"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

**FarFarAway** · 12-21-20 21:11

Originally Posted by RegularJoe1985 [View Original Post]

Has anyone does this?

After reactivation, does one see all prior messages sent and received or do they get deleted once one deactivates profile (of course assuming one gets paid status).

I deactivate my profile most of the time that I don't have a paid membership. You really don't lose anything if you log back in to reactivate. Know the difference between that and deleting your profile, the latter is irreversible. I don't recommend starting over, there seems to be a bit of grandfathering, if you've been on the site a while, even if you haven't been paid lately, they are less likely to kick you off for a violation. Getting banned is a royal PITA, you really don't want that to happen to you. That's why you should keep the old profile. I have 2 profiles, I have used both for sugaring at different times.

**RegularJoe1985** · 12-21-20 12:31

Has anyone does this?

After reactivation, does one see all prior messages sent and received or do they get deleted once one deactivates profile (of course assuming one gets paid status).

**Ernest Ll** · 12-21-20 10:39

https://www.seeking.com/member/4c054...8-661a2396ff7d

Been chatting and texting with this one on and off for a year or so.

Typical story. Out of work broke, bills piling up.

Today she tells me she is COVID positive and is there any way I can loan her $2000 to cover her prior medical bills and some living expenses. She'd even sign a contract to pay me back.

Never met her, never fucked her, haven't even done a video chat with her.

Oh, yeah. Sign me up.

**Ernest Ll** · 12-21-20 10:32

Consistent private pics, nice lean body.

Says she has a 61 BF she started with in College, and her 29 yo husband in an open marriage.

Her BF encouraging her to find a SD.

Was messaging me Sunday AM early, allegedly from BFs bed after night of sex and was looking forward to getting home early so she could walk in on her hubby banging some Tinder find so she would watch and maybe join.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7b02e...c-c3c836006816

**Member #7176** · 12-20-20 19:20

I say I'm tried, but just realize I have 3 new dates line up in the next 2 weeks.

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

Just tried of the games. Nothing wrong about taking a break and just enjoying my current SBs. I have 5 SBs right now. I'm collecting numbers, and setup a few dates before my account expires. Probably will setup a new account later down the road.

**Member #6203** · 12-20-20 13:53

Originally Posted by BobbyRichmond [View Original Post]

Anyone have any interaction with this one? She wants me to send her a pic of my face and doing a piece sign to verify me?

https://www.seeking.com/member/445b6...4-e8fc25d4c56f

Yea I've also been asking for and giving two fingers up real time selfies just to verify I'm talking to a real person same as in a profile, just too many fake personal photo and info collectors out there not to. Mostly works while some will vanish after the request. Worth it? Probably saves some screening time.

**BobbyRichmond** · 12-20-20 11:48

Anyone have any interaction with this one? She wants me to send her a pic of my face and doing a piece sign to verify me?

https://www.seeking.com/member/445b6...4-e8fc25d4c56f

**Member #7176** · 12-19-20 11:57

Just tried of the games. Nothing wrong about taking a break and just enjoying my current SBs. I have 5 SBs right now. I'm collecting numbers, and setup a few dates before my account expires. Probably will setup a new account later down the road.

Originally Posted by Bran001 [View Original Post]

Agreed; there are always girls on sa who try the platonic only thing, or pre-pay scam, etc. Sure it takes a few hours investment, but when you find a good one it's great. It's not for everyone especially guys coming from the escort sites who are used to making contact with someone who is automatically available; you have to work it a bit on sa but you get an entirely different caliber of girl.

**Ares999** · 12-19-20 10:51

Originally Posted by FanRat [View Original Post]

I guess there are so many girls going that route and so many guys willing to pay for it that even girls who used to be DTF are trying to get money for nothing.

A sad state of affairs.

Yep. Tried to start up again with a SB I was seeing for most of the past year. She responded that she's not doing that anymore but suggested I subscribe to her OnlyFans instead. No thanks.

**Bran001** · 12-19-20 09:32

Originally Posted by CarloRogue [View Original Post]

Mmmm more for me. There have always been lots of looky-loo's on the site out of curiosity, or half-serious about it, having heard some fantasy story on some chick's blog that they can land a wealthy fish that just wants platonic long-distance phone calls or feet pics. Covid has just given them a more plausible excuse, but they would've come up with one either way. Of course, there are some that live with elderly and are at risk, but those are rare and who really cares what their excuse is anyway. None of it bothers me. Anyone not willing to meet for any reason, just goes quickly into the discard pile. I have found plenty that are more than willing to meet, but it does take at least a few hours or work every week.

Agreed; there are always girls on sa who try the platonic only thing, or pre-pay scam, etc. Sure it takes a few hours investment, but when you find a good one it's great. It's not for everyone especially guys coming from the escort sites who are used to making contact with someone who is automatically available; you have to work it a bit on sa but you get an entirely different caliber of girl.

**CarloRogue** · 12-18-20 14:00

Originally Posted by GeechieDan [View Original Post]

I just deleted my account a few days ago for the exact same reasons. If I hear things have changed then I'll create a new account, but I'm comfortable with the ones I've met so far. They should keep me for a while.

