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[HollywoodGuy]

So I was having a convo with this girl (or scammer?) on SA about why money upfront? She said all her SD were willing to give upfront. I told her she's lucky and to ask her SD how many were scammed. Her response was all of them and what she was told by SDnwas they just get a bad batch and it was chump change on what they lost. So, pretty much scammers are rampant on SA because the whale SDs don't care and it's just a number game to them till they hit jackpot.

She is probably telling the truth. She only dates or ghosts guys that pay upfront. Its believable. Plenty of stupid new SD's everyday. Especially the recently divorced.

[PriscillaM]

When I first moved to LA 20 yrs ago, I got quickly scammed and pretty much learned my lesson. On HX for years, don't recall getting scammed there.

Since getting on SA a few years ago, I think I've had only 2-3 ask for money upfront. That was usually followed by a bad lay, but never a scam.

At about 11 pm, we meet in coffeeshop parking lot, have a little chat, everything seems normal. She drove her own car. Obviously a transactional hookup.

We go to my place nearby, she parks on the street 100 feet away instead of in my driveway, my driveway can be a little tight, so I didn't think much of it.

We have a nice convo for 20 minutes in my kitchen, she tells me all sorts of life details, seems legit. Other than going into kitchen bathroom to take a phone call.

Onto the bedroom, she asks for the money upfront. I know it's a red flag, but it seemed to make her more comfortable and HX dates are usually upfront (remember, this is pretty transactional) so I gave it to her. She then immediatly goes into the bathroom, shoes, phone, and all. She turns on the bathroom fan as most people do. I was definetly alarmed now and stood post between the bathroom and exit to my house, so there was no way she was going to get past me.

After several minutes of not hearing much, I finally knock on the door. No response. I grab the key and open the door, half expecting her to be passed out, OD'd, or otherwise incapacitated, I mean where could she have possibly gone?

Turns out, this skinny athletic little girl removed the screen to my chest-high, 2nd-story bathroom window. A vertical window that slides open only 9. 25 inches wide (I measured it after) and jumped / climbed out. Never in a million years did it occur to me someone would / could jump out this window. Not sure I could physically get through it in a fire.

My first thought was "I'm impressed" . . . She really got me. This girl is certainly a professional thief, been doing this sort of shit her entire life. Although I never saw or heard him, I suspect she had a male accomplice outside my door in case things got physical.

My second thought was, I could care less about the money, but knew that it would affect my trust. Sure enough, a date with a local girl a week later went south when she took too long in a restaurant bathroom (not paid yet, but triggered my trust issues).

SA Profile: Jennyyy, 24 years, white, 5'7", slim, in the LA area. I don't have link as I reported her for theft, not sure if SA took her profile down.

Please post a link if you find it.

I have no problem with this story. You did not get "taken" you were the victim of a crime. The stories were some dud is as hard as a turtle, calls for outcall, and a girl comes over and basically asks for 200, then 400 then more to do nothing and then runs out when the driver comes out, that is being taken advantage of.

This woman must have literally cased your place in advance or something and gotten a text from daddy and was told to climb out.

I admire that ingenuity.

[PriscillaM]

When I first moved to LA 20 yrs ago, I got quickly scammed and pretty much learned my lesson. On HX for years, don't recall getting scammed there.

Since getting on SA a few years ago, I think I've had only 2-3 ask for money upfront. That was usually followed by a bad lay, but never a scam.

At about 11 pm, we meet in coffeeshop parking lot, have a little chat, everything seems normal. She drove her own car. Obviously a transactional hookup.

We go to my place nearby, she parks on the street 100 feet away instead of in my driveway, my driveway can be a little tight, so I didn't think much of it.

We have a nice convo for 20 minutes in my kitchen, she tells me all sorts of life details, seems legit. Other than going into kitchen bathroom to take a phone call.

Onto the bedroom, she asks for the money upfront. I know it's a red flag, but it seemed to make her more comfortable and HX dates are usually upfront (remember, this is pretty transactional) so I gave it to her. She then immediatly goes into the bathroom, shoes, phone, and all. She turns on the bathroom fan as most people do. I was definetly alarmed now and stood post between the bathroom and exit to my house, so there was no way she was going to get past me.

