Stupid Shit In San Diego

[Amp Wang Lei]

I go to AMPs weekly and am starting to hear there being more Aholes not paying or wanting to pay girls for the services they delivered. One masseuse that I sometimes see told me a "younger " dude went in their shop and asked for her by name so she assumed he's been there before. After she massaged him and provided a HE the guy said he forgot to bring money for tips and needed to go to the ATM. Guy never returned with her tip. What a fuckin cheap ass! Because of these Aholes are why girls are starting to ask for tips upfront which we know kills the mood. Become a trusting and respectful customer and you will be treated like king.

I'm right with you on this one RChangDatyKing.

There are always going to be dirt bags who will steal from people they think they can rip off. I understand there are times she might think she deserves more, but to stiff her on a tip completely makes the monger a Complete Asshole. He's different from a partial Asshole who gets great service but only gives $5 or $10 bucks claiming it's the right tipping % for the service based on the HF.

Our lovely ladies are not waitresses, so take the 15- 20% good tip standard and toss it out the window. I put my tipping scale in a previous post so I won't repeat it here, but I will mention that comparing what we get, to what legitimate spas charge, we are getting a huge bargain. And a bargain that has happy endings and maybe even other benefits.

If your service is retched, then you should leave early, and tip small, if at all. If they cut your time short, let it be reflected in their tip, but if you stay and enjoy it all for the full time requested and they do a reasonable job, then tip them a respectable tip. I've heard girls complain that after an hour massage, an ass will give them a $5 tip. One darling told me a guy gave her a 10 and asked for change back! She said that it was so insulting she showed her coworkers, told them about him, and then threw it away.

I'm sure the hit and run Assholes are either not reading this, or are all proud of themselves for getting something for next to nothing. Eventually they'll get blacklisted, or the girls will ask for the tip up front, and their game will be done.

We have seen loads of suggestions on how to get more fun from our ladies, and honest fair tipping is a part of that. Don't rip of the ladies from the tips they worked for and deserve; I think most of you reading this will agree, if you do, you're pretty low.

[RChangDatyKing]

Visited Wspa this after noon. Paid for a 30 minutes service. I was there for a sucky sucky and it was delivered correctly by Tina. But before me, there was a dude in the other room who didn't want to pay Tina the service she delivered. She was disappointed and told the dude to not comeback ever again. I will visit this place from time to time. Wzrd94 approves this place!

Invest on safemoon and bonfire coins.

I go to AMPs weekly and am starting to hear there being more Aholes not paying or wanting to pay girls for the services they delivered. One masseuse that I sometimes see told me a "younger " dude went in their shop and asked for her by name so she assumed he's been there before. After she massaged him and provided a HE the guy said he forgot to bring money for tips and needed to go to the ATM. Guy never returned with her tip. What a fuckin cheap ass! Because of these Aholes are why girls are starting to ask for tips upfront which we know kills the mood. Become a trusting and respectful customer and you will be treated like king.

[DragonWolf]

I think you nailed it! The majority of the mongers who I think are sharing / showing reviews w / providers are probably love-struck with the girls. There are definitely some that do it to try to get discounts, better service / extras by seeming like a nicer guy than you or I.

I'll take it a step further and add that the ladies often pull the same nonsense. Maybe less so on the independent side, but the agency and parlor ladies can be just as conniving.

[RChangDatyKing]

1st. I agree with you on your posts, so this is just a side comment since these posts got me thinking.

I think there's 2 things at play.

1 - The management definitely is tracking review site and board activity. I know SDAG in particular is very attentive to such things. I got a talking to, years ago, over a less than stellar review I left (wasn't even a bad one, just lower than they'd have liked, and they felt it may have impacted their business which slowed for a couple days after my review. I think it may have been a coincidence, but we talked things out and got squared away. Fast forward a few years and last year they (SDAG) reached out to me on HX last year, asking me to post a reminder in here to not share their password. They got word of people asking for the password and got nervous about it. It's probably why they're changing it fairly frequently.

2 - The mongers who are sharin reviews w / providers are probably either love-struck or trying to get better service / extras by seeming like a nicer guy than the next. Just like when strip club customers tell the dancers things others say, just to earn points. LOL.

Not expecting that any of this was eye-opening, just me talking out loud. =).

I think you nailed it! The majority of the mongers who I think are sharing / showing reviews w / providers are probably love-struck with the girls. There are definitely some that do it to try to get discounts, better service / extras by seeming like a nicer guy than you or I.

[DragonWolf]

The good thing is she / her booker or manager stopped writing me on HX. I received 2 PMs on HX this morning. I finally told her she's not above a 5 IMO when compared to the hundreds of girls I've been with in my 15 years of hobbying. The review itself was not bad. Her "look" was not ideal for me and I wanted guys with my similar tastes to be fully aware. Yeah it's BS!

1st. I agree with you on your posts, so this is just a side comment since these posts got me thinking.

I think there's 2 things at play.

