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[BobDingle10]

Well she got in touch with me offering the same thing first she says she doesn't mess with brothers then comes back and goes 500 gold coins. I said what a minute let me get this right you don't mess with brothers but will fuck one? No thank you first the quote was ridiculous and why would I drop that on her not knowing I could get cucked and that's not happening.

Well, racism can permeate any part of society. Even the ass for cash unerworld we're in. I actually once had an Indian chick from back in the BP days basically say, I usually only charge 2, but since you're black, it's 4. LOL, and she actually thought I was pressed enough to do it. I was not.

Plenty of SB's have various racial preferences but I haven't run into too much of a problem. If they have a problem with your race, they usually don't bother responding to you. But on occasion just to try and not waste more time I use the search filter to include ladies that have put "all ethnicities" on their profile.

[MilesNoDavis]

Que SeraSera.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9c39f...1-f26d9235a743

Horrible time. Not very attractive, but I needed a nut. LOL.

Great body, but just laid there like a limp doll.

She's pretty personable, so maybe she just wasn't that into me.

Black Valentine 69.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6ccae...b-9bdaa51cbd7e

Based on how her profile reads, I sent her my standard "let's fuck" message. Her response like many others on the site was- "ok".

Seeing her later this week. Will let you know how it goes.

Elizabeth9821.

https://www.seeking.com/member/62ad3...6-0adcac66cf11

Newbie- seems down on her luck, so I passed because I felt guilty about taking advantage of her situation.

Similar message: "tbh- I just want to' fuck".

Her response in the image.

Coldheartedke.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6faee...9-b43612cb52e1

OMG- looks wayyyyyyyyyy better in person.

Straight hoe and decent fuck. She'd probably be great by herself. Head game is vicious.

She brought her friend who seemed bitchy until we started fucking.

The two of them sucking my dick was insane.

BBDTBJ. Very sloppy.

Both. Cowgirl, Missionary, Doggy.

This should have been an amazing time, but they were done pretty quickly. So I wasn't satisfied at all. I had to call another sb omw home, so I could release all the pent up energy that should have been spent on those two.

Also, after I left the hotel, I found out they'd gone back and had a party. They got thrown out, now I have 180 in misc "party charges" on my hotel bill.

Nothing to report on any of these except they're all on my list of things to do. LOL.

Romani_D.

https://www.seeking.com/member/02f0a...6-ad50a123ecc8

-I want her badddd.

Breisays.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9d48a...1-f8d8c194f11e

- Call me crazy, but I'm putting this one on a plane LOL. Will let you know how it goes.

Shmoneycat.

https://www.seeking.com/member/39ab5...0-750a196ca477

- Texting w / her now.

Bezaaaaaaaaa.

https://www.seeking.com/member/303a5...4-02e4edd0bee5

- text, but I've been working on this one for nearly two weeks. So who knows.

Mtatum555.

https://www.seeking.com/member/40450...e-7416ecd3b474

LotusE20.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a4aa3...c-cf3fc5210ce1

Marysolxo.

https://www.seeking.com/member/5e902...f-fc4938be5483

Ashley1014.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3a4da...5-801de9e904ce

Bree_91.

https://www.seeking.com/member/3a81b...b-4d2fc53f2700

Habesha Baby.

https://www.seeking.com/member/9c714...8-009e0556d022

Belle1020 xt.

https://www.seeking.com/member/947f8...1-c64dbf097bcb

LaColombianaBonita.

https://www.seeking.com/member/1e292...e-ba1d5ede717a

[Mongerian]

Good points but there are a couple things good for this time of year:

Christmas gift credit card bills coming due (college and older ladies).

Going back to campus for some of the college girls, December / January can be tough when they go home for winter break. But with Covid this may be less of an opportunity. When the college ones are back in class, away from home, I've found them more open to meeting. And you may luck out with one that has a day with light or no classes.

We'll see how it plays out, I did the 33% off deal, so I have 30 days to harvest some numbers.

Unless you already have a few SBs' numbers (and I'm assuming you don't if you've never signed up for premium yet), it's probably best to wait on signing up. The sad fact is that Seeking's reliability has taken a drastic nosedive with countless bots & scams populating their profile numbers. I report as many as I can, but it always feels like using a finger to plug a giant hole in a broken, dilapidated dam. Before long, it won't be that much different than Tinder where 95% of users are fake and / or unwilling to meet in-person. And that's been that way even prior to COVID rearing its ugly head.