After several minutes of not hearing much, I finally knock on the door. No response. I grab the key and open the door, half expecting her to be passed out, OD'd, or otherwise incapacitated, I mean where could she have possibly gone?

Turns out, this skinny athletic little girl removed the screen to my chest-high, 2nd-story bathroom window. A vertical window that slides open only 9. 25 inches wide (I measured it after) and jumped / climbed out. Never in a million years did it occur to me someone would / could jump out this window. Not sure I could physically get through it in a fire.

My first thought was "I'm impressed" . . . She really got me. This girl is certainly a professional thief, been doing this sort of shit her entire life. Although I never saw or heard him, I suspect she had a male accomplice outside my door in case things got physical.

My second thought was, I could care less about the money, but knew that it would affect my trust. Sure enough, a date with a local girl a week later went south when she took too long in a restaurant bathroom (not paid yet, but triggered my trust issues).

SA Profile: Jennyyy, 24 years, white, 5'7", slim, in the LA area. I don't have link as I reported her for theft, not sure if SA took her profile down.

Please post a link if you find it.

I have no problem with this story. You did not get "taken" you were the victim of a crime. The stories were some dud is as hard as a turtle, calls for outcall, and a girl comes over and basically asks for 200, then 400 then more to do nothing and then runs out when the driver comes out, that is being taken advantage of.

This woman must have literally cased your place in advance or something and gotten a text from daddy and was told to climb out.

I admire that ingenuity.

[RogerOver]

When I first moved to LA 20 yrs ago, I got quickly scammed and pretty much learned my lesson. On HX for years, don't recall getting scammed there.

Since getting on SA a few years ago, I think I've had only 2-3 ask for money upfront. That was usually followed by a bad lay, but never a scam.

At about 11 pm, we meet in coffeeshop parking lot, have a little chat, everything seems normal. She drove her own car. Obviously a transactional hookup.

We go to my place nearby, she parks on the street 100 feet away instead of in my driveway, my driveway can be a little tight, so I didn't think much of it.

We have a nice convo for 20 minutes in my kitchen, she tells me all sorts of life details, seems legit. Other than going into kitchen bathroom to take a phone call.

Onto the bedroom, she asks for the money upfront. I know it's a red flag, but it seemed to make her more comfortable and HX dates are usually upfront (remember, this is pretty transactional) so I gave it to her. She then immediatly goes into the bathroom, shoes, phone, and all. She turns on the bathroom fan as most people do. I was definetly alarmed now and stood post between the bathroom and exit to my house, so there was no way she was going to get past me.

After several minutes of not hearing much, I finally knock on the door. No response. I grab the key and open the door, half expecting her to be passed out, OD'd, or otherwise incapacitated, I mean where could she have possibly gone?

Turns out, this skinny athletic little girl removed the screen to my chest-high, 2nd-story bathroom window. A vertical window that slides open only 9. 25 inches wide (I measured it after) and jumped / climbed out. Never in a million years did it occur to me someone would / could jump out this window. Not sure I could physically get through it in a fire.

My first thought was "I'm impressed" . . . She really got me. This girl is certainly a professional thief, been doing this sort of shit her entire life. Although I never saw or heard him, I suspect she had a male accomplice outside my door in case things got physical.

My second thought was, I could care less about the money, but knew that it would affect my trust. Sure enough, a date with a local girl a week later went south when she took too long in a restaurant bathroom (not paid yet, but triggered my trust issues).

SA Profile: Jennyyy, 24 years, white, 5'7", slim, in the LA area. I don't have link as I reported her for theft, not sure if SA took her profile down.

Please post a link if you find it.

She also got to case your joint too. No hooker, SB or otherwise has ever seen the inside of my home, regardless of the length of our "relationship" Hotel or their place. I have trust issues. .

[Uncountable]

That chick actually has multiple accts and kept liking my profile. I wasn't into to her looks as she looks like a hardcore druggie that you find off the streets. I messaged her but it seemed to easy and the multiple accts were a huge red flag.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d80a43eb-ab26-4d94-9491-b626eace6994

Another Profile:

https://www.seeking.com/member/0d16a...f-98c7d05748be

[TheHuntsman]

I'd guess they got tired of you freeloading. And I don't understand the utility of browsing profiles if you are never going to pay to be able to message a girl.

