The Raleigh area "Sugar Bowl" (SA, WYP, SD4 ME)

**SmallAsianCock** · 09-08-21 23:12

Originally Posted by DJprofessorK [View Original Post]

Personally, I move convos to texting as soon as she's comfortable. If you're actually interested in meeting her and seeing her more than once, having a genuine convo with her should come naturally. From what I've been told, the fakes are usually doing this to multiple women at a time and rarely engage in in depth conversations. I set actual dates and times on when I'd like to meet them. The fakes (again, what I've been told by women) always use vague language like, 'let's try and meet up sometime in the next couple of weeks. ' Someone who is serious will say, 'Are you free on Tuesday? I really enjoy this restaurant, we could meet there and hash out details if you're free that evening. Let me know. '.

Have a picture ready to share. If you avoid sharing photos, it's not going to look good for you. Remember, women have every right to be terrified of meeting men from the internet.

Genuine intent and follow through will take you far.

ALSO, and this one is gold. Engage with her in a conversation BEFORE you ask to see her private photos. She'll think you're just a pic collector if you ask for access to her photos before you say word one.

I like to think am not fake. Hahaha. I never send pics and I can guarantee that am seeing as many women off the site as the best of us. I currently have quite a few lined up. I wish I had the time off work to line them all up. Am meeting one tomorrow, another on Sunday and a couple next week. I think it's all whether you are able to come to terms $$wise. I stand corrected.

**DJprofessorK** · 09-08-21 18:37

Personally, I move convos to texting as soon as she's comfortable. If you're actually interested in meeting her and seeing her more than once, having a genuine convo with her should come naturally. From what I've been told, the fakes are usually doing this to multiple women at a time and rarely engage in in depth conversations. I set actual dates and times on when I'd like to meet them. The fakes (again, what I've been told by women) always use vague language like, 'let's try and meet up sometime in the next couple of weeks. ' Someone who is serious will say, 'Are you free on Tuesday? I really enjoy this restaurant, we could meet there and hash out details if you're free that evening. Let me know. '.

Have a picture ready to share. If you avoid sharing photos, it's not going to look good for you. Remember, women have every right to be terrified of meeting men from the internet.

Genuine intent and follow through will take you far.

ALSO, and this one is gold. Engage with her in a conversation BEFORE you ask to see her private photos. She'll think you're just a pic collector if you ask for access to her photos before you say word one.

Originally Posted by Djapa1234 [View Original Post]

How exactly do you stand out from fakes & phony'?

**Djapa1234** · 09-08-21 18:04

Originally Posted by DJprofessorK [View Original Post]

I'd worry about this a lot more if the vast majority of male members on SA weren't complete phonies and fakes with no intention of following through. You're absolutely spot on that they'll be bombarded with messages, but after I land a M&G with a POT and she sees that I'm not insane, can and will follow through, and I won't treat her like a piece of meat, then we're all good.

I do acknowledge that messaging takes a bit longer these days, a lot longer in some cases, but you can still stand out from the fakes with minimal effort and a little perseverance. And it goes without saying, none of these women can keep a secret, if a meet goes well, they IMMEDIATELY go and tell their friends. I've snagged 3 somes that way. And in some cases, their friends will even message me in private without their friend's knowledge who introduced me to them.

I hate cliches as much as the next guy, but it applies in SA: 90% is just showing up.

How exactly do you stand out from fakes & phony'?

**DJprofessorK** · 09-04-21 13:59

I'd worry about this a lot more if the vast majority of male members on SA weren't complete phonies and fakes with no intention of following through. You're absolutely spot on that they'll be bombarded with messages, but after I land a M&G with a POT and she sees that I'm not insane, can and will follow through, and I won't treat her like a piece of meat, then we're all good.

I do acknowledge that messaging takes a bit longer these days, a lot longer in some cases, but you can still stand out from the fakes with minimal effort and a little perseverance. And it goes without saying, none of these women can keep a secret, if a meet goes well, they IMMEDIATELY go and tell their friends. I've snagged 3 somes that way. And in some cases, their friends will even message me in private without their friend's knowledge who introduced me to them.

I hate cliches as much as the next guy, but it applies in SA: 90% is just showing up.

Originally Posted by Djapa1234 [View Original Post]

Usually discounted months result in twice the messages these bird brain sb's get, more competition for men & more confusion for chicks. Pointing out the obvious I think but thought I'd put it out there.

**DJprofessorK** · 09-04-21 13:54

As someone who was banned a few years back because of something that I didn't do, and wasn't allowed to dispute, you'll never catch me paying for multiple months of SA. The scenario you described was like mine and many others, I tried to log on one day and was told that I had violated the TOS. No warnings. No explanation. After I prodded customer service for a while they told me that I was attempting to 'start a business', made absolutely no sense. And was told that ban was final. I chalked it up as a lost cause and moved on, however I tried logging in a few months later, everything was fine. And I've been using it off and on ever since. Same email address. Same credit card. It's a joke.

