"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[Ozymandias]

I just started chatting with a new SB and when I asked what she did, she said she was a police officer. I asked if that was a bit of a gray area for her and she said potentially, but as long as there are no drugs involved she is fine. She also says she is new and has no idea about this so I need to take the lead. I don't want to entrap myself, but she also could be a police officer who has no issues being a sugar baby. What are why'alls thoughts?

Edit: she sent a pic and she is wearing a police t-shirt so she seems to be legit. I can't make out the actual location.

Probably a 99% chance that she's just fucking with you for some reason. Maybe she got a bad vibe or something.

O.

[SeekingHead]

I just started chatting with a new SB and when I asked what she did, she said she was a police officer. I asked if that was a bit of a gray area for her and she said potentially, but as long as there are no drugs involved she is fine. She also says she is new and has no idea about this so I need to take the lead. I don't want to entrap myself, but she also could be a police officer who has no issues being a sugar baby. What are why'alls thoughts?

Edit: she sent a pic and she is wearing a police t-shirt so she seems to be legit. I can't make out the actual location.

Unless you have some fantasy of spending a night in county, run the fuck away. Delete her number, & block her.

[PunkedLife]

I just started chatting with a new SB and when I asked what she did, she said she was a police officer. I asked if that was a bit of a gray area for her and she said potentially, but as long as there are no drugs involved she is fine. She also says she is new and has no idea about this so I need to take the lead. I don't want to entrap myself, but she also could be a police officer who has no issues being a sugar baby. What are why'alls thoughts?

Edit: she sent a pic and she is wearing a police t-shirt so she seems to be legit. I can't make out the actual location.

Is vagina that important where you would be willing to take such a high risk? Like are you really down that bad my guy?

[Roddee]

If they say cop or lawyer, I immediately cut off communication. It's not worth the risk. I do want sex and the site is about giving money. That just sounds like a recipe for disaster.

Glhf.

I just started chatting with a new SB and when I asked what she did, she said she was a police officer. I asked if that was a bit of a gray area for her and she said potentially, but as long as there are no drugs involved she is fine. She also says she is new and has no idea about this so I need to take the lead. I don't want to entrap myself, but she also could be a police officer who has no issues being a sugar baby. What are why'alls thoughts?

Edit: she sent a pic and she is wearing a police t-shirt so she seems to be legit. I can't make out the actual location.

[Jrody1]

I just started chatting with a new SB and when I asked what she did, she said she was a police officer. I asked if that was a bit of a gray area for her and she said potentially, but as long as there are no drugs involved she is fine. She also says she is new and has no idea about this so I need to take the lead. I don't want to entrap myself, but she also could be a police officer who has no issues being a sugar baby. What are why'alls thoughts?

Edit: she sent a pic and she is wearing a police t-shirt so she seems to be legit. I can't make out the actual location.

That is a horrible thing to do mate. I have no hard feelings against police officers but before you think with your Johnson. Envisioning some role play of Marie the police officer fun LOL. Take a step back and ask yourself. WTF is a cop doing on SA. She is obviously going to have some sort of dinero requirement. What if that is interpreted as solicitation etc.? I mean you are in the end going to try and get some bam bam in exchange for dinero. Unless she is willing to send proactive pics. Tits out face showing, or kat face showing etc. move along to someone else but I'd hard pass like no tomorrow. Don't walk. Run away from that as if shit goes south who knows what would happen. Women are emotional beings. You'll probably get your are in tons of trouble. Think outside the box mate.

[JoyDrop]

If you do not pay her, then it is dating. If you do pay her, keep enough to pay your criminal defense attorney.

What he said. Don't pay her. Never discuss anything close to PPM / P2 P. If it were me and I was interested in her, I would keep talking to her and see where it leads. Anytime the subject of $ came up I would immediately shut it down, just get her to dinner and see how it goes. This is the one and only time I would actually advocate for trying to close the deal without any discussion of financial expectations whatsoever. If it comes up beforehand, just let her know you're uncomfortable discussing anything regarding allowances prior to meeting given her profession. She should understand. Once you've smashed it I think you're in the clear. But I am not a lawyer. Proceed carefully!

[Jrody1]

Do what ever you like but it sounds like you want a actual girlified / wife, you shopping in the wrong dept.