Also, another reason to hold off is the time of year. Two of my regular SBs are in school, taking full course loads for this spring semester. If you like SBs who are approximately college-aged, or has that graduation cap sticker below their profile pic, or has pics of them reading books, etc--you can safely bet they're taking their education a little more seriously than most. Unless it's spring break, arranging a meet will be difficult (even more so during mid-terms and finals' weeks)! Case in point, I've had three cancellations with one regular over the past few weeks owing to school and her full-time job. I never take it personally as she's solid in my book (always let's me know a day in advance if she can't make it and once paid me back for a small loan I gave her).

Bottom line: I strongly encourage signing up around the 2nd week of May, arrange your profile how you want it that first week, then shoot a message or two to maybe 10 different profiles who've caught your eye. All of this is assuming you want to find someone in the 18-24 age bracket. So if you're looking for outside of that range, then disregard most of this post haha! Cheers!

[MotoMoto11]

I've met them both before, one time she was extremely out of it. On something, I passed. She couldn't stay away I figured she would pass out in bed.

Well she got in touch with me offering the same thing first she says she doesn't mess with brothers then comes back and goes 500 gold coins. I said what a minute let me get this right you don't mess with brothers but will fuck one? No thank you first the quote was ridiculous and why would I drop that on her not knowing I could get cucked and that's not happening.

[Matt410]

So she reached out to me and said she and her husband do this together, I think I've seen some other reports about them on this thread. Made a full court press to see me tonight, was even willing to drive an hour to get to me. Started to worry about scam / rob situation as someone else mentioned. I declined a home visit and then she begged for help, was willing to send some videos for $50. I said I'd help not expected to get anything in return but she sent two videos and they were pretty hot. The thing is they only play as a couple, no M2 M contact but it is taking me a bit to get my head around that. Again she made a full court press for me to drive to Baltimore tonight, in the ice storm. I just could not bring myself to do that. Setting up something in a couple of weeks when I fly into BWI and will report after I see them.

https://www.seeking.com/member/712bf...7-5b023692d2e6

I've met them both before, one time she was extremely out of it. On something, I passed. She couldn't stay away I figured she would pass out in bed.

[Shinshi]

I've always been on the cusp of giving SA a shot and was leaning towards not doing it based on the more recent naysayers, but your post makes me want to give SA a shot.

Unless you already have a few SBs' numbers (and I'm assuming you don't if you've never signed up for premium yet), it's probably best to wait on signing up. The sad fact is that Seeking's reliability has taken a drastic nosedive with countless bots & scams populating their profile numbers. I report as many as I can, but it always feels like using a finger to plug a giant hole in a broken, dilapidated dam. Before long, it won't be that much different than Tinder where 95% of users are fake and / or unwilling to meet in-person. And that's been that way even prior to COVID rearing its ugly head.

Also, another reason to hold off is the time of year. Two of my regular SBs are in school, taking full course loads for this spring semester. If you like SBs who are approximately college-aged, or has that graduation cap sticker below their profile pic, or has pics of them reading books, etc--you can safely bet they're taking their education a little more seriously than most. Unless it's spring break, arranging a meet will be difficult (even more so during mid-terms and finals' weeks)! Case in point, I've had three cancellations with one regular over the past few weeks owing to school and her full-time job. I never take it personally as she's solid in my book (always let's me know a day in advance if she can't make it and once paid me back for a small loan I gave her).

Bottom line: I strongly encourage signing up around the 2nd week of May, arrange your profile how you want it that first week, then shoot a message or two to maybe 10 different profiles who've caught your eye. All of this is assuming you want to find someone in the 18-24 age bracket. So if you're looking for outside of that range, then disregard most of this post haha! Cheers!

[WhiteRabbit88]

OCG. Very well written. I liked how objective it was, and the points you made were easily relatable.

I've always been on the cusp of giving SA a shot and was leaning towards not doing it based on the more recent naysayers, but your post makes me want to give SA a shot.

Thanks for taking the time to write this, it was very helpful.

I signed up last week with the 33% discount for one month and auto-renewal (which I'll cancel right before it is due) and very quickly found out a few things which I'm going to post to give everyone the skinny and save all some time and effort based on my experience. I set up a profile back late last year November but did not sign up (and pay up) until last week so I accumulated a whole load of messages (which I could not view or respond to until paid up) and 'likes' which consists of a combination of SBs viewing and / or favoriting your profile (I could view those SB profiles and they could see that I viewed or favorited their profiles in return but of course no contacts were allowed until I paid up).
OCG.

[Old Chinese Guy]

I've been with Sexysugarbaby0217. I know there are a lot of varying opinions on here about her. She's been reviewed a few times. She changes her profile names. I think it was previously supernovaa_ or something like that.

