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**Rrichards619** · 01-06-21 10:08

Originally Posted by NudeBeachPerv [View Original Post]

Yeah, it's one of those parties, but the "anything goes" so not just the BBW's.

You know if the bbw parties are any good?

**NudeBeachPerv** · 01-05-21 21:45

Originally Posted by Rrichards619 [View Original Post]

Sounds like the parties they would do in Miramar?. I almost went to one of the bbw ones. I don't mind going hoggin' from time to time.

Yeah, it's one of those parties, but the "anything goes" so not just the BBW's.

**Rrichards619** · 01-05-21 16:38

Originally Posted by NudeBeachPerv [View Original Post]

Word on the street is that HOB on Trade St. will have a party this Saturday and next Saturday. Looks like the place that had the DJ booth collapse is virtually their neighbor. Be aware, one of the parties is the fat ladies and a few crossdressers so you might want to avoid. The codeword is "I am a friend of Ronnie or Cosmo. " And it's a cash "donation" at the door. Personally, I'd skip this one but for those who are asking for parties here you go.

Sounds like the parties they would do in Miramar?. I almost went to one of the bbw ones. I don't mind going hoggin' from time to time.

**NudeBeachPerv** · 01-05-21 15:05

Word on the street is that HOB on Trade St. will have a party this Saturday and next Saturday. Looks like the place that had the DJ booth collapse is virtually their neighbor. Be aware, one of the parties is the fat ladies and a few crossdressers so you might want to avoid. The codeword is "I am a friend of Ronnie or Cosmo. " And it's a cash "donation" at the door. Personally, I'd skip this one but for those who are asking for parties here you go.

**RChangDatyKing** · 01-02-21 20:05

Originally Posted by Whoopster [View Original Post]

I've been seeing my ATF on the side now for a while. The whole time I'm thinking that she's just role playing, has other customers she sees besides me, and waiting for some sort of shoe to drop, so to speak.

Well, it's been over three years. I've helped her figure out her health insurance, banking etc. She's shared every piece of info I would need to totally screw her over. When I buy her things she refuses until I insist. I've kept my guard up this whole time thinking there's no way a girl this beautiful and sweet and caring can be into me.

My question is, has anyone gone into a relationship with a provider only to be taken advantage of? If so, how long did it last? What were some of the signs to look for? How did it finally end?

Thanks in advance.

Three years is a long time, so I think there's some sincerity in her part about being in the relationship with you.

I've dated many AMP providers in my 15 plus years of hobbying, but I personally go in the relationship knowing I would never strictly date just one girl or marry any of them. Maybe, I haven't met the right AMP girl yet. LOL. Maybe if I met them in a civi environment I might think differently. Knowing that they provide HE massages and potentially more to customers, I know I would not want more than casual dating with them.

There were 4 girls / ladies I know that wanted more than just dating (going to restaurants, amusement parks, etc) with me. They ask that I take them to my house, ask to meet my friends, ask if I would stop getting massages from other girls, or stop going to AMP completely. They said they would give me massages when they get off work, or on their days off. These girls didn't want any gifts from me either. They would rather I save the money and spend it on our dates.

I still date AMP girls. With the 4 that wanted more than just casual dating I still see two of them at the parlors once and awhile, and the other two are doing different things and I get together with them every 3 -6 months for lunch / dinner.

I don't know if you will ever know if she is playing you until you decide where you want the relationship to go. Do you want to be strictly with her? Are you okay with her continuing to do massages? Many of these girls may still send money home to family, are you going to take on that role if you no longer want her to do massages? Are you willing to stop hobbying? Another way to know if she is playing you is to refer some people to go see her and see if she offers anything more than massages. See if they can get her number, etc.

Good luck!

**DoctorOlds** · 01-02-21 17:26

Originally Posted by Whoopster [View Original Post]

I've been seeing my ATF on the side now for a while. The whole time I'm thinking that she's just role playing, has other customers she sees besides me, and waiting for some sort of shoe to drop, so to speak.

Well, it's been over three years. I've helped her figure out her health insurance, banking etc. She's shared every piece of info I would need to totally screw her over. When I buy her things she refuses until I insist. I've kept my guard up this whole time thinking there's no way a girl this beautiful and sweet and caring can be into me.

My question is, has anyone gone into a relationship with a provider only to be taken advantage of? If so, how long did it last? What were some of the signs to look for? How did it finally end?

Thanks in advance.

