"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[SBmidlo]

This was her response to my initial message to her.

"So just to get everything out there I'm not new to this site I've had a few bad experiences so I took a break, but now that I'm back I do require a partial allowance before meeting and I can send a video of myself saying your name to prove I'm real. I'm also a single mom of two so I'm only free on Wednesdays and every other weekend. ".

No response when I told her that wouldn't work for me.

I thought the pic looked familiar. Went through old messages from months ago. Her old screen name was DiscreetLover. The reply that you posted is verbatim what she sent to me 5 months ago. Being a SA rookie back then, was dumb enough to send her something for some pics. And then came the "need help with this bill" emails and any other excuse to get more money sent. I believe that "bad experience" she refers to is being reported by so many guys for just selling pics. Run as fast as you can from this one.

[TheHobbyLobby]

I new something was wrong when her second message to me was asking for my number. Long story short we texted for a while and she was saying stuff like yeah I want to make you wet. And then she asked me if I had cashapp. I stopped it there and blocked her.

[ErkTheOne]

Any info? Using the name NiceLover now but says she's had prior bad experiences under a different handle:

https://www.seeking.com/member/65034...3-0b9f14e00fb9

This was her response to my initial message to her.

"So just to get everything out there I'm not new to this site I've had a few bad experiences so I took a break, but now that I'm back I do require a partial allowance before meeting and I can send a video of myself saying your name to prove I'm real. I'm also a single mom of two so I'm only free on Wednesdays and every other weekend. ".

No response when I told her that wouldn't work for me.

[TheHobbyLobby]

Has anyone met this SB. I am chatting with her and we are looking to meet this weekend. She says she is 18 so I always like to proceed with caution. Appreciate any help.

[TheHobbyLobby]

Do they let you go if you are taking an Uber?

I got snipped a few years ago and they would not allow me to take an Uber because they want someone who is actually going to stay with you after the operation.

[Shampoo55]

Need a partner in crime. Most hospitals won't let you leave unless you have someone driving you home.

Do they let you go if you are taking an Uber?

[Jcn1965]

Need a partner in crime. Most hospitals won't let you leave unless you have someone driving you home.

So my first thought was damn that's gunna be tough to hide but I think today's procedure is quick and fast healing. But my second thought is your fucking sb's or anybody else without a hat? You should be more worried worried about bringing home something now that would be tough to explain. Not judging but I'm single with nobody at home and I still jimmy up. These girls may have 2 or 3 sd's on the hook. Just my opinion.

[RogerOver]

Time off from work maybe? They say some guys have it done in March just to get off work and watch NCAA tournament, LOL.

Start doing some yard work (fake) and then come up limping like you jacked up your knee.

Pretend to slip and fall when she isn't looking.

Overdo it at the gym.

Schedule a colonoscopy then cancel without her knowing.

Need a partner in crime. Most hospitals won't let you leave unless you have someone driving you home.

[Ernest Ll]

Anyone else miss the boat but manage to get snipped without arousing SO suspicions?

Start doing some yard work (fake) and then come up limping like you jacked up your knee.

Pretend to slip and fall when she isn't looking.

Overdo it at the gym.

Schedule a colonoscopy then cancel without her knowing.

[Ares999]

Any info? Using the name NiceLover now but says she's had prior bad experiences under a different handle:

https://www.seeking.com/member/65034...3-0b9f14e00fb9

[Brandon97]

All this talk of Plan B and pregnancy tests has me wishing I had a vasectomy. Kind of hard for me to get one at this point. I am married with kids and a menopausal wife. Vasectomy talk came up years ago when we decided we had enough kids. I didn't want anyone messing with the plumbing at the time and my wife went on birth control, which she is now talking about ditching soon.

So if I want to start shooting blanks now, I see two alternatives: (1) I get snipped without mentioning it to my wife; of (2) I find some excuse for why I want one other than to avoid impregnating her.

(1) Seems pretty hard to pull off. I would have to find a health care provider who wouldn't send statements to house or apply charge to insurance deductible, meaning I guess I would need to pay cash. And I think it might be hard to explain why I was in bed for days with an ice pack.

(2) Anyone have ideas for "other" reasons to get a vasectomy? Any studies showing reduction in prostate cancer or something among men with vasectomies?