1 - The management definitely is tracking review site and board activity. I know SDAG in particular is very attentive to such things. I got a talking to, years ago, over a less than stellar review I left (wasn't even a bad one, just lower than they'd have liked, and they felt it may have impacted their business which slowed for a couple days after my review. I think it may have been a coincidence, but we talked things out and got squared away. Fast forward a few years and last year they (SDAG) reached out to me on HX last year, asking me to post a reminder in here to not share their password. They got word of people asking for the password and got nervous about it. It's probably why they're changing it fairly frequently.

2 - The mongers who are sharin reviews w / providers are probably either love-struck or trying to get better service / extras by seeming like a nicer guy than the next. Just like when strip club customers tell the dancers things others say, just to earn points. LOL.

Not expecting that any of this was eye-opening, just me talking out loud. =).

[GilfLover]

I hear you! Yeah, I don't let these girls affect me and / or my hobby fun one bit. I will continue to post my unbiased reviews.

They want better reviews? Perform better! Don't use touched up or 5 year old photos. Got to the gym for a minute. It's not rocket science.

GL.

[RChangDatyKing]

+1 to this. Keep 'them coming unbiased, and do your best to let the anger from chicks roll off your back.

To those that run to share reviews with the providers. You're not a man. You're a simp, and I just feel sorry for you.

I hear you! Yeah, I don't let these girls affect me and / or my hobby fun one bit. I will continue to post my unbiased reviews.

[RChangDatyKing]

That does suck. Assuming your handle on Hx is 100% completely different than what your handle is here? I do know many girls that read the posts on this website especially because it is free. I have had girls ask me about reviews on TER because they can not see them due to not having a paid membership. But yeah, agree with you. It's BS.

The good thing is she / her booker or manager stopped writing me on HX. I received 2 PMs on HX this morning. I finally told her she's not above a 5 IMO when compared to the hundreds of girls I've been with in my 15 years of hobbying. The review itself was not bad. Her "look" was not ideal for me and I wanted guys with my similar tastes to be fully aware. Yeah it's BS!

[RChangDatyKing]

Yeah, its clear that providers or their "managers" monitor this site as well as others. And its all too obvious that these same individuals are not above either calling out candid and unbiased clients or generating positive counter-reviews. Lets face it, if you have half a brain and a little time on your hands, and this is your main form of income, then its not hard to do. I was almost banned from a local agency for writing an honest review somewhere else. Lesson learned: either make sure the handle you write under is untraceable or keep to private messages with trusted hobbyists to find the real story.

Gone are the days when there was a real sense of community and camaraderie among providers and clients. Pre-Covid / Fosta / Sesta I thought there was actually a lot of fun banter, well meaning rivalry and general human interest in the hobbying / providing community. Of course there were plenty of trolls, jerks, and robs too, but it was way easier to either call them out, ignore them, or defund them.

On another note, has there ever been a documented case of white knights or simps actually getting better treatment from providers (or their managers)? I'm guessing that sometime during a sessions, an invisible indelible mark is stamped on their butts saying "sucker".

I agree with you those days of community and camaraderie are gone, even amongst mongers. Yeah I have about a dozen or so guys on here that I share and exchange more detailed reviews on. I don't post that much on AMPs anymore because guys have shared my reviews with masseuses. I know because they've taken pictures of them from customer's phones and asked if I wrote the reviews.

[RChangDatyKing]

You posted a review on a public site and think that someone shared this with the provider? Who has time for that?

You're right. She may have stumbled across my review at 1:00 am in the morning as it is on a public site. As stated by another monger that this and other review sites are most likely being read by providers, their mangers, etc.

You don't have to understand it! It's my rant in the Stupid Shit in San Diego section.

[RolfTorren]

Yeah, its clear that providers or their "managers" monitor this site as well as others. And its all too obvious that these same individuals are not above either calling out candid and unbiased clients or generating positive counter-reviews. Lets face it, if you have half a brain and a little time on your hands, and this is your main form of income, then its not hard to do. I was almost banned from a local agency for writing an honest review somewhere else. Lesson learned: either make sure the handle you write under is untraceable or keep to private messages with trusted hobbyists to find the real story.

Gone are the days when there was a real sense of community and camaraderie among providers and clients. Pre-Covid / Fosta / Sesta I thought there was actually a lot of fun banter, well meaning rivalry and general human interest in the hobbying / providing community. Of course there were plenty of trolls, jerks, and robs too, but it was way easier to either call them out, ignore them, or defund them.

On another note, has there ever been a documented case of white knights or simps actually getting better treatment from providers (or their managers)? I'm guessing that sometime during a sessions, an invisible indelible mark is stamped on their butts saying "sucker".

WTF- I wrote the below review / post on an HX provider I saw and within hours of it posted she writes to be on HX, 4-5/10 huh, man I wish mutual rating is an option.

Man, I know there are white knights on this board, or guys telling / sharing with the providers the exact wording of reviews- WTF, why share the reviewer handle! The reviews are for us mongers so we have information before making the appointment. Sorry, but I write unbiased reviews- not just the fluff. She probably would have been happy with the post if I left off the rating I gave her for her looks. There are plenty of guys that would go see her for her performance, BBBJ skills, willingness to please.