I've known 2-3 providers that got out of the biz because the hooked up with a client. Not unheard of, but also not the norm. Hopefully, you are a good judge of character. Are you wealthy enough for you to do serious damage to your life? Married? Once in a lifetime job / career she could wreck? These are question you can only answer to yourself. Does she appear genuine? I've had girls act super interested. Maybe it was the car I drove or the clothes I wore. No idea to be honest. Personally, I kept all hobbying business. Enjoy it, but never expose personal info that could be used against you and definitely try to not fall in you-know-what!! LOL!! I've never met a provider that piqued my interests in a personal level, but also never talked about favorite foods, movies, books or any other general interests. Best of luck and I hope it works out. You said you've been seeing her in the side. The side of what? Your marriage? Outside of normal hobbying, like you're not paying? If you're not paying, you're already in a bit deep and I wish you the best.

**Whoopster** · 01-02-21 17:15

I've been seeing my ATF on the side now for a while. The whole time I'm thinking that she's just role playing, has other customers she sees besides me, and waiting for some sort of shoe to drop, so to speak.

Well, it's been over three years. I've helped her figure out her health insurance, banking etc. She's shared every piece of info I would need to totally screw her over. When I buy her things she refuses until I insist. I've kept my guard up this whole time thinking there's no way a girl this beautiful and sweet and caring can be into me.

My question is, has anyone gone into a relationship with a provider only to be taken advantage of? If so, how long did it last? What were some of the signs to look for? How did it finally end?

Thanks in advance.

**NudeBeachPerv** · 01-01-21 13:06

Originally Posted by DogRice [View Original Post]

There was a news about stage collapsed in an underground NYE party on trade street. Not sure is the same party or not.

https://fox5sandiego.com/news/local-...ty-injuring-1/

The cross streets in the news report are similar to where House of Black is located. Likely the same "industrial area.

**Dog Rice** · 01-01-21 12:41

There was a news about stage collapsed in an underground NYE party on trade street. Not sure is the same party or not.

https://fox5sandiego.com/news/local-...ty-injuring-1/

Originally Posted by NudeBeachPerv [View Original Post]

HOB on trade street is having a party tonight and another on New Years:

https://members.houseofblack.com/events?browse=future

Heard it through the grapevine that they are allowing single guys but it's a steep door fee.

I'd be careful, they don't seem to be taking any Covid precautions though.

**WorkerXXX** · 12-31-20 23:05

Hi all,

Just wanted to say thanks for everything you all do. Happy new year!

**DrPornDawger** · 12-31-20 17:19

Has anyone been to the other cities or sites?

There's s poster named Kingslayer, (recently passed), but he got some good ol' parties, GB ones as well. He would also get some women who are UTR.

**NudeBeachPerv** · 12-27-20 00:50

HOB on trade street is having a party tonight and another on New Years:

https://members.houseofblack.com/events?browse=future

Heard it through the grapevine that they are allowing single guys but it's a steep door fee.

I'd be careful, they don't seem to be taking any Covid precautions though.

**SdDave** · 12-26-20 12:41

Originally Posted by DrPornDawger [View Original Post]

Any recommendations who can perform this awesome service?

Look up Samantha on RR. She is older Thai lady normal heights area. Gives pro style massage with prostate assisted HE finish.

**JamulSucks** · 12-25-20 14:35

Going to see if I can find somewhere open to spend Christmas, any recommendations?

**AJaxer11** · 12-20-20 16:42

Originally Posted by RChangDatyKing [View Original Post]

Hey AJ!

IMO, I think the type of gift depends on your level of relationship with her. If you also see her outside of the spa I think the gift can be more personalized. Things like perfume, body lotion, cosmetics and gift cards to her favorite stores (grocery or department stores) can be okay. Even wine can be okay. I hung out with one of my ATFs a couple of weeks ago and she suggested some wine. I texted her some of my suggestions and she responded with a couple that she liked because they had good meanings in Chinese. I've learned that Chinese people associate lots of things with luck, fortune, health, etc.

If the relationship is strictly seeing each other at the spa then I would be more casual. Red envelopes (w / money) is always okay, gift cards to restaurants or stores (if you ask, many of the Chinese girls will tell you that they don't like food from non Asian countries. They don't like things that are fried, because they think it'll make them fat), teas, fruit baskets (do not include pears- again Chinese people associate words to meanings, sounds and the Chinese word for pears sounds like the same word for leaving), wine / perfume are okay if you know what she likes.

Things to avoid-shoes (unless she tells you that's what she wants. Usually tennis shoes are okay), clocks (bad luck), cut flowers (presents for funeral), objects that are black or white (often used in funerals), candles, mirrors.

I've been going to AMPs for many years and have become friends with lots of the AMP girls. Even dated some. LOL. I wanted to make sure I was respectful to the girls I date so I asked about what they like, or did research. Knowing some of the above has saved my butt many times, and it's also rewarded me in many ways. Wink, wink.

Good luck!

As always, a great answer RChang. I have figured out something that she wanted but hasn't bought for herself. Just placed an order online for it and I'll give it to her next time I see her. Thanks everyone for the input!