She and her boyfriend do this together and they told me they started a porn channel and want to take videos of her with other guys. She prefers when he's there as a threesome or to take pics / video.

Personally, I liked talking to both of them and she's incredible in bed. Looks good, gives incredible head. Nice body. Her prices have definitely gone up, it seems. I only got together with them once for $. 60, but it was pretty fast (HH). 450 is a bit steep in any book, though.

So she reached out to me and said she and her husband do this together, I think I've seen some other reports about them on this thread. Made a full court press to see me tonight, was even willing to drive an hour to get to me. Started to worry about scam / rob situation as someone else mentioned. I declined a home visit and then she begged for help, was willing to send some videos for $50. I said I'd help not expected to get anything in return but she sent two videos and they were pretty hot. The thing is they only play as a couple, no M2 M contact but it is taking me a bit to get my head around that. Again she made a full court press for me to drive to Baltimore tonight, in the ice storm. I just could not bring myself to do that. Setting up something in a couple of weeks when I fly into BWI and will report after I see them.

https://www.seeking.com/member/712bf...7-5b023692d2e6

[Old Chinese Guy]

Team,

Does anyone have any intel on these two?

https://www.seeking.com/member/71c07...5-8c7c9190a015

Unfortunately I have nothing to share, the scam girls have been reported on already! Keep fishing!

Chatted with Gia. She used to have a SB she met by chance on her travels and wants something similar $1 K / week but probably could be talked down. I'd want something more spectacular for that kind of investment.

[Missingcr1]

I let my membership expire a few weeks ago. If I went to upgrade from my profile I was offered the 25% discount, if I upgrade from the link they sent me it is a 33% discount.

I have not pulled the trigger yet, as even at 33% off I think it is barely worth it. The number of girls that are really hot, and that are not scams or looking to be paid for a platonic relationship, is dwindling and they are quickly getting scooped up by super rich guys thinking with the wrong head or run from the site based on all the crazy messages they receive. Girls that I would not want to pick up at a bar, even after a few drinks, are sending messages like "I never meet for less than 400, and I would like to go our to dinner several times first to make sure we have a good connection". Think most of us on here know better, but problem is that most guys on site don't use this forum. Never thought I would miss the CL days, but there were so many needles in the haystack back then, if you were willing to do the hard work. Still see one of them.

The 33 is just a URL variation. Feel free to PM me. Don't want to just post it.

[Old Chinese Guy]

I signed up last week with the 33% discount for one month and auto-renewal (which I'll cancel right before it is due) and very quickly found out a few things which I'm going to post to give everyone the skinny and save all some time and effort based on my experience. I set up a profile back late last year November but did not sign up (and pay up) until last week so I accumulated a whole load of messages (which I could not view or respond to until paid up) and 'likes' which consists of a combination of SBs viewing and / or favoriting your profile (I could view those SB profiles and they could see that I viewed or favorited their profiles in return but of course no contacts were allowed until I paid up).

Because of this backlog, I got swamped by SBs right after I activated my membership. It felt like a ton but the actual pool of active SBs in the DMV is really not that big, probably a couple hundred at the most. Of these I would estimate 50% are fakes and scams (I'll define in a minute how I determine this). I notice that these fakes and scams were primarily with SB profiles in the 18-30 yr range, with the 30 yr and older SB profiles generally being more authentic, not always true but as a general rule. I define fakes / scams as any communication leading to 'send me money by CashApp, PayPal or any of the other online payment methods' for photos, videos, 'booking' for a M&G, Uber / Lyft to get to the M&G, baby-sitting, money for kids (not sure why kids would need money) or to 'show the seriousness of my intentions'. I just state politely but firmly that 'I have no interest in photos or videos (as there is a ton of free porn on-line) and rather wait for the real thing when we meet' or that I do not pay to book a M&G, for her to get to a M&G by Uber / Lyft or for baby-sitting while at the M&G. I also state that she can see the seriousness of my intentions at the M&G when I come with cash in hand.

Now I have always maintained that with gambling and mongering, you need to have some self-imposed rules in order to not get in too deep emotionally or financially. I'll not deal with the too deep emotionally stuff as that is just plain common sense and many have opined in these threads ad naseam and I'll focus on the not too deep financially piece because as with many, we guys tend to think with our little heads which lends us getting scammed out of our cash. I think it is best before one starts to determine for oneself the following:

1) One's M&G gift (SBs usually ask for something for their time but I have a problem with paying for M&Gs since it's also my time and I'm buying drinks / dinner; had one SB decline a M&G when I refused to give her $100 for M&G but I figure it's her loss).