I'm the type to browse and favorite profiles on SA and then eventually paying for a month subscription to contact them. Although I'm still banned so I haven't and don't plan on doing it for awhile. I still have a bad taste in my mouth from all the things that have happened in the last 6 mo.

I will say this. If you use tinder, okcupid, POF, and Instagram you will eventually run across girls from SA. I've run across local girls on IG that I've seen on SA. Just recently a person I used to work with about 10 yrs ago signed up for IG and we started following each other. Almost right away IG suggested a girl over seen on SA for a few years. I click on her profile and it turns out she follows the lady I used to work with. Turns out they work at the same warehouse.

[CreamFire]

When I first moved to LA 20 yrs ago, I got quickly scammed and pretty much learned my lesson. On HX for years, don't recall getting scammed there.

Since getting on SA a few years ago, I think I've had only 2-3 ask for money upfront. That was usually followed by a bad lay, but never a scam.

At about 11 pm, we meet in coffeeshop parking lot, have a little chat, everything seems normal. She drove her own car. Obviously a transactional hookup.

We go to my place nearby, she parks on the street 100 feet away instead of in my driveway, my driveway can be a little tight, so I didn't think much of it.

We have a nice convo for 20 minutes in my kitchen, she tells me all sorts of life details, seems legit. Other than going into kitchen bathroom to take a phone call.

Onto the bedroom, she asks for the money upfront. I know it's a red flag, but it seemed to make her more comfortable and HX dates are usually upfront (remember, this is pretty transactional) so I gave it to her. She then immediatly goes into the bathroom, shoes, phone, and all. She turns on the bathroom fan as most people do. I was definetly alarmed now and stood post between the bathroom and exit to my house, so there was no way she was going to get past me.

After several minutes of not hearing much, I finally knock on the door. No response. I grab the key and open the door, half expecting her to be passed out, OD'd, or otherwise incapacitated, I mean where could she have possibly gone?

Turns out, this skinny athletic little girl removed the screen to my chest-high, 2nd-story bathroom window. A vertical window that slides open only 9. 25 inches wide (I measured it after) and jumped / climbed out. Never in a million years did it occur to me someone would / could jump out this window. Not sure I could physically get through it in a fire.

My first thought was "I'm impressed" . . . She really got me. This girl is certainly a professional thief, been doing this sort of shit her entire life. Although I never saw or heard him, I suspect she had a male accomplice outside my door in case things got physical.

My second thought was, I could care less about the money, but knew that it would affect my trust. Sure enough, a date with a local girl a week later went south when she took too long in a restaurant bathroom (not paid yet, but triggered my trust issues).

SA Profile: Jennyyy, 24 years, white, 5'7", slim, in the LA area. I don't have link as I reported her for theft, not sure if SA took her profile down.

Please post a link if you find it.

That chick actually has multiple accts and kept liking my profile. I wasn't into to her looks as she looks like a hardcore druggie that you find off the streets. I messaged her but it seemed to easy and the multiple accts were a huge red flag.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d80a43eb-ab26-4d94-9491-b626eace6994

[RanManCan]

When I first moved to LA 20 yrs ago, I got quickly scammed and pretty much learned my lesson. On HX for years, don't recall getting scammed there.

Since getting on SA a few years ago, I think I've had only 2-3 ask for money upfront. That was usually followed by a bad lay, but never a scam.

At about 11 pm, we meet in coffeeshop parking lot, have a little chat, everything seems normal. She drove her own car. Obviously a transactional hookup.

We go to my place nearby, she parks on the street 100 feet away instead of in my driveway, my driveway can be a little tight, so I didn't think much of it.

We have a nice convo for 20 minutes in my kitchen, she tells me all sorts of life details, seems legit. Other than going into kitchen bathroom to take a phone call.

Onto the bedroom, she asks for the money upfront. I know it's a red flag, but it seemed to make her more comfortable and HX dates are usually upfront (remember, this is pretty transactional) so I gave it to her. She then immediatly goes into the bathroom, shoes, phone, and all. She turns on the bathroom fan as most people do. I was definetly alarmed now and stood post between the bathroom and exit to my house, so there was no way she was going to get past me.

After several minutes of not hearing much, I finally knock on the door. No response. I grab the key and open the door, half expecting her to be passed out, OD'd, or otherwise incapacitated, I mean where could she have possibly gone?

