Arrangement Reports

[Meddic80]

Traded a few messages with this one. Seems real. I think most guys stay away from Joliet but it works for my situation. Curious if anyone has some intel to share. Seems to be on-line a lot.

https://www.seeking.com/member/648e0...5-8e2347b46fac

Currently exchanging messages with her now. I'm almost there (locking a deal). I will report back when it's done.

[Dmm150]

Traded a few messages with this one. Seems real. I think most guys stay away from Joliet but it works for my situation. Curious if anyone has some intel to share. Seems to be on-line a lot.

https://www.seeking.com/member/648e0...5-8e2347b46fac

[Alfonsus]

Any info on this one: https://www.seeking.com/member/67e43...f-68bddb6379e7.

She looks familiar. Friend of mine said she offered BBFS.

[HitMan1783]

Hey guys. Any info on this one. https://www.seeking.com/member/c559f...c-4ff1ed8024b7.

[BBPluto]

Several positive reports over the past 1-1. 5 years or so. Used to do BBFS / CIP but stopped. When I talked to her she was still open to BBBJ. Nothing in the back door. And yeah, she's known to ghost out of nowhere. I never met up with her because of distance, but she's hot and nice.

Met her once last year, good time (BBBJ, but covered otherwise). Great body, very laid back, fun. And yeah then just disappeared. If you can hook up with her, I'd do it. She drives too, so location or distance is not a problem (at least wasn't for me).

[JustinFields]

I'm wondering if anyone had any experience with South asian / Indian girls on seeking. It's been on my bucket list.

Yes, I had a few from seeking. From my limited experience they like to ask a high price but will come down.

[RobotPorn]

I'm wondering if anyone had any experience with South asian / Indian girls on seeking. It's been on my bucket list.

[DynoJr]

I read an article a while ago about mongering that I found helpful. The guy was saying that preparation for the hobby is key for the married guys. I am fortunate to have a flexible schedule with odd hours especially prior to Covid but if you have a 9 to 5 job and a nosy wife it is a good idea to start by finding a hobby few month prior to starting mongering and he recommended swimming cause you can't pick up your phone or answer texts while in the pool and can explain why you return home freshly showered. The wife can start snooping around but you are really going to the pool at YMCA 1 - 2 a week for 2 - 3 months, but she won't find anything and lower her guard and then you can use the window you had carved to play instead of going to the pool. As far as money is concerned the author suggested to squirrel away small amounts over time and I was using my debit card at Costco to take 60 $ at the time and also I told my employers to send me paper checks instead of direct deposit and I will take 100 - 200 $ cash and deposit the rest. I personally prefer to play less often and "splurge" once a month for 300 - 500 $ instead of paying 75 $ for a high volume trashy ones, but obviously it depends on your financial capabilities. Of course you need a text app and e. Mail dedicated only for mongering. For me the saying "Pigs get fed and hogs get slaughtered" has been working well and if you play smart and not too often you can hide your secret life for a long time and my wife is a big time Gestapo but I have been successful with these strategy tips so far.

I pretty much do all of this, including the swimming but without realizing it. If you have a reason, say you have the ability to do a side hustle, open up a new bank account for business although this is all cash based so I suppose a sock drawer works too. Only time it got complicated was when I did the sugar bowl which is almost like another marriage.

[Yardy00]

https://www.seeking.com/member/5baa9...5-6443af47aa28

This one will tell you nothings off limits and drive to your place. Wants the money right outside your door before going in. I said sure since I'm not wasting time going anywhere. I planned on giving her an empty envelope. If she runs I'm not at a loss but if she didn't then I'd reward her honesty later. Turns out she just grabbed the envelope and hopped in the car and drove off.

Be careful. Will try to rush you.

She's had multiple accounts, wanted $50 deposit and another $150 when we met, yeah, no thanks.

[Dbomb]

Has been around and half the guys in here have probably seen her.

https://www.seeking.com/member/09326...6-c0e23f65b1e0

Anyone care to share a report?

Pm me if you prefer.

Several positive reports over the past 1-1. 5 years or so. Used to do BBFS / CIP but stopped. When I talked to her she was still open to BBBJ. Nothing in the back door. And yeah, she's known to ghost out of nowhere. I never met up with her because of distance, but she's hot and nice.

[Jayp80]

I've never been married so maybe this is normal and I didn't realize it, but is it that common to have 100% blended finances? No separate accounts or cards at all whatsoever?

I was always under the impression that married couples have a joint account for joint expenses and savings but then each had their own thing.

My wife and I have both shared and separate accounts and I have 5-6 Credit cards she doesn't have access to that date back to my travel for work days so I can easily hide my expenses from her. The thing with women is they can smell happiness on you and once they do you better have your story straight and all the evidence hidden. If you guys start having more sex or less sex, you start coming home earlier or later. Anything suspicious she will start questioning. Why do you have so much cash on you? Where did you spend that cash you had in your wallet yesterday?

[Woodson2019]

Met her last week for a drink. She is on SA everyday. Profile pic is not her. Private pics were her but maybe 7-10 years ago. Closer to 40 yo, 20-30 lbs heavier. Annoying.

https://www.seeking.com/member/452fb...1-0247ebd712e7

[StanCopier]

Met her for lunch to meet, gave her a few dollars, then a week or two later met her at a hotel. Immaculate body, likes for you to shower with her and she continues to shower after every round. Nice girls, talks like an 80's valley girl, decent sex. We were very friendly then she disappeared, which from what I have read seems to be here thing.

Has been around and half the guys in here have probably seen her.

https://www.seeking.com/member/09326...6-c0e23f65b1e0

Anyone care to share a report?

Pm me if you prefer.

[Fit312]

I've never been married so maybe this is normal and I didn't realize it, but is it that common to have 100% blended finances? No separate accounts or cards at all whatsoever?

That's a good way to wind up like John Malkovich in Burn After Reading.

[DWaits]

Some bank accounts (all?) will show cashback coming with transactions. So you go to Target, buy whatever junk you buy, and withdraw 60 to start to build up for the hobby, that 60 shows up on the bank statement as cashback.