Rants and Raves plus Stupid Shit

[Tomb8871]

https://aspergers.disabledmate.com/

Seems like a very good alternative if site is halfway decent. Certainly worth a try imo.

[WarDog23]

This is BY FAR the BEST ANSWER I have ever seen!!

You hit every nail square on the head.

KUDOS to you sir!

I am almost speechless at how perfect this reply / answer is.

Bravo my dude. BRAVO!

Peace.

PK.

https://aspergers.disabledmate.com/

[Loki Pk]

This is BY FAR the BEST ANSWER I have ever seen!!

You hit every nail square on the head.

KUDOS to you sir!

I am almost speechless at how perfect this reply / answer is.

Bravo my dude. BRAVO!

Peace.

PK.

"Society" as a whole does not know you. Your problem is that you are entirely too busy seeking both pity and approval from a bunch of men who have other more important concerns in their lives and could care less about your sorry ass.

I'm down on you because the solution to your problem was suggested to you on these forums quite a while back, and you rejected the idea out of hand.

It was suggested to you on here that you find an organization or group with people who have a similar condition as yours (Aspergers) and perhaps you could even find the girl of your dreams in the process by involving yourself with people like yourself who would be more likely than "society" to understand what you are going through and what you need. Who better than those like you?

But, no-your too fucking good for them, or somehow better than they are. Or they are not good enough for you. You were not even willing to give it a try. So, as far as I am concerned-screw you.

Don't you see? You have already become that broken creepy man if you are on here begging strangers-who have no fucking obligation to you whatsoever-to get you a fucking girlfriend.

[I am also obsessed with Jada ignore my posts]

"Society" as a whole does not know you. Your problem is that you are entirely too busy seeking both pity and approval from a bunch of men who have other more important concerns in their lives and could care less about your sorry ass.

I'm down on you because the solution to your problem was suggested to you on these forums quite a while back, and you rejected the idea out of hand.

It was suggested to you on here that you find an organization or group with people who have a similar condition as yours (Aspergers) and perhaps you could even find the girl of your dreams in the process by involving yourself with people like yourself who would be more likely than "society" to understand what you are going through and what you need. Who better than those like you?

But, no-your too fucking good for them, or somehow better than they are. Or they are not good enough for you. You were not even willing to give it a try. So, as far as I am concerned-screw you.

Don't you see? You have already become that broken creepy man if you are on here begging strangers-who have no fucking obligation to you whatsoever-to get you a fucking girlfriend.

I am not seeking pity from fellow mongers. I am saying that society in general views me like that, as I have no friends and spend all my time alone. And I do not come on to bash providers in an attempt to seek pity from you guys. No I come on here to expose these providers (Jada, Riddle Girl, now Violet, and many others whom I have had bad dealings with) for how they wronged me as a form of "payback", hoping it ruins their business or they at least see my posts and know that I am angry at them, etc.

And in regards to the suggestion of finding a girl with Asperger's. Yes I am aware in the past (about two years ago I think), I made those statements expressing negatively towards the idea, even saying that I mock other people with my condition. However, my train of thinking has changed and now I would be willing to gladly date a girl with Asperger. The reason I previously thought differently was primarily because I was seeing a bad therapist who basically told me I can't have a girlfriend because I have Asperger (I mentioned him on the other site). He did not directly tell me that, but he implied it constantly and was very negative and in turn caused me much stress (no I did not misperceive him, he really did act this way). Like one time he told me that a person in a wheelchair has to accept they can't walk, that's how I had to be with accepting I can't have a girlfriend. Whenever I saw young couples in public, I would relive his imaginary words in my head "No, not for you, your autistic and can't have a girlfriend" (he never said that, but his actions made me think those words by him). Since I got rid of him, I am doing much better and now am accepting of others with my condition. The other factor was I had misterotyped Asperger people as goodie two-shoe innocent celibates. No they are not like that. I had Asperger's people mixed up with the evangelical Christians who live that way. I was raised religious and had all that forced on me, which in turn made me angry and rebellious (even partially why I partake this hobby to rebel against Christianity). But now I see aspergers people are not like that, I had it all mixed up.

And within the last year, I have joined aspergers online communities and even made friends with a few aspergers girls. But none for dating because their either live too far away (across country or even across the world) or are already taken (many aspergers girls are quite attractive and end up dating / marrying normal guys, so it seems that aspergers effects guys harder socially than it does with girls).

