NoVA SugarBabies

[CireSire]

Just wanted to share some tips that usually work for me in vetting the real from the fake.

1. Get yourself a phone number besides your real one. Apps like Text free and Burner work well. I don't hand the number out so when I do get spam calls or links I know its because I gave that number out on SA.

2. If the potential SB is 30 yrs old and below its a guarantee they have social media I. E Instagram or Facebook. Usually, if they give some lame excuse such as " I don't do social media" or " I do have IG but don't like giving out my social media" This is a red flag to me. The reason being most young women do have IG or Facebook in some capacity. Next, if the concern is privacy then I'm sure their page would be private already and you can only see pics if they accept a request. Also, I doubt they would just grant anyone access to see their pics even if you were given their IG name and you wanted to use an alias since they don't like giving access to their social media. Just my way of vetting and not 100% sure way of ruling out scammers and fakes but it works more than it doesn't.

3. Ask them for their Cash app, Venmo, Zelle or other forms of electronic payment name. I usually ask if they have Zelle first. Zelle, depending on your bank doesn't charge the receiver for transactions and is pretty reputable. This is usually tied to their bank and will give you their real name since it's tied to bank account information and either email or phone number. Venmo is tied as well. Cash App doesn't provide intrusive information on the receiver and is the preferred form for most scammers and real people as well. But just be aware. Things to looks for " My account was locked and can you send the money to my friend" I had one woman provide me with a male's *guy's picture was on the profile* Venmo and that was a red flag. I'm sure he was a handler. Venmo is a social-based site so that means if you pay someone through it you should always select to make the payment private. If not it will show you gave your intended recipient money in cyberspace linked to you. It can show who gave them money as well if they don't receive private payments.

4. I shouldn't have to say this but CALL BEFORE MEETING! Talk rather than text. If you get excuses on why they can't before a meeting it's a red flag don't convince yourself otherwise. No one is too busy to call when time permits. Video chat when possible and DO NOT show private parts. Don't fall for scams of showing genitals where women know you are married and will try to blackmail you by threatening to show the pictures they snapped of you.

5. DON'T send money before a meet or before any position of the deed to go down. Stick to your guns. This with the big head and not the smaller of the two. Meet during the day if you can and at a private location. Our robber friend is making a decent living off of scamming and she wouldn't be still on SA if it weren't for people falling for her sorry game. I got her number and told her I was in law enforcement and that I don't need a parking pass since I have an unmarked police cruiser and can park anywhere without being towed. She quickly told me that she was afraid to meet me because her dad is on the police force LOL.

6. Read reviews and search all SB related forums here in different cities close to your own. See if you see UTR pros on other sites ie. STG, etc. Some pros go on SA and provide over inflated prices for services you can get for waaaaay lower.

I'm sure and know some of this has been covered but wanted to share some tips that could help anyone out. Sharing is caring.

[Bdoe4264]

Said she is up for meeting but wants $1 K per meet.

Told her that was an asinine ask on her part. She went on to say she wanted "sugar not Splenda" daddy and her last daddy "moved overseas" but paid her even more.

I also mentioned "prior daddy moving" is code for "way too many other reasonable girls out there" so he got smart and blocked you. Crickets after that comment!

https://www.seeking.com/member/c695d...9-a1dce0616d45

[Jost815]

I saw her a couple years ago and at the time she was able to host. We did meet directly at her place and had some wine before jumping into it. I don't remember the service too well but I do remember it was bbfscip. She was a bit bigger than I like without having big boobs so I didn't repeat. I think I paid around 300.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3fe68...a-8dea52e86ebb

[Mike77]

Has anyone seen her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/3fe68...a-8dea52e86ebb

Her texts seem weird. She does not want to M&G which is kind of strange.

Pretty sure she's basically UTR pro. There are tell take signs like "cannot host" and "just tell me what you're looking for". She's been on for a while, but never really caught my interest.

[RegularJoe1985]

First time I got a room. Just picked her up and took her to a hotel. Since then its just been her place.

I find its always safer to bring a sb to a hotel or your place first if you lack trust. But after the first time, I've never been crazy robbed on a second date. So you usually only need to worry about the place the first time from my experience.

Also I note that her place is located in a decent community and not somewhere where you feel extremely sketched out. It can happen anywhere but going to somewhere already sketchy makes it more difficult.

Best of luck!

