Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[Djapa1234]

How do you spend "boat loads of money" for lunch dates? Lunch at a sit-down chain restaurant is less than $20 per person. Suggest you spend a lot more time vetting before the m / g, and only one m / g before the intimate date. Make sure you're on the same page as far as activities, after a couple of sessions of pleasant conversation. If she won't spend a little time texting with you, she won't spend much time making you feel like a king.

Never send a dime, all transactions in person, in cash, PPM for the first few intimate dates. I've only had two encounters that didn't lead to the intimate date, never paid more than 250 PPM. Single moms and grad students, only one under 25. IMO younger than 25 means exponentially deeper into the bullshit zone.

Is 25 some magic number? LOL.

[Hal1957]

How do you spend "boat loads of money" for lunch dates? Lunch at a sit-down chain restaurant is less than $20 per person. Suggest you spend a lot more time vetting before the m / g, and only one m / g before the intimate date. Make sure you're on the same page as far as activities, after a couple of sessions of pleasant conversation. If she won't spend a little time texting with you, she won't spend much time making you feel like a king.

Never send a dime, all transactions in person, in cash, PPM for the first few intimate dates. I've only had two encounters that didn't lead to the intimate date, never paid more than 250 PPM. Single moms and grad students, only one under 25. IMO younger than 25 means exponentially deeper into the bullshit zone.

I dabbled with the SB / SD thing for a while. Spent a boat load of money for what amounted to be a few lunch dates. Nothing more. Most young ladies I found were only interested in selling picts / videos and of the few I actually met, once they realized what I actually looking for, they were done. I am a kind, respectful, well mannered, gentleman who is in his mid-50's, in good shape and have been told I am a good looking guy. It's not like I am some homeless, dumb slob looking for something for nothing.

[JMot87]

I dabbled with the SB / SD thing for a while. Spent a boat load of money for what amounted to be a few lunch dates. Nothing more. Most young ladies I found were only interested in selling picts / videos and of the few I actually met, once they realized what I actually looking for, they were done. I am a kind, respectful, well mannered, gentleman who is in his mid-50's, in good shape and have been told I am a good looking guy. It's not like I am some homeless, dumb slob looking for something for nothing.

You need to let them know within a few messages exactly what you're looking for and don't take them on nice dinner dates. Take them for cheap coffee or something.

[Taters2019]

Well sounds like one of ML's type, I'd I'm him the link if I were you. You know its funny, me and some of the old guys confer and we find that many of these type gals are more interested in safety, generosity and someone whose not going to stalk them or bother them outside of agreed upon visits. When I was young I think 5 x was the most I ever did with a gal over 2 or 3 hours. Now that's a long ago fantasy and a normal 30 minute visit is all I can handle. Most of these gals aren't doing to meet long-term mates, they want someone that's clean, safe, and easy to please so they can get some funds and get on about their lives.

I dabbled with the SB / SD thing for a while. Spent a boat load of money for what amounted to be a few lunch dates. Nothing more. Most young ladies I found were only interested in selling picts / videos and of the few I actually met, once they realized what I actually looking for, they were done. I am a kind, respectful, well mannered, gentleman who is in his mid-50's, in good shape and have been told I am a good looking guy. It's not like I am some homeless, dumb slob looking for something for nothing.

[Queen City Guy]

Well sounds like one of ML's type, I'd I'm him the link if I were you. You know its funny, me and some of the old guys confer and we find that many of these type gals are more interested in safety, generosity and someone whose not going to stalk them or bother them outside of agreed upon visits. When I was young I think 5 x was the most I ever did with a gal over 2 or 3 hours. Now that's a long ago fantasy and a normal 30 minute visit is all I can handle. Most of these gals aren't doing to meet long-term mates, they want someone that's clean, safe, and easy to please so they can get some funds and get on about their lives.

Signed up for that secret benefits website. Didn't give them any money but get emails all the time from "someone interested in you". Yeah right.

Saw one yesterday that the 20 year old said no old white guys. Aren't we all old guys? Not necessarily white but young guys do not have the discretionary income that us older guys enjoy.

[Bono26]

https://www.seeking.com/member/838bc...2-2e4f511c0ac5

[JustMikey]

Right, back in day, and probably still now as well, SA would emphasize how this whole sugar game was heavily in men's favor "1 for 15 sugar babies" or something along the lines. It only takes 2 minutes to set up a fake SB account and see the inbox overflow from thirsty men, as you said begging to spoil the sb. I will admit, 6-7 years ago it was totally different, but now I don't think its any easier than civilian dating. The whole premise is that we men come to SA and pay for women that we'd otherwise have real hard time finding in the vanilla world, but if we end up fucking 35-40 year old single moms, well those are dime a dozen out there you can meet at places like Walmart or regular bars / online dating apps. That being said, its still worth doing sa if you are in a place like Vegas or Miami or some other more sex positive / open minded bigger city, where there is endless supply of hot pussy, but then one might argue in those places you can also easily find women for free out and about. Just my 2 cents.