Turns out, this skinny athletic little girl removed the screen to my chest-high, 2nd-story bathroom window. A vertical window that slides open only 9. 25 inches wide (I measured it after) and jumped / climbed out. Never in a million years did it occur to me someone would / could jump out this window. Not sure I could physically get through it in a fire.

My first thought was "I'm impressed" . . . She really got me. This girl is certainly a professional thief, been doing this sort of shit her entire life. Although I never saw or heard him, I suspect she had a male accomplice outside my door in case things got physical.

My second thought was, I could care less about the money, but knew that it would affect my trust. Sure enough, a date with a local girl a week later went south when she took too long in a restaurant bathroom (not paid yet, but triggered my trust issues).

SA Profile: Jennyyy, 24 years, white, 5'7", slim, in the LA area. I don't have link as I reported her for theft, not sure if SA took her profile down.

Please post a link if you find it.

[CreamFire]

That is part of the scammer script!

They ALWAYS say that!

It is meant to make you feel that giving money up front is totally normal, and you are the odd one out if you don't.

Of course it is completely bogus. Most SDs don't give up front. Only the rubes who fall for the scams.

I definitely don't pay upfront. Money is money. Would rather risk it in dogecoin even. Haha

[Domino727]

That is part of the scammer script!

They ALWAYS say that!

It is meant to make you feel that giving money up front is totally normal, and you are the odd one out if you don't.

Of course it is completely bogus. Most SDs don't give up front. Only the rubes who fall for the scams.

No different than the dude at T-Mobile who pushes the i9 when you have a perfectly good i8 sitting in your back pocket.

[Domino727]

Props to you for sharing a tale that most would not admit to. I think you deserve more sympathy than you've gotten. We've probbaly all felt for scams and it's just a matter of how hard.

I might have pushed harder on that last scenario though. If you had a big size advantage on that guy you may have been able to get your money back. If it became clear to him he couldn't bully you physically what could he do? Maybe you could have turned it around and made him scared. But maybe you were smarter to show restraint, you never know if someone has a weapon.

Or get his address and go over and hug it out with him. FFS, man. He is not a child. Do not treat him like one. Not only did he not learn his lesson from the first beating, he double downed on stupid and got taken by the SAME girl, using the SAME ruse. For MORE money.

[TheBoobHound]

This is the biggest L of all time. I really cannot stres that enough but I will tell the story so that it may help some of you.

Props to you for sharing a tale that most would not admit to. I think you deserve more sympathy than you've gotten. We've probbaly all felt for scams and it's just a matter of how hard.

I might have pushed harder on that last scenario though. If you had a big size advantage on that guy you may have been able to get your money back. If it became clear to him he couldn't bully you physically what could he do? Maybe you could have turned it around and made him scared. But maybe you were smarter to show restraint, you never know if someone has a weapon.

[PussyPumper]

She said all her SD were willing to give upfront.

That is part of the scammer script!

They ALWAYS say that!

It is meant to make you feel that giving money up front is totally normal, and you are the odd one out if you don't.

Of course it is completely bogus. Most SDs don't give up front. Only the rubes who fall for the scams.

[NutritionFacts]

But when I started women were offering to "hang out" for like 150-300, now its 500 to just meet and greet, Granted I was younger but that was like 2014-2015 It has really changed out there in the past few years.

[TheSpius19]

So I was having a convo with this girl (or scammer?) on SA about why money upfront? She said all her SD were willing to give upfront. I told her she's lucky and to ask her SD how many were scammed. Her response was all of them and what she was told by SDnwas they just get a bad batch and it was chump change on what they lost. So, pretty much scammers are rampant on SA because the whale SDs don't care and it's just a number game to them till they hit jackpot.

I don't ever give ANYTHING upfront. EVER.

And I've only been scammed once. And it was alllll my fault. Girl was "coming over" and needed some gas money. Asked for 40. I Venmoed it to her. I was REALLY drunk and it was 3 am. (all bad moves) She kept telling me she was "almost there". Then she hit me up for another $40 for "wine and condoms. ".

I refused and she ghosted me.

So, yay. Congrats on the $40. To me that was a kind reminder that you NEVER SA / Escort while drunk.