Seeking Arrangements

**DurtyDawg** · 03-07-21 08:04

Originally Posted by Syedna [View Original Post]

What??

SA. Seeking Arrangements. What difference are you talking about?

Not "arrangements". The website is called "Seeking Arrangement", but this thread is about SD / SB sites in general, not just that particular site, so it's plural. Seeking Arrangements. Semantics, I suppose, and much ado about nothing, but technically correct.

**Syedna** · 03-06-21 23:14

Originally Posted by Spill [View Original Post]

Not plural. Big difference.

What??

SA. Seeking Arrangements. What difference are you talking about?

**Tribeca67** · 03-06-21 17:31

Venmo venmo venmo lying about meeting up.

**TheList00** · 03-06-21 14:58

Originally Posted by Tribeca67 [View Original Post]

This one too with tons of accounts.

She's real though, she keeps getting kicked off by the site and makes a new profile. She's on facebook, I've been texting with her, she's in providence and doesn't drive I might go see her when I travel to foxwoods passing through.

**Tribeca67** · 03-06-21 13:09

This one too with tons of accounts.

**Tribeca67** · 03-05-21 17:43

How many accounts is this woman going to make?

**Aimstraight** · 03-05-21 17:29

This one wants min 3 K per month plus gifts plus.

**Spill** · 03-05-21 15:27

Originally Posted by Syedna [View Original Post]

Check the name of this thread.

Not plural. Big difference.

**Syedna** · 03-05-21 15:24

Originally Posted by Spill [View Original Post]

The Question: What is SA?

Check the name of this thread.

**Spill** · 03-05-21 15:14

Originally Posted by Bran001 [View Original Post]

Some of each. And other variants. There is no single definition of "sugar baby" these days; the lines all blur. There are definitely students and young professionals who are looking for a relationship with ONE guy who'll treat them well. And there definitely are escorts. And girls who just want to sell pics and vids, and / or drive traffic to their OF site. And outright scammers. It's all there.

The Question: What is SA?

**Bran001** · 03-05-21 08:51

Originally Posted by OkWhatever [View Original Post]

Both. I think a true SB is someone that you give a set allowance too on a set schedule. Basically, she's on your personal payroll. She works for you (so to speak). That's how I see it. I've never done that. I always do PPM, which to me is close to having an escort. The only difference with PPM is that the woman may spend multiple hours with you and not see other guys or just a handful.

Its a thin line. When you are paying for sex, it is what it is. Sugar baby is just a nicer term for them to accept they are getting paid for sex. Anyway, I'm sure there are varying opinions on all this. In the end, it doesn't matter as long as everyone is happy.

There definitely is a middle ground of SB's who do not want a bunch of partners, who want a connection beyond sex and money, but who don't want the obligations that come about when there is a monthly allowance and the guy treats her like she's on her payroll. Thus, PPM for dates to be schedules when mutually convenient. I hear from many women that they've had bad experiences with monthly allowances as the guys sometimes treat them like an employee and want attention day / night on demand.

**NerdyGuy12** · 03-04-21 23:31

Getting a lot of requests 617 for 586 her 0573 number.

Originally Posted by MajorVX [View Original Post]

I remember texting her at that time but she stopped responding. If anyone could remind me of the number, it's in my texts somewhere.

**Big Stu** · 03-04-21 17:53

Originally Posted by OkWhatever [View Original Post]

Both. I think a true SB is someone that you give a set allowance too on a set schedule. Basically, she's on your personal payroll. She works for you (so to speak). That's how I see it. I've never done that. I always do PPM, which to me is close to having an escort. The only difference with PPM is that the woman may spend multiple hours with you and not see other guys or just a handful.

Its a thin line. When you are paying for sex, it is what it is. Sugar baby is just a nicer term for them to accept they are getting paid for sex. Anyway, I'm sure there are varying opinions on all this. In the end, it doesn't matter as long as everyone is happy.

I have always broken it down to 3 categories especially when talking to a potential sugar baby. But the break down I tell them is:

Escort. Paid for sex, has a menu for different things they do and charges by the hour. Will see anyone.

Pro Sugar Baby. Paid for sex, has a menu & might charge by the hour. Will not see everyone, wants there to be some chemistry. Usually has 2 to 5 regular SD's they see a few times a month & a few one off's. This is their only source of money.

Sugar Baby. Paid for an experience that includes FWB (sex) & dinner / drinks. Will not see everyone in fact wants their to be chemistry and wants to do a meet and greet. Usually has their own job.

This usually comes up because at the meet and greet I sometimes get complaints of old guys or nasty guys coming straight out in the message or at a meet and greet offering money for sex, because that's not my style I don't bring it up until the end or maybe not even until the 2nd meet and greet. Now that straight asking tons of ladies for sex for money works for a small %. We've all heard the example of the guy at the bar who asks 50 ladies to sleep with him, gets slapped by a bunch and has drinks thrown in his face by others but 1 out of 50 each night will sleep with him (though she's probably drunk). LOL I think my sales director told me that story 20 years ago when I was starting out in business and his point was sales is a numbers game. But it still holds true with ladies, it works for KoF on SA.

I prefer short term or long term SB's but have had some great one off's with pro sugar babies, especially if you they are short a little on a bill or you really connect over a meet and greet.

**OkWhatever** · 03-04-21 13:12

Both. I think a true SB is someone that you give a set allowance too on a set schedule. Basically, she's on your personal payroll. She works for you (so to speak). That's how I see it. I've never done that. I always do PPM, which to me is close to having an escort. The only difference with PPM is that the woman may spend multiple hours with you and not see other guys or just a handful.

Its a thin line. When you are paying for sex, it is what it is. Sugar baby is just a nicer term for them to accept they are getting paid for sex. Anyway, I'm sure there are varying opinions on all this. In the end, it doesn't matter as long as everyone is happy.

Originally Posted by Fractilian [View Original Post]

Soo is this basically an escort site? Or just sugar babies?

Like I'm no baller at all LOL but if I can hang out with some of these more UTR girls thatd be dope LOL. But like I'm definitely no sugar daddy.

So is it easy to set something up? And what are usual prices?

**Bran001** · 03-04-21 12:09

Originally Posted by Fractilian [View Original Post]

Soo is this basically an escort site? Or just sugar babies?

Like I'm no baller at all LOL but if I can hang out with some of these more UTR girls thatd be dope LOL. But like I'm definitely no sugar daddy.

So is it easy to set something up? And what are usual prices?

Some of each. And other variants. There is no single definition of "sugar baby" these days; the lines all blur. There are definitely students and young professionals who are looking for a relationship with ONE guy who'll treat them well. And there definitely are escorts. And girls who just want to sell pics and vids, and / or drive traffic to their OF site. And outright scammers. It's all there.

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