This must be the reasons why we dont see many real or unbiased reviews because freakin WKs calling the girls and telling them these shit. Not even a few hours the girls already knew of my review and shes not even a SD provider. WTF! To the dick heads that told her about my review, I hope she gave you that $20 discount for running to her with the review/information.

Those that have read my posts knows I pick looks over performance any day. She didn't meet my expectations in that area. If it was just performance I was looking for then I would repeat.

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...282&viewfull=1#post5343282.

[Trusty Hairlip]

WTF- I wrote the below review / post on an HX provider I saw and within hours of it posted she writes to be on HX, 4-5/10 huh, man I wish mutual rating is an option.

Man, I know there are white knights on this board, or guys telling / sharing with the providers the exact wording of reviews- WTF, why share the reviewer handle! The reviews are for us mongers so we have information before making the appointment. Sorry, but I write unbiased reviews- not just the fluff. She probably would have been happy with the post if I left off the rating I gave her for her looks. There are plenty of guys that would go see her for her performance, BBBJ skills, willingness to please.

This must be the reasons why we dont see many real or unbiased reviews because freakin WKs calling the girls and telling them these shit. Not even a few hours the girls already knew of my review and shes not even a SD provider. WTF! To the dick heads that told her about my review, I hope she gave you that $20 discount for running to her with the review/information.

Those that have read my posts knows I pick looks over performance any day. She didn't meet my expectations in that area. If it was just performance I was looking for then I would repeat..

You posted a review on a public site and think that someone shared this with the provider? Who has time for that?

[The DudeInSd]

WTF- I wrote the below review / post on an HX provider I saw and within hours of it posted she writes to be on HX, 4-5/10 huh, man I wish mutual rating is an option.

Man, I know there are white knights on this board, or guys telling / sharing with the providers the exact wording of reviews- WTF, why share the reviewer handle! The reviews are for us mongers so we have information before making the appointment. Sorry, but I write unbiased reviews- not just the fluff. She probably would have been happy with the post if I left off the rating I gave her for her looks. There are plenty of guys that would go see her for her performance, BBBJ skills, willingness to please.

This must be the reasons why we dont see many real or unbiased reviews because freakin WKs calling the girls and telling them these shit. Not even a few hours the girls already knew of my review and shes not even a SD provider. WTF! To the dick heads that told her about my review, I hope she gave you that $20 discount for running to her with the review/information.

Those that have read my posts knows I pick looks over performance any day. She didn't meet my expectations in that area. If it was just performance I was looking for then I would repeat..

That does suck. Assuming your handle on Hx is 100% completely different than what your handle is here? I do know many girls that read the posts on this website especially because it is free. I have had girls ask me about reviews on TER because they can not see them due to not having a paid membership. But yeah, agree with you. It's BS.

[Wahoo2000]

+1 to this. Keep 'them coming unbiased, and do your best to let the anger from chicks roll off your back.

To those that run to share reviews with the providers. You're not a man. You're a simp, and I just feel sorry for you.

WTF- I wrote the below review / post on an HX provider I saw and within hours of it posted she writes to be on HX, 4-5/10 huh, man I wish mutual rating is an option.

Man, I know there are white knights on this board, or guys telling / sharing with the providers the exact wording of reviews- WTF, why share the reviewer handle! The reviews are for us mongers so we have information before making the appointment. Sorry, but I write unbiased reviews- not just the fluff. She probably would have been happy with the post if I left off the rating I gave her for her looks. There are plenty of guys that would go see her for her performance, BBBJ skills, willingness to please.

This must be the reasons why we dont see many real or unbiased reviews because freakin WKs calling the girls and telling them these shit. Not even a few hours the girls already knew of my review and shes not even a SD provider. WTF! To the dick heads that told her about my review, I hope she gave you that $20 discount for running to her with the review/information.

Those that have read my posts knows I pick looks over performance any day. She didn't meet my expectations in that area. If it was just performance I was looking for then I would repeat.

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...282&viewfull=1#post5343282.

[RChangDatyKing]

WTF- I wrote the below review / post on an HX provider I saw and within hours of it posted she writes to be on HX, 4-5/10 huh, man I wish mutual rating is an option.

Man, I know there are white knights on this board, or guys telling / sharing with the providers the exact wording of reviews- WTF, why share the reviewer handle! The reviews are for us mongers so we have information before making the appointment. Sorry, but I write unbiased reviews- not just the fluff. She probably would have been happy with the post if I left off the rating I gave her for her looks. There are plenty of guys that would go see her for her performance, BBBJ skills, willingness to please.

This must be the reasons why we dont see many real or unbiased reviews because freakin WKs calling the girls and telling them these shit. Not even a few hours the girls already knew of my review and shes not even a SD provider. WTF! To the dick heads that told her about my review, I hope she gave you that $20 discount for running to her with the review/information.

Those that have read my posts knows I pick looks over performance any day. She didn't meet my expectations in that area. If it was just performance I was looking for then I would repeat.

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...282&viewfull=1#post5343282.