Seeking Arrangement

[DrStrange2]

Just rejoined SA and it worse than before. The scammers are out in full force. Talk to three so far that wanted "to meet" next thing you know here comes the hey babe can you send me 50 to get ready. I can't believe that some guys fall for that.

Does anyone have a good recommendation? I have meet three in the past and am willing to share info in exchange. PM me with the details and I will share with you.

[The Emmy Goes2]

This might be the same person. She joined on 1/3, and that is the date of her last post.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4f540...c-fae613f3458e

I am not sure if it's her. I never got to see a profile pic. It had the grey circle with the line. The name has disappeared from my inbox to just say Sugar Baby now. It may be her, but if it is, take what she says with a grain of salt. Although I think that applies to any of them.

[LoVecchio]

I try to be as direct as possible. . . . I have been on one meet and greet. Lunch date and afterwards, I ended up ghosting. It only cots me a lunch.

You can, of course, do as you choose. I do wish that people would not just ghost people after a meet-and-greet, though. I know that's the easiest way to get out of a situation, but unless they're some kind of scammer, I think I have an obligation to let them know that I don't want to go forward. (Of course, I may not be entirely honest about the reason if the reason is one that would hurt their feelings.) I know that if I interview for a job and they just don't call me back (it's happened), I think that is a chickens* way out by the person who just doesn't want to deliver bad news. I know that I don't like it when I'm ghosted on SA, which has happened far too often, and when it does, I feel myself aggrieved.

[LoVecchio]

Had something happen last night that has happened in the past and I wanted to see if anyone else has run into this.

Got a message from 6 NikkiBaby9 out of Lansing. It was very sexually charged, but it also included some very specific details from my profile. By that, I mean it was pretty apparently written by a person and not a bot. By the time I saw the message today, she had already deactivated her profile, or blocked me. I am not sure which. I have had a few similar things happen the same way before, but the messages had always been very generic. I wish I could figure out what happened to her, and I am sure that her profile disappearing is not a good sign, but her message really resonated with me.

Has anyone else run into this?

This might be the same person. She joined on 1/3, and that is the date of her last post.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4f540...c-fae613f3458e

[SugarDaddyX]

Anyone talk to this one? I was getting a scammer vibe.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d0e21...1-6f87d070ce43

Get that sex.

SDX.

[MichiganMan686]

Just wanted to say TY for all the responces on this forum. MM686.

[Jay23]

I ask for a quick video either via kik or Text of them saying something specific. I prefer to move off SA's chat as quickly as possible. As we are having a conversation, I'll say something like "Hey, hate to ask this but I've been scammed before. I really like you and would love to meet up with you but can you do a quick verification for me? Just a quick video of you giving me a thumbs up saying "it's January 9th, 2021, hi {my name}". Kik is best because you can tell if it is a live video or one they doctor.

I ask for Facetime, most girls don't have an iPhon, I send them a link to zoom.

[SomeDetroitGuy]

So do you ever say a face pic holding 3 fngers up or something like that? Maybe I'm making the mistake of saying I pay for the meet and greet. This is really hard to land a baby due to having to try t avoid all these scams which I'm going to post for others to help out. TY 4 your input. Mm686.

I never pay for a meet and greet. I'll buy a nice dinner, I'll entertain you with sparkling conversation, but I'm not paying for someone to hang out with.

[SomeDetroitGuy]

I've been asking for verification photo. Looking for a suggestion on how to ask for it to make sure its really them. Also if you do a meet and greet how mny times will the sugar baby ghost you after that because that is their scam. Meet up for say a 100 and do that over and over again to different daddys. I'm having a real hard time finding a real legit surgar baby. I'm a busy guy and don't want to be scammed. Mm686.

I ask for a quick video either via kik or Text of them saying something specific. I prefer to move off SA's chat as quickly as possible. As we are having a conversation, I'll say something like "Hey, hate to ask this but I've been scammed before. I really like you and would love to meet up with you but can you do a quick verification for me? Just a quick video of you giving me a thumbs up saying "it's January 9th, 2021, hi {my name}". Kik is best because you can tell if it is a live video or one they doctor.

[MichiganMan686]

The following are scams that have been tried on me.

