Strip Club Reports

[Firemanoh]

Went to Bogarts about 745 tonight. Some decent talent, but one simply outstanding dancer. Charlie was by far the hottest girl in the club. In my typical fashion, I kind of sat by the wayside, and waited for her to approach me. Negotiated upstairs at 1. 50 fir her to sing. Amazing body, amazing vocal talents, and all-around good time.

[Passenger]

Days works best for my schedule, so hopefully that helps me get my feet wet when its not to busy. I'm heading out on my own... Do most mongers here venture out to the clubs alone or with a buddy or 2? Sounds like an odd question but I've always gone out to the strip clubs with a group.

Over the years this forum has proven its weight in gold. Everyone who participates in this forum has a wealth of knowledge to share and I appreciate your feedback! Thanks fellas!

Personally, I want to keep this hobby to myself, away from friends. My first time in a strip club was age 16 with my high school chums. We were out on the east side, and we went in on a lark, thinking that we'd get kicked out. Turns out that their were seniors from our school there, too. So the second time in a bar where I was served, AND naked titties! Those were table dance days. Literally. They climbed up on the table and danced. Over the years it morphed into them carrying their own foot stool, upon which they danced.

Anyhow, back to the present; when you go solo to a club, the dancers have a good inkling that you're there for activities, not cocktails and camaraderie. Now the party girls that want to get drunk, aee more likely to gravitate to groups of guys for free drinks.

[HoldenCaul]

I agree it was a timing thing. I'll have to circle back for Violet.

I really do not understand these girls, they want our money and we want their goods. If I pay 200 for 6 songs or 10 songs, what do they care if I am able to get two off. I can make them work all day for 1 and take 10 songs. I truly believe I caught her off-guard, and she thought to herself it will be one and done and take 4-5 songs and not have to be there for 6 or the second pop. I am not here to impress the talent and last long time. If she wanted 1 pop I would talk my way into 100 for 3 songs.

My option is to go home with money that is in my pocket, that obviously I do not need. Her option is to go home 100 or 200 short.

You're not wrong, but there are multiple dynamics at work here. The club is keeping track of the songs and it may affect her tip out, so she has to make a calculation there if the price and song count agreed to is profitable for the work she has to perform. Also, she is likely thinking that second pop is going to take forever, and could be difficult to achieve, leading to a scenario when that song count hits and you didn't pop yet. In my experience, mostly the girls want like a quick 3-4 songs for as much as they can get for and move on to the next dude. Which she might be stressing about, if a regular is waiting for her and she is afraid will bolt.

[HoldenCaul]

How many girls at BT's will do BBBJ with CIM?

120 is a damn good price for that. I won't get too fussy about looks with that kind of bargain, but she's got to have decent teeth and no BO as a minimum standard.

Plenty of options at BT's and even more at SC, Bog, H8 N. All for that price point. IMO that's not a "bargain", that's standard for that service at these clubs. Price goes up at FC, LS, etc.

[OnlyVrx]

Days works best for my schedule, so hopefully that helps me get my feet wet when its not to busy. I'm heading out on my own... Do most mongers here venture out to the clubs alone or with a buddy or 2? Sounds like an odd question but I've always gone out to the strip clubs with a group.

Over the years this forum has proven its weight in gold. Everyone who participates in this forum has a wealth of knowledge to share and I appreciate your feedback! Thanks fellas!

It depends on the city, club and dancer in that order. Other cities might be different, but in Detroit, the suburbs at lease, I rarely have to ask for extras. The best dancers let me know in no uncertain terms. Having read all the comments you should already know which clubs and which dancers in the clubs. Often within three minutes of sitting down, we are in the back having fun, having already agreed on price and activities.....

When negotiating a line I've always had luck with when they start high is "Well I'm sure you're worth it but I'm not looking to spend near that much sorry". They almost always come back with "well how much are you looking to spend?" and around 8 outa 10 times the number I throw out they agree to....

OV, this is a long topic, but I will hit some of the pointers. First start by asking yourself what do you want. I like several warm up dance where the girl grinds suggestively on me and lets my hand roam. It makes me feel like I am with a girl friend. I know many guys who couldn't care about that and just want go back whip their dick out and get off as fast as they can....MM.

He is right some girls will bring it up. There are some that don't do extras. When she ask 'do you want some dances', reply with: I'm looking for more than dances (or). I'm looking for a girl who does extras....

It's not hard and it'll depend on the girl. As in any strip club, some will walk up to you and sit down with you. Just talk with them normally. When the topic of a private dance comes up, feel free to be straightfoward about what you want, what you want to spend and what they offer.

