Massage Parlor Reports

[STDKing]

This is a question or comment that recurs on message boards. The bottom line is: how to be safe while engaged in the hobby and how do you really know? To this question there are usually comments from all viewpoints. Ranging from "who cares, pay your money and take your chances", "if you are so worried, don't hobby", to "I believe her when she says I'm the only one", and everything in between. Jaded-reckless to Pollyanna.

If you do this long enough, you meet the ones who let you look behind the curtain, and among these are the gossipers who tell about the owners and the lives of the other girls. There is a book here too in the range of backgrounds of the workers. There are newbies, short timers, lifers, locals, transient travelers, rotators, back and forth-ers who split time in China, young spinners to grannies, initiates to skilled semi-pros. Unattached singles, singles with boyfriends / fiancees, partnered, living with someone, married, married with kids, married with husband living elsewhere, married with husband elsewhere and shacking up with owner, working in spa and doing escort duty on the side. Many chances to have encounters and hook ups. Paid and unpaid.

But she said I'm the only one and she never does this with anyone else. A couple of talkative ones said to me:"Asian women will always lie to you. If it is about money or saving face", and apparently, culturally, lying 🤥 is not a loss of face. It is acceptable especially to get money. How this relates to finding a "pure provider", is money talks and they all have a price.

All women set their line. For western women the line might be where they become a **** or a ***** of crossed. Sex workers have already crossed that line and after that, it's by degrees of what is personally acceptable. Culturally what is acceptable can depend on the money, and also as is universally true, how much she likes you. They give it away to attractive guys..

Been in the hobby since the 90's. I have seen it all. I lived in China. I know about face. I understand lying is cultural permissible (even expected) about some things. That is why I am looking for reliable reports from guys of women who never eventually crossed the BB line with them, even if they offered tons of cash and saw them for years. Believe me, I know that a woman can say she won't do FS for thousands, then offer it to you later for far less. But that is exactly the kind of intel I am talking about. None of this is 100%. Just Trying to make more informed choices about who I do FS with. Based on reports on these boards already stopped seeing several providers. But figured I would throw the question out there clearly so people with info might share it. Not expecting you to read their mind, know what every single other guy does, or to know if her husband is gay. Just what info you have.

[Jared260]

Anyone know good places north of Boston that strictly covered FS covered BJ (zero exceptions). Lately I want to be cautious and and trying to find a provider who offers those kinds of extras but always uses protection.

This is a question or comment that recurs on message boards. The bottom line is: how to be safe while engaged in the hobby and how do you really know? To this question there are usually comments from all viewpoints. Ranging from "who cares, pay your money and take your chances", "if you are so worried, don't hobby", to "I believe her when she says I'm the only one", and everything in between. Jaded-reckless to Pollyanna.

If you do this long enough, you meet the ones who let you look behind the curtain, and among these are the gossipers who tell about the owners and the lives of the other girls. There is a book here too in the range of backgrounds of the workers. There are newbies, short timers, lifers, locals, transient travelers, rotators, back and forth-ers who split time in China, young spinners to grannies, initiates to skilled semi-pros. Unattached singles, singles with boyfriends / fiancees, partnered, living with someone, married, married with kids, married with husband living elsewhere, married with husband elsewhere and shacking up with owner, working in spa and doing escort duty on the side. Many chances to have encounters and hook ups. Paid and unpaid.

But she said I'm the only one and she never does this with anyone else. A couple of talkative ones said to me:"Asian women will always lie to you. If it is about money or saving face", and apparently, culturally, lying 🤥 is not a loss of face. It is acceptable especially to get money. How this relates to finding a "pure provider", is money talks and they all have a price.

All women set their line. For western women the line might be where they become a **** or a ***** of crossed. Sex workers have already crossed that line and after that, it's by degrees of what is personally acceptable. Culturally what is acceptable can depend on the money, and also as is universally true, how much she likes you. They give it away to attractive guys.

The point about gauging purity by her refusal to do it for any price. Reasonable idea, but not an uncrossable line. Had this conversation many times, first as hypotheticals then as a real test. One mp told me that she was offered $10 k for FS and still wouldn't do it. Most things up to BJ and FS for typically prices were ok, but that was the line. Said it with conviction, was believable. Some time later things changed, and out of the blue she offered FS without me asking. Line moved. An independently wealthy friend liked the challenge of crossing the line in AMPs and would nicely push the price higher and higher until they gave in. He didn't care about the money, he'd lose 50-60 k at casinos for fun. This was a sneeze. They always gave in, if not on the first visit, then later after they had time to think about it and talk to the girlfriends. Because they talk about who gives what tips. They lost a lot and the gfs said we'll do it for that. Social pressure.

