Sugar Baby / Sugar Daddy relationships

**Cmqiu018** · 08-31-21 14:43

Originally Posted by ZenAdventurer [View Original Post]

I'm a writer by vocation. I've encountered a number of different posts with supposedly different subjects, but when you engage with them and they start asking for money, the tone and "voice" and language are the same. Sweetie, honey baby.

Ha. I've noticed the term "dear" a lot from scammers. Not used as much by the younger generation, so easy to spot. But I have also noticed that there are a lot more scammers that have a pretty good command of the English language which makes them hard to spot right off.

**Fitzyj76** · 08-31-21 14:13

She checks a lot of boxes for me LOL. Does anyone here have any info on this one?

https://www.seeking.com/member/ea028...8-d57e76458caa

**Dmm150** · 08-31-21 11:50

Originally Posted by WanderingAbout [View Original Post]

You sure do like SA profiles that don't show faces (3 out of 4 are faceless).

Haha. That's a fair call-out!! I didn't realize that until you pointed it out! Just sharing my experiences. Luckily, I have had better success with others on the site.

**OnlyBlondes** · 08-31-21 09:23

Originally Posted by ZenAdventurer [View Original Post]

A good test. Don't under any circumstances send cash up front for anything. Specify pay per meet (PPM), suggest a date / location, and if they ghost you, it was a scam. If that say, sure, let's talk about getting together (and don't ask for any money), they're probably legit. A lot will email you until the "ask" - for rent, sick kid, car payment, getting electricity turned off. And as soon as you set parameters, crickets. Corresponded with one promising young lass who only had one pic on her profile and only sent me pictures of her dogs when we were getting to know each other. Red flag. The requests for cash came early and fast. Which is when you ghost them back. Seeking is a waste, other than for PPM / escorts, for the most part. I see guys extolling their conquests here, but I've yet to meet one person, so I have to call into question those reports. Please, send us links for the legit ones, but if they start asking for cash right away. Not legit. I'll try this young lady and see what happens. Thanks for posting.

My experience had been completely opposite of you. Yes, there are girls on there that wants PPM, rents, the kitchen sink etc. Yes, there are girls that will give you for free or want platonic, they come in all size and shapes.

Most of the guys are looking to get laid and approach them as prostitutes' or treat them as a piece of meat. When this happens, it messes up the experience for them, hence closing of accounts. If you approach them and only talk about slamming them in bed, you'll get treated as a ATM. If you treat them as a human being, actually take the time to know them and show sincerity, you'll get some of the hot girls whom are on there for the experience and not so much PPM. I will attest to this all day, twice on Sunday.

For the last 2 years or so, I've had more than 60+ vaginas from 18-38, most are under 22 as that's my preference. At any given time, I'll have over 4 on rotation to keep me busy, yes am a maniac. 98% of them wasn't a one and done, they're all college girls whom wants experience and tired of the frats and fuckboys.

I haven't been on there for quite some time and are now with just one girl since the beginning of the year. Yes, you read it right, one to where I am seeing often from this site and kept my interest peak as a real sugar baby, without the PPM or transactional. I don't foreseeing throwing her back in the pond to trade as she had two long term arrangements in the past.

Take this post how ever you want to, approach them as a piece of meat and you'll get the same treatment back. If you approach them like a gentlemen and make it to third base, you're in for a ride, put some effort and watch the fruition of your labor.

**Zen Adventurer** · 08-29-21 21:33

Originally Posted by ZenAdventurer [View Original Post]

A good test. Don't under any circumstances send cash up front for anything. Specify pay per meet (PPM), suggest a date / location, and if they ghost you, it was a scam. If that say, sure, let's talk about getting together (and don't ask for any money), they're probably legit. A lot will email you until the "ask" - for rent, sick kid, car payment, getting electricity turned off. And as soon as you set parameters, crickets. Corresponded with one promising young lass who only had one pic on her profile and only sent me pictures of her dogs when we were getting to know each other. Red flag. The requests for cash came early and fast. Which is when you ghost them back. Seeking is a waste, other than for PPM / escorts, for the most part. I see guys extolling their conquests here, but I've yet to meet one person, so I have to call into question those reports. Please, send us links for the legit ones, but if they start asking for cash right away. Not legit. I'll try this young lady and see what happens. Thanks for posting.

I'm a writer by vocation. I've encountered a number of different posts with supposedly different subjects, but when you engage with them and they start asking for money, the tone and "voice" and language are the same. Sweetie, honey baby. Even if they supposedly know your name. I think a group gets together with their Cash App handles, they post a series of fake profiles, they each conduct a series of fake interactions, all hoping to get money. It would be so easy. The whole thing for the most part is a scam.

**MiscGuy** · 08-29-21 20:48

As always, YMMV. But in 4 weeks, I have not been out for any dates, but have been to bed with 4 from SA. I paid 2 of the 4. The other 2 just wanted to do it as much as I did. I have several now who want to meet, but we have just not set the agreed on the price / time / place yet. Along the way, there have been a lot of conversations. I talked with 1 who was obviously not in the area, but claimed that she was, and wanted money for pizza. Another talked for a week, and then wanted money up front before the meet. So there are all kinds on there for sure. But it is hardly a wasteland! I wish that I was 20 years younger, and could perform the way I used to. And I would have my hands full! So, if you haven't met anyone yet, I am not sure what to tell you. Keep chasing. They are out there.