Anyone else miss the boat but manage to get snipped without arousing SO suspicions?

Time off from work maybe? They say some guys have it done in March just to get off work and watch NCAA tournament, LOL.

[RogerOver]

All this talk of Plan B and pregnancy tests has me wishing I had a vasectomy. Kind of hard for me to get one at this point. I am married with kids and a menopausal wife. Vasectomy talk came up years ago when we decided we had enough kids. I didn't want anyone messing with the plumbing at the time and my wife went on birth control, which she is now talking about ditching soon.

So if I want to start shooting blanks now, I see two alternatives: (1) I get snipped without mentioning it to my wife; of (2) I find some excuse for why I want one other than to avoid impregnating her.

(1) Seems pretty hard to pull off. I would have to find a health care provider who wouldn't send statements to house or apply charge to insurance deductible, meaning I guess I would need to pay cash. And I think it might be hard to explain why I was in bed for days with an ice pack.

(2) Anyone have ideas for "other" reasons to get a vasectomy? Any studies showing reduction in prostate cancer or something among men with vasectomies?

Anyone else miss the boat but manage to get snipped without arousing SO suspicions?

While I can't help with how to hide statements and shit like that, I can say the post pain wasn't that bad for me. You can't say something along the lines of having a lump checked or something?

Send your wife on a vacation or off to visit a relative. It's an outpatient thing. Tell her you got kicked in the balls. Will she want to inspect them?

Good luck with that! I have one friend on here--single--who just had the procedure done. He's very sore.

I have 2 other married SD friends who would like to get it done. For at least one, it opens a wider range of women, because a few SBs refuse birth control and are opposed to abortion if an accident happens.

[DickLongwood]

All this talk of Plan B and pregnancy tests has me wishing I had a vasectomy. Kind of hard for me to get one at this point. I am married with kids and a menopausal wife. Vasectomy talk came up years ago when we decided we had enough kids. I didn't want anyone messing with the plumbing at the time and my wife went on birth control, which she is now talking about ditching soon.

So if I want to start shooting blanks now, I see two alternatives: (1) I get snipped without mentioning it to my wife; of (2) I find some excuse for why I want one other than to avoid impregnating her.

(1) Seems pretty hard to pull off. I would have to find a health care provider who wouldn't send statements to house or apply charge to insurance deductible, meaning I guess I would need to pay cash. And I think it might be hard to explain why I was in bed for days with an ice pack.

(2) Anyone have ideas for "other" reasons to get a vasectomy? Any studies showing reduction in prostate cancer or something among men with vasectomies?

Anyone else miss the boat but manage to get snipped without arousing SO suspicions?

Good luck with that! I have one friend on here--single--who just had the procedure done. He's very sore.

I have 2 other married SD friends who would like to get it done. For at least one, it opens a wider range of women, because a few SBs refuse birth control and are opposed to abortion if an accident happens.

[DogBert77]

All this talk of Plan B and pregnancy tests has me wishing I had a vasectomy. Kind of hard for me to get one at this point. I am married with kids and a menopausal wife. Vasectomy talk came up years ago when we decided we had enough kids. I didn't want anyone messing with the plumbing at the time and my wife went on birth control, which she is now talking about ditching soon.

So if I want to start shooting blanks now, I see two alternatives: (1) I get snipped without mentioning it to my wife; of (2) I find some excuse for why I want one other than to avoid impregnating her.

(1) Seems pretty hard to pull off. I would have to find a health care provider who wouldn't send statements to house or apply charge to insurance deductible, meaning I guess I would need to pay cash. And I think it might be hard to explain why I was in bed for days with an ice pack.

(2) Anyone have ideas for "other" reasons to get a vasectomy? Any studies showing reduction in prostate cancer or something among men with vasectomies?

Anyone else miss the boat but manage to get snipped without arousing SO suspicions?

[Truth777]

Daughter was removed from her and is with grandparents -- very restricted visitation -- and if she is spiraling out like it seems. Then she is not going to get her back any time soon.

Take care with her if you see her -- she is fun and good for deposits -- but control the situation and do NOT give her $ until she is leaving!
SA.

The beginning of this thread stated that she took the money meant for the hotel and skipped out on the date. So it is probably best to be careful with that too.