Last point, doing it only with bf or husband. You don't know, . And you don't know what the bf or husband is doing on the side. Straight mongering? Bareback Bisexual? He brings to her and she brings to you.

Comes down to having a monogamous GF you obsessively monitor for her straying, or a provider who gets tested before seeing you. Old World chastity belts, while effective in the past, are just not fashionable in modern times.

[STDKing]

I can't believe that I'm going to recommend a provider to you that has an Intel record of 100% NEVER BBFS. She does do BBBJ though. I have never had ANY kind of sex with her, but we were in the same neighborhood a couple years ago, and she asked to meet for drinks and talk and pick each other's brains. So I spent an hour or so with her in the bar. She looks exactly like her ad pics. I even got her to flash her tits at me in the bar, and her tits are indeed like the pics, LOL!

Now, of course nothing is foolproof, but I do believe her when she said she NEVER fucks raw. Which is why I NEVER had any kind of sex with her, LOL! But I can tell you this: she's intelligent, honest, and though I know nothing about her in the sack, she's a fun woman to chat and bullshit with. And she READS this board! ; )

So here you go!

https://adultsearch.com/rhode-island...scorts/1346780

Appreciate the recommendation. Exactly the kind of info I was hoping to find.

[KingOfFours]

I get there may be some exceptions 8 n their personal life but I don't think what you are saying is true (I do think many would BB and tell other clients they don't, which is why I am looking to the forum for women who are a hard no on BB). There are women who don't have a price (I have had women who wouldn't give more than an HJ for any price: offered over 600 and still no: so these women all have minds of their own and plenty can't be bought. I am looking for one who would just go bare with husband or bf). Want a reliably cautious girl who is well informed about STDs and stuff. Just seen too many good providers doing lots of BB (and don't want to have sex with someone anymore who does that: don't mind getting an HJ or covered BJ from them but avoiding FS from them. No judgment if you want BB, I am just realizing I am not comfortable taking that kind of risk (even if I am covered, have had condoms rip or fall off, and they aren't always 100 percent). Looking to be safer in the hobby and also not put providers in as much risk either.

I can't believe that I'm going to recommend a provider to you that has an Intel record of 100% NEVER BBFS. She does do BBBJ though. I have never had ANY kind of sex with her, but we were in the same neighborhood a couple years ago, and she asked to meet for drinks and talk and pick each other's brains. So I spent an hour or so with her in the bar. She looks exactly like her ad pics. I even got her to flash her tits at me in the bar, and her tits are indeed like the pics, LOL!

Now, of course nothing is foolproof, but I do believe her when she said she NEVER fucks raw. Which is why I NEVER had any kind of sex with her, LOL! But I can tell you this: she's intelligent, honest, and though I know nothing about her in the sack, she's a fun woman to chat and bullshit with. And she READS this board! ; )

So here you go!

https://adultsearch.com/rhode-island...scorts/1346780

[STDKing]

He's trying to tell you that every single woman out there does this. If you want someone who is always safe, get into a monogamous relationship.

I could buy that most of the do it. I can't imagine there aren't women who won't. They all clearly have lines. If there are women who give an HJ but won't give a BJ, surely there must be some whose line is they give covered FS but not BB. Anyways, wasn't looking for 100 percent, since one can never truly be sure but looking for providers who seem to regularly turn down requests for BBBJ or BBFS. If anyone knows such providers, feel free to PM.

[Herow]

That is exactly the kind of information I am thinking of. This would be a provider I would like to avoid. Clearly there is no certainty here. All I am looking for is best available information. If a girl doesn't seem to be offering BB to anyone (even if they offer lots of money), I'd rather go see her than see the one who is known to BB on occasion.

He's trying to tell you that every single woman out there does this. If you want someone who is always safe, get into a monogamous relationship.

[Rito1]

Got a text tonight from a 408 area code saying that new juicy flowers have arrived and to text a different number. I googled the number and it came back to these ads.

https://adultsearch.com/massachusett...scorts/1326371

https://boston.rubratings.com/205812

https://sumosear.ch/images/webpage/a...-1981/36951985

[Jimmy Pratt]

At the risk of sounding like a shill for Sunny Spa, I had another good session there today. It's just easier to re-play my last post on the place, since everything was basically the same. The only difference is I asked her to focus a little extra on the neck and shoulder area, and man did she do a good job with that!

See below.

