Seeking Arrangements

**Lily1234** · 01-09-21 10:03

Originally Posted by SpicyPrince [View Original Post]

I chatted with her for a couple of days. Looked nice and chill. We were all set to meet up the next day the price was agreed upon. I did not even counter what she proposed. Anyway, once I sent my pic she blocked me and said she could not do it. I am of Indian origin, this is the first time I have been rejected on SA due to my ethnic background. Anyway, I treat this like any other dating app that there are more gals available. Best of luck everyone and have a happy new year.

I have had some block me right after I showed my pic. I am white. I assume they just think I am ugly or it was someone I chatted with before and forgot.

I reached out to asian chicks in NYC when I was going there for work. Lots of them just blocked me. I guess the ones in NYC are very discerning or if you don't offer a grand an hour off the bat they are not interested.

**Big Stu** · 01-09-21 08:24

Originally Posted by FindFun [View Original Post]

This is at a minimum a 2nd profile for her. She reached out to me randomly, did not seem legit and seemed like a scammer. Profile said CA but that she was here, I blocked as seemed like a scam. Who knows. Maybe someone should meet her for a steak dinner to find out.

I talked to her and I'm pretty sure she's a scam or gps. I like slim women to subtle curves. She wants money for a meet & greet and 50 isn't enough not that I offered she misunderstood something that I said. When I told I told her I'd do 400 ppm she said that's not enough she doesn't think we are a good fit. She also said she wouldn't be intimate for the 1st few times but expects an allowance, which apparently is over 400.

I'm up in the Westford area for the next 10 days. Anyone I should see? If I can't find anyone new ill probably see Scillianbadass again since she is available. And yes I know 500 is too much so I'd do 300.

**Joe Parkers** · 01-08-21 21:57

Originally Posted by SpicyPrince [View Original Post]

I chatted with her for a couple of days. Looked nice and chill. We were all set to meet up the next day the price was agreed upon. I did not even counter what she proposed. Anyway, once I sent my pic she blocked me and said she could not do it. I am of Indian origin, this is the first time I have been rejected on SA due to my ethnic background. Anyway, I treat this like any other dating app that there are more gals available. Best of luck everyone and have a happy new year.

Don't you already have a pic in your profile? Just curious.

**FindFun** · 01-08-21 16:52

Originally Posted by Spill [View Original Post]

It is referred to as Romancing the Bone.

This is at a minimum a 2nd profile for her. She reached out to me randomly, did not seem legit and seemed like a scammer. Profile said CA but that she was here, I blocked as seemed like a scam. Who knows. Maybe someone should meet her for a steak dinner to find out.

**Spill** · 01-08-21 14:31

Originally Posted by NastySD [View Original Post]

I usually don't go shit posting, but have yall seen this?

https://www.seeking.com/member/40439...1-ad6dfc78e2e1

I feel bad. Like something has to be wrong. Eating disorder maybe? I dunno.

It is referred to as Romancing the Bone.

**Satine** · 01-08-21 13:32

Guess I can answer my own question. She kept asking for cash advances, very politely, and did not seem to get offended when rejected. But never came out to meet after two separate plans. Write this off as fake in my book.

Originally Posted by Satine [View Original Post]

Said she is located in Lawrence. I am setting up a M&G with her. Anyone has info?

https://www.seeking.com/member/f65b8...5-a3ff6c492095

**Tribeca67** · 01-08-21 12:42

Originally Posted by JDeller [View Original Post]

It might have something to due with your ethnicity and it is just as likely and perhaps more likely it doesn't. When I send my pics I get one of four responses: you are handsome, they say nothing, they ghost or they block / deactivate their account. I am white and get the most negative responses from White or Asian girls, then Latinas and then Black girls. Black girls are by far the most positive. IMHO, I just think it has to do with physical attraction outside race most of the time.

I concur, if woman have a preference for ethnicity they'll usually so say in their profile some how. I spoke with many girls on there, just cause we are paying does not mean it's a auto hook up. Some have to be attracted to you to see you.

**JDeller** · 01-08-21 09:17

It might have something to due with your ethnicity and it is just as likely and perhaps more likely it doesn't. When I send my pics I get one of four responses: you are handsome, they say nothing, they ghost or they block / deactivate their account. I am white and get the most negative responses from White or Asian girls, then Latinas and then Black girls. Black girls are by far the most positive. IMHO, I just think it has to do with physical attraction outside race most of the time.

