"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**HarryMcHardon** · 02-08-21 11:11

Originally Posted by LukeOC [View Original Post]

Regarding privacy and security, do you guys upload pics that show the whole face? Or with mask on?

I hesitate to upload pics with my full face to SA.com in case of an Ashley Madison-like incident. I am more comfortable sending pics through phone once I get to the SB better.

I guess it really depends on what your life status is. I mean really, there's a huge difference between a single, unattached dude, who works in a job where nobody cares about what his business is, vs. a married dude in a public and / or "responsible" position where that info could ruin him.

For me, NWIH I'm putting my face pic on there. Body only. And sometimes SA can be persnickety about that, I. E. No bare chests, etc. As if we really want to do that at our age, LOL. I also try to resist sending face pics later on, thru email, etc. I don't want them having a picture of me at all! But sometimes you can't avoid that.

Some guys just put a similar picture, of someone else, on their profiles, but I have never been a fan of that because I really haven't ever found someone out there that looks like me. I don't know if that's a good thing or bad thing LOL. But I did find someone who looked like me when I was young, and I did an age progression on it using editing software and the results were surprisingly good. I won't use it on the site, because they will boot you for that, but maybe I will if I have to send it to a prospective SB. The last few SBs I had didn't insist on a face pic so haven't had to use it yet.

Funny thing is, I've had a couple of non-white SBs, Muslim / Americans who I swear lightened their pics in their profiles to be more light skinned. IE, they seemed darker when we met IRL. I had not a problem because I like the exotic, olive skinned look! One even showed up with blondish hair, but all her pics she had jet black hair! She did also come across as being a bit bitter that the white blondes seemed to get all the guys buying drinks when she went out to clubs. She was hot though, so IDK why any dudes wouldn't go for it!

**Donwhite** · 02-07-21 18:32

Originally Posted by PhillUponThese [View Original Post]

Just sent you a PM.

I was somehow able to get my suspension removed after emailing customer support.

**PhillUponThese** · 02-07-21 18:15

Just sent you a PM.

Originally Posted by Donwhite [View Original Post]

Has anyone been able to have their account reinstated? My account was permanently banned today for soliciting sex in return for compensation. I have been extremely careful to say nothing of the sort. There was someone asking for money before meeting in person and I said that's illegal and against the websites's rules. The replied back that prostitution was illegal and I was permanently banned shortly after that. I think they falsely reported me for that and got my account banned. I have contacted support via email and Twitter. Am I permanently screwed?

**Donwhite** · 02-07-21 16:51

Has anyone been able to have their account reinstated? My account was permanently banned today for soliciting sex in return for compensation. I have been extremely careful to say nothing of the sort. There was someone asking for money before meeting in person and I said that's illegal and against the websites's rules. The replied back that prostitution was illegal and I was permanently banned shortly after that. I think they falsely reported me for that and got my account banned. I have contacted support via email and Twitter. Am I permanently screwed?

**Mike77** · 02-04-21 14:44

Originally Posted by GolfMan57 [View Original Post]

Who knew that Covid would have such an effect on the SB stock market. GPS Everywhere.

Sugaring has become so mainstream, and bringing out all kinds who heard from a friend of a friend that it's an easy way to make money. She's probably used to getting a lot of attention from younger guys who are into her alternative look (tattoos, piercings, hair, etc.) But doesn't realize that doesn't translate well to the sugar works where the guys are older and want someone that has more traditional beauty (face, big tits, minimal piercings, natural long hair, etc.). She's new and is probably just fishing for a sucker at this point. I'm guessing that she'll either seek much less after a couple of months of frustration or give up.

**CandyMan555** · 02-04-21 12:27

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I would use secure browsers like Epic or Tor (if these are working on the site). What about your pix? Ones you have used before? Believe it or not, they can pattern-match you based on the size of your browser window, so change that often. You should also change / spoof the mac address on the device you are using. Or get a new device. Don't go through the same home wi-fi router. If you unplug it and the cable modem, for overnight or a few days, you'll get a new IP address. Or go to a public wifi. And, pretty much, anything you have done in the past that failed, don't ever use it again.

Thanks frustrated by S A.

**GolfMan57** · 02-04-21 07:28

Originally Posted by RappaHannock [View Original Post]

Wow! That does not look like 500 material there in my book.

Who knew that Covid would have such an effect on the SB stock market. GPS Everywhere.

**RappaHannock** · 02-03-21 22:43

Wow! That does not look like 500 material there in my book.

Originally Posted by S2568 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/32eca...b-d144864d6319

Wants minimum 500 per meet really hot body but seems way more than what I can do.