She didn't want to go to the hotel the first time. She gave me the impression that she had a handler, she met at the nearby store and kept checking her phone and talking to someone.

Made me decide not to pursue further.

[RegularJoe1985]

Has anyone seen her?

https://www.seeking.com/member/3fe68...a-8dea52e86ebb

Her texts seem weird. She does not want to M&G which is kind of strange.

[RegularJoe1985]

I've been on SA for at least 3 years and just got my first suspension of my account. Can't remember her name but pretty sure it is from a blonde 22 year old in Leesburg looking for platonic. The said thing is I only asked if she changed her mind I would give her an allowance.

I think most of us, who are really active on SA, have been suspended at one time or the other. Should we consider it as a Badge of honor.

Just create ticket, tell them you're suspended and don't know why.

They'll ask you to go through terms and acknowledge that you understand them. Click yes and be careful next time.

We are the ones paying on SA, so they have an incentive to keep us while still keeping themselves safe.

I think covid and loss of subscribers caused them to raise rates. And many are just paying intermittently.

[RegularJoe1985]

https://www.seeking.com/member/dea13...8-bc56a155bb41

Any Intel on this one? Got her digits more than a month ago and we were chatting sporadically. She wants to meet me so just want to see if she's worth it. She hasn't given me the good vibe so I'm hesitant. PM if you want to share info. Thank you.

Talked with her but all her pics that she sent seemed different from one another, not the same person.

Just left it at that, had no reason to pursue.

[FlakBait]

Not sure I understand. Do you get a room for BBBJ or go to her place for that?

First time I got a room. Just picked her up and took her to a hotel. Since then its just been her place.

I find its always safer to bring a sb to a hotel or your place first if you lack trust. But after the first time, I've never been crazy robbed on a second date. So you usually only need to worry about the place the first time from my experience.

Also I note that her place is located in a decent community and not somewhere where you feel extremely sketched out. It can happen anywhere but going to somewhere already sketchy makes it more difficult.

Best of luck!

[Grasshopping]

Search the photo.

I did and of course it turned out to be someone else's photo. That could mean she's a scam or she could also be someone protecting her identity. I have met many SBs who use photos of another person who is a close representation of themselves. So I don't want to rule her out just because her profile photo is not of herself. Same idea as someone put the word "platonic" in the profile doesn't mean she is strictly platonic.

[CornWell2015]

https://www.seeking.com/member/dea13...8-bc56a155bb41

Any Intel on this one? Got her digits more than a month ago and we were chatting sporadically. She wants to meet me so just want to see if she's worth it. She hasn't given me the good vibe so I'm hesitant. PM if you want to share info. Thank you.

Search the photo.

[Grasshopping]

I wrote the review and never had a problem with them the one time I met them. But YMMV.

Yup. YMMV. That sums it all up. Not doubting your report at all. Just posting my personal experience.

[CireSire]

It is true that there was a good report posted on her and her husband.

I exchanged messages with her on SA a little before the report was posted here. Our schedule didn't line up. She'd message me one afternoon asking if I want to meet that evening. I tried to schedule something with her again but schedule didn't work out and she became bitchy about it like a little teenager. So I stopped trying to schedule anything with her. Don't need that attitude. Maybe someone else will have luck than we do.

I wrote the review and never had a problem with them the one time I met them. But YMMV.

[InSearch69]

I've been on SA for at least 3 years and just got my first suspension of my account. Can't remember her name but pretty sure it is from a blonde 22 year old in Leesburg looking for platonic. The said thing is I only asked if she changed her mind I would give her an allowance.

[Mike77]

Chatted with this one for a few days, originally was asking for $800 ppm, I countered back with half that. She said she'd think about it. A day or two later I followed up and asked if she was interested, she said if I'd bump it up to $600 she'd be down. I said nope, 4 is the most I'm willing to offer. I guess she realized I wasn't budging so she said fine, the next night she came over she came over. Hung out for bit chatted over a few beers and then got to the main event. She's a cute, cool chick to hang with, very good head game. Banged for a few hrs bbfscip for $400. But the lesson is don't pay these fucking absurd prices. Stick to your guns and they'll come back down to reality.

https://www.seeking.com/member/15efd...1-fa07622c5224

LOL. I was just about to post about her as I had the exact same discussion, but I didn't pull the trigger as she seemed too high mileage. I'm not a fan of the ones that throw hail mary's to see if they can "sucker" you only to come down to half (sometimes less) than what their initial ask is.