Had a great session this evening with Bella. Not young, not old. Maybe mid to late 30's. She knows what she's doing. This was one of the better sessions I've had here for several reasons:

- heated tables never felt so good.

- her hands were also nice and warm.

- got the full hour, maybe a few minutes extra.

- no interruptions.

- asked for strong, got strong.

- good finish. She didn't rush, but I didn't last long.

I left an extra ten bucks above the usual tip because I felt she did above average job. Oh, there was very minimal UTC up top but just enough to launch the rocket.

JP.

[STDKing]

Dude, not a single guy on this whole site can assure you of what you ask. I get CFS and CBJ from an AMP girl who I like, tip well and am kind too. She is 100% covered with me but will blow and fuuck my buddy raw. Ironically the same has happed in reverse with me being the lucky BB recipient. This is always about acceptance of risk, accept the risk or manage your menu to fit your comfort level.

That is exactly the kind of information I am thinking of. This would be a provider I would like to avoid. Clearly there is no certainty here. All I am looking for is best available information. If a girl doesn't seem to be offering BB to anyone (even if they offer lots of money), I'd rather go see her than see the one who is known to BB on occasion.

[STDKing]

It's clear what you want, but it's unclear how you are going to verify that you are dealing with a never-BB provider. It does not seem to be even theoretically possible.

Can't ever be certain, but if you get enough reports of no BB, that is something.

[Trickster666]

I am looking for one who would just go bare with husband or bf). Want a reliably cautious girl who is well informed about STDs and stuff. Just seen too many good providers doing lots of BB (and don't want to have sex with someone anymore who does that

It's clear what you want, but it's unclear how you are going to verify that you are dealing with a never-BB provider. It does not seem to be even theoretically possible.

[Jack617]

I am just realizing I am not comfortable taking that kind of risk (even if I am covered, have had condoms rip or fall off, and they aren't always 100 percent). Looking to be safer in the hobby and also not put providers in as much risk either.

Dude, not a single guy on this whole site can assure you of what you ask. I get CFS and CBJ from an AMP girl who I like, tip well and am kind too. She is 100% covered with me but will blow and fuuck my buddy raw. Ironically the same has happed in reverse with me being the lucky BB recipient. This is always about acceptance of risk, accept the risk or manage your menu to fit your comfort level.

[Lily1234]

I get there may be some exceptions 8 n their personal life but I don't think what you are saying is true (I do think many would BB and tell other clients they don't, which is why I am looking to the forum for women who are a hard no on BB). There are women who don't have a price (I have had women who wouldn't give more than an HJ for any price: offered over 600 and still no: so these women all have minds of their own and plenty can't be bought. I am looking for one who would just go bare with husband or bf). Want a reliably cautious girl who is well informed about STDs and stuff. Just seen too many good providers doing lots of BB (and don't want to have sex with someone anymore who does that: don't mind getting an HJ or covered BJ from them but avoiding FS from them. No judgment if you want BB, I am just realizing I am not comfortable taking that kind of risk (even if I am covered, have had condoms rip or fall off, and they aren't always 100 percent). Looking to be safer in the hobby and also not put providers in as much risk either.

Ha. That reminds me of a time I was really drunk and got a hooker in taipei. She was smoking hot and being super drunk I could not ejaculate so I asked her if I could take off the rubber. She agreed so I asked if she did that often, and as I was sliding it in she shows me her fake wedding band and says only with you and my husband. It was a great time but was a really anxious after I sibered up till I got home and get tested.

[AceTrav]

I haven't been to an AMP since the pandemic started. I've seen that places are opening now. What are the AMPs like now? Do the girls wear masks during the session? Is there no touching?

[STDKing]

There is always an exception. Even for the most reviewed only covered women. There could be BF or husband. Or the rare folks she just really likes and/or pays whatever the magic number is that she will do it bare with.

I get there may be some exceptions 8 n their personal life but I don't think what you are saying is true (I do think many would BB and tell other clients they don't, which is why I am looking to the forum for women who are a hard no on BB). There are women who don't have a price (I have had women who wouldn't give more than an HJ for any price: offered over 600 and still no: so these women all have minds of their own and plenty can't be bought. I am looking for one who would just go bare with husband or bf). Want a reliably cautious girl who is well informed about STDs and stuff. Just seen too many good providers doing lots of BB (and don't want to have sex with someone anymore who does that: don't mind getting an HJ or covered BJ from them but avoiding FS from them. No judgment if you want BB, I am just realizing I am not comfortable taking that kind of risk (even if I am covered, have had condoms rip or fall off, and they aren't always 100 percent). Looking to be safer in the hobby and also not put providers in as much risk either.