics I report them.

Have to cover your ass. Not sure you earn any brownie points, but I'd rather draw first than have them report me because I called them out -- which you should never do. A woman scorned and all that.

Reporting is a waste of time, calling them out and arguing with her is plain stupid. Reporting just brings more attention to you.

**BobLobLa** · 11-30-21 10:41

Originally Posted by PinHead11 [View Original Post]

I have gone the same way here with just blocking the person right away. .

If they mention PPM I report them.

If they say they just want to sell pics / vids, I report them under COMMERCIAL ACTIVITY.

If they are using fake pics I report them.

Have to cover your ass. Not sure you earn any brownie points, but I'd rather draw first than have them report me because I called them out -- which you should never do. A woman scorned and all that.

**PinHead11** · 11-30-21 10:33

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

Just one note of caution. There are infinite ways that you can get in trouble on SA w / the proprietors. They don't like your photos, they don't like some of your messages, etc. If they never look at them, though, you're OK. They have a lot on their plate. IF you complain, though, they have a reason to take a look at this stuff, and then they decide you've done something wrong and ban you. Needless to say, from posts we see fairly often, it doesn't come easy to get yourself back on. IK this has happened to me, for no good reason, even after being on the site a few years. IF I am having trouble w / a girl, the very very first thing that I do is block her. That way, she can't access my profile to report me.

While it might feel good to punish a scammer by getting them banned, this pales in comparison to the trouble you will face if you yourself get banned, merely by drawing attention to your profile. I am sure you can make your own choices, balancing self-interest with a sense of justice and community well-being.

I have gone the same way here with just blocking the person right away. It seems that if I go back later and look in my messages or blocked members most of those have changed to 'attractive member' so I assume they got banned themselves.

What makes me wonder though, unless I (we) use some type of language that specifically discusses sex for money why is SA so aggressive in banning men? Yes they have to be careful but we are their cash cow and it is expensive month after month if you keep a premium membership.

When I really take a good look, after removing all the obvious scammers and girls that haven't been on for months at a time that the quantity of active and available women is much less than it seems and SA wants you to believe there are. Granted I have done well on SA, even in little Delaware, but it comes a a cost.

PH.

**BobLobLa** · 11-30-21 10:06

Doesn't look 35, pics are too glam for your average SB.

Anyone get anywhere?

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...a-dad5062796f4

**SBmidlo** · 11-30-21 09:23

Don't waste your time. Interested in online only, selling pics and vids https://members.seeking.com/member/b...c-d82251ff4e66.

I could be wrong, but seem to recall a time when reporting profiles that did not want to meet in person was an option. Pre-Covid maybe? Anyway, frustrating that they allow this to go on. Seems to be more of them popping up on there these days.