"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**Jcn1965** · 06-29-21 10:52

Originally Posted by Btt123 [View Original Post]

How do you ask what's on the menu without asking what's on the menu?

Are you talking during initial text or call? If so it's tough because you don't want to get to explicit. Honestly I never ask over text of call. I don't talk about anything but when, where and how long. You look at their ad or hope somebody reviewed them but it's always YMMV. It's a crapshoot sometimes but with proper research and patience you can get exactly what your looking for. Again try not to incriminate yourself thru texts. Keep it short and non sexual. Just a meeting of companionship. Be safe.

**BlueDrive** · 06-29-21 07:42

Originally Posted by SaTraveler [View Original Post]

She is real -- but becoming UN-reliable -- she was always bad communicator and last minute only.

Also did the same thing to another friend. Then claimed her BF had tracked her and she had to dash -- with other evidence we believed her -- now I am not so sure and seeing a pattern.

Cannot post it here. But have a real FB page.

She's apparently staying in low rent motels up and down the 95 corridor, some heavily monitored by Uncle. She's a mess, will blow up your # between the hours of 1 am-4 am claiming she's at "work". Hot mess at this point I blocked the # finally.

**Ernest Ll** · 06-29-21 05:46

Originally Posted by Btt123 [View Original Post]

How do you ask what's on the menu without asking what's on the menu?

"Anything on your No Fly List for sugar playtime?

**FarFarAway** · 06-29-21 02:30

Originally Posted by Btt123 [View Original Post]

How do you ask what's on the menu without asking what's on the menu?

If a girl has a menu, or a time (hour, QV, whatever), she's not a SB, she's an escort, perhaps UTR, and you can just treat her like that. If she's a real SB, there can be delicate ways to do this. I make statements myself, for example, "nothing I'm into would shock you, though nothing you'd ask for would shock me, because I sowed wild oats when I was your age. " Often they'll come back w / something definitive. The most common is 'nothing w / my butt / rear'. Well that is clear enough. I try not to get into too much detail or promise too much, that is the by-word of a true vet of this sport, HollywoodGuy.

**Btt123** · 06-28-21 21:24

How do you ask what's on the menu without asking what's on the menu?

**RogerOver** · 06-28-21 14:20

Originally Posted by WilyBird63 [View Original Post]

I had the procedure done about 8 months ago. They numb the area and the pain doesn't start setting until a few hours later. I drove myself home from the appt and immediately went back to work at home. It will be a week or 2 of pain and pressure.

To add to the how to hide discussion, I had a friend who's kid hit him in the nuts with a toy, and he had to go to the urologist because of the pain and swelling not long after I had my procedure. Just don't let your wife inspect because there will obviosuly be incisions, but a nut shot excuse could work. Especially if you have to go see a urologist for the pain.

I wish I'd been able to drive myself. I had the VA do mine for me. They absolutely wouldn't start the procedure without introducing them to the person who would drive me home. Some of those crafty vets have gone as far as to pull in a homeless person as their ride. They were rather careful to make sure this was someone who would hang out for a bit, etc.

**WilyBird63** · 06-28-21 08:05

Originally Posted by RogerOver [View Original Post]

Need a partner in crime. Most hospitals won't let you leave unless you have someone driving you home.

I had the procedure done about 8 months ago. They numb the area and the pain doesn't start setting until a few hours later. I drove myself home from the appt and immediately went back to work at home. It will be a week or 2 of pain and pressure.

To add to the how to hide discussion, I had a friend who's kid hit him in the nuts with a toy, and he had to go to the urologist because of the pain and swelling not long after I had my procedure. Just don't let your wife inspect because there will obviosuly be incisions, but a nut shot excuse could work. Especially if you have to go see a urologist for the pain.

**Alkalinedio** · 06-27-21 17:36

Damn, that sucks.

I'm always skeptical of girls who just got a headshot pic and one pic at that.

Stay safe.

AD.

Originally Posted by SBmidlo [View Original Post]

Had a meet and greet with this one yesterday after texting for a couple of days. https://www.seeking.com/member/19a05...e-b8931be6c0e1.

Let's just say life has not been kind to her. Very rough around the edges, scars on legs and arms. Just general overall appearance a real turnoff. Single Mom that lives with her Dad, 2 young kids, out of work. Certainly DTF, covered, but I'm going to pass.

**SBmidlo** · 06-27-21 13:00

Had a meet and greet with this one yesterday after texting for a couple of days. https://www.seeking.com/member/19a05...e-b8931be6c0e1.

Let's just say life has not been kind to her. Very rough around the edges, scars on legs and arms. Just general overall appearance a real turnoff. Single Mom that lives with her Dad, 2 young kids, out of work. Certainly DTF, covered, but I'm going to pass.

**BobLobLa** · 06-27-21 10:40

Smoking hot MILF / almost GILF.

$400 and up, cover required, no anal penetration or anything too extreme. Amazing body for her age and very open and hungry.

Sees multiple guys a week, goes to swingers clubs for fun and for sugar dates.

https://www.seeking.com/member/48d66...2-e80a0f319381

**RogerOver** · 06-26-21 16:05

Originally Posted by JayCramer80 [View Original Post]

It probably does work. They can be anywhere, and if they only get 1 person a day to send deposit money, they can make 1000 a month.

To top that off, better than even odds are that it's a dude.

**SBmidlo** · 06-26-21 13:32

Originally Posted by ErkTheOne [View Original Post]

This was her response to my initial message to her.

"So just to get everything out there I'm not new to this site I've had a few bad experiences so I took a break, but now that I'm back I do require a partial allowance before meeting and I can send a video of myself saying your name to prove I'm real. I'm also a single mom of two so I'm only free on Wednesdays and every other weekend. ".

No response when I told her that wouldn't work for me.

She used to be Discreetfun938 when she was on before a few months ago. I checked my old messages and what she wrote to you is verbatim what she sent to me back then. Being a SA nube at the time, I fell for the trick to send something. Then come a ton of emails to "help me with this bill" or "I'll send more videos for $XX". She has no intentions of meeting anyone, at least back then. I think the bad experience she is referring to is probably getting suspended after being reported by so many guys. Run as fast as you can from this one.

**JayCramer80** · 06-26-21 13:18

Originally Posted by RogerOver [View Original Post]

That type of shit must work often enough that they keep doing it.

It probably does work. They can be anywhere, and if they only get 1 person a day to send deposit money, they can make 1000 a month.

**RogerOver** · 06-26-21 11:25

Originally Posted by ErkTheOne [View Original Post]

This was her response to my initial message to her.

"So just to get everything out there I'm not new to this site I've had a few bad experiences so I took a break, but now that I'm back I do require a partial allowance before meeting and I can send a video of myself saying your name to prove I'm real. I'm also a single mom of two so I'm only free on Wednesdays and every other weekend. ".

No response when I told her that wouldn't work for me.

Originally Posted by TheHobbyLobby [View Original Post]

I new something was wrong when her second message to me was asking for my number. Long story short we texted for a while and she was saying stuff like yeah I want to make you wet. And then she asked me if I had cashapp. I stopped it there and blocked her.

That type of shit must work often enough that they keep doing it.