1. Send me a Venmo downpayment.

2. Lets meet at Meijer and you buy me some stuff meet and greet.

3. PPM is good but before we meet send me some money for me to get my nails and hair done so I look great for our meeting.

4. PPM s good. Ill get the room Venmo me the money routine.

5. Ill do PPM but first meeting is not physical.

6. You want to buy pics and vids to Bop your Bologna while you watch?

7. Ill come to you but I have no gas money.

I'm probably going to hang this up after m membership runs out. Takes way too long to hook up.

Mm686.

[MichiganMan686]

I try to be as direct as possible. Meet on the site, take it to the burner chat, discuss particulars (expectations, availability, negotiate price, etc.). Usually after that, I may send an unsolicited face pic and request they do the same. It usually works b / c I think most are used to being inundated w / dick picks immediately. I have been on one meet and greet. Lunch date and afterwards, I ended up ghosting. It only cots me a lunch. I don't go for the pay for company routine. If I am paying, its for contact. And never prepay, cashapp or any of that shit. Good luck.

So do you ever say a face pic holding 3 fngers up or something like that? Maybe I'm making the mistake of saying I pay for the meet and greet. This is really hard to land a baby due to having to try t avoid all these scams which I'm going to post for others to help out. TY 4 your input. Mm686.

[DMichael5]

I've been asking for verification photo. Looking for a suggestion on how to ask for it to make sure its really them. Also if you do a meet and greet how mny times will the sugar baby ghost you after that because that is their scam. Meet up for say a 100 and do that over and over again to different daddys. I'm having a real hard time finding a real legit surgar baby. I'm a busy guy and don't want to be scammed. Mm686.

I try to be as direct as possible. Meet on the site, take it to the burner chat, discuss particulars (expectations, availability, negotiate price, etc.). Usually after that, I may send an unsolicited face pic and request they do the same. It usually works b / c I think most are used to being inundated w / dick picks immediately. I have been on one meet and greet. Lunch date and afterwards, I ended up ghosting. It only cots me a lunch. I don't go for the pay for company routine. If I am paying, its for contact. And never prepay, cashapp or any of that shit. Good luck.

[MichiganMan686]

I've been asking for verification photo. Looking for a suggestion on how to ask for it to make sure its really them. Also if you do a meet and greet how mny times will the sugar baby ghost you after that because that is their scam. Meet up for say a 100 and do that over and over again to different daddys. I'm having a real hard time finding a real legit surgar baby. I'm a busy guy and don't want to be scammed. Mm686.

[The Emmy Goes2]

Had something happen last night that has happened in the past and I wanted to see if anyone else has run into this.

Got a message from 6 NikkiBaby9 out of Lansing. It was very sexually charged, but it also included some very specific details from my profile. By that, I mean it was pretty apparently written by a person and not a bot. By the time I saw the message today, she had already deactivated her profile, or blocked me. I am not sure which. I have had a few similar things happen the same way before, but the messages had always been very generic. I wish I could figure out what happened to her, and I am sure that her profile disappearing is not a good sign, but her message really resonated with me.

Has anyone else run into this?

[LoVecchio]

Reading that story about the girl asking for money on Christmas and looking at her profile, it reminds me of something. I wouldn't meet someone who has kids, and I REALLY would avoid someone who lists their children status as "prefer not to say. " It's such a weird, almost legal sounding way to say "I have kids but I don't want to admit it. " My first SB had a kid, who she didn't hide. And while the kid wasn't the biggest reason we ended things (she was a con woman, basically LOL) it didn't help. I don't want to deal with someone who is multiple hours late because their child care plans fell thru, or the father of the kid is acting like a fool, or whatever else.

Not to mention the financial guilt trips of wanting to help out because she has a kid. I'd rather focus on chicks who have predictable financial issues. A college chick living on campus who only has to pay her car note, food, phone bill, etc.

I agree. I tend to view having kids as a negative although not a disqualifying one. I've had a couple of arrangements with girls who had kids, and they worked out because they had their acts together. But a kid is a built-in excuse to cancel. What are you going to do about the "sick kid" excuse? Having a kid often makes them reluctant to meet at their place, as well. I really do not want to get involved in the drama in their lives, and I never do.