[Time Twist]

Hey all, I have been a regular monger in the AMP / Private Massage game for years but am very curious about how things work on the strip club side? Anyone able to walk me through a typical encounter? Specifically how you would approach or start the conversation, how do you act, what would you say, sit at the bar / table / booths, etc. Basically what to expect? I've read the the last 2 dozen or so pages in the forum but I have obviously never done this at the clubs before. Any girls you would recommend VS who to avoid? I'm extremely interested in trying and would appreciate the heads up on what to expect or any advice you can offer! PM ok.

Vrx.

It depends on the city, club and dancer in that order. Other cities might be different, but in Detroit, the suburbs at lease, I rarely have to ask for extras. The best dancers let me know in no uncertain terms. Having read all the comments you should already know which clubs and which dancers in the clubs. Often within three minutes of sitting down, we are in the back having fun, having already agreed on price and activities.

Where you sit really isn't an issue. Some people sit at the bar, others at the stage and others at the table. Since dancers expect you to tip if your are at stage, I like to sit at a table that allows me a good view of many dancers at the club, and will temporarily move to the stage if a hot dancer is on stage. There will be and endless number line of dancers stopping by the entire time you are there. Many will just approach you and ask "are you looking for a dance?" or "are you looking for some fun?" Unless it's a dancer who I have heard of, or I have gotten dances from her before, I typically skip dancers those dancers, and wait for a dancer who asks to sit down a bit, before she asks for dance. Now, If I had gone up to stage and asked her to stop by, then it's quite obvious I am looking for a dance and having fun.

Once she's at my your table, if she hasn't asked whether I want a dance within 3 minutes, typically she isn't worth it. If she isn't then on to the next. Once you have found a dancer you like, before you start your dance, make sure you both have agreed on price and activities, preferably with no song count. If she does ask for a time limit, make sure it's at least 10 minutes longer than what you want, since most dancers tend to cut time by at least 5 minutes.

Other suggestions:

Make sure it's a dancer you like. Never agree to a dance from a dancer who doesn't attract you.

One you first enter a club, often the best dancers are in the back getting dances. If it's a club I haven't been to before, I will wait until I have seen at least a dozen or so dancers either on stage or about the floor.

Avoid dancers who head back and are consistently done after one song. Good ones are typically back for at least three songs.

Some dancers are so popular, that she has a very large number of customers waiting by the time you have ask for a dance. Unless you are willing to wait for two hours, skip her and look for other dancers. If you really need to see her, then try another night early in the shift. Even then you might have a long wait.

[Beer30]

Hey all, I have been a regular monger in the AMP / Private Massage game for years but am very curious about how things work on the strip club side? Anyone able to walk me through a typical encounter? Specifically how you would approach or start the conversation, how do you act, what would you say, sit at the bar / table / booths, etc. Basically what to expect? I've read the the last 2 dozen or so pages in the forum but I have obviously never done this at the clubs before. Any girls you would recommend VS who to avoid? I'm extremely interested in trying and would appreciate the heads up on what to expect or any advice you can offer! PM ok.

Vrx.

When negotiating a line I've always had luck with when they start high is "Well I'm sure you're worth it but I'm not looking to spend near that much sorry". They almost always come back with "well how much are you looking to spend?" and around 8 outa 10 times the number I throw out they agree to.

[Marelobo Mex]

Hey all, I have been a regular monger in the AMP / Private Massage game for years but am very curious about how things work on the strip club side? Anyone able to walk me through a typical encounter? Specifically how you would approach or start the conversation, how do you act, what would you say, sit at the bar / table / booths, etc. Basically what to expect? I've read the the last 2 dozen or so pages in the forum but I have obviously never done this at the clubs before. Any girls you would recommend VS who to avoid? I'm extremely interested in trying and would appreciate the heads up on what to expect or any advice you can offer! PM ok.

Vrx.

OV, this is a long topic, but I will hit some of the pointers.

First start by asking yourself what do you want.

I like several warm up dance where the girl grinds suggestively on me and lets my hand roam. It makes me feel like I am with a girl friend. I know many guys who couldn't care about that and just want go back whip their dick out and get off as fast as they can.

Some girls want extra money for warm up dance and some don't. They all understand that more time in the back in necessary to provide the service I want.

I always negotiate for no song count. I have a buddy who says you are so beautiful I won't last 4 songs and asks to pay less if he can finish in 4 songs.

