Seeking Arrangements

**ManDownUnder** · 05-24-21 14:38

Originally Posted by Spike77 [View Original Post]

Forgive me in advance as I wasn't a math major in college. 50 dates in 5 months = 2. 5 encounters a week. 50 dates at an average of $231 per meet (assume it doesn't include hotel, dinner etc.) = $11,550.

That's a lot of cake to put down for pussy. To each their own, but I'd rather buy a new car or redo my kitchen for that amount.

Yes, the tab to date is 11,550, been the best sex of my life, so it's been worth every penny. When I wasn't working, sometimes I would see two a day, don't do that anymore thou. I know they are only there for the money, but we genuinely have a good time together, without all the hassles of a committed relationship. I guess it's a "you can't take it with you" mentality these days for me.

**Spike77** · 05-24-21 13:10

Originally Posted by ManDownUnder [View Original Post]

I hit a milestone this weekend, my 50th SA date after about 5 months in. For some unknown reason I keep a log of my dates. I reviewed the log, did some analysis and thought I'd share a summary of my experiences:

Forgive me in advance as I wasn't a math major in college. 50 dates in 5 months = 2. 5 encounters a week. 50 dates at an average of $231 per meet (assume it doesn't include hotel, dinner etc.) = $11,550.

That's a lot of cake to put down for pussy. To each their own, but I'd rather buy a new car or redo my kitchen for that amount.

**ManDownUnder** · 05-23-21 20:06

I hit a milestone this weekend, my 50th SA date after about 5 months in. For some unknown reason I keep a log of my dates. I reviewed the log, did some analysis and thought I'd share a summary of my experiences:

- 14 different girls, 10 keepers (I have repeated) and 4 were one and done.

- interesting to note that my favorite 4 girls contacted me first on SA.

- it took 110 off SA text conversations.

- highest GPS wanted 10 k a month, LOL. One girl at a meet and greet said she wanted $2,500 month for 2-3 times a month. I've been avoiding meet and greets unless there has been discussion of allowance expectations. When they ask for more than $500, I just block and move on.

- 2 white girls, the rest non-white (my thing).

- I didn't sense any were using drugs, except 2 like to smoke weed occasionally, one drinks more than me, LOL.

- most have a pretty face, but I'm guessing most of you guys would pass on them, I think only 2-3 would meet your definition of "hot" (and those have the highest allowance). About half of them could lose a few pounds.

- ages ranged from 19-38, average 24.

- allowances ranged from 150-400, average for the 50 dates 231.

- all are PPM and only one lightly hinted at going monthly.

- most agreed to negotiate from their original ask, one I gave 250 at first meet and she voluntarily said I could do 200 going forward, seen her 9 times. It's been a porno quality meeting each time.

- none have asked for an increase or non-meet allowance, one asked that I buy her some perfume in lieu of the allowance (sure, saved me 200).

- 8 I did a meet & greet in public first (6 of those 8 were then right to a hotel or my place) and 6 were just direct to hotel or my place.

- 6 times I used hotel (avg $80), 7 times the girl hosted, the rest I hosted.

- the 4 one and done's had two things in common. They didn't or barely kissed and one round only. So I now work into the conversation that passionate kissing and at least two to three hours are on the table for any new girl.

- 7 required condom (all 4 of the one and done girls), I don't ask in advance, not a deal breaker for me.

- 4 allow Greek (including bare CIA), again nice to have, but not a deal breaker for me.

- of the 10 Keepers: I'm currently seeing 6 of them 1-3 times a month, 1 just stopped responding, 2 are too far away to see regularly but I would see again and 1 ended it because after 10 dates she wanted to move to an exclusive relationship and I didn't.

- typical date with repeats is they come to my place, we eat / drink something, fool around for 2-3 hours, not uncommon for them to take a nap after round 2 or 3, then they go home (one has stayed over a few times).

- worst experience was a one and done girl of course. We meet for coffee, agree to go to hotel across the street, get to room and then she tells me she has her period. Says she'll do Greek, but of course no lube in sight. Let's just say it was a bloody mess. I left the maid a nice tip.