The final straw was when I contacted a Someone on SA and her first response was "if you want to keep the conversation going here's my Venmo. ".

Most of the online only ones don't put Platonic in their profile so you can't weed them out from the start. SA has become too much work. The ones who you think are DTF want a deposit. I was born on a day but it wasn't yesterday.

I'll probably get back on once the Covid vaccine is readily available to everyone and the SB's can't use that as an excuse anymore.

Mmmm more for me. There have always been lots of looky-loo's on the site out of curiosity, or half-serious about it, having heard some fantasy story on some chick's blog that they can land a wealthy fish that just wants platonic long-distance phone calls or feet pics. Covid has just given them a more plausible excuse, but they would've come up with one either way. Of course, there are some that live with elderly and are at risk, but those are rare and who really cares what their excuse is anyway. None of it bothers me. Anyone not willing to meet for any reason, just goes quickly into the discard pile. I have found plenty that are more than willing to meet, but it does take at least a few hours or work every week.

**Geechie Dan** · 12-18-20 11:37

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

Main reason I don't plan to renew my SA account this Jan. Just plan to go underground with my current set if SBs till March. I'm tried of all the new SBs that want online only, but don't post it on their profile. The prices are jumping even higher with the ones who do agree to meetup.

I just deleted my account a few days ago for the exact same reasons. If I hear things have changed then I'll create a new account, but I'm comfortable with the ones I've met so far. They should keep me for a while.

The final straw was when I contacted a Someone on SA and her first response was "if you want to keep the conversation going here's my Venmo. ".

Most of the online only ones don't put Platonic in their profile so you can't weed them out from the start. SA has become too much work. The ones who you think are DTF want a deposit. I was born on a day but it wasn't yesterday.

I'll probably get back on once the Covid vaccine is readily available to everyone and the SB's can't use that as an excuse anymore.

**Member #7176** · 12-18-20 10:33

Main reason I don't plan to renew my SA account this Jan. Just plan to go underground with my current set if SBs till March. I'm tried of all the new SBs that want online only, but don't post it on their profile. The prices are jumping even higher with the ones who do agree to meetup.

Originally Posted by FanRat [View Original Post]

Shannon confirmed this morning that she is not looking for intimacy. Luckily before I spent the time and money on an M&G.

I guess there are so many girls going that route and so many guys willing to pay for it that even girls who used to be DTF are trying to get money for nothing.

A sad state of affairs.

Thanks all and be safe!

**FanRat** · 12-18-20 09:49

Shannon confirmed this morning that she is not looking for intimacy. Luckily before I spent the time and money on an M&G.

I guess there are so many girls going that route and so many guys willing to pay for it that even girls who used to be DTF are trying to get money for nothing.

A sad state of affairs.

Thanks all and be safe!

Originally Posted by FanRat [View Original Post]

We have been texting the last few days still trying to schedule an M&G. She just finished up classes and I am going to try to meet as soon as possible so it doesn't just become an endless text fest like it was before.

She hasn't mentioned a BF or that she is not looking for anything sexual. Her FB profile doesn't mention a BF either but that generally doesn't mean anything. She had said before she was ok with intimacy. I guess I will see what happens.

For whatever reason a few months ago SA decided that the phrase "friends with mutual benefits" in my profile (had been there at least a year) was promoting prostitution and they banned me so I decided not to give them my money any longer. It had become waaaaaaaaaaay too much work sifting through the fakes and online only chicks anyway. I have had some decent luck trading info about UTRs with other mongers the last few months anyway so I haven't missed it although I have to admit the 18 to 22 yo crowd on SA is pretty alluring! Needless to say I haven't been on in a while and don't know if I have talked with or met any of her friends.

I will keep the board updated if anything interesting happens.

Thanks!

**FanRat** · 12-17-20 12:53

Originally Posted by KevinCalormis [View Original Post]

Shannon has met at least someone LOL. And told me she has had other SD's nail her. I was talking to her again on SA this month and she mentioned she has a boyfriend and wasn't looking for sex. Just as an FYI she does have a few friends who are active on SA so if you are a frequent flyer she will probably ask around.

We have been texting the last few days still trying to schedule an M&G. She just finished up classes and I am going to try to meet as soon as possible so it doesn't just become an endless text fest like it was before.

She hasn't mentioned a BF or that she is not looking for anything sexual. Her FB profile doesn't mention a BF either but that generally doesn't mean anything. She had said before she was ok with intimacy. I guess I will see what happens.

For whatever reason a few months ago SA decided that the phrase "friends with mutual benefits" in my profile (had been there at least a year) was promoting prostitution and they banned me so I decided not to give them my money any longer. It had become waaaaaaaaaaay too much work sifting through the fakes and online only chicks anyway. I have had some decent luck trading info about UTRs with other mongers the last few months anyway so I haven't missed it although I have to admit the 18 to 22 yo crowd on SA is pretty alluring! Needless to say I haven't been on in a while and don't know if I have talked with or met any of her friends.

I will keep the board updated if anything interesting happens.

Thanks!