Originally Posted by ZenAdventurer [View Original Post]

A good test. Don't under any circumstances send cash up front for anything. Specify pay per meet (PPM), suggest a date / location, and if they ghost you, it was a scam. If that say, sure, let's talk about getting together (and don't ask for any money), they're probably legit. A lot will email you until the "ask" - for rent, sick kid, car payment, getting electricity turned off. And as soon as you set parameters, crickets. Corresponded with one promising young lass who only had one pic on her profile and only sent me pictures of her dogs when we were getting to know each other. Red flag. The requests for cash came early and fast. Which is when you ghost them back. Seeking is a waste, other than for PPM / escorts, for the most part. I see guys extolling their conquests here, but I've yet to meet one person, so I have to call into question those reports. Please, send us links for the legit ones, but if they start asking for cash right away. Not legit. I'll try this young lady and see what happens. Thanks for posting.

**Zen Adventurer** · 08-29-21 20:23

Originally Posted by Wolves432 [View Original Post]

And they don't have a filled out profile as well. They probably found a random picture and are using it to catfish people. I don't like to even start messaging unless the person has at least 3-4 unique pictures.

A good test. Don't under any circumstances send cash up front for anything. Specify pay per meet (PPM), suggest a date / location, and if they ghost you, it was a scam. If that say, sure, let's talk about getting together (and don't ask for any money), they're probably legit. A lot will email you until the "ask" - for rent, sick kid, car payment, getting electricity turned off. And as soon as you set parameters, crickets. Corresponded with one promising young lass who only had one pic on her profile and only sent me pictures of her dogs when we were getting to know each other. Red flag. The requests for cash came early and fast. Which is when you ghost them back. Seeking is a waste, other than for PPM / escorts, for the most part. I see guys extolling their conquests here, but I've yet to meet one person, so I have to call into question those reports. Please, send us links for the legit ones, but if they start asking for cash right away. Not legit. I'll try this young lady and see what happens. Thanks for posting.

**FirstClass1** · 08-29-21 16:14

Originally Posted by Wolves432 [View Original Post]

And they don't have a filled out profile as well. They probably found a random picture and are using it to catfish people. I don't like to even start messaging unless the person has at least 3-4 unique pictures.

I had the same skepticism of such one picture accounts at one time, but in many ways this is a numbers game. The one photo, one sentence accounts may be scammers, or as I've experienced, discreet undertakings by more inexperienced girls.

I reached out to one of these "one photo one sentence" accounts, and it was a super hot 18 year old who wanted to get some quick money and sexual experience. She's now a Tik Tok model with a six-figure following. It was a pleasure to creampie her.

**Wolves432** · 08-29-21 15:59

Originally Posted by ZakkWylde [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/5a293...9-3c32adf19b9e

Not as many red flags along the way but the same result at the end. You make plans to meet up and then she needs uber money. Sigh.

And they don't have a filled out profile as well. They probably found a random picture and are using it to catfish people. I don't like to even start messaging unless the person has at least 3-4 unique pictures.

**Zakk Wylde** · 08-29-21 15:24

https://www.seeking.com/member/5a293...9-3c32adf19b9e

Not as many red flags along the way but the same result at the end. You make plans to meet up and then she needs uber money. Sigh.

**Zakk Wylde** · 08-29-21 13:57

https://www.seeking.com/member/b9f33...a-72e6e9b1ea0c

Fake. Makes plan to meet up and then wants you to send gas money first. A million red flags before that too.

**BabbyGirrl1313** · 08-28-21 17:31

Heard there's a few people looking for contact info for Jordyn.

Message me for digits.

**WanderingAbout** · 08-28-21 16:09

You sure do like SA profiles that don't show faces (3 out of 4 are faceless).

Originally Posted by Dmm150 [View Original Post]

Thought I'd share some info on a few I've talked with. Perhaps others can have better luck.

Hhl2.

Good conversation. Got digits. Agreed on a M&G. She ghosted me. And of course on-line when we were supposed to meet. Now just crickets.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2cc25...e-6b2a5f3ec637

Red_Head.

Traded a few messages. Got digits. Checked social. She's real. Agreed to M&G. Cancelled at the last minute.

https://www.seeking.com/member/06a03...4-5bf04cbfdfea

Kellycharmed.

Good conversation. Got digits. 400 Can't host. Just kind of lost interest and moved on.

https://www.seeking.com/member/45f53...3-2aadccdbcfc3

Maria.

Ft. Wayne. Says she comes to Indy sometimes. Started aggressively bugging me about meeting. Feels like a scam. Pass.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2c454...5-6ad428f5354f

**Doc Ins** · 08-27-21 17:20

Originally Posted by RonBurgIndy [View Original Post]

Maria wanted $1200 per date and didn't budge, good luck. I'm awarding her the PPS Platinum Pussy Syndrome.

Maria from Ft Wayne? I have talked to her and traded a couple of pics. She runs hot and cold via text. I tried to connect with her when she was in Anderson but she ghosted me the day of and then pretended not to know the next day. If she is $1200, then a total waste of time.

**BabbyGirrl1313** · 08-27-21 16:13

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