I have the same sentiment for an actual SB as Buckhead71. No we're not seeking some GF. Intelligence is sexy as fuck. Its a turn on for me. A woman with a level head, has a clear path she wants to take with her life and has some skills for my Johnson. Makes the extracurricular fun enticing! That is something I'll easily take on travel trips etc.! I'm not going to take some woman. Ghetto or dumb asf on trips, yachts etc. Got to be crazy but everyone has their own thing. Seeking a GF or whatever on SA or other sites is the worst possible way to try and find one LOL. If you're being serious. There is a statistic that almost 80+ percent of women on online dating sites don't even meet up. Hell they have to much to choose from. Meet women you want to get connected with normally. Not some site. I've chatted with a fair amount of women seeking SDs on SA. Some married which I abstain from. College is my favorite as they are busy with courses etc. rather than nagging me when they have nothing LOL. A lot of them on SA don't even peak my interest. Once you're in it for a bit you'll get the sense of whom is shitty and who's not.

If I just want FS. I can become a regular of a provider on LC, adultlook etc. and get more satisfaction. My requirements when seeking an SB. They have to have some level of intelligence, some sort of ambition, common sense and discreet. Most that satisfy this either waste time in the end or they flake on the meeting date. I only give them one chance. There is no re scheduling like some of you all do LOL. If they're serious on acquiring a serious SD but waste my time. They're not worth it. Granted they speak probably with dozens of jocks and fakes before getting to a genuine SD.

[TimBuckTwo]

Everyone has different taste. I personally prefer personality and intelligence sexy. I also love busty brunettes. As far as what I have met from SA she was top choice for me. I also was also turned on by her lack of desperation and having a normal life.

Do what ever you like but it sounds like you want a actual girlified / wife, you shopping in the wrong dept.

[JimStokes]

I just started chatting with a new SB and when I asked what she did, she said she was a police officer. I asked if that was a bit of a gray area for her and she said potentially, but as long as there are no drugs involved she is fine. She also says she is new and has no idea about this so I need to take the lead. I don't want to entrap myself, but she also could be a police officer who has no issues being a sugar baby. What are why'alls thoughts?

So let's diagram this. A woman advises you she is a member of law enforcement. She is on a site that has men compensate women. Sometime the compensation is in exchange for sexual interaction which violates most state laws in the United States. Laws she is sworn to enforce. And, since she has identified herself as a member of law enforcement, you are aware that she is a cop. Meaning, any entrapment defenses is out the window as you knew she was a cop.

If you do not pay her, then it is dating. If you do pay her, keep enough to pay your criminal defense attorney.

[2me4Looking2]

I just started chatting with a new SB and when I asked what she did, she said she was a police officer. I asked if that was a bit of a gray area for her and she said potentially, but as long as there are no drugs involved she is fine. She also says she is new and has no idea about this so I need to take the lead. I don't want to entrap myself, but she also could be a police officer who has no issues being a sugar baby. What are why'alls thoughts?

Edit: she sent a pic and she is wearing a police t-shirt so she seems to be legit. I can't make out the actual location.

[2me4Looking2]

I'm running into more women that want to communicate on very specific platforms such as must be iPhone or must be Google Hangouts. I'm assuming that makes it easier for them to discover personal information.

Kayla6817 only wants to communicate on Google Hangouts. When I declined she stepped it up and offered to sex cam with me on there. It's pretty clear she is a scammer so stay clear.

https://www.seeking.com/member/df7c1...b-64c297866b1b

[Hal1957]

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I've been on SA for a while now I've gone on about 7 dates. None of which have been satisfactory, even the two that I actually scored with. This is the only one that turned me down and did not even offer. Said we did not click, even paid her own tab. I don't know if it's a matter of her look or personality or the fact she's the only one to say no. I thought about creating another account and attempt to set up another date with her. Just wondering if anyone has been successful with her. I managed to find her Instagram and Facebook, doesn't seem like she needs money. I'm just confused about what she wants.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e68a7...4-a56aa6ef08e5

[BuckHead71]

Honestly, she is not attractive anyways. Most women on that site have superiority and entitlement issues while asking for a hand out. 9 times out of 10 she is looking for someone she is sexually attracted to and wants him to pay for the benefit of being with her.

Everyone has different taste. I personally prefer personality and intelligence sexy. I also love busty brunettes. As far as what I have met from SA she was top choice for me. I also was also turned on by her lack of desperation and having a normal life.

[CobaltSoS]

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[TimBuckTwo]

I've been on SA for a while now I've gone on about 7 dates. None of which have been satisfactory, even the two that I actually scored with. This is the only one that turned me down and did not even offer. Said we did not click, even paid her own tab. I don't know if it's a matter of her look or personality or the fact she's the only one to say no. I thought about creating another account and attempt to set up another date with her. Just wondering if anyone has been successful with her. I managed to find her Instagram and Facebook, doesn't seem like she needs money. I'm just confused about what she wants.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e68a7...4-a56aa6ef08e5

Honestly, she is not attractive anyways. Most women on that site have superiority and entitlement issues while asking for a hand out. 9 times out of 10 she is looking for someone she is sexually attracted to and wants him to pay for the benefit of being with her.