I got into SA around 2013 or 2014. It was a gold mine. Had dozens of girls in their 20's for 200 per date (which typically meant about 3 hours of whatever I wanted). Had a handful of frustrated milfs in their late 30's to early 40's but still hot-bodied that just wanted to have sex w / o anyone knowing and w / o all the traditional dating bullshit (those women knew how to suck cock, damn!) They were free except for the hotel room. Wow. Have things changed in the last couple of years. SA is pretty much worthless now. I'm doing better just free lancing it at the grocery store for God's sake. What the hell has happened? I guess SA got "discovered" by the backpage rats coupled with an entitlement mentality revolving around free government checks. Oh well, it was fun while it lasted.

[DollarBill50]

Don't feel bad. It usually "NO BLACK GUY".

Signed up for that secret benefits website. Didn't give them any money but get emails all the time from "someone interested in you". Yeah right.

Saw one yesterday that the 20 year old said no old white guys. Aren't we all old guys? Not necessarily white but young guys do not have the discretionary income that us older guys enjoy.

[HoldenPierson]

Actually, from my experience majority of the girls state the older men are biggest low ballers of them all. I'm young with large cash flow, I enjoy spoiling and not stressing about relationships or drama. From my analysis it seems the best are the middle aged men who are married that many girls have told me they don't even get intimate they just buy them really nice things and spend a few hours together.

I would think most middle-aged men (I am one) would be trying to bang the most while there is still a little lead in the ole pencil.

Especially when young / good looking women are involved.

[JustLooking211]

Actually, from my experience majority of the girls state the older men are biggest low ballers of them all. I'm young with large cash flow, I enjoy spoiling and not stressing about relationships or drama. From my analysis it seems the best are the middle aged men who are married that many girls have told me they don't even get intimate they just buy them really nice things and spend a few hours together.

Signed up for that secret benefits website. Didn't give them any money but get emails all the time from "someone interested in you". Yeah right.

Saw one yesterday that the 20 year old said no old white guys. Aren't we all old guys? Not necessarily white but young guys do not have the discretionary income that us older guys enjoy.

[JethRotheRed]

Signed up for that secret benefits website. Didn't give them any money but get emails all the time from "someone interested in you". Yeah right.

Saw one yesterday that the 20 year old said no old white guys. Aren't we all old guys? Not necessarily white but young guys do not have the discretionary income that us older guys enjoy.

[MikeLittle]

Met one this afternoon at 3, now meeting one at 7:30 at drive through Starbucks, and at 8:30 another one at a bar. I wish I can keep on typing, but I know some girls watch this forum and I don't want to give out too much.

I am out.

I really need to delete my past few posts. I don't need any attention.

[MikeLittle]

This is really a good one. I wish I am sponsored and SA recognize this post and get me a life time deal so I won't have to rush taking advantage of a one month subscription LOL.

Met one this afternoon at 3, now meeting one at 7:30 at drive through Starbucks, and at 8:30 another one at a bar. I wish I can keep on typing, but I know some girls watch this forum and I don't want to give out too much.

I am out.

[MikeLittle]

This is an SA ad.

This is really a good one. I wish I am sponsored and SA recognize this post and get me a life time deal so I won't have to rush taking advantage of a one month subscription LOL.

[MikeLittle]

I haven't logged in here since my last post.

I am in my early 40's and almost every single girl I message think am hot, and I am sure many of might argue that because girls pretend to say that or what not. But I get to meet them. So since my last post, every single day I have been having two dates. Below are a few experience:

I have met a girl who is 8-9 super freaking hit. I had another date planned. This girl had a no face someone else photo on the SA. She shared number and all day was chatting with me and wanted to meet and constantly telling me that she was worried what if I wouldn't like her. And I cancel my other date and go see her. I was jaw dropped. One of the best I f'ked. I wish I can tell more but I respect her privacy. We had an awesome conversation. I speak nothing about sex, before or during our meeting. I am usually known for my knowledge in various subjects so I can pretty much connect instantly and offer tons of fresh info. That gets them super impressed, motivated and we go get a room and had one of the best sex ever.

Last night met a great MILF HR and had a great conversation and spectacular blow in the car and she beg me not to give her money and that would make her feel bad about the meeting, no matter how much I insisted.

This afternoon I met a girl who is into real estate and she felt jaw dropped and we go to car, you know what would have happened.

Now I have two dates one after another.

Couple of girls who are reported here where $400 found to be a great deal, I have been having fun at their place for over 6 months for $150. YES!

Honestly, I have been a member in this board for years and I don't share much of my experience.

I am very athletic, but am more about connect meaningfully. One of the constant feedback I get from almost everyone is "it's finally refreshing to meet someone who is genuine, respectful and real".

I haven't repeated a girl in 2 weeks since I signed up. I am not proud of it. But it is what it is. I enjoy it. It's fun.

I don't care who believe or who doesn't. Happy to share my experience with SA. I get my money's worth in less than an hour I sign up.

But can't wait to end my 1 month subscription. Since 2017, this is my only 3rd or 4th time signing up.

I went on a hike with a 20 yr old on a 8 mile, rain, humid, no one but us. Every 2-3 mile we had fun and continued. It was one of a kind experience. She was freaking hot. She is in Greenville.