Seeking Arrangements

[MajorVX]

She's been reviewed many times. Been on seeking for years different name and profiles.

I have her number.

[TheList00]

How about a review?

She's been reviewed many times. Been on seeking for years different name and profiles.

[DarkClouds]

I agree with being selective. However, not sold on the numbers argument. The more often you see the same person, the more data she has on you to piece together a more complete profile of you. This reduces your anonymity (with her) over time. The longer you see her the more attached she is likely to become and the more likely she is to be able to track you down if she woke up one day and went "Bobbitt".

That's the reason I don't bring anyone home, no matter how safe and sane they might appear. In a desperate moment they're very capable of showing up unannounced and disrupting your private life. Always remember who has more to lose (it is usually you, not her).

Totally the same here. My current SB is happy with cash, so that's easy. I stop at the atm on my way to see her. If she wanted me to switch to an app payment I'd have no issue with it.

There are many many aspects to "security" doing this. As Joe mentioned, one is being highly selective who you see. That helps; obviously is not a guarantee. And it's just a numbers game; I don't see a lot of girls. If it's a new one every week, the numbers catch up with you faster.

[Spill]

https://www.seeking.com/member/fc9f4...5-b40a459d4f08

Can someone pm me if they have her new number or email. Used to meet her and lost touch and she was off seeking, she's now back active and I text the number I have ending in 6497 and nothing. If anyone has any info to share so I can reconnect I'd appreciate it.

How about a review?

[Tribeca67]

The Venmo or the app company will still have a chain to identify you when you enter your bank / credit card info, no?

My friend sometimes uses a vanilla gift card to send them via PayPal. Fake name and e-mail I think that's the safest way if you don't want to use cash.

[Bran001]

Yes it isn't as discreet as cash but I find the convenience worth it. The chance of someone following the bank info back to me is a long shot. I'm certainly not worried about the IRS as I can spend my money anyway I chose to. It's like having someone's license plate, what can you do with it with access to the database? If you book a hotel room they could track you down also but unless you are a freak or causing a girl to worry about her safety you probably will be OK. I've been playing here for quite a few years and have never had an issue with a girl finding my real identity. Although I have had a few that I wish would, LOL. I am very selective as to the type of girl I am looking for and my target audience is more toward the college girls, GND or single Moms. I steer clear of the pros or semi pros who may pose a higher risk. Like I said I use cash until I feel it's a good fit and if the girl wants to move to the E payment I will do it. It works for me but some may not like it.

Totally the same here. My current SB is happy with cash, so that's easy. I stop at the atm on my way to see her. If she wanted me to switch to an app payment I'd have no issue with it.

There are many many aspects to "security" doing this. As Joe mentioned, one is being highly selective who you see. That helps; obviously is not a guarantee. And it's just a numbers game; I don't see a lot of girls. If it's a new one every week, the numbers catch up with you faster.

[Jus2000]

I had my first meaningful correspondence on the site with a chick named Nina from Revere. Back and forth a bit until she asked about ppm. I'm new to "sugar," but have seen many escorts and this is the most like that. I played dumb but gleaned she wants $450-500 for a "date," which is at least double what I'd want to pay. When asked what this would entail, ex. Overnight or at least long visit, she went dark. Is this what these girls expect? Might be out of my league but that's a dangerous amount for me in either not being worth it, or awesome and tempted to blow huge cash. Thoughts?

Profile link?

[Joe1223]

The Venmo or the app company will still have a chain to identify you when you enter your bank / credit card info, no?

Yes it isn't as discreet as cash but I find the convenience worth it. The chance of someone following the bank info back to me is a long shot. I'm certainly not worried about the IRS as I can spend my money anyway I chose to. It's like having someone's license plate, what can you do with it with access to the database? If you book a hotel room they could track you down also but unless you are a freak or causing a girl to worry about her safety you probably will be OK. I've been playing here for quite a few years and have never had an issue with a girl finding my real identity. Although I have had a few that I wish would, LOL. I am very selective as to the “type” of girl I am looking for and my target audience is more toward the college girls, GND or single Moms. I steer clear of the pros or semi pros who may pose a higher risk. Like I said I use cash until I feel it's a good fit and if the girl wants to move to the E payment I will do it. It works for me but some may not like it.

[DrinIvisible]

I use fake account names so they don't know who I am. You can call your profile anything you want, similar to here. All of my accounts have fake profiles for this reason.

The Venmo or the app company will still have a chain to identify you when you enter your bank / credit card info, no?

[DarkClouds]

You still have to eventually link it to your real account, right? Unless you've found a way to fund the online payment app with cash or a cash-funded credit card.

I use fake account names so they don't know who I am. You can call your profile anything you want, similar to here. All of my accounts have fake profiles for this reason.

[Joe1223]

Sorry, I have not used cash app or Venmo. Does this reveal your real identity to recipients?

I use fake account names so they don't know who I am. You can call your profile anything you want, similar to here. All of my accounts have fake profiles for this reason.

[Vivid Dream]

I use Both Cash App and Venmo and you are correct, the SB will ask for random gifts but I politely decline them. I make sure that I see the rules when it comes to gifting but will give them special attention for Birthdays or special holidays. I have also been asked for extra cash from girls when I was only dealing with cash so in my opinion it will happen regardless. I am fortunate to be able to "help" the girls out beyond our regular meetups but I also do not go over my set donation. I do find the E payments to be so much more convenient than dealing with cash but I never carry cash anyway so it comes natural to me.

Sorry, I have not used cash app or Venmo. Does this reveal your real identity to recipients?

[Newbie978]

https://www.seeking.com/member/e97d8...d-2bcffb2c5b36

Anyone has experience with this? I don't have experience on SA. But I guess it seems legit. I am thinking to arrang meeting and let's see.

She messaged me several months ago before I decided to pay for premium. I messaged her back when I finally did get premium, but all we did was chat some small talk and we each went our separate ways. She never said anything to make me think she was a scam and never once brought up money. She did mention that she had a roommate and would need to meet me at my place or hotel.

[TheList00]

https://www.seeking.com/member/fc9f4...5-b40a459d4f08

Can someone pm me if they have her new number or email. Used to meet her and lost touch and she was off seeking, she's now back active and I text the number I have ending in 6497 and nothing. If anyone has any info to share so I can reconnect I'd appreciate it.

[Dano7]

I had my first meaningful correspondence on the site with a chick named Nina from Revere. Back and forth a bit until she asked about ppm. I'm new to "sugar," but have seen many escorts and this is the most like that. I played dumb but gleaned she wants $450-500 for a "date," which is at least double what I'd want to pay. When asked what this would entail, ex. Overnight or at least long visit, she went dark. Is this what these girls expect? Might be out of my league but that's a dangerous amount for me in either not being worth it, or awesome and tempted to blow huge cash. Thoughts?