Non Pro's

**Fantasy Man J** · 01-04-21 21:24

Originally Posted by Toomgis [View Original Post]

SA is a buyer's market right now. Since Sunday evening, I've noticed all kinds of gals logging in. Even those that haven't been on for months. Christmas is over, bills, rent are due. Unemployment is running out, tuition is due soon. Stick to your guns and keep allowances low and benefits high! Happy hunting.

I have gotten a few on deck within the last couple days that are of quite high quality. An aspiring actress without going to LA. Life is good!

**Anonymous420** · 01-04-21 21:23

Originally Posted by MrPumpNDump [View Original Post]

Just curious, and I'm sure this has been hashed out. How exactly do you find girls for 300 that are attractive. Admittedly, I usually go for a younger age than most people here (under 25), but for me it's hard to break out of the 300-500 range. Obviously there's always people who want more. Usually if they want under 300 they are either:

1. Very new.

2. AA.

3. Obvious physical issues.

Do you usually wait until meeting to bring up money? I do it over text which may make it harder. Also I guess I don't prioritize the "best deal" over everything else (not that there is anything wrong with that if that's what you do).

I usually discss the details of the arrangement in person.

You'll probably see a few different answers. The fine details change, but the common key to success is to be able to walk away. Tell them what you want and what you are willing to do for an allowence. If they balk, move on. If you have trouble spotting the pros or want to be pros, they will be focused on maximizing money and minimizing time spent with you.

My current drives over an hour to get to my place, spends at least the evening (dinner to bedtime) and will sleep over if she's tired. We meet at least once a week, and I do give her 300 becuase of the drive. Otherwise it would be 200 to 250 per week allowence. She's young (25), cute, in shape, and loves to fuck.

**Fantasy Man J** · 01-04-21 21:22

Originally Posted by MrPumpNDump [View Original Post]

Do you put a lot of effort into your profile on SA? Mine has one pretty shitty photo of me with my head cropped off. And probably two sentences or so as a bio.

Also do you invest a lot of time in texting them?

I usually text them off and on for half a day or so and then if they don't want to meet up next them, maybe coming back later if I'm bored.

Overall I'm alright looks wise, but I feel like my profile could be a lot better.

It's never really seemed to be a problem but maybe it's "raising the price" for me.

To be honest not really. Your message has a lot more power. I think there's so many fakes and scammers that if you show enough human they will respond to you.

With regards to texting, I don't prioritize SBs over my day to day. SBs have schedules themselves and that's one of the first things I ask about to find appropriate windows to discuss.

**DrtyHarry** · 01-04-21 21:16

Originally Posted by Toomgis [View Original Post]

SA is a buyer's market right now. Since Sunday evening, I've noticed all kinds of gals logging in. Even those that haven't been on for months. Christmas is over, bills, rent are due. Unemployment is running out, tuition is due soon. Stick to your guns and keep allowances low and benefits high! Happy hunting.

Yeah it has been this way for a few months. But you are right. There has been a sharp increase since the new year. It is good and bad.

**Toomgis** · 01-04-21 20:00

SA is a buyer's market right now. Since Sunday evening, I've noticed all kinds of gals logging in. Even those that haven't been on for months. Christmas is over, bills, rent are due. Unemployment is running out, tuition is due soon. Stick to your guns and keep allowances low and benefits high! Happy hunting.

**MrPumpNDump** · 01-04-21 19:16

Originally Posted by FantasyManJ [View Original Post]

My go to demographic is young and new. The 18-24 range do not quite know the value of money and to them 300 is a lot. Stand firm and use prior arrangements as negotiating chip. Inquire on what they are seeking but just ignore it once they reply and move on to other discussions. Once time comes close to actually meet, I then layout what I am willing to do and negotiate. When you discuss allowance too early, they can balk at your offer and move on without feeling any time wasted. Keep them engaged for a little while and you are more likely to achieve success. Also don't put all your eggs in one basket as I am sure you aren't the only SD they are speaking to. I have three smoking hot dimes SBs but still contacting new ones in an effort to replace or upgrade my stable.

Do you put a lot of effort into your profile on SA? Mine has one pretty shitty photo of me with my head cropped off. And probably two sentences or so as a bio.

Also do you invest a lot of time in texting them?

I usually text them off and on for half a day or so and then if they don't want to meet up next them, maybe coming back later if I'm bored.

Overall I'm alright looks wise, but I feel like my profile could be a lot better.

It's never really seemed to be a problem but maybe it's "raising the price" for me.

**Fantasy Man J** · 01-04-21 19:05

Originally Posted by MrPumpNDump [View Original Post]

Just curious, and I'm sure this has been hashed out. How exactly do you find girls for 300 that are attractive. Admittedly, I usually go for a younger age than most people here (under 25), but for me it's hard to break out of the 300-500 range. Obviously there's always people who want more. Usually if they want under 300 they are either:

1. Very new.

2. AA.

3. Obvious physical issues.

Do you usually wait until meeting to bring up money? I do it over text which may make it harder. Also I guess I don't prioritize the "best deal" over everything else (not that there is anything wrong with that if that's what you do).

