"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Ernest Ll** · 10-20-21 16:47

Originally Posted by SBmidlo [View Original Post]

I've been texting with her also, for a while now. Interesting she says no greek as she has sent me a couple of nice videos using toys on her ass LOL. She comes across as a bit of a flake to me. She has no showed or ghosted me on days when we had meet and greets setup. She does move around a lot. Last time we spoke a couple of weeks ago she invited me over to her house where she was renting a room. It was in a hoodish neighborhood in Southside RVA so I passed. Noticed she has changed her location. Is she still in Richmond? If you meet her let me know what I missed out on.

Yeah, she texted me some pics with her tight starfish on prominent display but reiterated no 3rd input.

Way too flakey and gutter-adjacent if not a full time resident, for my tastes. Have a feeling those face pics online are old and glammed.

**SBmidlo** · 10-20-21 16:40

Originally Posted by BobLobLa [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...4-9ff766977404

Pretty face, and a banging bod from the private pics she sent, but a little too low end / desperate in her mentality.

Keeps moving apartments, doesn't have a car. Says she will borrow one from a friend to come to me -- about an hour away.

$200 for transport, $400 to bang her, CFS, no anal.

She later countered with $500 all in, but still covered and no greek.

I've been texting with her also, for a while now. Interesting she says no greek as she has sent me a couple of nice videos using toys on her ass LOL. She comes across as a bit of a flake to me. She has no showed or ghosted me on days when we had meet and greets setup. She does move around a lot. Last time we spoke a couple of weeks ago she invited me over to her house where she was renting a room. It was in a hoodish neighborhood in Southside RVA so I passed. Noticed she has changed her location. Is she still in Richmond? If you meet her let me know what I missed out on.

**DWinthrop** · 10-20-21 15:47

Originally Posted by RedBaron69 [View Original Post]

Thoughts from the pic?

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...d-40f9b77a3d14

Look like its just an ugly woman.

**RedBaron69** · 10-20-21 15:36

Thoughts from the pic?

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...d-40f9b77a3d14

**SBmidlo** · 10-19-21 22:20

Originally Posted by WilliamsJJ703 [View Original Post]

Just restarted my membership again as I'll have some free time for the foreseeable future. Ran across these three and its a NO GO from me.

*Bri447-- Online only. Looking to sell pix / vids. No intent to meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...0-1e8b2b251fc3*.

Prettyandthick --*Online only. Looking to sell pix / vids. No intent to meet.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-b35c78154d9c

Funandhappy28 -- looked ok so sent a message. Quick to text. Back and forth with no real purpose. Brushed my simple standard questions aside so I assume either fake or waste of time. Either way not interested. **.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...6-9fb74048c09e

Interesting post on the second one over on the NOVA board:

"Messaged this slag and she immediately was down to business. That's usually a red flag but I wanted to see where she was going. She wanted to meet the next day, in Fredericksburg not Richmond, and for $$$ film everything for her husband.

Hard pass but maybe that is someone else's fantasy.

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...e-b35c78154d9c".

**TakesALicking** · 10-19-21 11:34

Originally Posted by BobLobLa [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...4-9ff766977404

Pretty face, and a banging bod from the private pics she sent, but a little too low end / desperate in her mentality.

Keeps moving apartments, doesn't have a car. Says she will borrow one from a friend to come to me -- about an hour away.

$200 for transport, $400 to bang her, CFS, no anal.

She later countered with $500 all in, but still covered and no greek.

This chick has the look that fits my ideal SB. But every time I decide to give this a try, she does something that comes across as more of a high volume worker and less of a SB. But who am I kidding, I'm sure one day I'll visit her just bc of how cute she is.

**EasyGuy69** · 10-19-21 09:56

Originally Posted by BobLobLa [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...4-9ff766977404

Pretty face, and a banging bod from the private pics she sent, but a little too low end / desperate in her mentality.

Keeps moving apartments, doesn't have a car. Says she will borrow one from a friend to come to me -- about an hour away.

$200 for transport, $400 to bang her, CFS, no anal.

She later countered with $500 all in, but still covered and no greek.

This one set up to meet and then cancelled before I got to see her. She just sent me another message today. Will let you know if I get anywhere with her, pics are nice if real.

**BobLobLa** · 10-19-21 09:22

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...4-9ff766977404

Pretty face, and a banging bod from the private pics she sent, but a little too low end / desperate in her mentality.

Keeps moving apartments, doesn't have a car. Says she will borrow one from a friend to come to me -- about an hour away.

$200 for transport, $400 to bang her, CFS, no anal.