- speaking of a bloody mess, I guess it's kind of funny now so I'll share this story (feel free to share your funny story) - so I'm enjoying DATY, decide time for BBBJ so I move up her body and straddle her torso and she starts sucking away, stroking me really hard. I think her fingernail or her ring must have scratched my scrotum, but I didn't realize it. When I got off her torso, her chest was covered in blood, she was not happy. I'm counting as a date because I still gave her an allowance, but round 1 was not completed.

- it was a ton of work at first and yes I was unemployed at the time, but now it is just casually looking for a new gem. I have a few new girls that have agreed to meet at a reasonable allowance, I just don't have the free time now that I'm back working and keeping my current existing SBs happy.

It's hard to believe that 6 months ago I didn't know this sugar thing was real. Hands down sooo much better than dating 50 year old divorcées or using escorts. I rarely use escorts now, just the occasional XOC rockstar, especially when I can get the weekend rate. I owe a debt of gratitude to this forum, so thank you!

**DotHill** · 05-23-21 15:15

Originally Posted by BR1201 [View Original Post]

Expensive at $800-1000 per meet. Who is giving these girls that much? If you are then please stop.

Just kidding do what you want but man the market rate seems to have sky rocketed lately.

I had lunch with one this week and I threw out $300 and she countered with $900. And I responded $900 for. 3 meetups? And she said no that's for the first one. Yikes. She was pretty hot but WTF. She wanted money for lunch too.

People are crazy to pay anybody that money? BTW, I met her for lunch. She ate as if she has not seen food for days! Initially asked money for lunch too on top of this. When I said no, she was on a mission. She said something about metabolism. :-D After all that much food, I just didn't want to be anywhere near her. She is just ok and I wouldn't give that kind of money at all.

**Spill** · 05-23-21 13:46

Originally Posted by DirkMing [View Original Post]

Greater Boston has a lot of wealthy rich dudes with cash to burn on a young early 20's hot girl who will show him a nice time with no drama in a 3 or 4 star setting. These girls are asking this kind of money because they know some other girl who is getting this kind of money. Unfortunately, very few men are going to brag especially on sex forum that they are spending thousands of dollars on pussy.

People who can drop that type of cash are not on this forum.

**BR1201** · 05-23-21 11:50

Originally Posted by DirkMing [View Original Post]

Greater Boston has a lot of wealthy rich dudes with cash to burn on a young early 20's hot girl who will show him a nice time with no drama in a 3 or 4 star setting. These girls are asking this kind of money because they know some other girl who is getting this kind of money. Unfortunately, very few men are going to brag especially on sex forum that they are spending thousands of dollars on pussy.

This one just asked for $1000+ per visit.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7b939...4-59d13029e5bc

Damn.

**Dirk Ming** · 05-22-21 22:51

Originally Posted by BR1201 [View Original Post]

Expensive at $800-1000 per meet. Who is giving these girls that much? If you are then please stop.

Just kidding do what you want but man the market rate seems to have sky rocketed lately.

I had lunch with one this week and I threw out $300 and she countered with $900. And I responded $900 for. 3 meetups? And she said no that's for the first one. Yikes. She was pretty hot but WTF. She wanted money for lunch too.

Greater Boston has a lot of wealthy rich dudes with cash to burn on a young early 20's hot girl who will show him a nice time with no drama in a 3 or 4 star setting. These girls are asking this kind of money because they know some other girl who is getting this kind of money. Unfortunately, very few men are going to brag especially on sex forum that they are spending thousands of dollars on pussy.

**Tribeca67** · 05-22-21 16:13

Originally Posted by Spill [View Original Post]

Seriously, I think it is many times the case of: "I'll do it if I can get this $much $, but otherwise it is not worth the effort. Just like almost everything else in life.

Overweight old guys that's who spends this much! I saw lots of girls from SA and some guys do offer very high PPM, believe it or not. Saw a girl for lunch one time and told me she hated her previous SD, but he would pay her car bill and take her and her friends on vacations and would give her 1500 PPM! Girls told me guys who offer 1000+ are all unattractive. So I believe it but it's rare. IMHO no reason to go over 500 PPM unless for 2 gorgeous girls.

