Non Pro's

**Fantasy Man J** · 01-04-21 20:05

Originally Posted by MrPumpNDump [View Original Post]

Just curious, and I'm sure this has been hashed out. How exactly do you find girls for 300 that are attractive. Admittedly, I usually go for a younger age than most people here (under 25), but for me it's hard to break out of the 300-500 range. Obviously there's always people who want more. Usually if they want under 300 they are either:

1. Very new.

2. AA.

3. Obvious physical issues.

Do you usually wait until meeting to bring up money? I do it over text which may make it harder. Also I guess I don't prioritize the "best deal" over everything else (not that there is anything wrong with that if that's what you do).

My go to demographic is young and new. The 18-24 range do not quite know the value of money and to them 300 is a lot. Stand firm and use prior arrangements as negotiating chip. Inquire on what they are seeking but just ignore it once they reply and move on to other discussions. Once time comes close to actually meet, I then layout what I am willing to do and negotiate. When you discuss allowance too early, they can balk at your offer and move on without feeling any time wasted. Keep them engaged for a little while and you are more likely to achieve success. Also don't put all your eggs in one basket as I am sure you aren't the only SD they are speaking to. I have three smoking hot dimes SBs but still contacting new ones in an effort to replace or upgrade my stable.

**MrPumpNDump** · 01-04-21 11:30

Originally Posted by BrstMan [View Original Post]

1. You can also find girls for a lot less, you just have to look, I have not given one over 200 so far. There are many that will try and get a large amount a month and they are just looking for easy money.

2. There are a lot more than you think, I would say about a 25-35 percent of those I have contacted have said "you can meet me at this hotel" or "I need 200 for an hour", often those are ones that have a profile up for a week or two then it goes black. Then there are the ones that are looking for an actual arrangement and then you have a few that are on SA looking for a connection with someone due to something lacking in their personal lives.

3. yep if someone says "let's do online for now" I will say sure but I am not paying any money, when you are ready to meet in person we can go from there.

Just curious, and I'm sure this has been hashed out. How exactly do you find girls for 300 that are attractive. Admittedly, I usually go for a younger age than most people here (under 25), but for me it's hard to break out of the 300-500 range. Obviously there's always people who want more. Usually if they want under 300 they are either:

1. Very new.

2. AA.

3. Obvious physical issues.

Do you usually wait until meeting to bring up money? I do it over text which may make it harder. Also I guess I don't prioritize the "best deal" over everything else (not that there is anything wrong with that if that's what you do).

**Original703** · 01-03-21 23:52

Originally Posted by MarkoRamius [View Original Post]

Yes, I have.

Basically it is just like SA. I do like that you purchase "credits" rather than a monthly subscription. You use "credits" to message a girl, see their private pics, or I think to get read receipts on your messages.

A lot of the girls are obviously on both sites, and golly knows how many other sites.

I prefer Seeking Arrangement over Secret Benefits, because of the monthly fee (compared to the purchase of credits on SB) which allows for unlimited messaging during a defined period, a month, 6 months, a year, whatever. I disliked the credit system because SB had no incentive to eliminate bots and fake accounts. On SB, in order to communicate with another user, you must use credits. While communication with that particular user is unlimited after you've burned credits to initiate messaging, you have to burn credits for every user with whom you want to communicate.

It's probably 6 of 1 and half dozen of the other.

**Marko Ramius** · 01-03-21 16:14

Originally Posted by MorganCreamin [View Original Post]

Anyone tried Secret Benefits?

Yes, I have.

Basically it is just like SA. I do like that you purchase "credits" rather than a monthly subscription. You use "credits" to message a girl, see their private pics, or I think to get read receipts on your messages.

A lot of the girls are obviously on both sites, and golly knows how many other sites.

**DrtyHarry** · 01-03-21 15:50

Originally Posted by Paradigum [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/ad080...6-16b8dcee1b22

"Preferably a older alpha gentlemen who can't get it up" <-- LOL! I had to post it. I can't stop laughing. Hahah.

Originally Posted by SeattleCasual [View Original Post]

It's hilarious that's she's just hoping that some dude will DM her, "Well yes, I am an alpha male who can't get it up, which of course is something that all self-proclaimed alphas will readily admit to, please take my money. ".

Originally Posted by Martinh [View Original Post]

Yeah. She wants your money. Not your dick. Easy to pass on this one.

Yeah. Easy pass. Atleast she is upfront and honest that she is really not interested in anybody who can actuall fuck her. Hard Pass on this one.

