Arrangement Reports

[MwmChicago]

Texting her now and she's DTF for sure. Waiting on prices.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...0-9185976aa462

Has to be a pro because she quickly moved to text and had a menu of in / out prices that were way cheap for someone of her profile. Plus she said anything goes including anal. Don't worry about what she quoted because you'd be an idiot to negotiate them down.

I'm trying to make sure this ones not a trap because it seems too easy.

[MwmChicago]

She emailed me first and we were texting within minutes. Said $400 at her place for in Oak Brook for as long as I want and as many shot as I can muster. May dive in.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...b-430a242eb082

[LolBoat]

I think that's some interesting insight. Did you get the impression these were the guys in their 20's? 30's?

Yes she told me they were and alot were decent looking guys. This leads me to believe that modern dating has gotten so bad that even guys with looks are having trouble due to the gender ratios on most popular online dating sites. ive heard that tinder/bumble/etc is like 70% men 30% women where as with SA its 80% women 20% men. the $100 a month fee keeps out the riff-raff

Younger guys have usually been a nuisance to SA girls. Thirsty af, zero cash, think that a meal at Chipotle entitled them to unlimited pu**why. And / or have the attitude that the girl should give it up free just because you let her hang out in your River North condo that you can barely afford.

Wonder if this so called new crop of younger guys is any different.

Yep, I hear that alot. A real chad/tyrone can pull that off.

I'm considered a younger guy by SA standards and it was definitely part of my pitch when I was on SA. It was basically "you could have a handsome young boyfriend for love and a sugar daddy on the side for money that you have to try to balance or you could have it all in one person. " It definitely helped to rope in the more exclusive girls (obviously no effect on pros and semi-pros who are transactional).

Of course the pitch only works if you're a young guy WITH money. I have some friends who work in tech who are single and in their 30's and live in new condos in the west loop who do this and clean up. So yeah you probably are competing with an influx of young money using a similar pitch.

I started using SA when I was 25 and got my first job at a F500 company. I'm in my early 30's now and work at a big bank as a software developer and make decent money. I also live in my parents basement so I've always had cash to burn so to speak. So your pitch has been mine as well. It doesn't work as good though anymore, tbh. The amount of creeps and losers on SA ruins it for everyone else and these girls usually dip out after a day or two of getting bombarded with messages from old guys in their 50's and 60's asking them to piss and shit on them for money. Im not a bad looking guy by any means and ive gotten freebys but the quality of girls on there has gone down hill big time and its getting alot harder to get girls. alot more pros and former backpage girls along with women who are down on their luck. it used to be nice middle class college girls who needed some cash, sometimes upper class ones too.

5 or 6 years ago there were TONS of young girls (18-22) and now the average girl on there is about 25 or so. Lots of single moms in their 30's. I've used sa in a few diff cities the past 2 years and this still rings true.

The demographics of this country are changing big time and there are alot less middle class white girls being born and the ones that exist today are on cam sites.

im from the nyc metro area and the pickings are getting slim there unless you're in NYC where as it used to be pretty ample in Connecticut and nj. you will have to expand your search radius

[ShyBoy2020]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...8-88c37e19634b

Says she's visiting from SF for a month and quoted me 300 on first message. Assume can't host and said very open. I didn't reply because I don't want to get kicked off LOL.

Likely a scammer.

I got same message. 300 first meet includes intimacy. Person also included a 415 phone number and an instagram username.

I replied by text. Person agreed to 200 but also asked for $100 deposit. I said no to deposit.

Person then asked for gas money. I again refused and let person know SA warns us to not give deposits.

Person replies "SA try to act like its not an escort site when it basically really is" and how SA only says that to pretend it cares about our safety.

I didn't reply. Does anybody know if it is ok to post screenshots of text exchanges? I would post but I'm not sure if it violates any of the rules.

[GetOnUrKnees]

I'm considered a younger guy by SA standards and it was definitely part of my pitch when I was on SA. It was basically "you could have a handsome young boyfriend for love and a sugar daddy on the side for money that you have to try to balance or you could have it all in one person. " It definitely helped to rope in the more exclusive girls (obviously no effect on pros and semi-pros who are transactional).

Of course the pitch only works if you're a young guy WITH money. I have some friends who work in tech who are single and in their 30's and live in new condos in the west loop who do this and clean up. So yeah you probably are competing with an influx of young money using a similar pitch.

Wait but in my 30's I was pulling hotties off sites like plenty of fish and match.com, girls in their young 20's. I didn't need to use my money. I remember days of banging 3 different girls in 1 day no ppm needed. Not bragging because my guys friends at the time were all doing the same and some of the guys were not handsome. Just nice guys with steady jobs not even high salary.

[Cdds20]

AnnaD.

Exchange student from Columbia staying in Highland Park. 21 yo and says she prefers older men. Definitely not a pro so don't ask for sex right away but she knows the deal. Never got to negotiate as she blocked me after we texted. Maybe she's just out temporarily.

I think her account is just off or deleted now. I'd saved her but hadn't messaged yet. She used to be online all the time but I haven't seen her on there lately.

[DynoJr]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...8-88c37e19634b

Says she's visiting from SF for a month and quoted me 300 on first message. Assume can't host and said very open. I didn't reply because I don't want to get kicked off LOL.

Here's some that blocked me.

IHaveGoals17.

Married 31 yo probably fake pic needs you to get hotel and can only play between 9-11 am weekdays she's off and everything covered. When I said that's tough she told me she's got plenty of interest and blocked me. Good luck with that one.