Originally Posted by SpicyPrince [View Original Post]

I chatted with her for a couple of days. Looked nice and chill. We were all set to meet up the next day the price was agreed upon. I did not even counter what she proposed. Anyway, once I sent my pic she blocked me and said she could not do it. I am of Indian origin, this is the first time I have been rejected on SA due to my ethnic background. Anyway, I treat this like any other dating app that there are more gals available. Best of luck everyone and have a happy new year.

**Bran001** · 01-08-21 08:41

Originally Posted by NastySD [View Original Post]

I usually don't go shit posting, but have yall seen this?

https://www.seeking.com/member/40439...1-ad6dfc78e2e1

I feel bad. Like something has to be wrong. Eating disorder maybe? I dunno.

Yes the photos show a VERY thin woman. I don't try to speculate on psychological status based only on a few photos. She could be that thin for a variety of reasons. But yes objectively she is VERY thin and personally I would not pursue.

**JDeller** · 01-08-21 07:46

I did have one success with a very hot twenty year old I saw several times.

Other than that it was virtually all messages with no response or a response and then nothing. I am not sure talking game on the platform is the best strategy. You will most likely get banned or turn off a potential fc adventure.

Originally Posted by OkWhatever [View Original Post]

I just signed up for Secret Benefits. Looks light weight compared to SA. Do they monitor messages? I feel like I can say whatever on their platform and nobody will care. I'd rather talk game before giving out contact info.

Is my assumption correct?

Thanks.

**SpicyPrince** · 01-08-21 01:37

https://www.seeking.com/member/c2c54...4-10c617eae5f1

I met her at her place in Northborough. Is a mom of 2 kids. She is a professional masseur and actually prefers that.

Hosting situation. She can host.

Body. Typical MILF Body. She did show me her older pics looks hot. She is on the path trying to get back there. 7 on 10.

Attitude. Sweet and nice. I little rushed and not a big fan of kissing. 7 on 10.

Performance- solid 6 on 10.

BBBJ, CFS.

Repeat. Probably no. Just not my type and we did not have much chemistry. Was there for about 2 hours total and 2 pops.

**SpicyPrince** · 01-08-21 01:23

Originally Posted by ActonMan [View Original Post]

Yes this is Jenny I talked with her on Seeking a couple of weeks ago She wanted to meet in person before discussing anything. I found her lacking in skills and other then a great Bush the body was lacking. I would move on if I were you.

LOL. I met this gal a year ago on Bumble dating app. Still, remember it was at Liberty hotel. She is a game player, she brought another friend with her on a date to see me even without telling me. Loves to dance, and dances like a mom trying to make up for lost time. She is a professional masseur it's cheaper to get her massage services rather than her SA prices. I still think I might have her digits. Daymm the people you meet on SA.

**SpicyPrince** · 01-08-21 00:58

Originally Posted by IOnDaStreet [View Original Post]

Her availability might be better if you saw her after Mid November, although she was considering moving to get away from her roommate. BBFS, and I believe CIP was available. She likes it rough. No kissing. Make sure you use a burner, she will contact you when she needs attention,.

Her current profile is.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c94f2...4-91546731f971

She's been on and off the site for years.

I chatted with her for a couple of days. Looked nice and chill. We were all set to meet up the next day the price was agreed upon. I did not even counter what she proposed. Anyway, once I sent my pic she blocked me and said she could not do it. I am of Indian origin, this is the first time I have been rejected on SA due to my ethnic background. Anyway, I treat this like any other dating app that there are more gals available. Best of luck everyone and have a happy new year.

**OkWhatever** · 01-07-21 22:35

Wow fuck it. Luckily I haven't bought credits.

Thanks everyone.

Originally Posted by Bran001 [View Original Post]

SB is a TOTAL waste of time. I gave up on it after about 36 hrs.

**Spike77** · 01-07-21 22:06

Originally Posted by HounDog3 [View Original Post]

Ever read the Terms Of Service on SB? Of course not, nobody does. Your Interactions with Other Members, has this paragraph: "From time to time, we may create test accounts to test certain features of the site." They're practically saying, implying, they use bots.

I haven't looked at SA, WYP, or other sites' Terms Of Service to see if they have comparable statements.

I remember one of the first messages I unlocked read verbatim "What is your favorite color?" LOL.