Seeking Arrangements

**Sounds** · 12-13-20 16:49

Originally Posted by Joe1223 [View Original Post]

This week should be a good one except with the spouse WFh it is limiting my ability to get out. LOL.

This time of year is perfect for getting out of the house. I have to go Christmas shopping for you dear!

**Joe1223** · 12-13-20 16:03

Originally Posted by LordOfThEeyes [View Original Post]

Where are all these girls. I'm jist getting a bunch of ghosts. Do you point blank say I'm looking for a ppm this is what I'll give you or romance a bit. I keep finding crack heads and GPS 😂.

You can find a mixed bag on SA but you need to have your set of standards so you can filter out the ones that don't fit your needs. SA requires extra work and money for the quality girls to float up to what I am looking for. I do set an age max as I have found the ladies over 29 have been more seasoned than suits me. The upside is they typically can host.

As far as asking for ppm you can't do any of that on SA you need to move offline to another method ASAP. If they won't do it then move on as they probably are not serious or are just experimenting with the site and are hoping for a virtual thing. Once you are off SA then I usually use blunt but polite banter to tell them what I am looking for. I have found most of the girls I am attracted to require a softer touch and if you treat them like hoes they will drop you. Your age and appearance does make a difference but working them with some extended convo and willing to wait it out has worked OK with me. However, as I search for a replacement for my last arrangement the Covid is blocking a lot of my meetups but I just say no to the virtual thing. I have been talking to a lot of girls this week as Christmas is here but haven't hooked up yet. This week should be a good one except with the spouse WFh it is limiting my ability to get out. LOL.
FB has been good to me as well. Not as prolific as SA or similar sites but I am making contact. The issue is Incall ability and Covid reasoning so much so I am getting nervous about actually meeting girls.

**NewEngland** · 12-13-20 13:10

Originally Posted by PinayLuver [View Original Post]

Referring to the massage part. Is she still in business? And if so where does she advertise her services? Is she any good with regards to the massage?

Yes still doing massage.

**PinayLuver** · 12-13-20 10:54

Originally Posted by ActonMan [View Original Post]

Yes this is Jenny I talked with her on Seeking a couple of weeks ago She wanted to meet in person before discussing anything. I found her lacking in skills and other then a great Bush the body was lacking. I would move on if I were you.

Referring to the massage part. Is she still in business? And if so where does she advertise her services? Is she any good with regards to the massage?

**Bran001** · 12-13-20 04:32

Originally Posted by PaulRew [View Original Post]

Any info?

https://www.seeking.com/member/c4e71...2-3285789802df

She favorited my profile a few months ago but when I tried to start a conversation she never responded. I tried a couple of times.

**ActonMan** · 12-13-20 04:01

Originally Posted by GianniVersace [View Original Post]

Do any of you guys know if this is Jenny the Masseuse in Acton?

https://www.seeking.com/member/fe5d8...2-76b390b8eb05

Yes this is Jenny I talked with her on Seeking a couple of weeks ago She wanted to meet in person before discussing anything. I found her lacking in skills and other then a great Bush the body was lacking. I would move on if I were you.

**PaulRew** · 12-12-20 21:35

Any info?

https://www.seeking.com/member/c4e71...2-3285789802df

**Bran001** · 12-12-20 17:59

Originally Posted by HounDog3 [View Original Post]

Be careful what you say when messaging on SA. Move to text as quickly as reasonably possible. This has been the subject of much discussion here. It's believed SA uses software to scan messages on the platform for key words that can imply prostitution, such as PPM, allowance, host, hosting, hotel, money, sex acts (BBBJ, CIM, FS, and all the rest). Any such language and you may be booted off the platform with no refund.

As for romancing it a bit, see the previous post by Bran.

Talking "PPM" on there is a great way to end up banned and no refund. I use 'allowance' and 'donation' and 'generous' all the time. Obviously "sugaring" includes cash payments just not as a quid pro quo for sex in their book. But too much about the payment part and you'll end up banned.

I'm not going to tell people what to say to get girls to meet; I'm not going to provide a script. Because there is no one approach that works for everyone. Everyone is different and you have to be yourself. Because if you use some script, it'll eventually run out and they'll sniff you out. If you're not the kind of guy they want to meet there isn't really anything you can do about it.

**HounDog3** · 12-12-20 17:27

Originally Posted by LordOfThEeyes [View Original Post]

Do you point blank say I'm looking for a ppm this is what I'll give you or romance a bit..

Be careful what you say when messaging on SA. Move to text as quickly as reasonably possible. This has been the subject of much discussion here. It's believed SA uses software to scan messages on the platform for key words that can imply prostitution, such as PPM, allowance, host, hosting, hotel, money, sex acts (BBBJ, CIM, FS, and all the rest). Any such language and you may be booted off the platform with no refund.

As for romancing it a bit, see the previous post by Bran.

**Style20** · 12-12-20 17:27

Originally Posted by Bran001 [View Original Post]

Yes I"ve been seeing her every week for the past month. It does add up, but it's super fun. Did a 3-some with a 22-yr old college girl she found online this week. You can't make this stuff up; when you find the right one you go all in. As we all know these things can end abruptly.

Bro. You spend $1600 on a girl and you think it's super fun. You better off having a girlfriend and spend less money on her.

**Bran001** · 12-12-20 16:25

Originally Posted by LordOfThEeyes [View Original Post]

Where are all these girls. I'm jist getting a bunch of ghosts. Do you point blank say I'm looking for a ppm this is what I'll give you or romance a bit. I keep finding crack heads and GPS 😂.

They are there. The crackheads you can tell just from the profiles and photos. I don't even message them and if they message me I ignore.

GPS you can often tell from the profiles too.

The ghosts happen. A high percentage of decent initial conversations turn into ghosts. It's the cost of doing business here.

The girls I aim for and get want to be treated like real people, not pieces of meat or hookers. Yah at a basic level they are hookers but if you talk to them the way they want, you get what you want. They know what they're doing; many are INTO the kink of it. But they aren't putting themselves out there like STG or Eros girls and if you treat them like those girls they aren't going for it.

**LordOfThEeyes** · 12-12-20 15:42

Where are all these girls. I'm jist getting a bunch of ghosts. Do you point blank say I'm looking for a ppm this is what I'll give you or romance a bit. I keep finding crack heads and GPS 😂.

**Bran001** · 12-12-20 15:35

Originally Posted by JDeller [View Original Post]

The 400 ppm is certainly reasonable. However, are you now seeing her every week?

That would be 1600/ mo. Is that correct?

Yes I"ve been seeing her every week for the past month. It does add up, but it's super fun. Did a 3-some with a 22-yr old college girl she found online this week. You can't make this stuff up; when you find the right one you go all in. As we all know these things can end abruptly.

**JDeller** · 12-12-20 14:49

Originally Posted by Joe1223 [View Original Post]

I was seeing one girl at 350 per visit every week. It adds up fast but I knew she was leaving for the military in a few months so I wanted to maximize my time with her. All BB and CIP, smoking hot 23 yo so it was an easy sell for me.

I would do the same. I could manage a short term dip into savings but not too long because of SO. This month on SA seems better than summer but not as good as before 2020. I made it to FC with one nice petite latina. I will write review if things don't pan out. She could be a keeper.