**Martinh** · 01-03-21 14:12

Originally Posted by Paradigum [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/ad080...6-16b8dcee1b22

"Preferably a older alpha gentlemen who can't get it up" <-- LOL! I had to post it. I can't stop laughing. Hahah.

Yeah. She wants your money. Not your dick. Easy to pass on this one.

**Morgan Creamin** · 01-03-21 11:30

Anyone tried Secret Benefits?

**MyNickname** · 01-03-21 01:58

Now it is 99.99 for a month.

**DrtyHarry** · 01-02-21 23:15

Originally Posted by Latinxi69 [View Original Post]

Sometimes the account will still have the persons name and sometimes it just says Sugarbaby. My thinking is if you are blocked it keeps the name and if they deactivated it just says Sugarbaby. I could be wrong it's just a guess.

I could be wrong. But this is what I think. When you block someone. They cannot see your profile. You cannot see their profile either but their name still shows up. The moment they block you (as well) or leave the board. That screen-name will change to sugarbaby (I. E. Defauit name).

The reason why I think this is true is I got into it with a lady. Cannot remember her name but I posted a rant on her asking people to avoid her as she is BAT SHIT CRAZY! But anyway for the next 2-3 days I could see that green bubble next to her name I could alos see the entire email conversation. After 2 days for so. She probably realized that I had blocked her ass and she did the same to me. Then when I go to my messages. It now only shows sugarbaby and the online bubble is not either empty or green. It just does not exist anymore.

I could be wrong. But that is how I think it works. BTW when I first started out on SA. I usually never blocked anyone. I would just ignore them. Now I actually do a LOT of blocking. Shared pics and everything disappear once you block so it gives me more peace of mind.

**MickRichards** · 01-02-21 19:27

Originally Posted by DrtyHarry [View Original Post]

She is not really a clock watcher - 400 and then she will spend 2-3 hours with you. At least she did with me every time I saw her. She loves her wine. She understands that a man works hard and needs to be treated with respect when he comes home cold and tired. She is seductive and wil cross her legs and sip on wine and bat her eyes at you. Until you jump her bones and the she will take good care of you. Never a complaint with her. I really enjoyed every time I saw her. She is a little bigger than I like my women. But I was going through this big MILF stage and she fit the bill (this was approx 2 or more years ago) . BTW she sent me a pic about a year ago. Out of the blue. Probably needed dick and sent it. She has put on some weight.

Will you send me her number. I lost it. I used to see her after she had a boytoy her adult sons age fill her up with cum.

**SeattleCasual** · 01-02-21 17:52

Originally Posted by Paradigum [View Original Post]

OMG! Someone else found the same one hilarious and posted it earlier! Sorry for a double post! LOL!

It's hilarious that's she's just hoping that some dude will DM her, "Well yes, I am an alpha male who can't get it up, which of course is something that all self-proclaimed alphas will readily admit to, please take my money. ".

**Latinxi69** · 01-02-21 16:18

Originally Posted by Avn11 [View Original Post]

Is there a way to tell apart a deactivated account vs a suspended account on SA?

Sometimes the account will still have the persons name and sometimes it just says Sugarbaby. My thinking is if you are blocked it keeps the name and if they deactivated it just says Sugarbaby. I could be wrong it's just a guess.

**BrstMan** · 01-02-21 14:22

Originally Posted by Avn11 [View Original Post]

Is there a way to tell apart a deactivated account vs a suspended account on SA?

Yes, create a second account but don't pay premium and you can still search and see if they were suspended, deactivated, or just blocked you. I am not really sure how you can tell the difference between suspended or deactivated, if they blocked you then they will show up in the search on your unpaid account.

**Paradigum** · 01-02-21 07:29

Originally Posted by SeattleCasual [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/ad080...6-16b8dcee1b22

"I don't want someone who's too sex driven, I want a man who is looking for a muse to adore. Preferably a older alpha gentlemen who cant get it up but still craves to see and feel a female body and presence. Someone who wants to invest in me and see me shine, go on dates and show me off".

This sounds like a great sales pitch. Especially given her title.

OMG! Someone else found the same one hilarious and posted it earlier! Sorry for a double post! LOL!

**Paradigum** · 01-02-21 07:20

https://www.seeking.com/member/ad080...6-16b8dcee1b22

"Preferably a older alpha gentlemen who can't get it up" <-- LOL! I had to post it. I can't stop laughing. Hahah.