Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[BlueFox141]

Was thinking of meeting her and profile says 'So my profile says I'm 32 I think, idk how to change it I'm actually 22'.

Just wondering?

Does it really matter? I remembered later, that I blocked her because she wanted to see me 4 or 5 times a week and pay her each time.

Blue.

[Gamisi]

Jeezzzee, I posted this 3 months ago and I can't even open her profile! I said 31 in my post. Why are you asking this now?

Blue.

Was thinking of meeting her and profile says 'So my profile says I'm 32 I think, idk how to change it I'm actually 22'.

Just wondering?

[BlueFox141]

Is she 32 or 22?

Jeezzzee, I posted this 3 months ago and I can't even open her profile! I said 31 in my post. Why are you asking this now?

Blue.

[Gamisi]

This one, name Kelly ("Better Beginnings" 31 New Britain) messaged me just a week ago. We chatted a little and and exchanged digits, but I didn't think it would go anywhere. She kept texting and I ignored her over the weekend. Monday I told her I had been sick. Nothing Tuesday, I figured she gave up, no big loss. Wednesday around 11:00, she texts me "I'm horny"(turns out she was drinking and playing with herself). We go back and forth and I tell her I could meet at a motel in Naugatuck. She says "We haven't even met, yet". I say "I was just trying to help you out and now I'm really horny, too". Well, that's all it took. She suggests We meet someplace near the motel and she will get in the car nd talk to me to see if she feels comfortable. We meet at my office, and she gets in the car and says she's never done this and maybe it wasn't a good idea. I look at her and say "I thought yo were horny". She replies "Let's go!" On the way down I had called the Comfort Inn on Rt 63 in Naugatuck (next to the fleabag many of the Waterbury STG girls use. I was full- ("SHIT" I called the Courtyard Marriott in Waterbury $80. So, back to Kelly- on the way over she says "We never discussed an amount! Damn! I said "I thought we were just helping each other out?" She mumbles a little bit. I tell I have $100 on me and she says she usually get $250. She asks me about going to an ATM, I look in my wallet saying "I don't think I have my card. NOPE!" By then we are at the Marriott. She says "What are we going to do?" I say the magic phrase again!- "I though you wee horny?" "Get the room", she replies! She is thicker than I like, but we had a really good time! She came during and loved the DATY. Her oral skills are great. She came again while I was fingering as she gave me a BBBJ to get me going. I stopped her to do MISH (she was surprised when I grabbed a condom, so bareback is on the table) but she wasn't as into it as she had been. Turns out she can only cum twice, so I went back to the BBBJCIMSW. I went down on her again and she was right, she could only cum twice! It was getting late so we headed out, both of us satisfied. I. "managed" to find another $50, so she felt better. I won't repeat only because she is thicker than I like.

Is she 32 or 22?

[DiscreteGuy888]

I will PM the pics to you of her. As for what I send, typically I compliment their looks and try to reference something from their profile. I do have pics but they are private except for my main picture which doesn't show my face. I typically will share my private pics after I message someone.

She changes up the pics, and I don't have a profile now on there but these were some that she had on there before.

[BigBoss203]

Here is the link:

https://www.seeking.com/member/a97b6...2-e548e8319d86

Swm11 you shared your messages url link not the actual member.

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...2-4cffaeb2c868

Emilyyybabes. Waterbury.

She's requesting a 50 deposit to "hold your appointment".

I reported the profile for trying to scam people.

[Swm11]

https://www.seeking.com/messages/inb...2-4cffaeb2c868

Emilyyybabes. Waterbury.

She's requesting a 50 deposit to "hold your appointment".

I reported the profile for trying to scam people.

[DiscreteGuy888]

If you need to wait for a "sale" on SA to save $30 perhaps you cannot afford a Sugar Baby? Your mindset is not where it needs to be in order to be successful. Scoring SA "Ladies" is a bit different than dating or paying for sex. Poo.