**Malden Male** · 05-22-21 13:58

Hello All,

Has anyone see Delicious J? https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...46b205c5312f05.

Seems down for lots of fun based on our conversations, looks familiar but can't quite place her. Incredible rack.

**Uncountable** · 05-22-21 13:23

Originally Posted by BR1201 [View Original Post]

Wow I guess you catch a lot of flies with vinegar. Check out this profile. She seems really pleasant. I think everyone should favorite her knowing how much it drives her crazy haha.

https://www.seeking.com/member/68be1...2-0d093a71b1f3

"Here's the deal:

1 yes, we meet in person in public in Boston. My school starts in Sep and we can meet up.

2 yes, I even look better than photos, I have no interest to waste my time Either.

3 yes, you can never purchase REAL luxury goods for a penny. What I meant is talking to me sanely with the CLEAR offer at the beginning, like a real man.

4 yes, I'm basically just using the platform to date high quality people, I love to learn from their experience and being mentored, and seeking the meaningful connection and consolation. I'm not desperate, am very laid back.

5 yes, I had very generous partner before, he beats around 95% of you here. Only if you're the top 5% and. I only reply messages which are clear, straightforward and able to reach my expectation..

Her location says Germany. Are you sure you posted the right profile?

**Spill** · 05-22-21 13:11

Originally Posted by BR1201 [View Original Post]

Expensive at $800-1000 per meet. Who is giving these girls that much? If you are then please stop.

Just kidding do what you want but man the market rate seems to have sky rocketed lately.

I had lunch with one this week and I threw out $300 and she countered with $900. And I responded $900 for. 3 meetups? And she said no that's for the first one. Yikes. She was pretty hot but WTF. She wanted money for lunch too.

Seriously, I think it is many times the case of: "I'll do it if I can get this $much $, but otherwise it is not worth the effort. Just like almost everything else in life.

**BR1201** · 05-21-21 21:20

Originally Posted by DotHill [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f8b26...7-28071fb04dcd

Any intel on this one?

Expensive at $800-1000 per meet. Who is giving these girls that much? If you are then please stop.

Just kidding do what you want but man the market rate seems to have sky rocketed lately.

I had lunch with one this week and I threw out $300 and she countered with $900. And I responded $900 for. 3 meetups? And she said no that's for the first one. Yikes. She was pretty hot but WTF. She wanted money for lunch too.

**BR1201** · 05-21-21 21:16

Wow I guess you catch a lot of flies with vinegar. Check out this profile. She seems really pleasant. I think everyone should favorite her knowing how much it drives her crazy haha.

https://www.seeking.com/member/68be1...2-0d093a71b1f3

"Here's the deal:

1 yes, we meet in person in public in Boston. My school starts in Sep and we can meet up.

2 yes, I even look better than photos, I have no interest to waste my time Either.

3 yes, you can never purchase REAL luxury goods for a penny. What I meant is talking to me sanely with the CLEAR offer at the beginning, like a real man.

4 yes, I'm basically just using the platform to date high quality people, I love to learn from their experience and being mentored, and seeking the meaningful connection and consolation. I'm not desperate, am very laid back.

5 yes, I had very generous partner before, he beats around 95% of you here. Only if you're the top 5% and. I only reply messages which are clear, straightforward and able to reach my expectation.

6 yes, the app crashed very often. Don't say I didn't warn you that once someone couldn't log in anymore and we could never had chance to meet up which should have been happening on the same day.

7 NO, please don't "favourite" me, you're extremely annoying to me by doing this".

**ArmyStrong** · 05-21-21 13:22

I'm going to visiting the area. Anyone have any info?

https://www.seeking.com/member/30d05...1-9200bc4f480e

**Discretion23** · 05-21-21 12:28

Originally Posted by DotHill [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f8b26...7-28071fb04dcd

Any intel on this one?

Talked on site for a day or two, she asked to talk off site and asked for my digits. Sent them, never texted me, replied again and never heard back.

Too bad, she is cute.

Ch.