The girl is not a mind reader, every guy wants something different. I like watching girls play with themselves, other guys think the girl is stalling doing this.

Some guys want DFK, but I am not a big kisser.

Some guys want Bare Back, I prefer to wear a condom. In fact when I read guys complaining about the girl made them wear a condom I look for those girls.

She has negotiated for this multiple time a day for many days. This is your first time negotiating, so she has an advantage. It can be difficult to do it the first time you do it.

There is a difference between a girl who is willing and who wanting. Most girls will, but talk to her and find out what your chemistry is. If you have poor chemistry at the table it usually doesn't improve.

My personal recommendations.

Do not take the first girls who approach. They are typically the less desirable girls, and have learned they have to hustle harder to succeed. But maybe you don't care. Any reasonably attractive female will do.

I tend to see this as a treat, and I want to be with the hottest girls. (Hotness is subjective, I like small tits).

Always negotiate for no song count.

Never pay in advance, better to walk out and loose your room fee then try to make a bad session better.

If she won't meet your price point, then consider adding something like you like. For example I will pay more if I can finish on her face.

Unless you have to have a specific girl be willing to walk away. There will be another girl later that may provide what the first one won't.

If you go when it is busy the girl have more customer to choose from and they want to get in the VIP out of the VIP quickly so they can get back in. If you are there when it is slow, they are often willing to spend longer time in the VIP because they are not missing out on additional money.

If you are close on price, tell her if she satisfies you in the VIP, then you will give her a tip for a job well done.

This should be enough to get you started. Go have some adventures and you will learn quickly. Post about what works and doesn't work. Different guys use different strategies and most succeed.

MM.

[Verizon75]

He is right some girls will bring it up.

There are some that don't do extras.

When she ask 'do you want some dances', reply with:

• I'm looking for more than dances (or).

• I'm looking for a girl who does extras.

Then it is up to you to figure out value and negotiate your best deal. If she is too pricey, politely turn her down, hustling and needing money.

When you do negotiate make sure;.

• it is not close to their stage rotation.

• price includes the song count.

• everything you want done to you.

• everything you want to do to them.

• show them the money once in the booth.

• give them the money only after the satisfy their side of the deal.

Some girls 'forget' napkins. So take you own back for clean up.

-good luck.

It's not hard and it'll depend on the girl. As in any strip club, some will walk up to you and sit down with you. Just talk with them normally. When the topic of a private dance comes up, feel free to be straightfoward about what you want, what you want to spend and what they offer.

Hey all, I have been a regular monger in the AMP / Private Massage game for years but am very curious about how things work on the strip club side? Anyone able to walk me through a typical encounter? Specifically how you would approach or start the conversation, how do you act, what would you say, sit at the bar / table / booths, etc. Basically what to expect? I've read the the last 2 dozen or so pages in the forum but I have obviously never done this at the clubs before. Any girls you would recommend VS who to avoid? I'm extremely interested in trying and would appreciate the heads up on what to expect or any advice you can offer! PM ok.

Vrx.

[BiggieG75]

Stopped by on Friday around noon, had all afternoon clear so I settled in. Sat at the bar as usual and got a bucket of miller lites. Usually I see Violet, but she wasn't there, but there were plenty of other girls to choose from. Around 8-10 girls and I was the only customer. In this situation I find that the girls want to cover their tip-out early, so the rest of the shift for them is basically a free-roll. Needless to say, I had girls all over me so I had my pick. I shooed away a couple before Sam sat with me, and had a good conversation with her. Brunette but with colors, sort of thick but not too much, cute face. In her 30's I think. She gave me a high quote and said she is picky doesn't go back with just anyone (yeah I heard all this before), etc. Finally I said 160 no song count for BBBJ and cfs take it or leave it, she took it. It was good, but she refused CIM even though it was agreed to, so I will not repeat with her. Plus she started complaining about taking too long even though we agreed no song count. Back to the bar for more drinking, and eventually Ariel sits down, blonde girl thin nice body. She gets right to the point and offers 120 for BBBJ / CIM. I jump on that and it was awesome. Nice DT, took direction, no complaining, fingered herself the whole time. Got her digits for OTC action as well. I spent over 500 total for VIP action, troll fees, bar bill, and valet. It was glorious.

How many girls at BT's will do BBBJ with CIM?

120 is a damn good price for that. I won't get too fussy about looks with that kind of bargain, but she's got to have decent teeth and no BO as a minimum standard.

[Verizon75]

I agree it was a timing thing. I'll have to circle back for Violet.

