NoVA SugarBabies

**DickLongwood** · 11-18-21 17:26

This woman looks very hot. Does anyone have intel?

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...8-2e55db772d8e

**BobLobLa** · 11-18-21 16:17

Originally Posted by BuffBill75 [View Original Post]

I always tell my girls I'm not your boyfriend and that means you can be totally honest with me. If you found someone else tell me and I'm good. Plenty of girls selling pussy around. I think they are conditioned to think they have to play games. It's so annoying.

Just make sure you don't get your ego bruised. Like on the classic show Soap when the dad was dumped by his mistress.

"I met another guy.

He's better looking.

Better dressed.

Better in bed".

"What? Better dressed?

I also heard one funny and one scary thing in the new season of Yellowstone.

Beth on one of the 4 ways to get rich "learn to suck a dick like you lost your car keys in it".

Beth's advice to a wife with an asshole husband "Why do you put up with that? You have 50% of the $$ and 100% of the pussy!

**RalDude** · 11-18-21 16:01

Originally Posted by Piehole [View Original Post]

Pulled the trigger on this one 2 weeks ago. She met me at 7 am at hotel near where I work. She was good to go, and started to get undressed while we were still saying good morning to each other. Have to give her points for matching bra and panties.

She fucks like a champ. Great body. Boobs are a touch saggy. (She knows this and said she was getting implants the next week.) Loves doggy. Even gets into motion and pushes back so you can just kneel there and experience the ride. Makes noise but not enough to worry the neighbors are going to call the lobby. Head game is so-so. Lot's of spit, but didn't really show much appreciation to the boys.

Besides being overpriced (but I really wanting a good fuck so I was willing to pay), the only issue was her pussy smelled. It had that dry stank that I've only ever smelt on street meat. I don't know what makes that smell but it was really off putting.

I'll be spending some time in DC over the next few months, and had been chatting with her. She was on the top of my list to see, but no way I can deal with the funk, no matter how amazing the body is.

**GMarts018** · 11-18-21 15:39

Originally Posted by BuffBill75 [View Original Post]

I always tell my girls I'm not your boyfriend and that means you can be totally honest with me. If you found someone else tell me and I'm good. Plenty of girls selling pussy around. I think they are conditioned to think they have to play games. It's so annoying.

Well said.

**BuffBill75** · 11-18-21 15:36

Originally Posted by JonFisher [View Original Post]

Happened recently to me. Based on lessons learnt. It could be (a) she was falling for you and did not have the strength to break away face-to-face (b) she thought you were falling for her or getting too close for her comfort and although she liked it, wasn't sure she wanted to deal with (c) she thought you would try to convince her if she wanted to split (or you can't take it unemotionally) and she did not want to deal with it. Things like this.

Chalk it up to immaturity I guess. Most of what you spoke about can usually be cleared up with a simple conversation. I find a lot of these girls get sweated by guys their age and think because we are nice to them it means the same thing. That's called letting your ego fuck with you.

Ya I'm going to fuck up my retirement by getting a divorce because the pussy is good. Right.

**JonFisher** · 11-18-21 11:35

Originally Posted by BuffBill75 [View Original Post]

I always tell my girls I'm not your boyfriend and that means you can be totally honest with me. If you found someone else tell me and I'm good. Plenty of girls selling pussy around. I think they are conditioned to think they have to play games. It's so annoying.

Happened recently to me. Based on lessons learnt. It could be (a) she was falling for you and did not have the strength to break away face-to-face (b) she thought you were falling for her or getting too close for her comfort and although she liked it, wasn't sure she wanted to deal with (c) she thought you would try to convince her if she wanted to split (or you can't take it unemotionally) and she did not want to deal with it. Things like this.

**BuffBill75** · 11-18-21 11:12

Originally Posted by SexInSTL [View Original Post]

Could be a lot of reasons but I always try to remember it as NOT a real friendship. It may SEEM like it is, but 9 times out of 10 it isn't. No matter how much we get to know some of these ladies, the truth is its just a part they play. A way to make money. When they start giving freebies and wanting more of my time at no extra cost, THEN I'll start to believe there's more to it.

Other than that, they're playing a part, including the 'friendship', based upon what they think we want.

It sucks to get blocked like that. Best to not read too much into it. If it happens with another one, THEN you might want to evaluate if it's something YOU might be doing wrong.

I always tell my girls I'm not your boyfriend and that means you can be totally honest with me. If you found someone else tell me and I'm good. Plenty of girls selling pussy around. I think they are conditioned to think they have to play games. It's so annoying.

