Seeking Arrangements

[Hobbyist420]

Bran has the formula for the SA girls I prefer. I use the soft no pressure approach but try to get to the number details as soon as I can to allow me to either pass or get more serious. I never review or expose the girls I am with or have been unless they a scammers, want prepay or turn to a high volume provider. Most of the girls I have seen are regular college girls or single moms. They eventually move on to real life or find a real partner. I have found platonic and luxury lifestyle profile tags tend to go nowhere for me.

This is the way to go, esp to not waste your time.

Although I found its harder to find someone who: actually wants to text on a regular cadence (or even gets back to you after you text them) to actually pry out these details, who doesn't ask for money via app before meet, or isn't a hardened semi-pro of some type.

The UTRs are harder and harder to find, but being on SA for more than 1 mth helps, as well as aiming for outside greater Boston for best options of price and availability.

[Banjomania]

Not to give you guys any ideas, but I banged an SB a couple of times a few years ago and she told me a story of getting taken by a guy she met on Seeking. He seemed mature and responsible. They went out to dinner at Grill 23. He ordered an expensive steak and an excellent bottle of Cabernet which he downed most of. Then he excused himself to go to the men's room. She never saw him again. He bolted and left her to deal with the bill. She was not maybe the most beautiful bulb on the planet, but nothing wrong with her. African American grad student in her early 30's. I certainly enjoyed my times with her. He was just a scammer. So, it goes both ways.

Unfortunately you had to learn the hard way in a big way. My opinion and have posted several times, I will never pay that much and I will never pay up front. Ever. Coffee dates are the best for meet and greets as it's low risk and then make a date for an outcall at a hotel for the first time. You have more control of the situation and if she decides to flake her real intentions are exposed. Don't check in until she arrives either.

I know it hard to resist sometimes but if you read these posts you see a common denominator. Paying first smells like a rip-off. Good luck next time and we have all been there so just keep trying.

[Joe1223]

The college and grad school girls I see don't have reviews and my relationship with them would not have me posting reviews (of anyone I see regularly). I will respond here if it's someone who's flaked, or starfished, etc.

You don't need reviews -- you need "game. " An approach, and patience, and talking to these girls the way they want to be talked to.

Then you send up sleeping with as many 20-25 yr old girl-next-door students and recent grads as you want.

Bran has the formula for the SA girls I prefer. I use the soft no pressure approach but try to get to the number details as soon as I can to allow me to either pass or get more serious. I never review or expose the girls I am with or have been unless they a scammers, want prepay or turn to a high volume provider. Most of the girls I have seen are regular college girls or single moms. They eventually move on to real life or find a real partner. I have found platonic and luxury lifestyle profile tags tend to go nowhere for me.

I am currently working a smoking hot 20 yr old that I have been communicating with for a few months. We have a scheduled meet up this week after patiently waiting for her to commit and agree on a good gift amount. It may all crash and burn but she continues respond so hopefully it will happen this week. But like a lot of these inexperienced girls you just don't know until they show up.

[Bran001]

Evaheb, 28, Wellesley.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...9-1e5cf376fe62

Tough to communicate with won't give out any details on what she wants. Pretty good private pics. I wonder what it takes to bang her.

Her profile says "platonic. " That often means no banging at all.

[Bran001]

That is why reviews matter. Real reviews that involve actually seeing the gal.

The college and grad school girls I see don't have reviews and my relationship with them would not have me posting reviews (of anyone I see regularly). I will respond here if it's someone who's flaked, or starfished, etc.

You don't need reviews -- you need "game. " An approach, and patience, and talking to these girls the way they want to be talked to.

Then you send up sleeping with as many 20-25 yr old girl-next-door students and recent grads as you want.

[Joe1223]

It's kind of crazy but I remember Jenna from back in the day when she kind of looked like the girl next door & introduced her to many of the guys on here. Can't believe her transformation & look to be a full blown hooker now.

I met her a couple of times when she was thin and trim. She was just starting her hooker journey and hadn't been bitten by demons yet. I actually would pick her up at her house so you knew she was naive. Great visits with her and full GFE with all BB options. She started to raise her prices once she became popular so I never went back and the demons got a hold on her.

[Gianni Versace]

ON SA with the new profile: https://members.seeking.com/member/b...d-ec32cd7d3b2b.

It's kind of crazy but I remember Jenna from back in the day when she kind of looked like the girl next door & introduced her to many of the guys on here. Can't believe her transformation & look to be a full blown hooker now.

[Spill]

Transformed to Stacey Mack:

https://www.eros.com/massachusetts/b...5369.htm?cat=1

ON SA with the new profile: https://members.seeking.com/member/b...d-ec32cd7d3b2b.