She later countered with $500 all in, but still covered and no greek.

**TopGun9** · 10-18-21 17:32

Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]

I have been there as well. I have also been reading a lot of negative reviews recently from people who have recently rejoined the site. I swear it's always the same thing:

Flakes who go radio silent.

Massive GPS chicks.

Want money for meet and greet.

I swear I think that site is using sophisticated AI or real people across the US or world whose job is to just get you to join and then move on.

I could take the old Craiglist days any time these days. Those were so much fun back then. Real non pros and amateurs girls for real $.

**Walruscl** · 10-18-21 11:04

Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]

I have been there as well. I have also been reading a lot of negative reviews recently from people who have recently rejoined the site. I swear it's always the same thing:

Flakes who go radio silent.

Massive GPS chicks.

Want money for meet and greet.

I swear I think that site is using sophisticated AI or real people across the US or world whose job is to just get you to join and then move on.

I did a two month stint (let it lapse last week) where the first month I felt like I was talking to a wall. SB's literally not even reading my messages never mind not answering them. Along with all the same pitfalls everyone else is complaining about.

All I have to show for it right now is a quirky-but-real 23 why / o who's two hours away, doesn't seem to know what she wants but is into me enough to have a daily texting conversation going and was willing to meet halfway for a M&G. Playing the long game with her, partially because she's unique and partially because I've got little else in the queue.

Only other thing going is what appears to be a pro. Would normally skip but her pics are hot enough for me to do a short term thing with her for now. That said, this is the one who gave me the "my car was towed, can you come my way?" story the day of our meet. She's been bad at comms the entire time, ghosted me for a week and now suddenly is talking to me again. Giving her one more shot before I write her off as a flake and / or long-game-scammer.

**ColinRva** · 10-17-21 22:04

Anyone have luck with this one? Extremely attractive, and still active. Sent a message but nothing back.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...5-a17dc3f1e008

**TheHobbyLobby** · 10-17-21 20:52

Originally Posted by EasyGoingJ [View Original Post]

I think you are on the right track by asking for help from the forum, I once paid bc I had several " promising " messages, so I did pay to rejoin , if I remember correctly once I had paid , I did not even get a response from any of them.

I have been there as well. I have also been reading a lot of negative reviews recently from people who have recently rejoined the site. I swear it's always the same thing:

Flakes who go radio silent.

Massive GPS chicks.

Want money for meet and greet.

I swear I think that site is using sophisticated AI or real people across the US or world whose job is to just get you to join and then move on.

**EasyGoingJ** · 10-17-21 20:01

Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]

So does anyone have any intel on this chick. I see she has sent me a few emails but I am not a member and not sure I want to sign up just for this one girl.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...f-123a4165517c

I think you are on the right track by asking for help from the forum, I once paid bc I had several " promising " messages, so I did pay to rejoin , if I remember correctly once I had paid , I did not even get a response from any of them.

**TheHobbyLobby** · 10-17-21 15:36

Just bumping this up to see if anyone has had any contact with her.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...f-123a4165517c

**FarFarAway** · 10-17-21 14:17

Originally Posted by BobLobLa [View Original Post]

I went to reup and made the mistake of using a CC I had used before on an account that was suspended and got bounced when I tried to renew.

Made a new profile, got a new Vanilla card, but made the mistake of using a profile pic from a long ago suspended account and got bounced after they took my money. They really do have records of everything.

I complained to customer service and after I explicitly agreed in writing to abide by TOS, they reinstated and refunded.

But lesson learned. If a girls mentions PPPM I report them. If they mention selling pics, I report them for commercial activity. Better to block them than to have them get pissed and report you.

I get your point. However, I just block them, I don't report them. If you have blocked them, they can't get to your profile to report you (fraudulently or for any other reason). They'd have to recall your profile name and communicate specially to get you into trouble, most won't take the time.

Anyway, reporting someone just gets the pinheads they have monitoring SA to look at your profile. Even if something was OK when it went up long ago, and has been there a long time, if they look at it anew and find they don't like it, they can suspend you. This has happened to me w / a profile that is at least 2 years old. So, my strongest recommendation is to do nothing that will get someone there to look at your profile. Don't change the photos, don't change the text. You can update / correct anything you'd like in your initial contact message.

I made a mistake in sending my real photo (I have none on SA itself, just someone who looks like me) through the tool they now have to attach things to messages on the site. That is how my profile got suspended. IDK if they compared the real me to the pix on the profile, they also had the face blanked, but regardless, the only means available for reinstatement was sending a photo of me holding my DL. I don't think so.