"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Geechie Dan** · 09-01-21 12:35

Originally Posted by ChrisHansen92 [View Original Post]

Its tempting to save money. But if you need to save 25/33% off the membership your not ready to be real and serious in this game. Used to be like that and revised my strategy. I now wait until about 25 days after the promo discount expired then join. Then the bargain shoppers and coupon queens are done and on the sidelines waiting again to save 25-35 bucks and out of the game. That's when I am able to scoop up some nice finds. Because much less competition and much less guys fishing at the same pond as me. If your chasing nice girls in the 18-25 range it's overwhelming for them. I have seen the message count from girls when we hang out and talk about the app. Most get over 100 messages a day. Again you do you and save a few bucks. I get it sir!

Let me make this abundantly clear, I don't "need" to save 25-33% off, but I LIKE to save whenever I can. Because of all the scammers, fakes, and flakes on SA I like to get my money's worth, especially since they went up on membership. I find it comical that people are judging whether someone is ready for the Sugar Bowl just because they want to save whenever they can. I've been a player in the Bowl for several years now and I've done quite well with my strategy.

**Member #7176** · 09-01-21 12:02

I normal sign up 3 months at a time. I have done the month to month, but find that there are so many girls that I had to stop working on because my premium expired. I like to go hard on M&G and hook ups during this time. Then take a 2-3 months break to enjoy the fruits of my 3 months of labor. So 33% off 3 months adds up. Not a big deal for how much I spent on this hobby, but always nice to save some money when I can. Everyone play is a little different, so just do what works best for your situation.

Originally Posted by ChrisHansen92 [View Original Post]

Its tempting to save money. But if you need to save 25/33% off the membership your not ready to be real and serious in this game. Used to be like that and revised my strategy. I now wait until about 25 days after the promo discount expired then join. Then the bargain shoppers and coupon queens are done and on the sidelines waiting again to save 25-35 bucks and out of the game. That's when I am able to scoop up some nice finds. Because much less competition and much less guys fishing at the same pond as me. If your chasing nice girls in the 18-25 range it's overwhelming for them. I have seen the message count from girls when we hang out and talk about the app. Most get over 100 messages a day. Again you do you and save a few bucks. I get it sir!

**DickLongwood** · 09-01-21 11:48

Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]

I understand both sides. 100 for a 30 day membership isn't a big deal for me from a financial standpoint. My issue is value. The last two times I have paid for membership have been a waste of time. I am tired of the GP, platonic only. Sob story and flakey bitches that are on that site. If I am going to throw away money on membership, then yeah I would like to save a few bucks on membership and instead focus on saving money for good sex. Plus, you also have to remember all of the other expenses that come with this hobby. You spend so much time on line, trying to get seen and get them to text you back. Then you have the meet up. You spend your time and money on a date. Even after that you are still not guranteed anything. Last time I spent 100 and all I got was a lot of flakey bitches and I did have one meet and great and paid for dinner and turns out she was uglier in person So remember it isn't just about the membership there are other expenses you have and at the end of it you still get nothing. However, you do bring up a good point. Does it harder to get a girl's attention when there is a sale? These girls already get 100's of emails without a sale so maybe they do get more when they have a sale. My attitude is really poor toward SA, but let's face it I am still going to come back more LOL, so if they want me back I would like to save a few bucks. That is my thought process and it am good with that. I am not going to rag on anyone for wanting to save a few bucks but if you are adamant about saving a few bucks then you need to realize that this is just the beginning and there is more expense along the way if you are serious about being a SD. Good hunting everyone.

Two additional thoughts on the SA discounts: (1) Wade has raised his prices, even though the website performance has deteriorated and it is full of fakes, flakes, and scammers. The occasional sale "feels" like a bit of a break. (2) The discount also works on the 3-month membership. It is typically offered around several holidays. If one books 3 months at the discount, it is possible to pay the sale rate for almost the whole year. Saving $360 per year equates to about one free date per year for some of us. Considering that most of us spend 4 figures or 5 figures in the sugar bowl, $360 is not a big deal, but every little bit helps.

**TheHobbyLobby** · 09-01-21 10:42

Originally Posted by ChrisHansen92 [View Original Post]

Its tempting to save money. But if you need to save 25/33% off the membership your not ready to be real and serious in this game. Used to be like that and revised my strategy. I now wait until about 25 days after the promo discount expired then join. Then the bargain shoppers and coupon queens are done and on the sidelines waiting again to save 25-35 bucks and out of the game. That's when I am able to scoop up some nice finds. Because much less competition and much less guys fishing at the same pond as me. If your chasing nice girls in the 18-25 range it's overwhelming for them. I have seen the message count from girls when we hang out and talk about the app. Most get over 100 messages a day. Again you do you and save a few bucks. I get it sir!