[BR1201]

She's still on here making profiles avoid at all costs.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...7-142be4283e4a

She will take your money and quite literally run away with it. Into a van.

[Billlc3425]

Where can I purchase an online visa gift card? What is the brand name?

Right here.

https://www.vanillagift.com/

[RandomChance72]

This tactic may work for your average back page type hooker. But I hope you are not asking the average college chick or young professional these types of questions on this site. This is why they delete their account in the first week or two.

Girls that delete their accounts within the first two weeks are usually the ones who have their dreams shattered once they realize most guys won't pay them purely for the benefit of being in their company.

Regardless. At some point money is discussed (whether its at the M&G or before). This would be the time to utilize this approach. When I wrote my original post I assumed I didn't need to add the obvious disclaimers (establish rapport, don't frame it as a choice / ultimatum, remember not to be hyper logical, etc). But I guess I'll state it explicitly for those less savvy at using their soft skills.

As always, tips are tips. Use what works for you.

[Spike77]

Reviews matter. But there are small tips and tricks that can help further mitigate risk. One trick I use is to offer three different price points based on services offered. For example I might offer:

Option 1: FS for 200.

Option 2: BBFS for 250.

Option 3: BBFS w/ Anal for 300.

If a girl is planning to steal your money and run, she'll likely choose option 3 to maximize her payday. Obviously there are some girls who are cool with BBFS anal, but I think we all know that these are rare.

I like this trick because it alerts me to start looking for other clues if a girl agrees to option 3. Another dead give away I've seen is girls who choose option 3 quickly and without hesitation. In my experience, even girls who are down with anal usually ask lots of questions and add qualifiers (i.e. "how big are you? "I'm not really that into anal", "we can try but I can't promise anything", etc.).

At the end of the day, there's always some risk involve. But if you're smart, you can mitigate some risk.

This tactic may work for your average back page type hooker. But I hope you are not asking the average college chick or young professional these types of questions on this site. This is why they delete their account in the first week or two.

The best advice I can give and what previous posters have already mentioned, never give money upfront. Just don't do it. Anyone that asks for money upfront is a scammer. I made this mistake once years ago. I will never make that mistake again knowing that one simple rule.

[RandomChance72]

The problem, as I see it, is that dishonest people always have the upper hand. Let's say that one is in her apartment and the $500 has been passed over. Then, a big man shows up and threatens violence. There are a few guys on this site who know how to handle a threat, but I am not one of them. Nor would an encounter that might result in the presence of law enforcement be worthwhile. In fact, I would gladly forgo $500 rather than involve LEO.

That is why reviews matter. Real reviews that involve actually seeing the gal.

Reviews matter. But there are small tips and tricks that can help further mitigate risk. One trick I use is to offer three different price points based on services offered. For example I might offer:

Option 1: FS for 200.

Option 2: BBFS for 250.

Option 3: BBFS w/ Anal for 300.

If a girl is planning to steal your money and run, she'll likely choose option 3 to maximize her payday. Obviously there are some girls who are cool with BBFS anal, but I think we all know that these are rare.

I like this trick because it alerts me to start looking for other clues if a girl agrees to option 3. Another dead give away I've seen is girls who choose option 3 quickly and without hesitation. In my experience, even girls who are down with anal usually ask lots of questions and add qualifiers (i.e. "how big are you? "I'm not really that into anal", "we can try but I can't promise anything", etc.).

At the end of the day, there's always some risk involve. But if you're smart, you can mitigate some risk.

[Spill]

Has she improved at all? Is she changing for the better or just changing?

Transformed to Stacey Mack:

https://www.eros.com/massachusetts/b...5369.htm?cat=1

[Joe1223]

This girl wanted $500 for an evening out. Drinks, talk and fun at her place.

She wanted payment up front. Agreed to give her $100 and $400 in her apartment. Got to restaurant and had 45 minutes of nice conversation. Foolishly gave her the remaining $400. At that point she bolted out and climbed into a van that was waiting the entire time for her.

Of course, her cell phone line went dead. She is now listed on SA as Sweet Chick. She has been through a number of names and profiles in the last few days, but is consistently listed as being from Natick.

She is a complete scam.

Unfortunately you had to learn the hard way in a big way. My opinion and have posted several times, I will never pay that much and I will never pay up front. Ever. Coffee dates are the best for meet and greets as it's low risk and then make a date for an outcall at a hotel for the first time. You have more control of the situation and if she decides to flake her real intentions are exposed. Don't check in until she arrives either.

I know it hard to resist sometimes but if you read these posts you see a common denominator. Paying first smells like a rip-off. Good luck next time and we have all been there so just keep trying.