**SexInSTL** · 11-18-21 11:03

Originally Posted by BuffBill75 [View Original Post]

Ever had a SB you've been hanging with for a few months and developed a friendship and understanding with suddenly block you with no warning or explanation? I swear I don't understand these ladies sometimes.

Could be a lot of reasons but I always try to remember it as NOT a real friendship. It may SEEM like it is, but 9 times out of 10 it isn't. No matter how much we get to know some of these ladies, the truth is its just a part they play. A way to make money. When they start giving freebies and wanting more of my time at no extra cost, THEN I'll start to believe there's more to it.

Other than that, they're playing a part, including the 'friendship', based upon what they think we want.

It sucks to get blocked like that. Best to not read too much into it. If it happens with another one, THEN you might want to evaluate if it's something YOU might be doing wrong.

**GMarts018** · 11-18-21 10:51

Originally Posted by BuffBill75 [View Original Post]

Ever had a SB you've been hanging with for a few months and developed a friendship and understanding with suddenly block you with no warning or explanation? I swear I don't understand these ladies sometimes.

I had an ongoing arrangement with one. She was great. We met a few times a month and really developed a friendship. There wasn't one time where she didn't spend the night. I knew about her family, her past, probably more than I would've ever thought.

We still understood the situation and drew appropriate boundaries. Suddenly, I just stopped hearing from her. I wasn't blocked, just left on read. On texts and socials. Fast forward a few months and she posted a bunch of photos and she was on a trip with her ex which she shared a child with. I suspect a lot of times they may just change their situation. A lot of these girls will only do it if they are single. They have fun, make money, and then when they date the get out of the SB thing. Others don't care and love the money. Others are just flakey.

**BuffBill75** · 11-18-21 10:38

Originally Posted by IronMan40 [View Original Post]

I've had it happen twice. First time it happened I was just ghosted. Had a date setup, reached out the day before to confirm and never heard back. She's still active on seeking and I've seen a review for her. I figure they've found someone they want an unpaid relationship with or a SD that's paying them more. No matter what they are called, SB, escort, etc. It's a paid relationship and it's about the SB getting paid, not making friends.

Ya I guess as you get older you expect open and honest conversations like hey I have another guy I'm dating lets put this thing on hold but when I was young I probably would ghost as well to avoid the convo. I also think some of these girls have huge egos. It's like realize I have a wife that makes money and so do I, if you think I'm going to fuck up my retirement for you because the pussy is good and I treat you right you're crazy. Get over yourself.

**IronMan40** · 11-18-21 10:24

I've had it happen twice. First time it happened I was just ghosted. Had a date setup, reached out the day before to confirm and never heard back. She's still active on seeking and I've seen a review for her. I figure they've found someone they want an unpaid relationship with or a SD that's paying them more. No matter what they are called, SB, escort, etc. It's a paid relationship and it's about the SB getting paid, not making friends.

Originally Posted by BuffBill75 [View Original Post]

Ever had a SB you've been hanging with for a few months and developed a friendship and understanding with suddenly block you with no warning or explanation? I swear I don't understand these ladies sometimes.

**Itfcd** · 11-18-21 10:17

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...e-16eae5e87acc

I actually reached out to this one on Benefits, not Seeking. Anyone have any intel? It's a fairly new Seeking account, so I figured there's a possibility she's jumped around from account to account and someone might have already had a bad experience.

**John HandCock** · 11-18-21 09:36

Originally Posted by BuffBill75 [View Original Post]

Ever had a SB you've been hanging with for a few months and developed a friendship and understanding with suddenly block you with no warning or explanation? I swear I don't understand these ladies sometimes.

She probably figured out it was supposed to be mutually beneficial. You want to hangout and be friends civi date. But really who knows why they do what they do.

**BuffBill75** · 11-18-21 08:56

Ever had a SB you've been hanging with for a few months and developed a friendship and understanding with suddenly block you with no warning or explanation? I swear I don't understand these ladies sometimes.

**Mandane** · 11-18-21 02:41

Meet this one a while ago. She's a bartender formerly in Reston and now in Springfield. Gets hit on constantly at work and posts a shit ton to social media. Probably a bit of a warning to the married guys, she posted twice to social media while on our meet and greet. I bought here some food and boom right to Snapchat video. She's a bit ditzy but with big giant tits. She's one of those chicks who appears to just be bouncing from bar to bar. Has a kid, but she figured that she was tired of fucking dude bros and baby daddies for free and wanted to get paid to bone. Offered $300, she wanted $500. A bit too much of a hot mess for me, so I passed.

https://members.seeking.com/member/3...c-83803a63a51e