[TooTorrid]

Before you go calling me a dumbass, note I never saw the movie, so I didn't know what you were referring to. But I will tell you why I chose my latest username, Aqualung. From the old early 70's song by Jethro Tull.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B0jMPI_pUec

Honestly I am so down in life, that I fear that broken old creepy man discarded by society in the song (Aqualung), is me in another 30-40 years. I will die old and alone and hated by society like him. Can somebody please find me a girlfriend? So I can quit this hobby once and for all and ride off into the sunset, never to be seen again.

"Society" as a whole does not know you. Your problem is that you are entirely too busy seeking both pity and approval from a bunch of men who have other more important concerns in their lives and could care less about your sorry ass.

I'm down on you because the solution to your problem was suggested to you on these forums quite a while back, and you rejected the idea out of hand.

It was suggested to you on here that you find an organization or group with people who have a similar condition as yours (Aspergers) and perhaps you could even find the girl of your dreams in the process by involving yourself with people like yourself who would be more likely than "society" to understand what you are going through and what you need. Who better than those like you?

But, no-your too fucking good for them, or somehow better than they are. Or they are not good enough for you. You were not even willing to give it a try. So, as far as I am concerned-screw you.

Don't you see? You have already become that broken creepy man if you are on here begging strangers-who have no fucking obligation to you whatsoever-to get you a fucking girlfriend.

[I am also obsessed with Jada ignore my posts]

The band camp reference is from the movie American pie.

Before you go calling me a dumbass, note I never saw the movie, so I didn't know what you were referring to. But I will tell you why I chose my latest username, Aqualung. From the old early 70's song by Jethro Tull.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B0jMPI_pUec

Honestly I am so down in life, that I fear that broken old creepy man discarded by society in the song (Aqualung), is me in another 30-40 years. I will die old and alone and hated by society like him. Can somebody please find me a girlfriend? So I can quit this hobby once and for all and ride off into the sunset, never to be seen again.

[Visionary11]

That wasn't band camp. That was a highschool theater camp, I attended when I was 14 (August 2001), held at the Lakeridge Farm Recreation Center (now Buckley Farm) on Rt. 50 in Burnt Hills. I got kicked out of the camp, because a girl I liked rejected me, So I tried to grab her face and kiss her. Then I was lying on the floor crying "I want a girlfriend " as the other teens literally walked over me. It was so bad that if social media and video phones had been around in 2001, I would have gone viral. I was probably the talk of the town with all the kids when they went back to school a few weeks later, but soon forgotten when 9/11 happened. Now twenty years later, I still want a girlfriend and haven't accomplished my goals. But now in a monger like the rest of you.

The band camp reference is from the movie American pie.

[I am also obsessed with Jada ignore my posts]

You are by far the dumbest motherfucker I have ever seen on any hooker board ever.

Are you going to tell us about your prom date next? Or that one time, at band camp?

Oh my fucking God!

PK.

That wasn't band camp. That was a highschool theater camp, I attended when I was 14 (August 2001), held at the Lakeridge Farm Recreation Center (now Buckley Farm) on Rt. 50 in Burnt Hills. I got kicked out of the camp, because a girl I liked rejected me, So I tried to grab her face and kiss her. Then I was lying on the floor crying "I want a girlfriend " as the other teens literally walked over me. It was so bad that if social media and video phones had been around in 2001, I would have gone viral. I was probably the talk of the town with all the kids when they went back to school a few weeks later, but soon forgotten when 9/11 happened. Now twenty years later, I still want a girlfriend and haven't accomplished my goals. But now in a monger like the rest of you.

[Loki Pk]

You are by far the dumbest motherfucker I have ever seen on any hooker board ever.

Are you going to tell us about your prom date next? Or that one time, at band camp?

Oh my fucking God!

PK.

Hey you all remember the story of that girl last summer (August 22,2020) I hooked up with on Sylvan Beach. Just before sunset, she approached me, a complete stranger, then after 5 minutes was making out with me in the water and tried to have sex with me right in the water. But I couldn't do it there because I was afraid people were around, so we went to her nearby apartment and did 2 rounds of BBFS and had the best night in my life, we hung out and danced naked together etc. Then I gave her my number and she never called. And it was her 39th birthday, last year when this happened.