2) One's max for a ppm (SBs ask range is $300 to $800, I really balk at anything over $400 since top of the line escorts and porn stars ask and get that, inexperienced nobody 20 somethings are not worth that IMHO).

3) One's max for a monthly allowance (SB ask range is from $2500 to $6000, I don't even give my own kid $2000 a month so why would I help out a stranger with that much; I do notice they come down quickly to $1500 to $3500 with some half-arsed negotiating so am sure I could get some lower; it helps to phrase things as "this is what I'm willing to help with" and "I do value your time and your value of your time" not "you are asking too much" or "you are not worth that much".

4) One's preferred frequency of meeting (I know some guys would meet every day of the week / month if they could but realistically for me, with a professional commitments and other commitments of having a real life, once or twice a week is plenty for myself; I want a SB not a gf or wife and more than twice a week might be suffocating for some; most SBs have a similar expectation since they often have more than one SD).

I notice a lot of guys often post links for specific SBs asking for information if anyone has had prior experience. Unlike SW and escorts, this exercise is almost always futile with SBs since many are fakes / scams and you can sniff these out yourself within a couple of email exchanges. Many SBs will ask for a cell number to get out the SA shell. I have used either a burner cell or I've also one of those texting / calling apps on my cell which gives me a VOIP number different from my cell number so I have no problem giving them out. While some of these are scams / fakes, any of the real SBs I've met almost always do this. So I would recommend getting of the shell if the SBs suggests it but as a SD you should suggest it sooner or later.

In the last 72 hours since I paid and signed up to activate my SA account I have met in person the following SBs (I'll abstain for sending their SB profile links since each of us should set up our own stable of contacts, not being selfish but the large part of setting up a true SD-SB relationship is discovering the chemistry and making a friend with whom you truly would like to help out, otherwise I'd suggest just getting a SW or escort).

1) Met a 23 yr SB from Romania, met for dinner and then went to her apartment for a FS session including BBBJ, DATY, CIP (no Greek)(no M&G gift asked for or given).

2) Met a 50 yr SB separated established professional MILF who is Sub-Dom, does this for fun, doesn't need the money but finds the transaction a turn-on, would in lieu of cash accept spa treatments, nail-sessions, massages as gifts. Set up time to get together in the future for FS sessions with BDSM (no M&G gift asked for or given).

3) Met a late 30 yr SB stay at home Russian MILF who's in an open marriage, doesn't need the money, does this for fun and finds the money a turn-on and independence from her husband. Agreed to terms for a get together next week (did ask for a M&G gift and gave her $40 because she's hot and was my first M&G) will probably pay high end escorts / porn star ppm for this one but she's hot and has wet sloppy kisses which will feel so good on junior. Sounds like a freak as she enjoys sex and loves trips to Greece. Will update on this one after my first session next week.

4) Meeting a 40 yr something SB MILF who's a professional tomorrow for dinner, has not asked for a M&G gift and I won't give one since I'm buying dinner and drinks, still need to work out terms.

5) Meeting a late 20 yr something SB on Monday for dinner, also she has not asked for a M&G gift. Again I won't give one either since I'm buying dinner / drinks, will also need to work out terms but this one seems different, I think looking more for a FWB with occasional sugar but we'll see. Basically she has a job and doesn't need the money but it would be nice.

One last truism, if the photos look TGTBT, they generally are TGTBT. You will get pretty good at telling the fakes / scams from the real SBs just by the photos and their initial few back-and forth responses to queries. Stay polite and civil, do not discuss money unless they agree to do so (I always ask about 'their expectations' and leave them to bring it up), keep one's expectations low (and be pleasantly surprised) and good luck with avoiding fakes / scams.

OCG.

[GoodNightBalt]

I knew that had different deals, sucks I didn't get the 33% one! Still pricey for what is on there these days but it's still a target rich environment.

The 33 is just a URL variation. Feel free to PM me. Don't want to just post it.

[Mongerian]

I knew that had different deals, sucks I didn't get the 33% one! Still pricey for what is on there these days but it's still a target rich environment.

I got an email for 33% off good until the 15th.

[Jcinmd15]

I'm really hoping SOMEONE will end up seeing her. But we may not know.

JT.

If you all pitch in, I will take one for the team.

[MjThrill42]

They usually run a deal and I got the email today 25% off, so it only costs about what it used to cost 2 years ago.

For a bunch of scammers and online only GPS. I've found some gems on there but it's a lot hard now (both on the site and due to personal situationCovid pandemic stuff, time and funds).

Anyone else get an email about the deal, I need to check my other accounts to see if they have better offers, maybe 30% off?

I got an email for 33% off good until the 15th.