Originally Posted by ChrisHansen92 [View Original Post]

I subscribe to your philosophy. I wait until about 25 days after the last day the promo expires. Then I rejoin. Less guy's at the pond fishing with me. Girl's then only get about 100 verses 150-200 messages when the promo guy's expire. Some say hey but I got a great discount by doing the 3 month promo. I won't risk that. They can ban you for anything (and will) with no refund, and I'm not losing paying for 3 month's and getting banned my second day after I pay them for 3 month's. Wade is a MIT graduate and has this all figured out. He knows with declining paying members he must do something. Hence discount's (and he is doing them more frequently every year after he raises the membership fee). You said "Promo codes attracts 5000 more mongers" was that figure published somewhere?

**LikesGirls** · 09-03-21 14:17

Originally Posted by Pubb69 [View Original Post]

Here's hoping he winds up in jail.

For what crime?

**Pubb69** · 09-03-21 10:16

Originally Posted by ChrisHansen92 [View Original Post]

I subscribe to your philosophy. I wait until about 25 days after the last day the promo expires. Then I rejoin. Less guy's at the pond fishing with me. Girl's then only get about 100 verses 150-200 messages when the promo guy's expire. Some say hey but I got a great discount by doing the 3 month promo. I won't risk that. They can ban you for anything (and will) with no refund, and I'm not losing paying for 3 month's and getting banned my second day after I pay them for 3 month's. Wade is a MIT graduate and has this all figured out. He knows with declining paying members he must do something. Hence discount's (and he is doing them more frequently every year after he raises the membership fee). You said "Promo codes attracts 5000 more mongers" was that figure published somewhere?

Here's hoping he winds up in jail.

**Biscuits1234** · 09-03-21 02:00

Boy oh boy, you guys aren't going to believe who's trying some bullshit on SA!! It's Alissa the redhead from Fayetteville. Goes by gingerbaby910 on SA.

Can't link because I blocked and reported her. Stay far the fuck away from this one. Tried to ask me for an "authentication fee" before she would speak to me LOL.

**Usmc0819** · 09-02-21 22:30

Originally Posted by Usmc0819 [View Original Post]

SA is sending out the 25% off mails. Going to end on the 6th. Will see if I can figure out the actual code.

Update: Code is FALL21 E25.

**ChrisHansen92** · 09-02-21 20:32

I subscribe to your philosophy. I wait until about 25 days after the last day the promo expires. Then I rejoin. Less guy's at the pond fishing with me. Girl's then only get about 100 verses 150-200 messages when the promo guy's expire. Some say hey but I got a great discount by doing the 3 month promo. I won't risk that. They can ban you for anything (and will) with no refund, and I'm not losing paying for 3 month's and getting banned my second day after I pay them for 3 month's. Wade is a MIT graduate and has this all figured out. He knows with declining paying members he must do something. Hence discount's (and he is doing them more frequently every year after he raises the membership fee). You said "Promo codes attracts 5000 more mongers" was that figure published somewhere?

Originally Posted by DJprofessorK [View Original Post]

Oh wow. I just sort of said that on a whim because I was just goofing off on the internet one night. I didn't actually expect them to do it for a holiday like Labor Day. It was just wishful thinking.

**DJprofessorK** · 09-02-21 18:35

Oh wow. I just sort of said that on a whim because I was just goofing off on the internet one night. I didn't actually expect them to do it for a holiday like Labor Day. It was just wishful thinking.

Originally Posted by Djapa1234 [View Original Post]

Promo codes attracts 5000 more mongers blowing up the inboxes of already scared / sceptical SBs.

You should not wait for a 30 $ discount to join LOL.

**Djapa1234** · 09-02-21 16:22

Originally Posted by Usmc0819 [View Original Post]

SA is sending out the 25% off mails. Going to end on the 6th. Will see if I can figure out the actual code.

Usually discounted months result in twice the messages these bird brain sb's get, more competition for men & more confusion for chicks. Pointing out the obvious I think but thought I'd put it out there.

**Usmc0819** · 09-02-21 15:56

SA is sending out the 25% off mails. Going to end on the 6th. Will see if I can figure out the actual code.

**Djapa1234** · 09-02-21 14:43

Originally Posted by LikesGirls [View Original Post]

She asked for $500 PPM and wouldn't budge, this was a year ago. What's her deal now?

Asked for 600 for overnight travel included to charlotte.

I think she just happens to be in charlotte & lied about travel.

Meeting at Panera to see if she actually looks decent in life.