Anyways, a few weeks ago, I decided to return to the exact same spot, exactly one year later on August 22 at the exact time to see if she returned for her 40th birthday. I swam as I watched the sunlight turn to stars and nobody else came by. In other words, no she did not come, but I was not surprised. But I decided to try again a second time. Last Monday I had gone to the NYS Fair in Syracuse and on the way home decided to stop at Sylvan Beach since it was on the way. I came to the beach and saw this married couple outside on their yard having a bond fire, one house over from the beach. I approached them and asked if they knew their neighbors. They said, "its a community, so mostly everyone knows each other" I asked if they knew Laciee (girl at beach) and they told me that she just got evicted from her apartment one week earlier (around the time of her birthday) and now someone across town took her in. So that means she had been staying at the same place, I hooked up with, this entire time. I asked if she comes to this spot, they told me every now and then. I then explained how I hooked up with her and wanted to make sure she didn't have any kids. The husband told me, "yeah she has a 3 month old". I panicked at first, but then he laughed saying that he got me, he was joking and no she doesn't have any kids. That reassured me that I did not get her pregnant that night we hooked up last year. I again swam as the sun set and turned to night and no she did not come by.

From what I gathered, it sounds like the girl at the beach is a hit or miss situation. You might run into her at the beach, but I wouldn't count on it. Definitely not worth the drive out there all the time for the small hopes of seeing her. Maybe once or twice a summer, like what I do and be like hey maybe, small chance, but don't count on it. As far as her being a UTR, I have no idea, I do not know if she hooks with guys like she did me. I will try again Summer 2022.

[I am also obsessed with Jada ignore my posts]

Hey you all remember the story of that girl last summer (August 22,2020) I hooked up with on Sylvan Beach. Just before sunset, she approached me, a complete stranger, then after 5 minutes was making out with me in the water and tried to have sex with me right in the water. But I couldn't do it there because I was afraid people were around, so we went to her nearby apartment and did 2 rounds of BBFS and had the best night in my life, we hung out and danced naked together etc. Then I gave her my number and she never called. And it was her 39th birthday, last year when this happened.

Anyways, a few weeks ago, I decided to return to the exact same spot, exactly one year later on August 22 at the exact time to see if she returned for her 40th birthday. I swam as I watched the sunlight turn to stars and nobody else came by. In other words, no she did not come, but I was not surprised. But I decided to try again a second time. Last Monday I had gone to the NYS Fair in Syracuse and on the way home decided to stop at Sylvan Beach since it was on the way. I came to the beach and saw this married couple outside on their yard having a bond fire, one house over from the beach. I approached them and asked if they knew their neighbors. They said, "its a community, so mostly everyone knows each other" I asked if they knew Laciee (girl at beach) and they told me that she just got evicted from her apartment one week earlier (around the time of her birthday) and now someone across town took her in. So that means she had been staying at the same place, I hooked up with, this entire time. I asked if she comes to this spot, they told me every now and then. I then explained how I hooked up with her and wanted to make sure she didn't have any kids. The husband told me, "yeah she has a 3 month old". I panicked at first, but then he laughed saying that he got me, he was joking and no she doesn't have any kids. That reassured me that I did not get her pregnant that night we hooked up last year. I again swam as the sun set and turned to night and no she did not come by.

From what I gathered, it sounds like the girl at the beach is a hit or miss situation. You might run into her at the beach, but I wouldn't count on it. Definitely not worth the drive out there all the time for the small hopes of seeing her. Maybe once or twice a summer, like what I do and be like hey maybe, small chance, but don't count on it. As far as her being a UTR, I have no idea, I do not know if she hooks with guys like she did me. I will try again Summer 2022.

[TooTorrid]

Jesus Christ dude obsess much. LMFAO You seem to be so personally butt hurt. Get the fuck over it.

I am over it-now that your comments have been moved to "stupid shit" where they belong.

Now YOU get over it!

[Hobbist9]

I searched for it but could not find this whole "you got to give to get" any where in the rules of these forums. I must have missed something.

Again-I most sincerely apologize.

Jesus Christ dude obsess much. LMFAO You seem to be so personally butt hurt. Get the fuck over it.

[TooTorrid]

I believe you should contribute before asking for help. If you don't agree, tough shit. That's how I feel.

I searched for it but could not find this whole "you got to give to get" any where in the rules of these forums. I must have missed something.

Again-I most sincerely apologize.

[TooTorrid]

I believe you should contribute before asking for help. If you don't agree, tough shit. That's how I feel.

And risk chasing them away by making them feel unwelcome? Why?

I thought A2 had already determined that this was an unwise course of action?

[Hobbist9]

I most sincerely apologize to you if I am mistaken-but is it not OK for a newbie to ask questions?

I believe you should contribute before asking for help. If you don't agree, tough shit. That's how I feel.