My go to demographic is young and new. The 18-24 range do not quite know the value of money and to them 300 is a lot. Stand firm and use prior arrangements as negotiating chip. Inquire on what they are seeking but just ignore it once they reply and move on to other discussions. Once time comes close to actually meet, I then layout what I am willing to do and negotiate. When you discuss allowance too early, they can balk at your offer and move on without feeling any time wasted. Keep them engaged for a little while and you are more likely to achieve success. Also don't put all your eggs in one basket as I am sure you aren't the only SD they are speaking to. I have three smoking hot dimes SBs but still contacting new ones in an effort to replace or upgrade my stable.

**MrPumpNDump** · 01-04-21 10:30

Originally Posted by BrstMan [View Original Post]

1. You can also find girls for a lot less, you just have to look, I have not given one over 200 so far. There are many that will try and get a large amount a month and they are just looking for easy money.

2. There are a lot more than you think, I would say about a 25-35 percent of those I have contacted have said "you can meet me at this hotel" or "I need 200 for an hour", often those are ones that have a profile up for a week or two then it goes black. Then there are the ones that are looking for an actual arrangement and then you have a few that are on SA looking for a connection with someone due to something lacking in their personal lives.

3. yep if someone says "let's do online for now" I will say sure but I am not paying any money, when you are ready to meet in person we can go from there.

Just curious, and I'm sure this has been hashed out. How exactly do you find girls for 300 that are attractive. Admittedly, I usually go for a younger age than most people here (under 25), but for me it's hard to break out of the 300-500 range. Obviously there's always people who want more. Usually if they want under 300 they are either:

1. Very new.

2. AA.

3. Obvious physical issues.

Do you usually wait until meeting to bring up money? I do it over text which may make it harder. Also I guess I don't prioritize the "best deal" over everything else (not that there is anything wrong with that if that's what you do).

**Original703** · 01-03-21 22:52

Originally Posted by MarkoRamius [View Original Post]

Yes, I have.

Basically it is just like SA. I do like that you purchase "credits" rather than a monthly subscription. You use "credits" to message a girl, see their private pics, or I think to get read receipts on your messages.

A lot of the girls are obviously on both sites, and golly knows how many other sites.

I prefer Seeking Arrangement over Secret Benefits, because of the monthly fee (compared to the purchase of credits on SB) which allows for unlimited messaging during a defined period, a month, 6 months, a year, whatever. I disliked the credit system because SB had no incentive to eliminate bots and fake accounts. On SB, in order to communicate with another user, you must use credits. While communication with that particular user is unlimited after you've burned credits to initiate messaging, you have to burn credits for every user with whom you want to communicate.

It's probably 6 of 1 and half dozen of the other.

**Marko Ramius** · 01-03-21 15:14

Originally Posted by MorganCreamin [View Original Post]

Anyone tried Secret Benefits?

Yes, I have.

Basically it is just like SA. I do like that you purchase "credits" rather than a monthly subscription. You use "credits" to message a girl, see their private pics, or I think to get read receipts on your messages.

A lot of the girls are obviously on both sites, and golly knows how many other sites.

**DrtyHarry** · 01-03-21 14:50

Originally Posted by Paradigum [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/ad080...6-16b8dcee1b22

"Preferably a older alpha gentlemen who can't get it up" <-- LOL! I had to post it. I can't stop laughing. Hahah.

Originally Posted by SeattleCasual [View Original Post]

It's hilarious that's she's just hoping that some dude will DM her, "Well yes, I am an alpha male who can't get it up, which of course is something that all self-proclaimed alphas will readily admit to, please take my money. ".

Originally Posted by Martinh [View Original Post]

Yeah. She wants your money. Not your dick. Easy to pass on this one.

Yeah. Easy pass. Atleast she is upfront and honest that she is really not interested in anybody who can actuall fuck her. Hard Pass on this one.

**Martinh** · 01-03-21 13:12

Originally Posted by Paradigum [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/ad080...6-16b8dcee1b22

"Preferably a older alpha gentlemen who can't get it up" <-- LOL! I had to post it. I can't stop laughing. Hahah.

Yeah. She wants your money. Not your dick. Easy to pass on this one.

**Morgan Creamin** · 01-03-21 10:30

Anyone tried Secret Benefits?

**MyNickname** · 01-03-21 00:58

Now it is 99.99 for a month.

**DrtyHarry** · 01-02-21 22:15

Originally Posted by Latinxi69 [View Original Post]

Sometimes the account will still have the persons name and sometimes it just says Sugarbaby. My thinking is if you are blocked it keeps the name and if they deactivated it just says Sugarbaby. I could be wrong it's just a guess.

I could be wrong. But this is what I think. When you block someone. They cannot see your profile. You cannot see their profile either but their name still shows up. The moment they block you (as well) or leave the board. That screen-name will change to sugarbaby (I. E. Defauit name).

The reason why I think this is true is I got into it with a lady. Cannot remember her name but I posted a rant on her asking people to avoid her as she is BAT SHIT CRAZY! But anyway for the next 2-3 days I could see that green bubble next to her name I could alos see the entire email conversation. After 2 days for so. She probably realized that I had blocked her ass and she did the same to me. Then when I go to my messages. It now only shows sugarbaby and the online bubble is not either empty or green. It just does not exist anymore.

I could be wrong. But that is how I think it works. BTW when I first started out on SA. I usually never blocked anyone. I would just ignore them. Now I actually do a LOT of blocking. Shared pics and everything disappear once you block so it gives me more peace of mind.