I'd rather spend the money on taking them out the first time. Personally I can afford the $90 a month membership but I also feel like that's too much for a month membership. Plus, I'll generally get a few numbers and work those leads for a few months until I get bored. Maybe its the "wrong" approach but it's just how I've been doing it for 2-3 years. I've used sites like Eros before but what I enjoy on SA is that there aren't time constraints. I like that it feels more real texting during the day etc. Everyone has their reasons.

[DiscreteGuy888]

First thing is that lots of girls get tons of messages. So, you need some patience. Don't send lots of messages, but definitely follow up after a couple of days.

That said, I only message women that have written at least a few sentences about them. Then, I will try to make a positive comment about something in their profile. Its worked for me as a good conversation starter.

I would not ask to view private pics until you have shared a few messages, better yet, don't ask and have her offer them to you. Thats always a good sign.

Just my opinions. I look for women for something long term. If you want a hookup / short term thing, I would probably be a bit more direct.

Thanks for the feedback. I'll usually send 1 message and leave at that. I'll try to be more direct. I definitely don't request pics right away either.

[DiscreteGuy888]

Can you share here her SA private pictures? I am curious to see how she looks and if it is worth it to sign up.

What do you typically send? Some girls you need to read their bio to see what they are asking for. It depends on the girl, sometimes I throw the old "Lets do an arrangement for x" or "I am interested let me know if you are". This starts up the conversation.

Also make sure you have pics.

I will PM the pics to you of her. As for what I send, typically I compliment their looks and try to reference something from their profile. I do have pics but they are private except for my main picture which doesn't show my face. I typically will share my private pics after I message someone.

[ConnecticutGuy]

Those prosecutors are trying hard to charge him with Sex Trafficking is ridiculous. Paying sex for a woman!= sex trafficking.

One of the alleged incidents involves taking a girl from Florida to Georgia, where the age requirement is different for certain crimes. That's a federal crime. So is transporting an underage girl out of the country to a place like the Philippines, where the age of consent is if you have your second teeth. The Mann Act could be involved as well. Dude is in a lot of trouble if any of this is true; he's a rising star in the are party, and a prime target for the opposition.

[ILoveThatPoo]

Hi,

I'm a lurker here and finally decided to post. Thanks to everyone that's shared their experiences with SA. I guess my question for those that have had successful "arrangements", what is your typical opening line when messaging? I've been on and off SA for about 2-3 years. I generally sign up for a free account, then wait for them to offer a 33% promotion off the regular price membership (generally during holidays like Valentines, St. Patricks, etc). I've sent out so many messages but lately it seems like many girls don't respond at all. Just curious to see what others are using. Sorry not really a "report" but more of a question.

I can tell you that I've had success most recently with "moderndaylolita". She was really attractive and we had a few dates. Has her own place. She's been doing it a while. https://www.seeking.com/member/f55b5...d-46a90c4400d2.

If you need to wait for a "sale" on SA to save $30 perhaps you cannot afford a Sugar Baby? Your mindset is not where it needs to be in order to be successful. Scoring SA "Ladies" is a bit different than dating or paying for sex. Poo.

[BlueFox141]

I have not seen any great reviews of her here. I have tried a few times to get together with her. She is firm on $250 for a meet, I need to host and she only wants to meet on weekday mornings. Given the reviews, I have not pulled the trigger. I would be surprised if she got a lot of interest with those expectations.

I got her down to 200, but given the reviews decided not to either.

Blue.

[XxMarkXx]

Be careful when you mentioned things such as short term, or a one time thing, this is how I was banned.

Very true. I never talk any "business" on the site. Only chit chat type ofcsruff. If there is interest, we talk off the site. Everyone should follow a similar approach.

[BigBoss203]

First thing is that lots of girls get tons of messages. So, you need some patience. Don't send lots of messages, but definitely follow up after a couple of days.

That said, I only message women that have written at least a few sentences about them. Then, I will try to make a positive comment about something in their profile. Its worked for me as a good conversation starter.

I would not ask to view private pics until you have shared a few messages, better yet, don't ask and have her offer them to you. Thats always a good sign.

Just my opinions. I look for women for something long term. If you want a hookup / short term thing, I would probably be a bit more direct.

Be careful when you mentioned things such as short term, or a one time thing, this is how I was banned.