AnnaD.

Exchange student from Columbia staying in Highland Park. 21 yo and says she prefers older men. Definitely not a pro so don't ask for sex right away but she knows the deal. Never got to negotiate as she blocked me after we texted. Maybe she's just out temporarily.

Bridget3.

Quoted me 600 on first message and doesn't host. Didn't see any private picks and just to keep myself in the good graces of SA I told her I don't do pay for sex. She immediately blocked me LOL.

[DynoJr]

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...0-9185976aa462

Has to be a pro because she quickly moved to text and had a menu of in / out prices that were way cheap for someone of her profile. Plus she said anything goes including anal. Don't worry about what she quoted because you'd be an idiot to negotiate them down.

I'm trying to make sure this ones not a trap because it seems too easy.

[HarryMcHardon]

Younger guys have usually been a nuisance to SA girls. Thirsty af, zero cash, think that a meal at Chipotle entitled them to unlimited pu**why. And / or have the attitude that the girl should give it up free just because you let her hang out in your River North condo that you can barely afford.

Wonder if this so called new crop of younger guys is any different.

If younger guys have no money, then they're a nuisance. But then again, older guys with no $$ are probably a nuisance too. Yes, younger guys with $$ are a threat to the older dudes on SA. So just go away and get the freebies you're able to get! Haha jk. SA is not much different than in real life, as a guy, there's always ahem, stiff competition for the best girls. Yes, a couple of girls have told me they prefer older guys, but as always, there's a wide range of objectives on SA, just like IRL.

I think some women use SA as a covert mission to find a real BF, LTR, or even a hubby. Those girls will target men closer to their age. Conversely, some women want to keep a distance, they have independent life plans (education, job etc.) so only want NSA sex, and want a little spending $$, and those are the women who prefer someone a bit older because the huge age difference prevents anything more than NSA. No sane 22 year old hottie is really going to fall for a 55 yo guy, unless he's Bezos or something. I would think $100+ billion and a trip into space every once in awhile for kicks could guarantee plenty of 22 yo hotties would fall for you. By going for a much older guy, she's kinda guaranteeing emotions stay out of the equation, and in a way, maintaining control.

The other thing is some younger girls prefer older guys because they feel that older guys are more likely to commit to something ongoing, vs being just a random vagina-of-the-day being churned through by a good looking young guy with money.

As usual, there are a myriad of objectives and goals on SA, and the flightiness of young girls adds to the unpre-dick-tability of what someone is going to find there. In a way, I'm glad there was no SA around when I was young, because I would now be old and broke. If you really think about the math, the present value today of a large volume of $200+ cash outflows (Also other outflows, LOL) compounded over decades, assuming you would have otherwise put that $ in the stock market, would be a pretty large chunk of change now. Just something to think about.

[JustinFields]

Desperate to meet! Will start high on price and come down and than try to beg and bring price up. I passed because of this and didn't want to take a chance of meeting her and things going bad. I wanted to take the plunge but my 6th sense told me not to.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...d-89b985ba0266

DTF but was pretty firm on price wants 500 and didn't take the plunge!

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...0-e481a34a72e6

Will ask 500 but will come down if desperate enough. Not a bad time but not worth 500.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...a-a5892e741905

Too heavy for me and is mobile. DTF 300. I would consider hitting it if it was free.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...9-cbc4d3f08691

[JustinFields]

I'm considered a younger guy by SA standards and it was definitely part of my pitch when I was on SA. It was basically "you could have a handsome young boyfriend for love and a sugar daddy on the side for money that you have to try to balance or you could have it all in one person. " It definitely helped to rope in the more exclusive girls (obviously no effect on pros and semi-pros who are transactional).

Of course the pitch only works if you're a young guy WITH money. I have some friends who work in tech who are single and in their 30's and live in new condos in the west loop who do this and clean up. So yeah you probably are competing with an influx of young money using a similar pitch.

I think SA hit mainstream now and it kind of ruined it. When ******* first came out it was great for picking up girls as was Tinder and pof. SA has become too popular and played out and the glory days will never comeback. A lot of guys using it as a dating app to get free pussy.

I have noticed the girls all have been dealing with this, because when you talk to them the first thing they ask is what type of arrangement are you looking for. They are on guard. Hopefully something new replaces SA which is what SA was 7 years ago.

[Meddic80]

Saw this one about 3 months ago. 300 anything goes. Cute face, her photos are dated she's a little thicker now. Looks hot. She can host at a friends house. House was pretty empty (living room was) bedroom was somewhat furnished. Cool gal, had a great time with her, BJ was amazing.

Seen her a few times after that for BBBJ.

Back story, she used to be stripper.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...e-5c1e72ca2a81

[Meddic80]

This one is DTF! Messaged me first and moved to texting right away. Sent me a bunch of nudes within minutes LOL. She can't host, lives with a roommate etc. Asked 500, negotiated her down to 300 just for the hell of it. She's not really my type, maybe yours.

Decent body, face not so much.

FYI, she's very talkative, hard to understand her too because of her thick Russian accent.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...e-4a4a2837429d

[RusselJimmies]

Very early and I put her on back burner but will trade notes.

Unlocked her pics and then went dark on me for no discernible reason.

[DynoJr]

Talking with this one. Anyone want to share experience?

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...0-67af3f2a0505

Very early and I put her on back burner but will trade notes.