I understand both sides. 100 for a 30 day membership isn't a big deal for me from a financial standpoint. My issue is value. The last two times I have paid for membership have been a waste of time. I am tired of the GP, platonic only. Sob story and flakey bitches that are on that site. If I am going to throw away money on membership, then yeah I would like to save a few bucks on membership and instead focus on saving money for good sex. Plus, you also have to remember all of the other expenses that come with this hobby. You spend so much time on line, trying to get seen and get them to text you back. Then you have the meet up. You spend your time and money on a date. Even after that you are still not guranteed anything. Last time I spent 100 and all I got was a lot of flakey bitches and I did have one meet and great and paid for dinner and turns out she was uglier in person So remember it isn't just about the membership there are other expenses you have and at the end of it you still get nothing. However, you do bring up a good point. Does it harder to get a girl's attention when there is a sale? These girls already get 100's of emails without a sale so maybe they do get more when they have a sale. My attitude is really poor toward SA, but let's face it I am still going to come back more LOL, so if they want me back I would like to save a few bucks. That is my thought process and it am good with that. I am not going to rag on anyone for wanting to save a few bucks but if you are adamant about saving a few bucks then you need to realize that this is just the beginning and there is more expense along the way if you are serious about being a SD. Good hunting everyone.

**SmoothJazz2** · 09-01-21 00:17

Originally Posted by EasyeOne [View Original Post]

That's exoticbby? If yes, was fun but would not repeat, is too mechanical / business in and out.

Please PM me link or info. Thanks.

**ChrisHansen92** · 08-31-21 23:47

Its tempting to save money. But if you need to save 25/33% off the membership your not ready to be real and serious in this game. Used to be like that and revised my strategy. I now wait until about 25 days after the promo discount expired then join. Then the bargain shoppers and coupon queens are done and on the sidelines waiting again to save 25-35 bucks and out of the game. That's when I am able to scoop up some nice finds. Because much less competition and much less guys fishing at the same pond as me. If your chasing nice girls in the 18-25 range it's overwhelming for them. I have seen the message count from girls when we hang out and talk about the app. Most get over 100 messages a day. Again you do you and save a few bucks. I get it sir!

Originally Posted by GeechieDan [View Original Post]

For the record, SA typically gives a 33% discount which would be about a $33 discount since they're rates are about $100 per month. Every bit counts. If it doesn't mean that much to you, then cashapp me $33.

I'll take whatever discount I can get. I guess you're turning them down? Well good for you.

**Geechie Dan** · 08-31-21 23:24

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

Seriously, $20 is that important to you? How do you afford allowance?

For the record, SA typically gives a 33% discount which would be about a $33 discount since they're rates are about $100 per month. Every bit counts. If it doesn't mean that much to you, then cashapp me $33.

I'll take whatever discount I can get. I guess you're turning them down? Well good for you.

**Shampoo55** · 08-31-21 21:34

Originally Posted by BobLobLa [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f4d9c...3-fc212077dfe9

Sob story about earning minimum wage at a day care center so she can get free day care for her kid.

Recovering from reproductive surgery, but happy to be eye candy over dinner until she can bang it out (which would be never).

Claims this is not her first rodeo -- hell if I could get someone to pay me to eat dinner it would be my fultime job!

Must be a graduate from What Is Your Price?

**FarFarAway** · 08-31-21 18:49

Originally Posted by GeechieDan [View Original Post]

Anyone have an idea of when the next Seeking discount is offered? I got a lot of mail I need to answer. LOL.

Seriously, $20 is that important to you? How do you afford allowance?

**BobLobLa** · 08-31-21 12:25

https://www.seeking.com/member/f4d9c...3-fc212077dfe9

Sob story about earning minimum wage at a day care center so she can get free day care for her kid.

Recovering from reproductive surgery, but happy to be eye candy over dinner until she can bang it out (which would be never).

Claims this is not her first rodeo -- hell if I could get someone to pay me to eat dinner it would be my fultime job!

**DickLongwood** · 08-31-21 11:12

Originally Posted by GeechieDan [View Original Post]

Anyone have an idea of when the next Seeking discount is offered? I got a lot of mail I need to answer. LOL.

My guess is Labor Day, starting maybe this Thursday or Friday.

**Geechie Dan** · 08-30-21 22:34

Anyone have an idea of when the next Seeking discount is offered? I got a lot of mail I need to answer. LOL.

**Hungre1234** · 08-30-21 19:05

I had something better come along so I didn't meet her but maybe paying it forward to one of you, she's mostly definitely DTF and is willing to take 200. Don't white knight her with higher offers and a few of you might get to enjoy it. She's 19, can't host and definitely BBW.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b4578...e-b65cc37ed20b