I really do not understand these girls, they want our money and we want their goods. If I pay 200 for 6 songs or 10 songs, what do they care if I am able to get two off. I can make them work all day for 1 and take 10 songs. I truly believe I caught her off-guard, and she thought to herself it will be one and done and take 4-5 songs and not have to be there for 6 or the second pop. I am not here to impress the talent and last long time. If she wanted 1 pop I would talk my way into 100 for 3 songs.

My option is to go home with money that is in my pocket, that obviously I do not need. Her option is to go home 100 or 200 short.

At v75 - great report, love the details. I am surprised you didn't find what you were looking for at BT's, must have been a timing thing. Sounds like the pink haired spinner was "Violet", would have been worth waiting for but I understand your thought process. I am impressed with your perserverence, and getting 200 for 2 pops and 6 song count at FC's with a young girl is no small feat. Well done, sir!

[Marelobo Mex]

At v75 - great report, love the details. I am surprised you didn't find what you were looking for at BT's, must have been a timing thing. Sounds like the pink haired spinner was "Violet", would have been worth waiting for but I understand your thought process. I am impressed with your perserverence, and getting 200 for 2 pops and 6 song count at FC's with a young girl is no small feat. Well done, sir!

I think it is the 6 songs that made it happen. I like to negotiate for no song count and seem to never get that low a price a FC.

I tend not to go to FC unless I met a dancer someplace else and she tells me she is working there. I have too many nights talking to 5 or more girls and not being able to negotiate anything satisfactory.

MM.

[Marelobo Mex]

Sorry brother, not to point out the obvious but you simply never can let $ leave your pants pocket until the deed is done 100% or this opportunity is open for them. You have to be willing to walk away down $40 and live to fight another day.

Totally agree, once you put the money on the table you were done. When she picked it up and took it you should have walked right out then.

I am willing to show the girls the money, and tell them I am regular I haven't had any complaints if they want they can asked the VIP room attendant, or we can just walk out now.

Sometime if she is really hot, I will do once dance just to get to feel her up.

99% of the time it ends badly when you do not pay at the end.

MM.

[Steen451]

Over the past week I made two trips to SC and one to BT's.

My first trip to SC I arrived at 12:30 PM and stayed for one beer. There was one blonde spinner I thought was attractive but she was with other customers for the 45 minutes I was there. When she went to the back I decided I didn't like my chances given the number of girls and customers so decided to leave and head to BT's. Total cost was $8.

I arrived at BT's on the same day and settled in at the bar. Sammie, Athena, Violet and a cute black girl that I forgot her name all approached me separately and I chatted with each of them for a few minutes. Sammie's body is a little too pear shaped. Athena has a great body but her ghetto tone of voice really turned me off. The black girl was cute but she was slightly too thick for what I was looking for. Violet I was interested in but she got called to the stage and for some reason I lost interest and decided to call it a day. After reading some of the recent reviews I regret passing on Violet so maybe I'll go back soon to sample. Cost was $18 for one beer and valet.

A few days later I venture back out and start again at SC around noon. This time Blue comes over and she's exactly my type. Blue is 20's, mixed, dark hair, A / B cup, minimal tattoos, belly ring, fit body and nice ass. We discuss VIP and she quotes 150 for BBBJ and 250 cfs. I counter with 150 for cfs, she accepts and off we go. She starts with some great LFK and a warm up dance before moving to BBBJ. The BBBJ isn't the best, it's a little toothy, but it's a BBBJ so it's not terrible either. We go on like this for about a song or so and then on with the cover. We start with k-9 and I don't make it longer than a song before we're done. Overall a great time and I will repeat with Blue. Cost was $150 + $10 VIP fee + $8 beer for a total $168.

[MongerMan313]

Hey all, I have been a regular monger in the AMP / Private Massage game for years but am very curious about how things work on the strip club side? Anyone able to walk me through a typical encounter? Specifically how you would approach or start the conversation, how do you act, what would you say, sit at the bar / table / booths, etc. Basically what to expect? I've read the the last 2 dozen or so pages in the forum but I have obviously never done this at the clubs before. Any girls you would recommend VS who to avoid? I'm extremely interested in trying and would appreciate the heads up on what to expect or any advice you can offer! PM ok.

Vrx.

It's not hard and it'll depend on the girl. As in any strip club, some will walk up to you and sit down with you. Just talk with them normally. When the topic of a private dance comes up, feel free to be straightfoward about what you want, what you want to spend and what they offer.