**Shampoo55** · 02-03-21 19:25

Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]

I would use secure browsers like Epic or Tor (if these are working on the site). What about your pix? Ones you have used before? Believe it or not, they can pattern-match you based on the size of your browser window, so change that often. You should also change / spoof the mac address on the device you are using. Or get a new device. Don't go through the same home wi-fi router. If you unplug it and the cable modem, for overnight or a few days, you'll get a new IP address. Or go to a public wifi. And, pretty much, anything you have done in the past that failed, don't ever use it again.

I would add you need to clean up things before trying again. Get CCLeaner free, and set it up to do at least 3 pass deletion. Set it to wipe out everything.

Then run a deep scan with AVG or Kaspersky and when that is done rerun CCleaner.

They are either matching you up with a file they left on your computer or your "footprint" from various aspects of your computer, OS, Browser, Screen size, etc.

Forcing a new "static" IP to a Comcast router requires it to be off line for 72 hours. Shut it off Thurs night to get back online Monday. You change your MAC address and at some point during a routine audit, the system will find that MAC address doesn't match what is in the "library" and it can shutdown your connection.

**S2568** · 02-03-21 18:38

https://www.seeking.com/member/32eca...b-d144864d6319

Wants minimum 500 per meet really hot body but seems way more than what I can do.

**FarFarAway** · 02-03-21 15:06

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

I know their rules. I tried to sign up using Vanilla card. New email from hotmail. Firefox I have a VPN and get refused again.

How do they know this??

Any help would be appreciated.

Thanks CM.

I would use secure browsers like Epic or Tor (if these are working on the site). What about your pix? Ones you have used before? Believe it or not, they can pattern-match you based on the size of your browser window, so change that often. You should also change / spoof the mac address on the device you are using. Or get a new device. Don't go through the same home wi-fi router. If you unplug it and the cable modem, for overnight or a few days, you'll get a new IP address. Or go to a public wifi. And, pretty much, anything you have done in the past that failed, don't ever use it again.

**SailMan2** · 02-03-21 14:06

Originally Posted by CandyMan555 [View Original Post]

I know their rules. I tried to sign up using Vanilla card. New email from hotmail. Firefox I have a VPN and get refused again.

How do they know this?.

One vanilla or reloadable vanilla? If its reloadable and you used it before then that is one way.

Other ways are you digital foot print.

In using vpn and firefox I assume you are clearing cookies etc? Vpn should be changing IP. But a persistent cookie could be there, sites will have third party sites write a cookie they will then share. You may also want to try a different browser of device, I doubt seeking is doing so but you can be identified by device characteristics.

In your email, are using a completely new email, as apposed to joebob15 thtryforseeking at outlook (just slightly changing email for new address).

The vpn of plus vanilla could be triggering you to be deemed suspicious. You can refresh your IP by switching networks or cycling your router and forgo Tues. Vpn.

**S2568** · 02-03-21 11:37

1. https://www.seeking.com/member/4794c...1-547969f43fed set up time with this one and found a place she came to the place but spooked out because of a damn LEO circling the hotel try to get her to come back but now she blocked me any one has any input please share no discussion of $ from Hamptons.

2. https://www.seeking.com/member/73cd0...5-c031e78a1a6c this one is STF settled on allowance bit she needs to drive from 4 hrs away just needs advance notice any one else with any experience feel free to share pics look hottt.

3. https://www.seeking.com/member/02ef6...b-5b329d873b67 getting ready to meet with this one will report afterwards.

4. https://www.seeking.com/member/4df8e...7-a40dd13f7bb0 any info on this one contacted me so I am hoping she may be DTF.

5. https://www.seeking.com/member/4b731...4-7f67a53f88be chatting with this one hope she is dtf but share any info on this one if you have any.

Stay safe.

**CandyMan555** · 02-02-21 23:29

I know their rules. I tried to sign up using Vanilla card. New email from hotmail. Firefox I have a VPN and get refused again.

How do they know this??

Any help would be appreciated.

Thanks CM.

**DickLongwood** · 02-02-21 20:10

Originally Posted by ErnestLl [View Original Post]

Smoking pics, not very responsive to messageing - https://www.seeking.com/member/e4417...7-5c4090c5cf62.

Says her hubby is on seeking, so she thought she would get in on it - https://www.seeking.com/member/cf5e6...a-29cc2ab7d963.

Great pics, DTF, not her first rodeo -- verified in real life, bad opsec -- https://www.seeking.com/member/7f7b0...2-0e09e96a42b5.

Looks TGTBT. Not very responsive - https://www.seeking.com/member/f8760...0-c46b90eee925.

Her profile is gone now, but there was a really busty, pretty redhead built like Jessica Rabbit. She was offering to host at her apartment in town but was cagey about donation. Seemed kind of semi-pro to offer that so early on. If anyone got her digits, would love to share.

So what is the married woman looking for?